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User: "Tamagotchi"
Date: 14 Feb 2005 04:21:23 PM
Object: Safe, Legal and Rare
I have an honest question that I struggled with during the past election.
The platform of the Democratic Party states its official position on the
issue of abortion as that it should be safe, legal and rare. Now, I think
that as a society, we have the safe and legal part down pretty well. It is
the third part of the equation that is troubling. What is being done by
Democrats, liberals or pro-choicers that has, as its end goal, the making of
abortions rare?
.

User: "Maaxx"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 15 Feb 2005 10:15:31 AM
"Tamagotchi" <tamagotchi56@yahoo.com> wrote in
news:J_CdnVdO2_nXuYzfRVn-2Q@adelphia.com:

I have an honest question that I struggled with during the past
election. The platform of the Democratic Party states its official
position on the issue of abortion as that it should be safe, legal and
rare. Now, I think that as a society, we have the safe and legal part
down pretty well. It is the third part of the equation that is
troubling. What is being done by Democrats, liberals or pro-choicers
that has, as its end goal, the making of abortions rare?

Nothing. Abortion is big bucks for the Democrats.
.
User: "Ray Fischer"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 15 Feb 2005 11:09:27 AM
Maaxx <maaxx@xrs.net> wrote:

"Tamagotchi" <tamagotchi56@yahoo.com> wrote in
news:J_CdnVdO2_nXuYzfRVn-2Q@adelphia.com:

I have an honest question that I struggled with during the past
election. The platform of the Democratic Party states its official
position on the issue of abortion as that it should be safe, legal and
rare. Now, I think that as a society, we have the safe and legal part
down pretty well. It is the third part of the equation that is
troubling. What is being done by Democrats, liberals or pro-choicers
that has, as its end goal, the making of abortions rare?


Nothing. Abortion is big bucks for the Democrats.

Pah. It's nothing to Democrats. It's the neocons and the right-wing
religious fundies that rake in the big bucks from abortion.
--
Ray Fischer
rfischer@sonic.net
.


User: "Ray Fischer"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 14 Feb 2005 10:35:48 PM
Tamagotchi <tamagotchi56@yahoo.com> wrote:

I have an honest question that I struggled with during the past election.
The platform of the Democratic Party states its official position on the
issue of abortion as that it should be safe, legal and rare. Now, I think
that as a society, we have the safe and legal part down pretty well. It is
the third part of the equation that is troubling. What is being done by
Democrats, liberals or pro-choicers that has, as its end goal, the making of
abortions rare?

Not much because the right-wing conservatives screech in outrage
every time something is proposed that doesn't involved the ludicrous
idea of convincing people to not have sex.
--
Ray Fischer
rfischer@sonic.net
.

User: "Mark Sebree"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 14 Feb 2005 06:18:41 PM
Tamagotchi wrote:

I have an honest question that I struggled with during the past

election.

The platform of the Democratic Party states its official position on

the

issue of abortion as that it should be safe, legal and rare. Now, I

think

that as a society, we have the safe and legal part down pretty well.

It is

the third part of the equation that is troubling. What is being done

by

Democrats, liberals or pro-choicers that has, as its end goal, the

making of

abortions rare?

It is more like what we are trying to do, since the Republicans seem to
against making abortions safe, legal, and rare. They seem to want to
make them dangerous, illegal, and common.
Making birth control universally available and covered by insurance
will reduce the number of unplanned pregnancies, which will reduce the
number of abortions. Making Plan B and other emergency contraceptives,
which have been found to be safe, available over the counter will
reduce the number of unplanned pregnancies, which will reduce the
number of abortions. Comprehensive and honest sex ed that does not
promote religion, give out false information, or ignore many important
subjects will educate our adolescents and thus reduce the number of
teen pregnancies and thus the number of abortions.
Surprisingly, a strong economy where most people are working and
confident in the government reduces the number of abortions. During
Clinton's administration, the number of abortions consistently dropped.
Also developing a male contraceptive that does not negatively affect
the libido will also reduce the number of abortions by making men
effectively sterile in a simple and easily reversible manner.
There are a number of things that help reduce the number of abortions.
However, the current Republican administration is against most of them.
Mark Sebree
.
User: "Reasoned Insanity"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 14 Feb 2005 07:33:12 PM
"Mark Sebree" <sebree@infionline.net> wrote in message
news:1108426721.776719.177230@c13g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...


Tamagotchi wrote:

I have an honest question that I struggled with during the past

election.

The platform of the Democratic Party states its official position on

the

issue of abortion as that it should be safe, legal and rare. Now, I

think

that as a society, we have the safe and legal part down pretty well.

It is

the third part of the equation that is troubling. What is being done

by

Democrats, liberals or pro-choicers that has, as its end goal, the

making of

abortions rare?


It is more like what we are trying to do, since the Republicans seem to
against making abortions safe, legal, and rare. They seem to want to
make them dangerous, illegal, and common.

Making birth control universally available and covered by insurance
will reduce the number of unplanned pregnancies, which will reduce the
number of abortions. Making Plan B and other emergency contraceptives,
which have been found to be safe, available over the counter will
reduce the number of unplanned pregnancies, which will reduce the
number of abortions. Comprehensive and honest sex ed that does not
promote religion, give out false information, or ignore many important
subjects will educate our adolescents and thus reduce the number of
teen pregnancies and thus the number of abortions.

It hasn't seemed to have worked so far as such availability has increased.

Surprisingly, a strong economy where most people are working and
confident in the government reduces the number of abortions. During
Clinton's administration, the number of abortions consistently dropped.

Also developing a male contraceptive that does not negatively affect
the libido will also reduce the number of abortions by making men
effectively sterile in a simple and easily reversible manner.

True

There are a number of things that help reduce the number of abortions.
However, the current Republican administration is against most of them.

Mark Sebree

.
User: "Mark Sebree"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 14 Feb 2005 08:33:33 PM
Reasoned Insanity wrote:

"Mark Sebree" <sebree@infionline.net> wrote in message
news:1108426721.776719.177230@c13g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...


Tamagotchi wrote:

I have an honest question that I struggled with during the past

election.

The platform of the Democratic Party states its official position

on

the

issue of abortion as that it should be safe, legal and rare. Now,

I

think

that as a society, we have the safe and legal part down pretty

well.

It is

the third part of the equation that is troubling. What is being

done

by

Democrats, liberals or pro-choicers that has, as its end goal, the

making of

abortions rare?


It is more like what we are trying to do, since the Republicans

seem to

against making abortions safe, legal, and rare. They seem to want

to

make them dangerous, illegal, and common.

Making birth control universally available and covered by insurance
will reduce the number of unplanned pregnancies, which will reduce

the

number of abortions. Making Plan B and other emergency

contraceptives,

which have been found to be safe, available over the counter will
reduce the number of unplanned pregnancies, which will reduce the
number of abortions. Comprehensive and honest sex ed that does not
promote religion, give out false information, or ignore many

important

subjects will educate our adolescents and thus reduce the number of
teen pregnancies and thus the number of abortions.


It hasn't seemed to have worked so far as such availability has

increased.


The current "Abstinence Only" sex ed is anything but comprehensive or
honest. Most insurance covers viagra, but not birth control. The
Republicans are blocking the OTC sale of Plan B and similar medication.
Our teen pregnancy rate is far higher than other similar developed
countries. In general, we are repressive about sex, and they are open
about it. One of the most open countries on the subject, the
Netherlands, also has one of the lowest teen pregnancy rates.
Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that we
repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and contraceptives)
contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate. Scientists are working on
answering this question, and most social science research takes time.
All of these compliment each other. None can work alone.
However, you might want to specify which "it" you are referring to.

Surprisingly, a strong economy where most people are working and
confident in the government reduces the number of abortions.

During

Clinton's administration, the number of abortions consistently

dropped.


Also developing a male contraceptive that does not negatively

affect

the libido will also reduce the number of abortions by making men
effectively sterile in a simple and easily reversible manner.


True

Something that I would take IF it was safe and did not decrease the
libido.
Mark Sebree

There are a number of things that help reduce the number of

abortions.

However, the current Republican administration is against most of

them.


Mark Sebree

.
User: "Sneechres"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 14 Feb 2005 11:32:40 PM
Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that we
repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.

Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about math, it
would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?
Of course, I think we should start teaching the facts about heroin and
freebasing. Obviously repressing the knowledge of how to shoot up
safely is leading to more drug-related teen deaths. Clean needles can
be given out in health classes in a non-judgemental environment. :)
Come to think of it, that must mean in Iraq there is a dearth of
educational programs on high explosives. Maybe the US military should
start holding seminars on bombs so that terrorists will stop blowing
people up.

Also developing a male contraceptive that does not negatively

affect

the libido will also reduce the number of abortions by making men
effectively sterile in a simple and easily reversible manner.


True


Something that I would take IF it was safe and did not decrease the
libido.

Why don't you just use a condom? They are free at any public school
(where, incidentally, they are given out after the "abstinence only sex
ed classes").
--S
.
User: "Ray Fischer"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 15 Feb 2005 10:12:36 AM
Sneechres <sneechres@yahoo.com> wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that we
repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about math, it
would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?

What an impressively stupid argument.
Lessee, do people need training to know math? Yes.
Do people neeed training to have sex? No.
Do people need knowledge to avoid pregnancy? Yes.

Of course, I think we should start teaching the facts about heroin and

You should start thinking and stop resorting to kneejerk right wing
propaganda.
--
Ray Fischer
rfischer@sonic.net
.
User: "Sneechres"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 15 Feb 2005 12:34:23 PM
Ray Fischer wrote:

Sneechres <sneechres@yahoo.com> wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that we
repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about math, it
would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?


What an impressively stupid argument.

It was, wasn't it? I wonder why Mark Sebree made it.

Lessee, do people need training to know math? Yes.
Do people neeed training to have sex? No.

Then why do they receive it? What, exactly, is sex education if not
training about sex, how it works, etc?

Do people need knowledge to avoid pregnancy? Yes.

Your point?

Of course, I think we should start teaching the facts about heroin

and


You should start thinking and stop resorting to kneejerk right wing
propaganda.

Aw, you're just upset because your logic isn't really logic at all when
applied elsewhere.
--S
.
User: "Ray Fischer"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 15 Feb 2005 09:10:14 PM
Sneechres <sneechres@yahoo.com> wrote:

Ray Fischer wrote:

Sneechres <sneechres@yahoo.com> wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that we
repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about math, it
would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?


What an impressively stupid argument.


It was, wasn't it? I wonder why Mark Sebree made it.

Gotta love the way you neocons lie so shamelessly.

Lessee, do people need training to know math? Yes.
Do people neeed training to have sex? No.


Then why do they receive it?

They don't.

What, exactly, is sex education if not
training about sex, how it works, etc?

"About" reproduction is not the same as sex training, idiot.

Do people need knowledge to avoid pregnancy? Yes.


Your point?

Damn you're stupid. No wonder you're a republican.
--
Ray Fischer
rfischer@sonic.net
.



User: "Mark Sebree"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 15 Feb 2005 08:27:10 PM
Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that we
repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about math, it
would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?

No, it would lead to a greater failure at math, just as the lack of
comprehensive, honest, and open sexual education leads to a greater
failure at knowledge of sex and the proper use of contraceptives, thus
leading to a greater incidence of unplanned pregnancy.
Math is a completely learned subject. If one has no knowledge of math,
one will never use it. However, sex is instinctual. Even if one has
know knowledge of sex, one will engage in it. There is a strong
biological to do so starting around the mid-teens. Therefore, not only
the consequences and mechanisms of sex need to be taught, but how those
consequences can be prevented and how the chance of those consequences
happening can be reduced needs to be taught as well. The current
abstinence only sex ed ignores the problem because it does not deal
completely and honestly with sex and contraceptives, and it provides
false and misleading information as well. (See the Waxman Report.)

Of course, I think we should start teaching the facts about heroin

and

freebasing.

They already do in most schools. At least they did when I was a teen.

Obviously repressing the knowledge of how to shoot up
safely is leading to more drug-related teen deaths. Clean needles

can

be given out in health classes in a non-judgemental environment. :)

Clean needles are meant to reduce the spread of blood borne diseases,
not reduce the number of people that shoot up.
Your analogy is very, very poor, as usual. Very few people ever do
drugs, most people have sex. Knowing how to have sex safely and with
minimizing the chance unwanted pregnancies should be the goal of sex
ed, since it is futile to try to tell them not to have sex.


Come to think of it, that must mean in Iraq there is a dearth of
educational programs on high explosives.

Only a few people make explosives in Iraq. They send the ignorant ones
to drive the vehicles to blow stuff up.

Maybe the US military should
start holding seminars on bombs so that terrorists will stop blowing
people up.

Maybe the US military should get out of Iraq so that they no longer
have a reason to fight against invaders, i.e. us.
And this is another poor analogy. People that are untrained in
explosive handling tend to end up being a self-correcting problem, i.e.
they blow themselves up instead of their targets. And most people will
not use explosives, while most people will have sex.


Also developing a male contraceptive that does not negatively

affect

the libido will also reduce the number of abortions by making

men

effectively sterile in a simple and easily reversible manner.


True


Something that I would take IF it was safe and did not decrease the
libido.


Why don't you just use a condom?

I do. However, an effective male contraceptive would reduce the chance
of pregnancy by reduce the amount of sperm in the semen. No sperm, no
fertilization, no pregnancy.
You might also ask why a woman that is using birth control wants a man
to use a condom. The reasons are the same.

They are free at any public school

I have no reason to be in one. I am not a teacher. And I have my
Masters in Computer Science, not Education.
On the other hand, are you currently attending one as a student? You
do seem to be lacking somewhat in the education department. You
obviously have no clue as to what makes a good analogy.

(where, incidentally, they are given out after the "abstinence only

sex

ed classes").

--S

Now if those classes were any good, they might help.
Mark Sebree
.
User: "Sneechres"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 16 Feb 2005 12:54:44 AM
Mark Sebree wrote:

Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that we
repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about math, it
would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?


No, it would lead to a greater failure at math, just as the lack of
comprehensive, honest, and open sexual education leads to a greater
failure at knowledge of sex and the proper use of contraceptives,

thus

leading to a greater incidence of unplanned pregnancy.

Actually that's incorrect. Teaching math leads to the production of
more math. Teaching sex has led to the practice of more sex, just as
sexual revolutionists wanted. You cannot turn around and call it a
failure when in fact it has been a huge success.

Math is a completely learned subject. If one has no knowledge of

math,

one will never use it.

One may have a lot of knowledge of math and still never use it.

However, sex is instinctual. Even if one has
know knowledge of sex, one will engage in it. There is a strong
biological to do so starting around the mid-teens.

So, encouraging them will certainly curb the desire. Do I have that
right?

Therefore, not only
the consequences and mechanisms of sex need to be taught,

But, teaching those things apparently hasn't caused a decrease in those
things.
but how those

consequences can be prevented and how the chance of those

consequences

happening can be reduced needs to be taught as well.

The only thing that works to prevent the consequences of sex is
abstinence.
Hm, one would think you are against teaching the facts.
The current

abstinence only sex ed ignores the problem because it does not deal
completely and honestly with sex and contraceptives,

Really, it's a lie to tell teens that abstinence is 100% effective in
preventing the consequences of sex??? That's interesting.

Of course, I think we should start teaching the facts about heroin

and

freebasing.


They already do in most schools.

Really, where???

At least they did when I was a teen.

What school did you go to and when?

Obviously repressing the knowledge of how to shoot up
safely is leading to more drug-related teen deaths. Clean needles

can

be given out in health classes in a non-judgemental environment.

:)


Clean needles are meant to reduce the spread of blood borne diseases,
not reduce the number of people that shoot up.

Except they haven't done either one.

Your analogy is very, very poor, as usual.

Sure, sure.

Very few people ever do
drugs,

Actually, it seems drugs and sex in high school are equally rampant,
and usually somehow go together.
Not that it's the rate that matters; don't you want to teach the truth
to protect The Children?

most people have sex. Knowing how to have sex safely and with
minimizing the chance unwanted pregnancies should be the goal of sex
ed, since it is futile to try to tell them not to have sex.

If it's futile to tell people not to have sex, is it equally futile to
tell them not to use firearms, drugs, not to murder, or a host of other
"uncontrollable" behaviors?

Come to think of it, that must mean in Iraq there is a dearth of
educational programs on high explosives.


Only a few people make explosives in Iraq.

Well, our local news outlets do not seem to have trouble finding them.

They send the ignorant ones
to drive the vehicles to blow stuff up.

Some of the 9-11 hijackers were well educated, supposedly.

Something that I would take IF it was safe and did not decrease

the

libido.


Why don't you just use a condom?


I do.

Then why do you need drug companies to concoct you a special potion so
you can prevent pregnancy?
However, an effective male contraceptive would reduce the chance

of pregnancy by reduce the amount of sperm in the semen. No sperm,

no

fertilization, no pregnancy.

That is how condoms work.

You might also ask why a woman that is using birth control wants a

man

to use a condom.

She wouldn't.

They are free at any public school


I have no reason to be in one.

Free condoms. Now you have a good reason.

Now if those classes were any good, they might help.

You wouldn't know. I took sex ed three times when I was in high
school. There wasn't a topic they didn't cover. Yet, my high school
had to have a nursery for the teen mothers. So we see how well it
worked.
--S
.
User: "Ray Fischer"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 17 Feb 2005 12:34:27 AM
Sneechres <sneechres@yahoo.com> wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

No, it would lead to a greater failure at math, just as the lack of
comprehensive, honest, and open sexual education leads to a greater
failure at knowledge of sex and the proper use of contraceptives, thus
leading to a greater incidence of unplanned pregnancy.


Actually that's incorrect.

He's right.

Teaching math leads to the production of
more math. Teaching sex has led to the practice of more sex, just as
sexual revolutionists wanted.

Except that nobody's teaching sex. And it's well-known that teching
about reproduction reduces unwanted pregnancies, and your head-in-the-sand
approach only leads to more unwanted pregnancies.

You cannot turn around and call it a
failure when in fact it has been a huge success.

I could call you a liar.
--
Ray Fischer
rfischer@sonic.net
.
User: "Sneechres"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 17 Feb 2005 02:08:01 AM
Ray Fischer wrote:

Sneechres <sneechres@yahoo.com> wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:


No, it would lead to a greater failure at math, just as the lack

of

comprehensive, honest, and open sexual education leads to a

greater

failure at knowledge of sex and the proper use of contraceptives,

thus

leading to a greater incidence of unplanned pregnancy.


Actually that's incorrect.


He's right.

No, he's not.

Teaching math leads to the production of
more math. Teaching sex has led to the practice of more sex, just

as

sexual revolutionists wanted.


Except that nobody's teaching sex.

Really, then what's this?
http://www.massnews.com/past_issues/2000/9_Sept/900fist1.htm
And it's well-known that teching

about reproduction reduces unwanted pregnancies,

Really, that's why there are so few unwanted pregnancies?
and your head-in-the-sand

approach only leads to more unwanted pregnancies.

You mean like we had fifty years ago before public schools taught kids
to put condoms on with their mouths?

You cannot turn around and call it a
failure when in fact it has been a huge success.


I could call you a liar.

As you have proven by calling everyone a liar about a hundred times.
Do something unpredictable for once.
--S
.


User: "Mark Sebree"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 16 Feb 2005 07:26:55 PM
Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact that

we

repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about math,

it

would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?


No, it would lead to a greater failure at math, just as the lack of
comprehensive, honest, and open sexual education leads to a greater
failure at knowledge of sex and the proper use of contraceptives,

thus

leading to a greater incidence of unplanned pregnancy.


Actually that's incorrect.

No, it is not. You are the one that set up the faulty analogy.

Teaching math leads to the production of
more math.

But not teaching math at all does not lead to math being used.

Teaching sex has led to the practice of more sex, just as
sexual revolutionists wanted.

No. Teaching comprehensive sex ed does not lead to more sex, it leads
to more responsible sex. Just as many people have sex with or without
comprehensive sex ed.

You cannot turn around and call it a
failure when in fact it has been a huge success.

Abstinence Only sex ed is a failure. It has not reduced the number of
teens having sex significantly, but its misinformation has lead those
teens to forego the use of contraceptives because they thought they
were ineffective, thus leading to more teen pregnancies.
The purpose of sex ed should not be to reduce the number of teens that
have sex, because such an approach will not work (forbidden fruit), but
rather should honestly and comprehensively teach teens about sex AND
how to prevent pregnancies when they do have sex. This is not teaching
them how to have sex, but rather the biological mechanisms of sex, the
consequences, STDs, and how to effectively use contraceptives.


Math is a completely learned subject. If one has no knowledge of

math,

one will never use it.


One may have a lot of knowledge of math and still never use it.

But one with NO knowledge of math cannot use it. A person with no
knowledge about sex can still have sex.

However, sex is instinctual. Even if one has
know knowledge of sex, one will engage in it. There is a strong
biological to do so starting around the mid-teens.


So, encouraging them will certainly curb the desire. Do I have that
right?

No. I never stated that anyone was being encouraged to have sex before
he or she was ready. Actually, telling them not to have sex is more
likely to make them more curious about it. It is human nature to be
curious about what one is forbidden to do, especially if that
restriction comes with the caveat "Not until you are older/married/some
other checkpoint".
The purpose of comprehensive sex ed is not to teach kids how to have
sex, it is to teach them about sex and contraceptives, as well as
answer their questions about the subject. If the mystery is taken away
from something, people are less likely to be overly curious about it,
and thus not rush into it before they are ready, or overindulge in it
when they have the chance.


Therefore, not only
the consequences and mechanisms of sex need to be taught,


But, teaching those things apparently hasn't caused a decrease in

those

things.

We have not been teaching them those things. That is the point. We
are a very sexually repressed society, and many people are secretive
about sex. (including you) And you must have missed the words "not
only", meaning that teaching such things results in incomplete lessons.


but how those

consequences can be prevented and how the chance of those

consequences

happening can be reduced needs to be taught as well.


The only thing that works to prevent the consequences of sex is
abstinence.

However, it is unrealistic to expect people to abstain from sex even
until they graduate from high school. I believe that a number of
surveys have put the number of teens that have had sex before
graduation from high school at between 85% - 90%. And even more before
marriage. Therefore, contraceptive methods (with honest facts) need to
be taught, as well as their proper use.


Hm, one would think you are against teaching the facts.

I am. I am for teaching ALL the facts. I am also for dealing with the
real world and its situations. Half of all people in the USA have sex
before the start if their junior year of high school (16.6 years), and
almost 90% before they graduate. They need comprehensive sex ed BEFORE
they have sex, including facts about contraceptives and how to use
them. False information and the lack of information leads to either
not using them at all or improper use.
You, however, seem to be against teaching these kids all the facts that
they need before they have sex.


The current
abstinence only sex ed ignores the problem because it does not deal
completely and honestly with sex and contraceptives,


Really, it's a lie to tell teens that abstinence is 100% effective in
preventing the consequences of sex??? That's interesting.

Read the Waxman Report. It lists a number of lies that are told to
teens in those faulty sex ed course. They lie about the effectiveness
of contraceptives, they lie about the transmission of HIV, they lie
about many things.
Sex ed should teach about how to protect yourself when you have sex,
not completely ignore the real world and the fact that most of the kids
that you are teaching will have sex before they graduate, if they have
not started to do so already.


Of course, I think we should start teaching the facts about

heroin

and

freebasing.


They already do in most schools.


Really, where???

Health class, usually around middle school grades.


At least they did when I was a teen.


What school did you go to and when?

Indianapolis, IN, Orchard Country Day School, '77-'79.


Obviously repressing the knowledge of how to shoot up
safely is leading to more drug-related teen deaths. Clean

needles

can

be given out in health classes in a non-judgemental environment.

:)


Clean needles are meant to reduce the spread of blood borne

diseases,

not reduce the number of people that shoot up.


Except they haven't done either one.

Because local governments often make it hard for free needle programs
to work, as well as getting failing to get the word out to the people
that need it. Not having sufficient locations in the right communities
doesn't help either.


Your analogy is very, very poor, as usual.


Sure, sure.

I am glad you agree that your analogy stinks on ice.


Very few people ever do
drugs,


Actually, it seems drugs and sex in high school are equally rampant,
and usually somehow go together.

Far, far less that you seem t think. The overwhelming majority of
today's teens have sex before they graduate high school, and I doubt
that even half of them have ever done drugs. And far more have sex
regularly than do drugs regularly.


Not that it's the rate that matters; don't you want to teach the

truth

to protect The Children?

You are the one that wants to withhold information from them and teach
them lies, not me. I am for comprehensive and scientifically accurate
sex ed programs. You are wanting to teach them the abridged version
that contains inaccurate information and propaganda.


most people have sex. Knowing how to have sex safely and with
minimizing the chance unwanted pregnancies should be the goal of

sex

ed, since it is futile to try to tell them not to have sex.


If it's futile to tell people not to have sex, is it equally futile

to

tell them not to use firearms, drugs, not to murder, or a host of

other

"uncontrollable" behaviors?

However, there is some big difference that you are ignoring, again.
People are actually ENCOURAGED to have sex, either after they get old
enough, or after they get married, depending on the source. And there
is no law against adults having sex with whomever they want (nor teens
within their age group), and no license is required to have sex.
What's more, consensual sex hurts nobody.
The same is not true for any of your examples. Firearms are licensed
and designed to hurt others. Murder is illegal and kills another
person. Drugs are licensed or illegal, depending on the drug.
Therefore, again, your analogy has failed by using examples that have
nothing to do with what you are comparing them to.


Come to think of it, that must mean in Iraq there is a dearth of
educational programs on high explosives.


Only a few people make explosives in Iraq.


Well, our local news outlets do not seem to have trouble finding

them.
Because they have contacts, they are unarmed, they are peaceful, and
they probably have a dozen heavily armed people standing just off
camera during the interview looking to blow the crews' heads off if
they make a wrong move. What's more, the location is probably deserted
before the crew is out of sight of the building. And the news crews
give those people plenty of opportunity to give their side of the
story. The news crews are worth more to them free than as hostages.


They send the ignorant ones
to drive the vehicles to blow stuff up.


Some of the 9-11 hijackers were well educated, supposedly.

But they were not the ones masterminding the operation, nor were they
rigging the explosives. Besides, keeping a aircraft in the air is not
difficult. It is the take-offs and landing that are.
They were not nearly as well educated as the people behind the scenes
pulling their strings.


Something that I would take IF it was safe and did not decrease

the

libido.


Why don't you just use a condom?


I do.


Then why do you need drug companies to concoct you a special potion

so

you can prevent pregnancy?

Because condoms are not 100% effective. And using multiple
contraceptives reduces the chance of pregnancy greatly.


However, an effective male contraceptive would reduce the chance
of pregnancy by reduce the amount of sperm in the semen. No sperm,

no

fertilization, no pregnancy.


That is how condoms work.

I know. However, condoms can break. And some people are allergic to
latex, a natural substance, and therefore cannot use condoms. And
multiple contraceptive methods are always a good idea.
Women use birth control and still have their lovers use condoms, even
when both are disease free and monogamous. Why do you think that is?
(since you seem to be ignorant, I will tell you. Because both birth
control and condoms have known failure rates. By using both, you are
reduce the risk if one happens to fail. It is far less likely that
BOTH will fail at the same time than it is that one will.)


You might also ask why a woman that is using birth control wants a

man

to use a condom.


She wouldn't.

Yes, she would. Most women do.

They are free at any public school


I have no reason to be in one.


Free condoms. Now you have a good reason.

I can afford to get them without any problem. Besides, I would not be
able to get in the front door of many schools nowadays because of their
heightened security. And I work during the school day.


Now if those classes were any good, they might help.


You wouldn't know. I took sex ed three times when I was in high
school.

Because you kept flunking it, by the sounds of it.

There wasn't a topic they didn't cover.

But did they cover the subjects honestly and completely? By your
posts, I would have to assume that they did not. But then, you may
have just been a poor student.

Yet, my high school
had to have a nursery for the teen mothers.
So we see how well it
worked.

--S

First, not everyone learns what is taught until too late. Second, if
you are any indication, they did not cover the material very well or
very completely. There are holes in your knowledge big enough to drive
a Mac Truck through.
Mark Sebree
.
User: "Sneechres"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 16 Feb 2005 11:09:45 PM
Mark Sebree wrote:

Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact

that

we

repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about

math,

it

would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?


No, it would lead to a greater failure at math, just as the lack

of

comprehensive, honest, and open sexual education leads to a

greater

failure at knowledge of sex and the proper use of contraceptives,

thus

leading to a greater incidence of unplanned pregnancy.


Actually that's incorrect.


No, it is not. You are the one that set up the faulty analogy.

Calling analogies faulty just because they expose your logic as silly
is not what makes them faulty. You'll have to do better than that.

Teaching math leads to the production of
more math.


But not teaching math at all does not lead to math being used.

To hear you tell it, it does. Make it taboo, and people will go out of
their way to find out about it. Curiosity killed the cat, don't you
know.

Teaching sex has led to the practice of more sex, just as
sexual revolutionists wanted.


No.

Apparently you skipped statistics as well as math.

Teaching comprehensive sex ed does not lead to more sex,

Except that it has. This is documented. It is an undeniable fact that
there is a higher rate of teenage pregnancies and sexually transmitted
diseases than there were fifty years ago.
The puritans may have had their problems, but AIDS was not one of them.

You cannot turn around and call it a
failure when in fact it has been a huge success.


Abstinence Only sex ed is a failure.

Interesting declaration for a program that's never been tried.

The purpose of sex ed should not be to reduce the number of teens

that

have sex,

That's good, because it can't. You cannot educate people to act
morally. It's an ethics problem, not a stupidity problem.

However, sex is instinctual. Even if one has
know knowledge of sex, one will engage in it. There is a strong
biological to do so starting around the mid-teens.


So, encouraging them will certainly curb the desire. Do I have

that

right?


No. I never stated that anyone was being encouraged to have sex

before

he or she was ready.

You think sex ed *discourages* them to have sex? How utterly stupid.
The only thing that discourages people to do something is to place a
stigma on it. And even that doesn't entirely work. We still have
murderers and rapists. We just don't fool ourselves into thinking that
more education will reduce those problems.

Therefore, not only
the consequences and mechanisms of sex need to be taught,


But, teaching those things apparently hasn't caused a decrease in

those

things.


We have not been teaching them those things.

Now you're just lying about the content of sex ed. Is it because you
are ignorant?

That is the point. We
are a very sexually repressed society,

Compared to what?

and many people are secretive
about sex.

And many people are not. It's hard to say this is a repressed sexual
society when Girls Gone Wild videos are a dime a dozen.

(including you)

I have no intention of discussing my sex life with you. Sorry.

but how those

consequences can be prevented and how the chance of those

consequences

happening can be reduced needs to be taught as well.


The only thing that works to prevent the consequences of sex is
abstinence.


However, it is unrealistic to expect people to abstain from sex

Well, it's unrealistic to expect people to abstain from murdering one
another, using drugs, or any number of other behaviors society expects
them to abstain from anyway.
What a stupid argument.
even

until they graduate from high school. I believe that a number of
surveys have put the number of teens that have had sex before
graduation from high school at between 85% - 90%.

If sex ed worked, that wouldn't be the case.
And even more before

marriage. Therefore, contraceptive methods (with honest facts) need

to

be taught, as well as their proper use.

It is. Yet, that hasn't been effective in reducing the number either.

Hm, one would think you are against teaching the facts.


I am.

Oh.
Well, at least you are honest.

I am for teaching ALL the facts.

Really? You want to teach the Kama Sutra in class?
How about the finer points of finding a vein in Heroin 101? How about
'How to clean your Smith and Wesson .45'?
OR--do you, like everyone else, believe there is a line to be drawn
somewhere with regard to what children are taught about life?
Nah, you're just a garden-variety hypocrite.
I am also for dealing with the

real world and its situations.

Seems to me there are a lot of situations that do not merit an
educational course in high school.

The current
abstinence only sex ed ignores the problem because it does not

deal

completely and honestly with sex and contraceptives,


Really, it's a lie to tell teens that abstinence is 100% effective

in

preventing the consequences of sex??? That's interesting.


Read the Waxman Report.

I'm not interested in the Waxman report. I'm interested in your
arguments. I guess appealing to some authority means you are having
trouble making them?

Of course, I think we should start teaching the facts about

heroin

and

freebasing.


They already do in most schools.


Really, where???


Health class, usually around middle school grades.

Which health class, in which school, when, and what did they teach?

At least they did when I was a teen.


What school did you go to and when?


Indianapolis, IN, Orchard Country Day School, '77-'79.

I cannot find an email for them, but when I do, I'll be sure to ask
them if they taught the seventh graders how to shoot up. Right now I
find that decidedly unbelievable.

Obviously repressing the knowledge of how to shoot up
safely is leading to more drug-related teen deaths. Clean

needles

can

be given out in health classes in a non-judgemental

environment.

:)


Clean needles are meant to reduce the spread of blood borne

diseases,

not reduce the number of people that shoot up.


Except they haven't done either one.


Because local governments often make it hard for free needle programs
to work,

Actually that is because citizens don't like the idea of their tax
money subsidizing drug use.

as well as getting failing to get the word out to the people
that need it.

If you can afford crack, you can afford your own needle.

Very few people ever do
drugs,


Actually, it seems drugs and sex in high school are equally

rampant,

and usually somehow go together.


Far, far less that you seem t think.

I doubt it.
The overwhelming majority of

today's teens have sex before they graduate high school,

Funny, the overwhelming majority of them have tried drugs, too.
and I doubt

that even half of them have ever done drugs.

I don't.

Not that it's the rate that matters; don't you want to teach the

truth

to protect The Children?


You are the one that wants to withhold information from them and

teach

them lies, not me.

No, I don't. Sexual education information is free at any local
library. No one is withholding information from anyone.

I am for comprehensive and scientifically accurate
sex ed programs.

Regardless of whether they work or not.

You are wanting to teach them the abridged version

I want them to be taught whatever their parents deem appropriate.

most people have sex. Knowing how to have sex safely and with
minimizing the chance unwanted pregnancies should be the goal of

sex

ed, since it is futile to try to tell them not to have sex.


If it's futile to tell people not to have sex, is it equally futile

to

tell them not to use firearms, drugs, not to murder, or a host of

other

"uncontrollable" behaviors?


However, there is some big difference that you are ignoring, again.

Not differences that make a difference. ;)

People are actually ENCOURAGED to have sex, either after they get old
enough, or after they get married, depending on the source.

But, you just said they weren't. And I quote:
"I never stated that anyone was being encouraged to have sex before
she or she was ready."
Which is it?

What's more, consensual sex hurts nobody.

Tell that to the people on the AIDS quilt.

The same is not true for any of your examples.

Yes, it is, that is why I made them.
Firearms are licensed

and designed to hurt others.

And? Some people need to be hurt. Why not teach fourteen year old
girls the finer points if firearms ownership and concealed carry? It
could save their lives someday. Lots of rapists out there.

Murder is illegal and kills another
person.>

And? Your argument hasn't exactly helped to curb the murder rate.
What we need is better, more comprehensive education!

Drugs are licensed or illegal, depending on the drug.

Why is it realistic to expect people not to do drugs?

Therefore, again, your analogy has failed by using examples that have
nothing to do with what you are comparing them to.

They have everything to do with what they are comparing them to.
You're just being a hypocrite. On the one hand, you expect people to
act like animals when it comes to their sex lives because apparently
they are too stupid, irrational, or evolutionarily challenged to help
themselves. But on the other hand you expect them to act rational and
civilized by not committing murder or using drugs or any other negative
behaviors. Your viewpoint is called inconsistent. Or, if you prefer,
two-faced.

They send the ignorant ones
to drive the vehicles to blow stuff up.


Some of the 9-11 hijackers were well educated, supposedly.


But they were not the ones masterminding the operation, nor were they
rigging the explosives.

Osama bin Laden is well educated and rich, rich, rich.

Then why do you need drug companies to concoct you a special potion

so

you can prevent pregnancy?


Because condoms are not 100% effective.

Hm, is that one of those things you hope teens are taught in sex ed?
Here's a clue: THEY ARE.
Why don't you just have your partners tested before you have sex with
them? Or, better yet, stop having sex with people you aren't married
to or don't know?

And using multiple
contraceptives reduces the chance of pregnancy greatly.

Know what reduces it entirely? Abstinence.

However, an effective male contraceptive would reduce the chance
of pregnancy by reduce the amount of sperm in the semen. No

sperm,

no

fertilization, no pregnancy.


That is how condoms work.


I know. However, condoms can break. And some people are allergic to
latex, a natural substance, and therefore cannot use condoms.

That's what the polyurethane ones are for.

And
multiple contraceptive methods are always a good idea.

Well, unless you have health problems that prevent their use.

Women use birth control and still have their lovers use condoms, even
when both are disease free and monogamous.

Which women are these?

Why do you think that is?

Because they are ignorant and want to end up with a sexually
transmitted disease?
Here's a question for you, Mr. Sex Ed: What is the prevention
mechanism for human papilloma virus?
Describe this virus, it's possible ramifications for women, and it's
cures.

You might also ask why a woman that is using birth control wants

a

man

to use a condom.


She wouldn't.


Yes, she would. Most women do.

Most women? You know most women that well that you are intimately
familiar with what birth control methods they prefer? You must be very
well traveled.
I thought the arguments were that Africans have a higher rate of AIDS
because they weren't using condoms. Maybe you meant to say "most women
I've slept with."

They are free at any public school


I have no reason to be in one.


Free condoms. Now you have a good reason.


I can afford to get them without any problem.

That's because they're almost as cheap as tap water. You would think
that kids could afford their own. But no.

Besides, I would not be
able to get in the front door of many schools nowadays because of

their

heightened security.

You could if you had a badge that said "Planned Parenthood" on it.

Now if those classes were any good, they might help.


You wouldn't know. I took sex ed three times when I was in high
school.


Because you kept flunking it, by the sounds of it.

Hard to do well in a subject I wasn't involved in.
But to hear you tell it, at least that's one subject you aced. Way to
go, tiger! Who needs math when you know how to put a condom on a
banana?

There wasn't a topic they didn't cover.


But did they cover the subjects honestly and completely?

Yep.
By your

posts, I would have to assume that they did not.

Really, which posts gave you the impression that my high school did not
have comprehensive sex ed? Refresh my memory.

But then, you may
have just been a poor student.

What does this have to do with me? I don't have the problems that need
to be prevented with high-school level sexual education. If I failed
sex ed, it's because I had no use for it.

Yet, my high school
had to have a nursery for the teen mothers.
So we see how well it
worked.

--S



First, not everyone learns what is taught until too late.

Where should we start? Second grade?
When I went, sex ed started in the fifth grade. I don't recall any of
my classmates turning up pregnant that early. I guess they waited
until after the second round of sex ed, in the seventh grade.
Second, if

you are any indication, they did not cover the material very well or
very completely.

Really, which indication are you referring to?
There are holes in your knowledge big enough to drive

a Mac Truck through.

Like which?
--S
.
User: "Mark Sebree"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 18 Feb 2005 01:09:09 AM
Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Sneechres wrote:

Mark Sebree wrote:

Therefore, a working hypothesis can be made that the fact

that

we

repress sexual knowledge (i.e. knowledge about sex and

contraceptives)

contributes to our high teen pregnancy rate.


Hm, do you think if schools started being repressive about

math,

it

would lead to a higher rate of teens doing math?


No, it would lead to a greater failure at math, just as the

lack

of

comprehensive, honest, and open sexual education leads to a

greater

failure at knowledge of sex and the proper use of

contraceptives,

thus

leading to a greater incidence of unplanned pregnancy.


Actually that's incorrect.


No, it is not. You are the one that set up the faulty analogy.


Calling analogies faulty just because they expose your logic as silly
is not what makes them faulty. You'll have to do better than that.

I already have. In case you did not notice, or refused to do so, I
explained exactly why your analogies are faulty as well as where the
faults are. You have yet to address any of those faults. And just
because you happen to give an analogy does not make it a good one. You
also have to support why your analogy has to be accepted.

Teaching math leads to the production of
more math.


But not teaching math at all does not lead to math being used.


To hear you tell it, it does.

No, that is only in your own mind. You insist that your faulty analogy
is still valid even when it has been shown to be invalid.

Make it taboo, and people will go out of
their way to find out about it.

That's right. That is one of the reasons why the current "abstinence
only" sex ed is not working. Teens are met with a wall of secrecy and
mystery.

Curiosity killed the cat, don't you know.

And it has explored the world, sent people up to outer space, and led
to every technological advance we have had since man use a rock as a
weapon.


Teaching sex has led to the practice of more sex, just as
sexual revolutionists wanted.


No.


Apparently you skipped statistics as well as math.

Actually, I have studied both.


Teaching comprehensive sex ed does not lead to more sex,


Except that it has.

When? Our current sex ed is certainly NOT comprehensive.

This is documented.

I have seen no such documentation.

It is an undeniable fact that
there is a higher rate of teenage pregnancies and sexually

transmitted

diseases than there were fifty years ago.

More likely, there is a lower rate, but a higher rate of reporting it.
AND it can also be blamed on the fact that our current sex ed programs
are not only not comprehensive, but lie and misinform teens and thus
discourage them from using contraceptives properly.
Your premise presupposes that the reporting rate of teen pregnancies
(i.e. the ratio of teen pregnancies reported and recorded verses the
actual number of teen pregnancies that actually occurred) then is
similar to today's rate, which is close to 100%. Given the culture of
the time, and the fact that a teen pregnancy brought shame and disgrace
on the girl and family, and the fact that illegal abortions were not
reported, and thus would have been kept secret, it is highly doubtful
that even close to 50% of teen pregnancies were recorded. The
percentage was probably much lower. And without accurate reporting of
the number of teen pregnancies, the rate of teen pregnancies is a guess
at best.


The puritans may have had their problems, but AIDS was not one of

them.


And thankfully, that cannot force their repressive, bigoted, and
intolerant culture on us today. That fact that you admire them says a
lot about you, and none of it good.

You cannot turn around and call it a
failure when in fact it has been a huge success.


Abstinence Only sex ed is a failure.


Interesting declaration for a program that's never been tried.

It is currently being taught in schools today, has been for years, and
receives huge federal grants. It has been tried, and it has failed.
[snip due to Google bouncing post because of length]

Read the Waxman Report.


I'm not interested in the Waxman report.

You should be. However, it does not surprised me that you are
uninterested in the facts.

I'm interested in your
arguments. I guess appealing to some authority means you are having
trouble making them?

No, that is not the reason I told you to read the Waxman Report. I
told you to read the report first, because it gives many of the same
arguments that I would, and second, because it contains references to
the back up those statements. It has already done the work. I see no
reason to repeat other people's research when the research itself is
easy to find.
[snip due to Google bouncing post for length]

Very few people ever do
drugs,


Actually, it seems drugs and sex in high school are equally

rampant,

and usually somehow go together.


Far, far less that you seem t think.


I doubt it.

You are not know for your accurate view of reality, however.


The overwhelming majority of
today's teens have sex before they graduate high school,


Funny, the overwhelming majority of them have tried drugs, too.

Not according to the Bureau of Justice.
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/dcf/du.htm
"Of high school seniors in 2004 --
45.7% reported having ever used marijuana/hashish
8.1% reported having ever used cocaine
1.5% reported having ever used heroin."
Given that it is known that most people that use hard drugs started
with marijauna, that means that less than half of high school students
use drugs by the time they graduate, and almost twice that number have
sex.
I do not think that less than half constitutes an "overwhelming
majority".


and I doubt
that even half of them have ever done drugs.


I don't.

I have the data to back me up, however. And I was right. Less than
half of graduating seniors have ever done drugs.


Not that it's the rate that matters; don't you want to teach the

truth

to protect The Children?


You are the one that wants to withhold information from them and

teach

them lies, not me.


No, I don't. Sexual education information is free at any local
library. No one is withholding information from anyone.

It is also free over the internet. However, if you start feeding
people false information, especially in a school setting, they are
unlikely to get the information corrected before they need it. And it
can be hard to find information if you do not know where to look, as
well as figure out what information is important. The purpose of sex
ed classes is to get that info to the teens before they need it, in a
form that they can understand and digest, and distilled to take out the
meaningless and misleading information. Unfortunately, the last point
is not being done in the Abstinence only classes, but rather
meaningless and misleading information is being added into the courses.
Open discussions about sex are also needed in these classes,
especially to address myths and misinformation that the students have.


I am for comprehensive and scientifically accurate
sex ed programs.


Regardless of whether they work or not.

Comprehensive and scientifically accurate sex ed programs are more
likely to decrease unwanted teen pregnancies that current programs and
no programs.


You are wanting to teach them the abridged version


I want them to be taught whatever their parents deem appropriate.

You cannot tailor a school program to each and every student, and ALL
students need this information. Parents always have the option of
requesting in writing that their children not attend the school's sex
ed classes, just as they can request that their children not attend
classes that discuss evolution. (the fact that the request is in
writing is so that there is a record of the request exists that can be
verified if needed.) The fact is that most parents have difficulty
discussing sex with their children, and many also have incorrect
information as well. The purpose of the classes is (should be) to get
the correct and factual information to the students, and before it
becomes important and needed. The classes are to help the students,
and cover something that many parents are too embarrassed to talk about
frankly.


most people have sex. Knowing how to have sex safely and with
minimizing the chance unwanted pregnancies should be the goal

of

sex

ed, since it is futile to try to tell them not to have sex.


If it's futile to tell people not to have sex, is it equally

futile

to

tell them not to use firearms, drugs, not to murder, or a host of

other

"uncontrollable" behaviors?


However, there is some big difference that you are ignoring, again.


Not differences that make a difference. ;)

Yes, they do.


People are actually ENCOURAGED to have sex, either after they get

old

enough, or after they get married, depending on the source.


But, you just said they weren't. And I quote:

"I never stated that anyone was being encouraged to have sex before
she or she was ready."

Which is it?

Both statements are accurate. People are encouraged to have sex after
marriage, but people are never encourage to commit murder.


What's more, consensual sex hurts nobody.


Tell that to the people on the AIDS quilt.

In the USA, a very small percentage of consensual sex acts. I am
talking the general case, not the border cases.


The same is not true for any of your examples.


Yes, it is, that is why I made them.

No, they are not. You make lousy analogies.


Firearms are licensed

and designed to hurt others.


And?

And sex does not hurt anyone.

Some people need to be hurt. Why not teach fourteen year old
girls the finer points if firearms ownership and concealed carry? It
could save their lives someday. Lots of rapists out there.

In other words, how to hurt people. Sex does not hurt oneself or
others.


Murder is illegal and kills another
person.


And? Your argument hasn't exactly helped to curb the murder rate.

It is not meant to. My argument is for more comprehensive and
scientifically accurate sex ed programs. To curb the murder rate, you
need to increase the general education standard, a much different
problem.

What we need is better, more comprehensive education!

true.


Drugs are licensed or illegal, depending on the drug.


Why is it realistic to expect people not to do drugs?

The point was that the fact that most people do not use drugs, and they
are licensed and/or illegal, which is completely opposite from the
facts about sex. Most people have sex, and it is not licensed or
illegal, or even controlled in any way. That is why your analogy
fails, as usual.


Therefore, again, your analogy has failed by using examples that

have

nothing to do with what you are comparing them to.


They have everything to do with what they are comparing them to.
You're just being a hypocrite.

No, I am not. I am not at all hypocritical. Your perception of
reality and others in well known to be flawed.

On the one hand, you expect people to
act like animals when it comes to their sex lives because apparently
they are too stupid, irrational, or evolutionarily challenged to help
themselves.

And you want to keep them that way, by denying them the information
they need before they need it.
People already act rationally and control with whom and when they have
sex. There is no continuous rapine in the streets. However, sex has a
strong instinctual motivator, and most people will have sex whether
they are educated about the subject or not. If they are educated, they
can take the necessary precautions to make sure that they do not cause
a/become pregnant when they do not yet want one.
I deal with the world as it is, not as I want it to be. Unlike you, I
do not expect people to follow my whims, my morals, or my beliefs. I
only expect them to live their lives how they want to live them.
Therefore, the best course of action is try to get as much factual and
accurate information about sex and contraceptives to them as early as
possible.

But on the other hand you expect them to act rational and
civilized by not committing murder or using drugs or any other

negative

behaviors.

Sex is not a negative behavior. Perhaps that is your problem, you have
a poor outlook on sex.
I expect them to act according to their own beliefs and morals, and not
by mine or anyone else's. Having sex, including pre-marital sex, is
not a negative behavior, and it harms nobody. Every analogy that you
have tried is something that is a negative behavior and harms oneself
or others and helps nobody. That is why they are all poor analogies.

Your viewpoint is called inconsistent. Or, if you prefer,
two-faced.

That is because you know nothing about human nature and life.
My view is very consistent. You just cannot see past your own hatred,
intolerance, and sexual repression.


They send the ignorant ones
to drive the vehicles to blow stuff up.


Some of the 9-11 hijackers were well educated, supposedly.


But they were not the ones masterminding the operation, nor were

they

rigging the explosives.


Osama bin Laden is well educated and rich, rich, rich.

And you notice that he is sending others on the suicide missions, and
not going on them himself.


Then why do you need drug companies to concoct you a special

potion

so

you can prevent pregnancy?


Because condoms are not 100% effective.


Hm, is that one of those things you hope teens are taught in sex ed?
Here's a clue: THEY ARE.

No, they are not. There is no reputable source of information that
states that condoms are 100% effective, even when used correctly. Not
even the companies that manufacture them say that.


Why don't you just have your partners tested before you have sex with
them?

For what, exactly? You cannot test for a pregnancy before sex, only
days after it.

Or, better yet, stop having sex with people you aren't married
to or don't know?

I am not subject to your repressive attitude. If you do not want to
discuss your sex life, do not expect me to discuss mine.
And did I ever say anything about having sex with strangers? What
about couples that do not want to have children?


And using multiple
contraceptives reduces the chance of pregnancy greatly.


Know what reduces it entirely? Abstinence.

Not a valid option, because it ignores the reality that most people
will have sex. Contraceptives reduce the likelihood that a pregnancy
will occur, and multiple contraceptive methods reduce that chance even
more than either alone. Or perhaps you expect couples that do not want
to have children to not have sex even after marriage.


However, an effective male contraceptive would reduce the

chance

of pregnancy by reduce the amount of sperm in the semen. No

sperm,

no

fertilization, no pregnancy.


That is how condoms work.


I know. However, condoms can break. And some people are allergic

to

latex, a natural substance, and therefore cannot use condoms.


That's what the polyurethane ones are for.

Not as good or easy to find as the latex ones.


And
multiple contraceptive methods are always a good idea.


Well, unless you have health problems that prevent their use.

Again, the reason to use multiple contraceptive methods.


Women use birth control and still have their lovers use condoms,

even

when both are disease free and monogamous.


Which women are these?

Most young women today.


Why do you think that is?


Because they are ignorant and want to end up with a sexually
transmitted disease?

No. Because they are knowledgeable and do not want to end up pregnant
or with an STD.


Here's a question for you, Mr. Sex Ed: What is the prevention
mechanism for human papilloma virus?

http://obgyn.uihc.uiowa.edu/Patinfo/Adhealth/hpv.htm
"Prevention
There are three ways to decrease exposure to HPV and other sexually
transmitted diseases.
1. Using condoms (rubbers) during sex.
2. Monogamy - have sex with only one partner. To be effective, monogamy
must include both partners and be long term. It is helpful to discuss
this with your partner.
3. Abstinence - not having sex. This does not mean that other forms of
closeness need to be eliminated."
So basically, the same ways to prevent the spread of any other STD.


Describe this virus, it's possible ramifications for women, and it's
cures.

See the above link.


You might also ask why a woman that is using birth control

wants

a

man

to use a condom.


She wouldn't.


Yes, she would. Most women do.


Most women?

Yes.

You know most women that well that you are intimately
familiar with what birth control methods they prefer? You must be

very

well traveled.

Actually, I simply make use of reputable, published studies. Your
should try it some time.
Here is a quote citing a respected source.
"The National Health Center for Health Statistics determined 95 percent
of women use birth control. However, half of all unintended pregnancies
come from these women.
The other half of unintended pregnancies come from the five percent of
women who are not using birth control and still having sex."
If you find the study, I sure that you will find that most women that
are on birth control also request that their lovers use condoms.


I thought the arguments were that Africans have a higher rate of AIDS
because they weren't using condoms.

Because the men have control and can force sex on their women
(signaling a need for a cultural change). The women cannot deny their
men sex, nor force them to wear condoms.

Maybe you meant to say "most women
I've slept with."

Most women in the USA. I have not slept with that many women.


They are free at any public school


I have no reason to be in one.


Free condoms. Now you have a good reason.


I can afford to get them without any problem.


That's because they're almost as cheap as tap water.

Not quite.

You would think
that kids could afford their own. But no.

It is called embarrassment, or getting an unlooked for opportunity, or
not planning ahead.
Also, if they are lead to believe that condoms are not effective, they
will not get them. And many of the current Abstinence Only sex ed
classes leave these kids with that impression by giving misleading
information. The Waxman Report mentioned several examples.


Besides, I would not be
able to get in the front door of many schools nowadays because of

their

heightened security.


You could if you had a badge that said "Planned Parenthood" on it.

Why would I want to lie? And if they are not expecting anyone from
Planned Parenthood, that will not work anyway. You forget, Planned
Parenthood has to be INVITED in to give talks, they do not walk in
unannounced.


Now if those classes were any good, they might help.


You wouldn't know. I took sex ed three times when I was in high
school.


Because you kept flunking it, by the sounds of it.


Hard to do well in a subject I wasn't involved in.

You just contradicted yourself. You said that you took sex ed 3 times,
and then you said that you were not involved it it. Taking a class
means that you were involved in it.


But to hear you tell it, at least that's one subject you aced.

I was a good student, and it was an interesting subject with a good
teacher. I was always good in science classes.

Way to
go, tiger! Who needs math when you know how to put a condom on a
banana?

That was never done in class, even though it is a good thing to teach
the teens.
And you need the math to get a good job in the future. In other words,
everyone needs the math, just as everyone needs a good, comprehensive,
accurate sex ed class in their early teens.


There wasn't a topic they didn't cover.


But did they cover the subjects honestly and completely?


Yep.

Then you must not have learned any of it. Your lack of knowledge is
extreme.


By your

posts, I would have to assume that they did not.


Really, which posts gave you the impression that my high school did

not

have comprehensive sex ed? Refresh my memory.

ALL OF THEM. Your information has been consistently wrong. For
example, you seem to think little of multiple contraceptive methods,
and you think that condoms are 100% effective.


But then, you may
have just been a poor student.


What does this have to do with me?

I was giving the teachers credit. If you were a poor student, then it
was not the teachers' fault that you did not learn anything.

I don't have the problems that need
to be prevented with high-school level sexual education.

Nor did I. That did not prevent me from learning about the subject.

If I failed
sex ed, it's because I had no use for it.

No, you failed sex ed because you did not pay attention. Whether or
not you will latter have use of the information has nothing to do with
your ignorance. This is information that is needed before you have
need of it. That way, you can make informed decisions. And when you
would/should have learned it, you would not have known when you would
need it.


Yet, my high school
had to have a nursery for the teen mothers.
So we see how well it
worked.

--S



First, not everyone learns what is taught until too late.


Where should we start? Second grade?

By 4th or 5th, with shorter, simpler classes suited for that age group.
By 7th and 8th grade, have complete, extended, comprehensive classes
with open question and answer sessions. For the Q&A, give the students
the option of handing in papers with their questions written on them,
in case some are too embarrassed or shy to ask their questions in front
of everyone.


When I went, sex ed started in the fifth grade. I don't recall any

of

my classmates turning up pregnant that early. I guess they waited
until after the second round of sex ed, in the seventh grade.

Most likely, they did. The second round was no doubt more explicit and
frank, as well as more thorough. And by 7th grade, some of the
students are starting to experiment with sex, so that is the latest
that it should be taught for the first time.


Second, if

you are any indication, they did not cover the material very well

or

very completely.


Really, which indication are you referring to?

Your general ignorance of the subject.


There are holes in your knowledge big enough to drive

a Mac Truck through.


Like which?

--S

Look through your own posts. Most of what you say indicates these
holes. Especially about contraceptives and the current common sex ed
programs.
Mark Sebree
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User: "Sneechres"

Title: Re: Safe, Legal and Rare 19 Feb 2005 11:04:35 PM
Mark Sebree wrote:

I already have.

No, you didn't, all you are doing is quibbling over irrelevant details.

Teaching math leads to the production of
more math.


But not teaching math at all does not lead to math being used.


To hear you tell it, it does.


No, that is only in your own mind.

You were the one that said making things taboo makes people want to do
them. But apparently this so-called "logic" doesn't extend to other
situations. That's why it's illogical.

Make it taboo, and people will go out of
their way to find out about it.


That's right.

Indeed, and it doesn't work for math why?

Teaching sex has led to the practice of more sex, just as
sexual revolutionists wanted.


No.


Apparently you skipped statistics as well as math.


Actually, I have studied both.

Not so anyone could tell.

Teaching comprehensive sex ed does not lead to more sex,


Except that it has.


When?

You studied statistics, you tell me how many out-of-wedlock pregnancies
and STDs there are now and how many there were say fifty years ago.

Our current sex ed is certainly NOT comprehensive.

Yes it is.

This is documented.


I have seen no such documentation.

You weren't looking for it, it seems.

It is an undeniable fact that
there is a higher rate of teenage pregnancies and sexually

transmitted

diseases than there were fifty years ago.


More likely, there is a lower rate, but a higher rate of reporting

it.
Ah, so conventional wisdom and statistics are in fact incorrect! We
needed you to come along and correct things and tell us that the
Greatest Generation were in fact sexual libertines just like you, but
lied about it.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Given the culture of

the time, and the fact that a teen pregnancy brought shame and

disgrace

on the girl and family, and the fact that illegal abortions were not
reported, and thus would have been kept secret, it is highly doubtful
that even close to 50% of teen pregnancies were recorded.

You've apparently never heard of a birth certificate.

The puritans may have had their problems, but AIDS was not one of

them.



And thankfully, that cannot force their repressive, bigoted, and
intolerant culture on us today.

That's your opinion (sans logic), in which I have about zero interest.

You cannot turn around and call it a
failure when in fact it has been a huge success.


Abstinence Only sex ed is a failure.


Interesting declaration for a program that's never been tried.


It is currently being taught in schools today,

No, it's not.

I'm interested in your
arguments. I guess appealing to some authority means you are

having

trouble making them?


No,

Funny, you shouldn't try to mask laziness to a laziness expert like me.

The overwhelming majority of
today's teens have sex before they graduate high school,


Funny, the overwhelming majority of them have tried drugs, too.


Not according to the Bureau of Justice.
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/dcf/du.htm

Gee, Sebree, is alcohol a drug??? I think so!
A lie by omssion is still a lie.
Used within the last:
12 months 30 days
Alcohol 70.6% 48.0%

Given that it is known that most people that use hard drugs started
with marijauna, that means that less than half of high school

students

use drugs by the time they graduate, and almost twice that number

have

sex.

That's a flat-out lie.
According to Alan Guttmacher:
Teen Sex and Pregnancy
Revised 9/1999
SEXUAL ACTIVITY
=B7 Most very young teens have not had intercourse: 8 in 10 girls and 7
in 10 boys are sexually inexperienced at age 15.
=B7 T