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Topic: Religions > Atheism
User: "kathryn"
Date: 21 Apr 2005 02:03:06 PM
Object: But *i'm* the bad person
Gotta love the warm snuggly christians - on this whole other forum
It's bigotted and intolerant of us for having a problem with a supposedly
secular site displaying a special notice that we're all really sad about
JPII dying (we are?!)
Me saying that there is no god is more insulting than a christian telling me
(when they know I'm an atheist) that "god loves me"
I'm confrontational for feeling (and not being able to hide) a slight
replusion for someone who thinks that the whole AIDS problem in Africa has
bugger all to do with the pope since all the folks have to do is stop having
sex and it's not his fault if the only part they listen to is the "don't use
condoms" bit.
Which was also basically the answer to my sarcastic comments on the
"success" of the abstinence only sex ed programmes. I suggest that taking
the moral high ground wasn't actually the most important thing.
they must think their god loves hypocricy.
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User: "Mephisto"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 02 May 2005 04:40:38 PM
On Mon, 02 May 2005 12:43:16 GMT, Elroy Willis
<elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote:

Mephisto <mephisto@go.away> wrote in alt.atheism

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:

Mephisto <mephisto@go.away> wrote in message


There is no reason why there should be any 'meaning' in the sense that
you're describing, and that rainbow would still have been there if
nobody had been there to witness it.


Ah, but now we are into Schrodinger's cat territory; it IS the observer
that determines the meaning....even whether something actually happens.


No... it is a fact that the rainbow would still be there.


I agree 100%. Rainbows have existed as long as there has been
rain and the sun, no matter if there were any humans around to see
the rainbows. The idea of some god creating beautiful rainbows
because that god was sorry for drowning people in a flood is just
plain stupid...

It doesn't make a lot of sense. Like I said elsewhere in this thread,
the Noah story is one of my least favourite mythological tales.
Whoever wrote it wasn't thinking straight.

If you wiped humanity out tomorrow, stuff like that would not stop.


Exactly. Rainbows, floods, hurricanes, snowstorms, and earthquakes
would all still happen even if there were no so-called "humans" to
observe those things.

Yup, or any other life forms for that matter.

We're not talking about spooky aspects of subatomic physics here.
Standard scientific laws still apply.


I wonder how many metaphysical maniacs would disagree with that?

They can disagree all they like, but until they come up with some
evidence to demonstrate their view I don't see why I should waste my
time on it :-)
Mephisto
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User: "Del"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 01 May 2005 02:19:18 PM
DianaC wrote:

"Elroy Willis" <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message
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DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism


Are you stupid when you ask other people for su ch things?


Of course not, but there's a difference between asking real

living

people for help or advice, and asking some invisible god whom you
pretend exists out there or up there somewhere.


I don't pretend, Elroy. I really believe it; and the wisdom or

lack of it

in
going to Him does NOT depend upon whether you believe it. Not
theologically......OR logically. You don't need my approval to

validate

your
opinions, y'know.


Yeah yeah...

Well, if that's not being stupid, why is it stupid to ask a

deity for

additional help, given that the deity is SUPPOSED to be wiser

than we

are?


Because nobody can actually see or hear the deity speaking to you

or

anyon e else?


You have changed the subject from whether it is advisable to go to

a

deity
for aid, to claiming that the deity doesn't exist. Elroy, those

are two

entirely different subjects.


No, it's the same thing.


No, it's only the same thing if both agree that a deity doesn't

exist.
Yeah, until or unless she agrees, the subject of god's
non-existence is off topic in alt.atheism.


You just imagine or pretend that your deity is speaking to you,

when

in fact it's just you doing the talking and advice-giving to

yourself.


but I don't think so, Elroy, and why should your opinion guide my
actions? I
don't ask that you be guided by mine, y'know.


I'm sure you're way too old to change your mind. Old dogs and new
tricks and all that...


Actually, I'm finding that the older one gets, the more information

one has,

the more flexible one's thinking is. On the other hand, having lived

as long

as I have, one finds that one doesn't have enough time to revisit ALL

one's

previous decisions.


For example, there's no d oubt that billions and billions of

religious

people have prayed for world-wide peace over the centuries, but

all

those prayers have failed, one after the other, down to this

day.


Mostly because we have this problem with free wil l. ;-)
It's not really helpful to ask God to pull someone ELSE'S

strings,

especially if you don't want Him pulling YOURS. A much better

prayer

would be "Heavenly Father, help me to know what *I* can do to

make

the world a bett er, more peaceful and just place". THAT prayer

has

a chance of being answered.


What you could do is ditch your religion and put an end to

something

that only causes more people like you to be persecuted by

somebody

with a diff erent religious belief. It's what all you

religiobots

should do, but it'll never happen...


Well, my particular religion doesn't have a history of persecuting

other

religions...

Except for murdering a couple of hundred unarmed non-
mormon settlers in the 1850's....

but then that would spoil your point, so never mind...

But that would spoil _your_ point so never mind.


Correct me if I'm wrong, but your religion goes all the way back to
the Old Testament, which is full of the persecution of the

religions

of other people.


Actually, mine only goes back about a hundred and seventy five years

or

so...but (shrug) whatever.

Sort of makes you wonder why they claim to have
the one true religion then, but whatever.


<snip>


I guess for me the higher purpose is exploration and the

accumulated

knowledge that we build up about our planet and universe over

time.


And what, ultimately, are we to do with it?


Record it,


for whom? Ultimately, that is...


For our descendants and the next generations of people.


And...???? Who, ultimately, for?


That's it. Why isn't that enough?


Because it's not.

Because Diana says so. Why isn't that good enough for
you Elroy?

If our purpose is to record stuff for our descendents, who
do THEY record for? And so on? What is the ultimate goal?

Progress. Improving the human condition. Duh.
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User: "Del"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 01 May 2005 01:46:11 PM
Elroy Willis wrote:

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism


Are you stupid when you ask other people for such things?


Of course not, but there's a difference between asking real living
people for help or advic e, and asking some invisible god whom you
pretend exists out there or up there somewhere.


I don't pretend, Elroy. I really believe it; and the wisdom or lack

of it in

going to Him does NOT depend upon whether you believe it. Not
theologically......OR logically. You don't need my approval to

validate your

opinions, y'know.


Yeah yeah...

Well, if that's not being stupid, why is it stupid to ask a deity

for

additional help, given that the deity is SUPPOSED to be wiser

than we

are?


Because nobody can actually see or hear the deity speaking to you

or

anyone else?


You have changed the subject from whether it is advisable to go to

a deity

for aid, to claiming that the deity doesn't exist. Elroy, those are

two

entirely different subjects.

Yeah, Elroy, how dare you claim god doesn't exist in alt.atheism?


.
User: "Elroy Willis"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 02 May 2005 07:22:14 AM
Del <jfacts@earthlink.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis wrote:

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Well, if that's not being stupid, why is it stupid to ask a deity for
additional help, given that the deity is SUPPOSED to be wiser
than we are?

Because nobody can actually see or hear the deity speaking to you
or anyone else?

You have changed the subject from whether it is advisable to go to
a deity for aid, to claiming that the deity doesn't exist. Elroy, those are
two entirely different subjects.

Yeah, Elroy, how dare you claim god doesn't exist in alt.atheism?

I guess I should be sent to the comfy chair for punishment!
--
Elroy Willis
www.elroysemporium.com
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User: "RainLover"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 27 Apr 2005 09:42:06 AM
On Tue, 26 Apr 2005 18:46:02 GMT, "DianaC"
<dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:


"Elroy Willis" <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message
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DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism


A great many of those researchers are theists, Elroy.


If they are, I'm sure they must subscribe to the "God helps those who
help themselves" type theology -- meaning they don't wait around
and waste time praying for their god to fix the problems in the world.
They're probably deists at best, imo.


Elroy, *I'M" one of those "God helps those who help themselves" people.
Indeed, most Mormons are, and deists we definately are NOT. ;-)
We are suspenders and belt people. When we get sick, we call the doctor
AND the Elders.


If you left the Elders out of things, do you actually think it would
make any difference?


Could. Shoot, Elroy, even you know that it is a medical FACT that one's
attitude makes a great deal of difference in the course of many diseases.
Hope is a key factor in many treatments.

Indeed, we believe God takes a very dim view of people who
refuse to do thier own work and expect Him to deal with everything.


What things does he actually deal with that you can tell for sure?


That which we cannot, basically.

If some actual omnipotent god cared about humans, and didn't want them
to suffer with diseases such as cancer and aids and a bunch of others,
it could simply wish them all away, right?


Why? Wouldn't that depend entirely on what the purpose of this life was?


Why does there need to be a purpose to life beyond living it?


If the only life we have is THIS one, then I suppose you could say that
there need not be. However, if you consider that this life might not be all
there is, then we have a whole new situation, don't we?

On the other hand, I think that there should be a purpose to life over and
above 'living it'. Some greater purpose, some accomplishment, some aim,
some....something. There should be some use to existance. Even those things
that are simply beautiful, and not much else, have use; for their sheer
beauty is appreciated by those who view it. What is the purpose of a work of
art that is never seen?

I mean, if all we are is a bunch of pampered pets who must not be allowed
to get out of the front yard and learn anything, I suppose you might
have a
point.


How would your god keep people from getting out of the front yard?


He doesn't. Which is the point. AND the problem with those who think that
God is responsible for all the evil in the world. God does NOT keep us from
leaving the yard. He points out where the fence is, tells us why the fence
is there, shows us what's on the other side, but if we want to check it out
personally, fine, on hour heads be it.

However, if the point is that we have to learn to accept the consequences
of our freely chosen actions, and that lunch ain't free, what then?


Then it's what I think most atheists such as myself believe, which is
that humans are just another species of animal which are part of the
food chain, and we have to try to compete with other animals for food
and territory, etc...


We are that, too.

No need to even interfere with human free will at all, since bacteria
and
viruses aren't actually under the control of any human people and they
don't actually wish those things on themselves and others...


Except that the AIDS epidemic, for instance, is very much the result of
HUMAN choices. It frankly didn't cause a whole lot of trouble in the
population it's used to/began with. (shrug)


What do you mean by it not causing trouble in the original population?


In the first primate population, HIV is not a fatal disease. Indeed, it's
hardly even an annoyance.

Some people survive Bubonic Plague too, for some, it's about like the
flu... an annoyance. Disease mutates. It's what it does.

It is only when it crossed species, and eventually
got to US---and one very stupid bisexual sailor decided to come to the US
and spread the wealth--that it started to cause problems.

So if it wasn't for a dumb bisexual sailor having sex with a monkey no
one in the USA would have AIDS? This is definitely new information!
Quick, someone call FOX News!!!!

Since this species
crossing was (according to most of the evidence/stories) the result of the
human capture of monkeys....well, GOD didn't do that, people did.

So your god sent AIDS because people had pet monkeys... well... this
is news too. I like your description of AIDS more than Jerry
Falwells, for what that's worth.
And that damn Avian Flu that's Killing people? Is that because of a
stupid bisexual sailor having sex with chickens in Asia or because we
keep birds as pets?
What sayth your god?

Unfortunately, viruses don't care much if the act that transmits them is
innocent, ignorant or of just pure evil; if the door is open, they'll enter.

But since your god sent the viruses, I'd consider HIM to be rather
evil.

You are dealing with the 'problem of evil' thing, and quite frankly, when
you do that with any specific religion/belief system, you really need to
take that belief system in its own context.

What a load of crap, Diana! Just because your religion sees sex
outside of marriage as "evil" doesn't make it so. HELL, your religion
says a man should be able to have sex with as many women as
possible... as long as he's "married" and THAT is evil, sinful, and
lustful to most Christians.
You only sound like a hypocrite when you decry one "evil" while your
religion promotes other "evils".
(I put 'evil' in quotes since the word means something different to
everyone)


When I do that, I come away laughing at the superstitious reasons for
things like diseases and why they exist. Scientifically, I believe
they exist because they're just another part of the natural food
chain, and that they evolve over time just like we human animals have
evolved over time. No angry gods or vengeful devils are needed to
explain anything...


Nor have I attempted to do that, you will notice.

WRONG... you have basically said that AIDS is a punishment from your
god for people being "evil".
James, Seattle
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User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 27 Apr 2005 12:02:50 PM
"RainLover" <SP-AMB-LOCKrainlover@raincity.com> wrote in message
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On Tue, 26 Apr 2005 18:46:02 GMT, "DianaC"

<snip to>

In the first primate population, HIV is not a fatal disease. Indeed, it's
hardly even an annoyance.


Some people survive Bubonic Plague too, for some, it's about like the
flu... an annoyance. Disease mutates. It's what it does.

Indeed. But so far AIDS mutations (and it mutates merrily...) are all to the
'let's see if we can survive the latest medicine and kill this guy" side.
Nobody has survived AIDS yet. The most anybody has ever done is go into a
remission of sorts, one that ends as soon as the patient is stupid enough to
stop his medications. A cure would be if the patient didn't have any sign of
the AIDS' virus, and didn't need to take medication to keep it at bay,
either. Nobody has managed that.
Oh, and Bubonic Plague was horrific 'back in the day', but it's almost 100%
survivable NOW, with antibiotics. Miserable, but not by any means a death
sentence. It's a bacterial disease, remember? AIDS/HIV is a virus? We have
never, EVER been able to cure a virus?

It is only when it crossed species, and eventually
got to US---and one very stupid bisexual sailor decided to come to the US
and spread the wealth--that it started to cause problems.


So if it wasn't for a dumb bisexual sailor having sex with a monkey no
one in the USA would have AIDS? This is definitely new information!
Quick, someone call FOX News!!!!

Odd, I don't see where I said the sailor had sex with the monkey. Indeed,
the first incidence of AIDS was the result of either a bite...by the animal
or by the person; people over there would catch and slaughter chimpanzees,
even eating them raw. We know know that this sort of thing is just begging
for an AIDS infection. HERE it first manifested in the gay population. AIDS
is not a 'gay' disease, y'know, it's an STD. Everybody can get it...and the
earliest known case (confirmed) was of a Norwegian sailor who died of AIDS
in 1976, followed by the deaths of his wife and daughter. He was not
bisexual, but he was certainly sexually active; he got his version , HIV-1
group O, from a prostitute in Douala, Kenya. During his life, he had sex
with a bunch of women, who were, evidently, ALSO hired to participate in
bisexual orgies thrown by a bisexual german musician (who died in 1979) The
earliest AIDS death in the US was a fifteen year old boy who died in St.
Louis in 1968...he had been a prostitute. However, "Patient Zero" in the US
AIDS epidemic is considered to be Gaetan Dugas, a gay French Canadian flight
attendant, who is widely considered to be, if not THE primary carrier of HIV
among gays on this continent, certainly one of them, and he's the only one
they have been able to positively identify as being a carrier.

Since this species
crossing was (according to most of the evidence/stories) the result of the
human capture of monkeys....well, GOD didn't do that, people did.


So your god sent AIDS because people had pet monkeys... well... this
is news too. I like your description of AIDS more than Jerry
Falwells, for what that's worth.

I don't remember saying that God sent AIDS. Again, what IS it with you? I'm
the theist. shouldn't *I* be the one bringing religion into it? But I'm not.
YOU are. AIDS is a virus. People spread it by having sex and sharing
needles, mostly. The solution is to refrain from having sex with infected
people and to not share needles. Why is that so damned hard to get your mind
around?


And that damn Avian Flu that's Killing people? Is that because of a
stupid bisexual sailor having sex with chickens in Asia or because we
keep birds as pets?

What sayth your god?

You're the one bringing religion into this. What do you think 'my' God says?
I'll bet you get it wrong.

Unfortunately, viruses don't care much if the act that transmits them is
innocent, ignorant or of just pure evil; if the door is open, they'll
enter.


But since your god sent the viruses, I'd consider HIM to be rather
evil.

DID He send them? Odd, I don't remember claiming that. They are diseases.
Part of the planet. (shrug) Your problem is that you think God interferes a
lot more than I do.

You are dealing with the 'problem of evil' thing, and quite frankly,
when
you do that with any specific religion/belief system, you really need
to
take that belief system in its own context.


What a load of crap, Diana! Just because your religion sees sex
outside of marriage as "evil" doesn't make it so.

What my religion thinks of this is beside the point. AIDS is not about
religion. IT's about a bloody virus that kills people.

HELL, your religion
says a man should be able to have sex with as many women as
possible... as long as he's "married" and THAT is evil, sinful, and
lustful to most Christians.

(snort) you really don't know much about my religion.

You only sound like a hypocrite when you decry one "evil" while your
religion promotes other "evils".

(I put 'evil' in quotes since the word means something different to
everyone)

Why are you talking religion when this is about scientific FACT? Just
because you don't think that in this case the facts are FAIR? Or because,
for once, a religious prohibition just might march with the medical
solution? Isn't that more than a little childish?

When I do that, I come away laughing at the superstitious reasons for
things like diseases and why they exist. Scientifically, I believe
they exist because they're just another part of the natural food
chain, and that they evolve over time just like we human animals have
evolved over time. No angry gods or vengeful devils are needed to
explain anything...


Nor have I attempted to do that, you will notice.


WRONG... you have basically said that AIDS is a punishment from your
god for people being "evil".

I have basically said nothing of the sort. I have said that AIDS is
transmitted sexually. It is. I have said that if everyone would be abstinant
from sex until they found one partner, was faithful to that partner and that
partner is faithful to him/her, that AIDS would pretty much disappear. So
would every other STD.
Am I wrong? Scientifically, medically, am I wrong?


James, Seattle


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User: "Elroy Willis"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 27 Apr 2005 10:42:38 AM
RainLover <SP-AMB-LOCKrainlover@raincity.com> wrote in alt.atheism

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

<snip>

What do you mean by it not causing trouble in the original population?

In the first primate population, HIV is not a fatal disease. Indeed, it's
hardly even an annoyance.

Some people survive Bubonic Plague too, for some, it's about like the
flu... an annoyance. Disease mutates. It's what it does.

It is only when it crossed species, and eventually got to US---and one very stupid
bisexual sailor decided to come to the US and spread the wealth--that it started
to cause problems.

So if it wasn't for a dumb bisexual sailor having sex with a monkey no
one in the USA would have AIDS? This is definitely new information!
Quick, someone call FOX News!!!!

Is this the generally-accepted theory of how AIDS made its way into
the human population?
--
Elroy Willis
www.elroysemporium.com
.
User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 27 Apr 2005 12:03:50 PM
"Elroy Willis" <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message
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RainLover <SP-AMB-LOCKrainlover@raincity.com> wrote in alt.atheism

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message


<snip>

What do you mean by it not causing trouble in the original population?


In the first primate population, HIV is not a fatal disease. Indeed,
it's
hardly even an annoyance.


Some people survive Bubonic Plague too, for some, it's about like the
flu... an annoyance. Disease mutates. It's what it does.


It is only when it crossed species, and eventually got to US---and one
very stupid
bisexual sailor decided to come to the US and spread the wealth--that it
started
to cause problems.


So if it wasn't for a dumb bisexual sailor having sex with a monkey no
one in the USA would have AIDS? This is definitely new information!
Quick, someone call FOX News!!!!


Is this the generally-accepted theory of how AIDS made its way into
the human population?

No. And you will note that I didn't claim it was, but THIS guy is an
hysterical reactionary who doesn't pay attention.
.
User: "RainLover"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 28 Apr 2005 11:01:04 AM
On Wed, 27 Apr 2005 17:03:50 GMT, "DianaC"
<dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:


"Elroy Willis" <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message
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RainLover <SP-AMB-LOCKrainlover@raincity.com> wrote in alt.atheism

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message


<snip>

What do you mean by it not causing trouble in the original population?


In the first primate population, HIV is not a fatal disease. Indeed,
it's
hardly even an annoyance.


Some people survive Bubonic Plague too, for some, it's about like the
flu... an annoyance. Disease mutates. It's what it does.


It is only when it crossed species, and eventually got to US---and one
very stupid
bisexual sailor decided to come to the US and spread the wealth--that it
started
to cause problems.


So if it wasn't for a dumb bisexual sailor having sex with a monkey no
one in the USA would have AIDS? This is definitely new information!
Quick, someone call FOX News!!!!


Is this the generally-accepted theory of how AIDS made its way into
the human population?


No. And you will note that I didn't claim it was, but THIS guy is an
hysterical reactionary who doesn't pay attention.

"THIS guy" is named James and I'm anything but an 'hysterical
reactionary'. And I pay attention as well. I just think your
description of a "stupid bisexual sailor" was a bit, well...
hysterical.
James, Seattle
.
User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 28 Apr 2005 02:07:45 PM
"RainLover" <SP-AMB-LOCKrainlover@raincity.com> wrote in message
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On Wed, 27 Apr 2005 17:03:50 GMT, "DianaC"
<dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:


"Elroy Willis" <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message
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RainLover <SP-AMB-LOCKrainlover@raincity.com> wrote in alt.atheism

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message


<snip>

What do you mean by it not causing trouble in the original
population?


In the first primate population, HIV is not a fatal disease. Indeed,
it's
hardly even an annoyance.


Some people survive Bubonic Plague too, for some, it's about like the
flu... an annoyance. Disease mutates. It's what it does.


It is only when it crossed species, and eventually got to US---and one
very stupid
bisexual sailor decided to come to the US and spread the wealth--that
it
started
to cause problems.


So if it wasn't for a dumb bisexual sailor having sex with a monkey no
one in the USA would have AIDS? This is definitely new information!
Quick, someone call FOX News!!!!


Is this the generally-accepted theory of how AIDS made its way into
the human population?


No. And you will note that I didn't claim it was, but THIS guy is an
hysterical reactionary who doesn't pay attention.


"THIS guy" is named James and I'm anything but an 'hysterical
reactionary'. And I pay attention as well. I just think your
description of a "stupid bisexual sailor" was a bit, well...
hysterical.

OK, he wasn't a sailor. He was a flight attendant.
.



User: "RainLover"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 28 Apr 2005 10:58:38 AM
On Wed, 27 Apr 2005 15:42:38 GMT, Elroy Willis
<elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote:

RainLover <SP-AMB-LOCKrainlover@raincity.com> wrote in alt.atheism

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote:

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message


<snip>

What do you mean by it not causing trouble in the original population?


In the first primate population, HIV is not a fatal disease. Indeed, it's
hardly even an annoyance.


Some people survive Bubonic Plague too, for some, it's about like the
flu... an annoyance. Disease mutates. It's what it does.


It is only when it crossed species, and eventually got to US---and one very stupid
bisexual sailor decided to come to the US and spread the wealth--that it started
to cause problems.


So if it wasn't for a dumb bisexual sailor having sex with a monkey no
one in the USA would have AIDS? This is definitely new information!
Quick, someone call FOX News!!!!


Is this the generally-accepted theory of how AIDS made its way into
the human population?

Everyone knows it was a gay flight attendant. (but I don't think he
had sex with any monkies)
James, Seattle.
.



User: "Elroy Willis"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 25 Apr 2005 01:25:53 PM
Neil Kelsey <neil_kelsey@telus.net> wrote in alt.atheism

DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in message

Neil Kelsey <neil_kelsey@telus.net> wrote in message

You're being disingenuous again. You know perfectly well there are
diseases that science has discovered a cure for, and that there has been
progress made on the diseases you list here.

Nobody has ever found a cure for a virus. And HIV is a virus. We can treat
the symptoms. We can cause remissions. But doctors don't even bother to
treat colds or the flu unless the symptoms become life threatening, and
then all they can do is attempt to alleviate those symptoms until our
bodies fight off the illness. That 'triple coctail' that HIV patients get
is quite effective; but you notice that the patients have to take it all
the rest of their abbreviated lives, because AIDS is 100% fatal.
Even the black plague only killed 90%...or was that 75%? Whatever...the
EBOLA virus, the one that is the topic of all the horror movies? YOu have
a chance of living through that if you catch it. You WILL die of AIDS if
you get it. No reprieve, because this virus affects the very immune system
that is supposed to be fighting against it. The only cure, and I do mean
the ONLY one we have, is prevention. There is no vacine for HIV. Nor is
there likely to be one any time soon.

So we should halt all medical research (since there's never been a cure for
a virus) and get people to restrain their sexual urges? Good luck with
that... And where is god in all of this?

I know this probably sounds horrible, but wouldn't you like to see
some cure for aids or cancer or some other disease which kills
millions of people each day or year be denied to those people who
reject evolution and curse medical research and pray to their god
to fix things or cure them instead of relying on real-live human
beings instead?
I think Stix gave a fine example of a "like to see happen" scenario in
the following link:
http://www.elroysemporium.com/editorials/research.html
--
Elroy Willis
www.elroysemporium.com
.

User: "Iain"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 21 Apr 2005 04:36:52 PM
DianaC wrote:

"kathryn" <nospam@here.com> wrote in message
news:d48td9$q0d$1@nwrdmz02.dmz.ncs.ea.ibs-infra.bt.com...

[snip]

I'm confrontational for feeling (and not being able to hide) a

slight

replusion for someone who thinks that the whole AIDS problem in

Africa has

bugger all to do with the pope since all the folks have to do is

stop

having sex and it's not his fault if the only part they listen to

is the

"don't use condoms" bit.


Er, isn't that pretty much true, though? Just HOW many cases of AIDS

are NOT

spread through sexual conduct?

Then ask yourself why they keep having sex, specifically underprotected
sex.
I'm a sexually eager young man but Gawd knows that if my community was
as infected as the ones we are speaking of, contraception would be an
option as sensible as a dictionary, and nothing to do with hell,
demons, sins and other such paraphernalia of wildly abstract, ethereal,
utterly spurious, unbeneficial, perverse, anti-scientific, amoral,
dangerous, outdated waste of space that is Catholicism.
~Iain
.
User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 21 Apr 2005 08:09:42 PM
"Iain" <iain_inkster@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1114119412.509675.217010@l41g2000cwc.googlegroups.com...


DianaC wrote:

"kathryn" <nospam@here.com> wrote in message
news:d48td9$q0d$1@nwrdmz02.dmz.ncs.ea.ibs-infra.bt.com...


[snip]

I'm confrontational for feeling (and not being able to hide) a

slight

replusion for someone who thinks that the whole AIDS problem in

Africa has

bugger all to do with the pope since all the folks have to do is

stop

having sex and it's not his fault if the only part they listen to

is the

"don't use condoms" bit.


Er, isn't that pretty much true, though? Just HOW many cases of AIDS

are NOT

spread through sexual conduct?


Then ask yourself why they keep having sex, specifically underprotected
sex.

Because the situation isn't being dealt with right. IT's not being dealt
with in a clear, uncompromising manner. This isn't about culture or morals
or religion. It's about a disease that's killing people and leaving orphans,
and nobody wants to tell those who are suffering, or who are in danger, the
bare, inarguable facts.

I'm a sexually eager young man but Gawd knows that if my community was
as infected as the ones we are speaking of, contraception would be an
option as sensible as a dictionary, and nothing to do with hell,
demons, sins and other such paraphernalia of wildly abstract, ethereal,
utterly spurious, unbeneficial, perverse, anti-scientific, amoral,
dangerous, outdated waste of space that is Catholicism.

Don't look at me about that, I'm all for condom use and I'm not a Catholic.
I was reacting to the idea that because a Catholic says that
abstinence/chastity is the only way that this disease will be conquered, the
statement is somehow invalidated by the religion of the speaker. Well, tough
as it is to hear, Catholic or not, Protestant or not, it doesn't matter WHAT
the speaker believes regarding deity or morals, the statement itself is
fact. WE don't have a vaccine. We don't have a cure...and condoms leak and
fall off or don't get used right. The only, and I mean ONLY prevention that
will control the disease is abstinence/chastity. Only have sex with one
person whose only sex partner is you. A HUGE percentage of human beings live
like this and are quite happy. The human race will not die out. Fun will
still be had. Parties will still be gone to. Art and Music and romance will
still fare well.
And we humans might just live long enough to enjoy it all.
.
User: "DanielSan"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 21 Apr 2005 10:47:29 PM
DianaC wrote:

"Iain" <iain_inkster@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1114119412.509675.217010@l41g2000cwc.googlegroups.com...

DianaC wrote:

"kathryn" <nospam@here.com> wrote in message
news:d48td9$q0d$1@nwrdmz02.dmz.ncs.ea.ibs-infra.bt.com...


[snip]


I'm confrontational for feeling (and not being able to hide) a


slight

replusion for someone who thinks that the whole AIDS problem in


Africa has

bugger all to do with the pope since all the folks have to do is


stop

having sex and it's not his fault if the only part they listen to


is the

"don't use condoms" bit.


Er, isn't that pretty much true, though? Just HOW many cases of AIDS


are NOT

spread through sexual conduct?


Then ask yourself why they keep having sex, specifically underprotected
sex.



Because the situation isn't being dealt with right. IT's not being dealt
with in a clear, uncompromising manner. This isn't about culture or morals
or religion. It's about a disease that's killing people and leaving orphans,
and nobody wants to tell those who are suffering, or who are in danger, the
bare, inarguable facts.

Why do you think that is?
.
User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 22 Apr 2005 02:17:59 AM
"DanielSan" <daniel-san@myrealbox.com> wrote in message
news:spGdnWMcMI0k7vXfRVn-jg@comcast.com...

DianaC wrote:

<snip to>


Then ask yourself why they keep having sex, specifically underprotected
sex.



Because the situation isn't being dealt with right. IT's not being dealt
with in a clear, uncompromising manner. This isn't about culture or
morals or religion. It's about a disease that's killing people and
leaving orphans, and nobody wants to tell those who are suffering, or who
are in danger, the bare, inarguable facts.


Why do you think that is?

Because the theists want to make it about God, and so do YOU GUYS. The
theists want to condemn the ill to hell, and you guys want to rebel against
the simple facts; y'all think that humans have some inalienable right to
screw up and screw around without consequences. The problem is, you don't
want to admit that even if the reasoning and judgmental attitudes of the
theists may be hard to take in this case, what they are saying is true; if
we want to eliminate AIDS, we have to behave ourselves sexually; that is,
monogamy with someone who is monogamous with us.
Right now I see two very childish positions. The Theists are telling these
suffering people whose culture and more's have made the AIDS epidemic a
pandemic that they are sick because God is striking them down for being
promiscuous and pagan or whatever evil thing they can think of. (not, by any
means, all theists, but there are some)
And in response to this attitude, the atheists get their backs up and
completely ignore the medical facts; BECAUSE theists are telling people that
they have to zip the pants, atheists are saying that A: people are incapable
of doing so and B: shouldn't have to any way because (insert whine) it's NOT
FAIR.
Well, it's not fair. These cultures have been around for millennia, doing
just fine with the sexual traditions they have. But now those cultural
more's and traditions are killing them. Not God. A disease that came from an
animal from their own continent. It's NOT fair. It simply is.
And condemning them all to death because you are not about to admit that a
theist could be right about something, namely that it IS possible to change
lifestyles and be happy, and it IS possible to change sexual traditions and
live, seems like a very pyrrhic victory to me. Remember, we have AIDS here
too, and it's growing much faster in the heterosexual population than the
homosexual one. Why? Because the gays have figured it out.
And the 'straights' haven't.
Are you going to tell your teenager that it's ok to go out and have sex with
all and sundry, because you know that it's impossible to do otherwise, even
when you KNOW that most of the new cases of HIV are occurring in high school
age kids?
.
User: "DanielSan"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 22 Apr 2005 02:39:21 AM
DianaC wrote:

"DanielSan" <daniel-san@myrealbox.com> wrote in message
news:spGdnWMcMI0k7vXfRVn-jg@comcast.com...

DianaC wrote:


<snip to>

Then ask yourself why they keep having sex, specifically underprotected
sex.



Because the situation isn't being dealt with right. IT's not being dealt
with in a clear, uncompromising manner. This isn't about culture or
morals or religion. It's about a disease that's killing people and
leaving orphans, and nobody wants to tell those who are suffering, or who
are in danger, the bare, inarguable facts.


Why do you think that is?



Because the theists want to make it about God, and so do YOU GUYS.

Sorry, but no. We want to teach children the bare inarguable facts, but
we're called dirty sex-crazed heathens. When we try to get the schools
to teach sex education, there are complaints from theists (85% of
America). This kind of thing is hard to break down, but we're doing it,
slowly but surely. We 15% can only do so much.

The
theists want to condemn the ill to hell, and you guys want to rebel against
the simple facts;

And what are the "simple facts," being that you know us so well?

y'all think that humans have some inalienable right to
screw up and screw around without consequences.

We do?! Wow. New one on me. Hey, guys, Diana thinks that we like
screwing up without consequences! *guffaw*

The problem is, you don't
want to admit that even if the reasoning and judgmental attitudes of the
theists may be hard to take in this case, what they are saying is true; if
we want to eliminate AIDS, we have to behave ourselves sexually; that is,
monogamy with someone who is monogamous with us.

Yes. But, atheism is all about that, y'know. Or, maybe you don't know
because theism has clouded you mind so much that you think that we
atheists are dirty heathens who would have sex at the drop of a hat.


Right now I see two very childish positions.

So do I. Theists telling suffering people that God is striking them
down, and you who believe you know what atheism is "all about".

The Theists are telling these
suffering people whose culture and more's have made the AIDS epidemic a
pandemic that they are sick because God is striking them down for being
promiscuous and pagan or whatever evil thing they can think of. (not, by any
means, all theists, but there are some)

I agree.


And in response to this attitude, the atheists get their backs up and
completely ignore the medical facts;

What are these "medical facts" you speak of?

BECAUSE theists are telling people that
they have to zip the pants, atheists are saying that A: people are incapable
of doing so and B: shouldn't have to any way because (insert whine) it's NOT
FAIR.

We've never said "A" nor "B".


Well, it's not fair. These cultures have been around for millennia, doing
just fine with the sexual traditions they have. But now those cultural
more's and traditions are killing them. Not God. A disease that came from an
animal from their own continent. It's NOT fair. It simply is.

It simply is....what? I'm losing you here. Are you saying that we're
asking for a fair shake? Nope. We're asking you to keep your doctrine
intact and "pray in private".


And condemning them all to death

Condemning all who to death?

because you are not about to admit that a
theist could be right about something,

Theists can be right about a lot of things... You're letting your hatred
for atheism cloud the facts. Atheists do not hate theists. We are not
bigoted against theists. In fact, we'd like religion to grow and
prosper... *IN THE CHURCH*, not in my life. We'd like religion to
remain in the Church. That is, religious law should not equal secular
law. The two should not mix.

namely that it IS possible to change
lifestyles and be happy,

So, you're able to change your lifestyle, then, and be happy?

and it IS possible to change sexual traditions and
live,

So, you could become a homosexual and live?

seems like a very pyrrhic victory to me.

Sorry, but who are we condemning to death again?

Remember, we have AIDS here
too, and it's growing much faster in the heterosexual population than the
homosexual one. Why? Because the gays have figured it out.
And the 'straights' haven't.

Exactly. Theism (and mainly Christianity) tries to keep its adherents
blind to the facts by suggesting that even the thought of this is
"impure" and must be "purged" from your mind, because God or someone
will make you suffer otherwise.


Are you going to tell your teenager that it's ok to go out and have sex with
all and sundry, because you know that it's impossible to do otherwise, even
when you KNOW that most of the new cases of HIV are occurring in high school
age kids?

We want to *TEACH* children the *FACTS*...That you should wait to have
sex until you're ready, but, if you're going to do it, take as much
protection as you can. Girls, stock up on diaphragms. Boys, stock up
on condoms. There is no shame in buying these products!
*THIS* is what we should be teaching the young'ins today. That, if
you're going to do it, take protection. You wouldn't tell your kid to
drive without his seat-belt fastened. Don't let your kid dive into
polygamous sex unless your raincoat is securely applied.
To shut your eyes to the fact that teenagers are going to have sex is to
shut your eyes to the truth. Tell your kids to take protection.
.
User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 22 Apr 2005 02:55:57 PM
"DanielSan" <daniel-san@myrealbox.com> wrote in message
news:KYOdnZ9miv2ON_XfRVn-uw@comcast.com...

DianaC wrote:

"DanielSan" <daniel-san@myrealbox.com> wrote in message
news:spGdnWMcMI0k7vXfRVn-jg@comcast.com...

DianaC wrote:


<snip to>

Then ask yourself why they keep having sex, specifically underprotected
sex.



Because the situation isn't being dealt with right. IT's not being dealt
with in a clear, uncompromising manner. This isn't about culture or
morals or religion. It's about a disease that's killing people and
leaving orphans, and nobody wants to tell those who are suffering, or
who are in danger, the bare, inarguable facts.


Why do you think that is?



Because the theists want to make it about God, and so do YOU GUYS.


Sorry, but no. We want to teach children the bare inarguable facts, but
we're called dirty sex-crazed heathens. When we try to get the schools to
teach sex education, there are complaints from theists (85% of America).
This kind of thing is hard to break down, but we're doing it, slowly but
surely. We 15% can only do so much.

Sorry, but yes...and we are talking about Africa and this overwhelming
reaction of 'well, you can't teach 'em anything, they are going to have sex
with all and sundry anyway, and how dare the theists claim that things could
be different?"
And I've seen the sex-education that is offered here. My kids went through
it, I went through it, and quite frankly, most of the time it's a 'how to'
course, with very little 'why not' in it. the thing is, the ONE thing that
will most completely gaurantee safety in STD's is given a bare passing
mention, if it is touched on at all; abstinance and monogamy.
My kids knew 'the facts of life' as soon as they started asking questions. I
taught them. By the time sex ed in schools came around, they already knew
about what went where, the reasons why it's a good thing, and the reasons
why waiting is more effective, if the idea is to prevent STD's. Every single
one of them have told me that the programs in their schools emphasized
condom use...and gave implicit consent to the kids to go out and have sex.
It's not a matter of "teaching about condoms encourages sexual behavior".
It's a matter of the way it is presented; it's presented in a sort of 'well,
humans are slaves to their instincts, and OF COURSE you will fool around,
and since you are going to anyway, here's how to put a condom on a
cucumber".
When I see a school program that leaves the 'we give up' attitude out, and
simply present the subject in terms of effectiveness in preventing STD's,
then I'll feel better about it. So far, though, I haven't.


The theists want to condemn the ill to hell, and you guys want to rebel
against the simple facts;


And what are the "simple facts," being that you know us so well?

What, you are the expert on all theists, and I can't be an expert on all
atheists in return? What is this double standard of yours, anyway?
But the fact, the medical and scientific fact is, abstinance and monogomy
are the only real preventatives against STD'S that work. This has nothing at
all to do with theism, and everything to do with public health. If it were
anything BUT an STD, there would be no argument about what to do with
someone who has a contagious and terminal illness; you quarantine the
patient, he alters his lifestyle in such a way as to reduce or eliminate his
danger to others.
But you get a chance to yell at theists, and all reason goes out the window.


y'all think that humans have some inalienable right to screw up and screw
around without consequences.


We do?! Wow. New one on me. Hey, guys, Diana thinks that we like
screwing up without consequences! *guffaw*

Well, yeah. If you didn't, you wouldn't be so horrified at the idea that
people CAN stick to one partner, or even not have sex and still be happy.


The problem is, you don't want to admit that even if the reasoning and
judgmental attitudes of the theists may be hard to take in this case,
what they are saying is true; if we want to eliminate AIDS, we have to
behave ourselves sexually; that is, monogamy with someone who is
monogamous with us.


Yes. But, atheism is all about that, y'know. Or, maybe you don't know
because theism has clouded you mind so much that you think that we
atheists are dirty heathens who would have sex at the drop of a hat.

Atheism is all about monogamy?
Wow. you learn something new every day.



Right now I see two very childish positions.


So do I. Theists telling suffering people that God is striking them down,
and you who believe you know what atheism is "all about".

The Theists are telling these suffering people whose culture and more's
have made the AIDS epidemic a pandemic that they are sick because God is
striking them down for being promiscuous and pagan or whatever evil thing
they can think of. (not, by any means, all theists, but there are some)


I agree.


And in response to this attitude, the atheists get their backs up and
completely ignore the medical facts;


What are these "medical facts" you speak of?

BECAUSE theists are telling people that they have to zip the pants,
atheists are saying that A: people are incapable of doing so and B:
shouldn't have to any way because (insert whine) it's NOT FAIR.


We've never said "A" nor "B".

Who is 'we'? Because there are a whole bunch of people who most certainly
do believe that, and atheists figure prominantly among 'em.


Well, it's not fair. These cultures have been around for millennia, doing
just fine with the sexual traditions they have. But now those cultural
more's and traditions are killing them. Not God. A disease that came from
an animal from their own continent. It's NOT fair. It simply is.


It simply is....what? I'm losing you here. Are you saying that we're
asking for a fair shake? Nope. We're asking you to keep your doctrine
intact and "pray in private".

Which has spit all to do with this topic. You aren't building a strawman
here, it's a straw palace. And it's because you can't argue the merits of
the specific question. Indeed, 'waffle' seems kind.



And condemning them all to death


Condemning all who to death?

because you are not about to admit that a theist could be right about
something,


Theists can be right about a lot of things... You're letting your hatred
for atheism cloud the facts. Atheists do not hate theists. We are not
bigoted against theists. In fact, we'd like religion to grow and
prosper... *IN THE CHURCH*, not in my life. We'd like religion to remain
in the Church. That is, religious law should not equal secular law. The
two should not mix.

Which has spit all to do with this specific question.


namely that it IS possible to change
lifestyles and be happy,


So, you're able to change your lifestyle, then, and be happy?

I've had to do that several times in my life. So have you. So has everybody
else.


and it IS possible to change sexual traditions and live,


So, you could become a homosexual and live?

Probably. What has who the partner is got to do with the facts of the
matter?

seems like a very pyrrhic victory to me.


Sorry, but who are we condemning to death again?

Those people who do not yet have AIDS, and who are being told that it is
impossible for them to refrain from the activity that spreads it. OR to
modify their behavior so that the sexual intercourse they do have is safe.
Not just condoms, but strict and careful monogamy.


Remember, we have AIDS here too, and it's growing much faster in the
heterosexual population than the homosexual one. Why? Because the gays
have figured it out.
And the 'straights' haven't.


Exactly. Theism (and mainly Christianity) tries to keep its adherents
blind to the facts by suggesting that even the thought of this is "impure"
and must be "purged" from your mind, because God or someone will make you
suffer otherwise.

And you are an expert on all theists?
Amazing that you can be so sarcastic with me, but consider that YOU can be
the expert on all theists. Even all Christians.

Are you going to tell your teenager that it's ok to go out and have sex
with all and sundry, because you know that it's impossible to do
otherwise, even when you KNOW that most of the new cases of HIV are
occurring in high school age kids?


We want to *TEACH* children the *FACTS*...That you should wait to have sex
until you're ready, but, if you're going to do it, take as much protection
as you can. Girls, stock up on diaphragms. Boys, stock up on condoms.
There is no shame in buying these products!

diaphragms will not prevent STD'S. Old condoms will not. Cheap condoms will
not. "natural" or "lambskin" condoms will not. Even the expensive ones WILL
break or slip off. Only abstinance is sure.

*THIS* is what we should be teaching the young'ins today. That, if you're
going to do it, take protection. You wouldn't tell your kid to drive
without his seat-belt fastened. Don't let your kid dive into polygamous
sex unless your raincoat is securely applied.

To shut your eyes to the fact that teenagers are going to have sex is to
shut your eyes to the truth. Tell your kids to take protection.

Of course. But FIRST and foremost, teach them that it is dangerous. And
stupid. And not all teenagers are stupid enough to have sex. While I cannot,
of course, be certain that mine did not, I am fairly sure of that. I waited
for the wedding. It's quite possible. Nobody out there is pulling puppet
strings, y'know.
.
User: "Elroy Willis"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 22 Apr 2005 03:20:56 PM
"DianaC" <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

And I've seen the sex-education that is offered here. My kids went through
it, I went through it, and quite frankly, most of the time it's a 'how to'
course, with very little 'why not' in it. the thing is, the ONE thing that
will most completely gaurantee safety in STD's is given a bare passing
mention, if it is touched on at all; abstinance and monogamy.

Don't mormons teach that masturbation is wrong as well?
--
Elroy Willis
www.elroysemporium.com
.
User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 22 Apr 2005 08:51:21 PM
"Elroy Willis" <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message
news:f2ni61520g7nads6banj7oe13jkg2jeoko@4ax.com...

"DianaC" <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

And I've seen the sex-education that is offered here. My kids went
through
it, I went through it, and quite frankly, most of the time it's a 'how
to'
course, with very little 'why not' in it. the thing is, the ONE thing
that
will most completely gaurantee safety in STD's is given a bare passing
mention, if it is touched on at all; abstinance and monogamy.


Don't mormons teach that masturbation is wrong as well?

Yes. And this has what to do with anything?
.
User: "Elroy Willis"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 22 Apr 2005 09:07:09 PM
DianaC <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

Elroy Willis <elroywillis@swbell.net> wrote in message

"DianaC" <dianaiad@vernoyoudontizon.net> wrote in alt.atheism

And I've seen the sex-education that is offered here. My kids went
through it, I went through it, and quite frankly, most of the time it's
a 'how to' course, with very little 'why not' in it. the thing is, the ONE thing
that will most completely gaurantee safety in STD's is given a bare passing
mention, if it is touched on at all; abstinance and monogamy.

Don't mormons teach that masturbation is wrong as well?

Yes. And this has what to do with anything?

It leads to complete frustration on the part of young people who are
told to abstain from sex before marriage. They can't have sex and
they can't masturbate, so it seems that they have no way to get rid of
their sexual desires at all. What's left, wet dreams?
--
Elroy Willis
www.elroysemporium.com
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User: "Del"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 23 Apr 2005 05:33:16 PM
DianaC wrote:

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DianaC wrote:

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DianaC wrote:


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Then ask yourself why they keep having sex, specifically

underprotected

sex.



Because the situation isn't being dealt with right. IT's not

being dealt

with in a clear, uncomp romising manner. This isn't about culture

or

morals or religion. It's about a disease that's killing people

and

leaving orphans, and nobody wants to tell those who are

suffering, or

who are in danger, the bare, inarguable facts.


Why do you think that is?



Because the theists want to make it about God, and so do YOU GUYS.


Sorry, but no. We want to teach children the bare inarguable

facts, but

we're called dirty sex-crazed heathens. When we try to get the

schools to

teach sex education, there are complaints from theists (85% of

America).

This kind of thing is hard to break down, but we're doing it,

slowly but

surely. We 15% can only do so much.


Sorry, but yes...and we are talking about Africa and this

overwhelming

reaction of 'well, you can't teach 'em anything, they are going to

have sex

with all and sundry anyway, and how dare the theists claim that

things could

be different?"

Oh, my goodness! Why don't you respond to
what is actually said instead of making up a self-serving
straw man to pummel? Well, I guess it is obvious why
you don't. Anyway it is interesting that you would suggest
a solution--abstinence--that hasn't exactly been
successfully realized in your own church. So why are
there unmarried Mormons who fail to practice abstinence? How
many unwed pregnancies are there among the mormons
every year? How hard can abstinence be? Supposedly you
are taught it in church and yet sexual immorality is alive
and well among the LDS. Church founder Joseph Smith
and his successor both had rather large sexual appetites
that they fed with teenage girls that they "married." But
I guess you probably knew that. And how about that
rascal Hugh Nibley, screwing his daughter all those
years? I guess that's one way to avoid AIDS. But it
isn't abstinence--is it.


And I've seen the sex-education that is offered here. My kids went

through

it, I went through it, and quite frankly, most of the time it's a

'how to'

course, with very little 'why not' in it.

Obviously you and your daughter weren't getting
credible "why not" messages in either your home
life or in the church so of course you think it is
up to a health class to teach you morals. Makes
perfect sense.
the thing is, the ONE thing that

will most completely gaurantee safety in STD's is given a bare

passing

mention, if it is touched on at all; abstinance and monogamy.

Well you aren't exactly an unbiased or candid witness so
you will excuse me if I remain skeptical of what you
claim is given a bare passing mention.


My kids knew 'the facts of life' as soon as they started asking

questions.
Interesting that the "how to" instructions become "the
facts of life" when it is you who offer it. But that's what
happens when all you have is slanted language to make
your dubious points.
I

taught them. By the time sex ed in schools came around, they already

knew

about what went where, the reasons why it's a good thing, and the

reasons

why waiting is more effective, if the idea is to prevent STD's. Every

single

one of them have told me that the programs in their schools

emphasized

condom use...and gave implicit consent to the kids to go out and have

sex.
Sure thing. We'll just take your word for it.

It's not a matter of "teaching about condoms encourages sexual

behavior".

It's a matter of the way it is presented; it's presented in a sort of

'well,

humans are slaves to their instincts, and OF COURSE you will fool

around,

and since you are going to anyway, here's how to put a condom on a
cucumber".

There you go with the goofy straw man fallacy
again. Do you really think your obvious and self
serving distortions are credible? Well I'm sure
falsely putting quote marks around it will help in
convincing the IQ challenged, at least.


When I see a school program that leaves the 'we give up' attitude

out, and

simply present the subject in terms of effectiveness in preventing

STD's,

then I'll feel better about it. So far, though, I haven't.


The theists want to condemn the ill to hell, and you guys want to

rebel

against the simple facts;


And what are the "simple facts," being that you know us so well?


What, you are the expert on all theists, and I can't be an expert

on all

atheists in return?

Nice dodge. Notice, dear readers, no answer to the
question.

What is this double standard of yours, anyway?

I see. You base your behavior on what you allege
is atheist behavior. That's your yardstick. Is that
what you teach your kids? If someone else does it,
it is ok for them to do it too? Or if they are caught
doing something, accuse the other guy of being
just as guilty as they are? That will get them out
of it. Nice ethics you got there, sweetie.

But the fact, the medical and scientific fact is, abstinance and

monogomy

are the only real preventatives against STD'S that work.

Against pregnancy too. If abstinance and monogomy
work this well and is so easy to do why haven't you
mormons beat that teen pregnancy and general moral
perversion thing? What were you saying about
"double standards?"

This has nothing at
all to do with theism, and everything to do with public health. If it

were

anything BUT an STD, there would be no argument about what to do with
someone who has a contagious and terminal illness; you quarantine the
patient, he alters his lifestyle in such a way as to reduce or

eliminate his

danger to others.

But you get a chance to yell at theists, and all reason goes out the

window.
I have to giggle whenever theists go out of their way to
post in an atheist newsgroup, insult the people there,
and then whine about being yelled at. Why do so
many Christians think that not being accorded special
treatment is persecution?

y'all think that humans have some inalienable right to screw up

and screw

around without consequences.

You really get a lot of use out of the straw man
fallacy, don't you?


We do?! Wow. New one on me. Hey, guys, Diana thinks that we like
screwing up without consequences! *guffaw*


Well, yeah. If you didn't, you wouldn't be so horrified at the idea

that

people CAN stick to one partner, or even not have sex and still be

happy.
And she does it again. I guess you don't quite
understand that when you rely on the straw man
fallacy you are admitting that you can't deal
with the actual arguments or positions of your
correspondents. You feel it is necessary to distort
or exaggerate those positions so that you are
able to attack them. Certainly if you didn't feel
you had to do this you wouldn't be doing it.


The problem is, you don't want to admit that even if the reasoning

and

judgmental attitudes of the theists may be hard to take in this

case,

what they are saying is true; if we want to eliminate AIDS, we

have to

behave ourselves sexually;

If it is so easy why have you Mormons failed to do
it yourselves? Mormons are great at preaching
"don't do as I do, do as I say." Didn't Jesus says
something about taking the log out of your own
eye first? Or maybe you haven't gotten that far
into the Bible yet.
[...]

And in response to this attitude, the atheists get their backs up

and

completely ignore the medical facts;


What are these "medical facts" you speak of?

Oops! I guess you "overlooked" this question.
How convenient for you! I bet you practice
monogamy just like you practice honesty.


BECAUSE theists are telling people that they have to zip the

pants,

atheists are saying that A: people are incapable of doing so and

B:

shouldn't have to any way because (insert whine) it's NOT FAIR.


We've never said "A" nor "B".


Who is 'we'? Because there are a whole bunch of people who most

certainly

do believe that, and atheists figure prominantly among 'em.

But you just don't have a quote handy at the moment;
or your dog ate it; or your little sister spilled milk
on it, right? We'll just take your word that your
accusation--that atheists whine that it's NOT FAIR--
is true because you are such an honest and objective
witness who would never dream of distorting the
truth or outright lying about it.

Well, it's not fair. These cultures have been around for

millennia, doing

just fine with the sexual traditions they have. But now those

cultural

more's and traditions are killing them. Not God.

No, God is just responsible for their faulty human
nature and for the existence of AIDS. That's all.

A disease that came from
an animal from their own continent. It's NOT fair. It simply is.

Wow, look who is whining that it isn't fair. Irony
most amusing.
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User: "DianaC"

Title: Re: But *i'm* the bad person 23 Apr 2005 06:13:12 PM
"Del" <jfacts@earthlink.net> wrote in message
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<snip to>

Sorry, but yes...and we are talking about Africa and this

overwhelming

reaction of 'well, you can't teach 'em anything, they are going to

have sex

with all and sundry anyway, and how dare the theists claim that

things could

be different?"


Oh, my goodness! Why don't you respond to
what is actually said instead of making up a self-serving
straw man to pummel?

And what is the strawman here? Isn't the point being made that A: the Pope
says abstinance is the answer, and everyone is coming down on that position
because it's impossible to BE so?

Well, I guess it is obvious why
you don't. Anyway it is interesting that you would suggest
a solution--abstinence--that hasn't exactly been
successfully realized in your own church. So why are
there unmarried Mormons who fail to practice abstinence?

Because some people are irresponsible, and being Mormon is not a gaurantee
that one will not be. This does not mean that the scientific facts will
change, does it?

How
many unwed pregnancies are there among the mormons
every year?

Not as many as among other populations. by a very long shot. For instance,
the rate of STD's in Utah is less than 1/10 the national average. The out of
wedlock birth rate is one third that of the national average, abortion is
less than half that of the nation.

How hard can abstinence be?

I managed.

Supposedly you
are taught it in church and yet sexual immorality is alive
and well among the LDS. Church founder Joseph Smith
and his successor both had rather large sexual appetites
that they fed with teenage girls that they "married." But
I guess you probably knew that. And how about that
rascal Hugh Nibley, screwing his daughter all those
years? I guess that's one way to avoid AIDS. But it
isn't abstinence--is it.

Except of course that your charges against Joseph Smith are biased, and as
to Hugh Nibley, how convenient for you to ignore the fact that THIS daughter
is the only one of his children to so charge him, that she has a history of
mental illness, and that when any fair observer looks at the situation, the
first thing that comes to mind is 'false memories', not 'oh, of course, he
did it', when there is no, repeat NO other evidence to support her charges.
My aunt and uncle have a daughter my age (almost exactly) who is doing the
same thing to them. Unfortunately, she is telling stories about how her
father molested her on occasions when *I* absolutely know that he did not.
But how convenient for you to assume that the man is guilty; how convenient
it was for her to make these charges a week or so before he died, so that
nobody can contradict her. Except of course for all her siblings, her
mother, everyone who knows her....
Oh, I believe SHE believes it. But the kids at the McMartin preschool
believed their stories, too. So did the girls in Salem. The facts just do
not support her allegations. >

And I've seen the sex-education that is offered here. My kids went

through

it, I went through it, and quite frankly, most of the time it's a

'how to'

course, with very little 'why not' in it.


Obviously you and your daughter weren't getting
credible "why not" messages in either your home
life or in the church so of course you think it is
up to a health class to teach you morals. Makes
perfect sense.

It's not up to them to teach morals. But it IS up to them to teach science
and not weasel out. The facts are, no condom use is going to keep you as
safe as abstinence. In any other health topic, say diabetes, the emphasis is
upon the BEST way to deal with it, whether the patient wants to stay away
from chocolate cake or not. This is the same thing. The most effective
preventive medicine for STD'S is abstinance, then monogamy with someone who
is monogamous with you. This has NOTHING to do with religion or ethics or
morals.
Yet you are the one bringing them into the conversation.


the thing is, the ONE thing that

will most completely gaurantee safety in STD's is given a bare

passing

mention, if it is touched on at all; abstinance and monogamy.


Well you aren't exactly an unbiased or candid witness so
you will excuse me if I remain skeptical of what you
claim is given a bare passing mention.

Actually, I'm more unbiased and candid than you are, by a considerable
amount. I'm not talking about sending people to hell, or calling them evil
for being promiscuous; that is between them and their own ethical system.
This has nothing at all to do with sheer medical fact. If you are a
diabetic, and you do not control your eating, you will die. IT's not fair.
Everybody should be able to eat chocolate cake when the urge strikes, and
that some can....and others can't may be seen to be fundamentally unjust.
(shrug) tough...fair or not, diabetics must regulate their food intake and
monitor their blood sugar levels and take insulin when they need it, or they
will lose limbs, go blind, or die. There is nothing forgiving about beta
cells. And there is nothing forgiving about HIV, either. Viruses don't care
whether you think it's fair or if people should be able to sleep around if
they want to. They do what they do, and what they do is replicate
themselves.



My kids knew 'the facts of life' as soon as they started asking

questions.

Interesting that the "how to" instructions become "the
facts of life" when it is you who offer it. But that's what
happens when all you have is slanted language to make
your dubious points.

This is what happens when you parse things too strictly. "The facts of life"
in quotes, covers the whole thing, is indicative of both how to, when to and
why not, and does so in four words. As a sign/symbol of what we are talking
about, it works great. You are nit picking and it ill becomes you