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"Eden" |
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10 Mar 2006 12:07:07 AM |
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Five Pro-Abortion Dodges - Part I |
By Todd M. Aglialoro
Crisis
http://www.crisismagazine.com/april2004/aglialoro.htm
In that passage from Orthodoxy so familiar that it is
almost now cliché, G. K. Chesterton wrote that there
are a thousand angles at which a man may fall but only
one at which he stands. By this he argued for the
unique, enduring character of orthodox Church doctrine,
of the one, true, upstanding strand of Right Teaching.
Though the same tired heresies may reappear to contest
it—mutated, renamed, warmed-over—the old, wild truth
remains standing, "reeling but erect."
This well-worn lesson takes on a new freshness, I
think, when applied to the culture war. The wild truths
that inform Christian ethics—our insistence on a moral
universe, on a real human nature with its own
teleology, on the transcendent significance of human
acts and human relationships—also reel but remain erect
in the face of perennial challenges. We are not gods.
Moral truth is something we discover, not invent. From
the Garden of Eden to the Supreme Court of the United
States, we have fought the same battle under different
banners.
In what is probably the modern culture battle par
excellence, the fight against abortion, we see
displayed with perfect clarity the principle of a
single upright truth (that directly killing an unborn
child is an evil and a crime) being contested by a
rotation of errors; taking turns or working in tandem,
passing in and out of fashion, each seizing upon the
vocabulary, events, and moods of the cultural moment
until the next comes along to supplant it.
In some cases cultural developments render one of them
obsolete. In the years shortly after Roe v. Wade,
abortion debates inevitably featured three words the
pro-abortion side considered a trump card: "blob of
tissue." This factually empty but sound-bite–perfect
catchphrase made a great impact with its implication
that the fetus was roughly equivalent to a ball of
snot. Which put abortion about on par with picking your
nose: bad form, a messy affair that ought to be kept
private, but nothing to get overly excited about.
Of course, advances in the study of human embryology,
most notably the window to the womb afforded by the
sonogram, all but pulled the teeth from the "blob of
tissue" canard. The 1980 film The Silent Scream, an
ultrasound depiction of an abortion at eleven weeks,
provided a chilling, graphic look at abortion's inner
workings. And today, expectant mothers keep pictures
of their "blobs of tissue" on the refrigerator. They
make copies and stuff them into Christmas cards.
So that particular line was no longer viable. But it
wouldn't be the last. More would follow, and we who are
engaged in the culture have surely heard most of them.
However, even for those who have heard them all, I
think it can be valuable to gather them up and define
them; to identify their originators, exemplars, and
champions; to understand their appeal; and to consider
how to counter them. Let us now look, then, at five (a
nice number, though by no means exhaustive) of
history's most insidious pro-abortion arguments.
1. 'Don't Say the "A" word': NARAL
Names are important to propagandists. One could hardly
imagine, for example, Planned Parenthood enjoying the
status it does had it not in 1942 dropped "American
Birth Control League" in favor of its current
benevolent-sounding moniker. What if Greenpeace had
instead called itself "Vegan Freaks Against Ambergris"?
Would society still look on that organization in the
indulgently tolerant way it does today? Would Bono
still play its benefit concerts? There are some things
we are just never meant to know.
Early last year, in a calculated PR move, the National
Abortion Rights Action League (NARAL) changed its name
to NARAL Pro-Choice America. Amazingly, the new name is
even more cumbersome than the old. "NARAL" juts out at
the front like "Nokia" before "Sugar Bowl." But this
name change was not about streamlining signage and
business cards. It was an attempt to deflect notice
from the singular object of NARAL's 30-plus years of
existence—unlimited access to abortion-on-demand—and
toward broader, more high-minded, and less gruesome
concepts of gender equality and personal
self-determination. The change was timed to coincide
with a multimillion-dollar ad campaign depicting the
new-and-improved NARAL not so much as an advocate of
"abortion rights" as a defender of women's suffrage,
satellite TV, and 31 Flavors.
Semantic games have always been part of the battle, of
course. No one—no one, mind you—is "pro-abortion."
Folks are "pro-choice," "pro–reproductive rights," or,
slightly more courageously, "pro–abortion rights." In
each case, even the last, the emphasis is steered away
from the repugnant reality of abortion itself—a sure
loser in focus groups time and time again. Whenever we
debate abortion or write a letter to the editor, we
engage in a struggle for the linguistic high ground.
But NARAL's gambit takes things to a new level. By all
accounts, abortion's popularity is waning steadily.
Recent polls show high school and college students
reporting pro-life leanings in growing numbers. The
pro-life side's rare propaganda advantage in the
partial-birth abortion debate has riveted public
attention with clinically graphic descriptions of the
violence abortion inflicts on the unborn.
Clearly, the long-term survival strategy, from NARAL's
perspective, is to make the abortion debate about
anything but abortion.
It can be wearying sometimes, but the counter-strategy
is continually to return the debate to where it
belongs: the humanity of the unborn child and his right
to life. It may also be effective to ask just why
abortion is so repugnant to so many.
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| User: "Alberich" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 03:09:33 PM |
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On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:30:24 +0000 (UTC), "kathryn" <nospam@here.com>
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On 10 Mar 2006 10:03:24 -0800, "Frank O'Dwyer" <batsignal1@gmail.com>
wrote:
Alberich wrote:
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 08:57:50 -0600, Don Kresch
<ROT13.qxerfpu@jv.ee.pbz.com> wrote:
In alt.atheism On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 06:07:07 GMT, Eden
<banmilk@hotmail.com> let us all know that:
Why does the fetus have rights, and the woman has none?
No anti-choicer ever answers that. They always run away. They never
want to deal with the fact that their line of thought makes a slave
of
the woman--a mere vessel without rights which must carry the fetus
no
matter what.
There are several possible answers to that question. Take as a
group,
they make a poweful argument, even if one that doesn't appeal to or
convince all of its opponents:
(1) The woman has, in most instances, already *made* her choice.
Assuming your conclusion. Namely, that the choice to have an abortion
is not a legitimate choice and should be off the table.
No, my conclusion is that to become pregnant, the woman must have
engaged in sexual intercourse.
By analogy, when you get in a car and don't use your safety belt, or
it
is faulty, then when you fly through the windscreen you should be left
at the side of the road to bleed to death. You already made your
choice. You chose to fly through the windscreen and bleed to death.
And yes, attending to you will result in the deaths of others. Send
the
ambulance elsewhere to those more needy cases. Or, if there are enough
ambulances, don't fund those extra ambulances at all, spend that money
on more deserving cases. Let you die and use your organs to save the
lives of more responsible people. And so on.
She
made the choice to have sexual intercourse. She made the choice to
use or to not use artificial methods of contraception. She made the
use to employ natural methods of contraception, such as NFP (note,
this is far different than the (far less reliable) "rythym method").
And the zygote went ahead and implanted anyway despite her reasonable
precautions.
It is quite a leap to get from there to consent to pregnancy.
Far and away, the overwhelming majority of women who conceive were not
using birth control of one sort or another. (Or, to be more precise,
the *couple* wasn't using birth control of one sort or another.)
(1a) The fetus has had no opportunity yet to make a choice or, in
this
case, to have a choice made for it. (And before the canard that if
the fetus cannot make a choice, it doesn't deserve one gets tossed
out, remember that neither can a two-month-old make a choice as to
its
own preservation, either.) To deprive the fetus of its chance to
choose life, therefore, is to subjugate the fetus's rights to the
woman's.
No it is not. First it is far from clear that the fetus has any
rights.
If it should have the rights of a person then it is far from clear
that
people have a "right to life". Certainly no person has the right to
demand the use of someone else's body and do them harm.
First, you are arguing the conclusion--that there can be no reason to
disallow abortion. Second, it is far from normal to consider
pregnancy as "doing harm" to the woman.
eh?
You mean aside from the risk to life - pre eclampsia, loss of blood,
problems with caesarians - and then all the post op issues, post natal
depression ranging from so called baby blues to full blown psychosis,
potential loss of bladder control, loss of sensation, if you get
stitches
they can do they too tightly, blocked milk ducts. Your body is *never*
the
same again.
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said the "risk" to life.
Sure, there is a risk to the life of the woman. Do you happen to have
statistics of how many women die from pregnancy or childbirth? I
understand it to be rather low, at least in the United States.
Compare that to the number of fetuses killed during an abortion. The
percentage there is much higher--100%. All of I have said is that
when weighing rights of fetus versus rights of woman, the relative
risk of harm must be taken into account. In once case, the relative
risk is rather low, in the other, the relative risk is an assured
100%. And I don't believe that there is a single pro-lifer out there
who, when faced with a situation in which a woman is actually dying
from pregnancy, would not act to save the woman's life. Even the
Catholic Church teaches that to act in a manner and intent to save the
life of a woman, even if inadvertently causing an abortion, is not
sinful.
Alberich
You'd be wrong, there are a few pro-lifers who believe that abortion is
never acceptable regardless of the circumstances.
No, they still wouldn't find abortion to be acceptable, but they
*would* find saving the life to be acceptable, a la the Law of Double
Effect.
Nope. if they both die it's gods will. Rather quite disturbing
You're right. And they (I hope it's safe to say) are far outside the
mainstream, and can even barely see the fringes...
Besides even if the actual risk to life is low - there are plenty of other
serious problems that arise through pregnancy and birth. If that pregnancy
wasn't even wanted in the first place I can only imagine how detrimental
that would be to someones mental health.
I hate to sound like a fundamentalist Christian (which I'm not), but
in that case, the majority of women seeking abortions should have made
the choice to remain celibate. In law, if you intend an act with full
awareness of the possibile outcomes of that act, you can be said to
intend that act. So if a woman engages in sexual intercourse knowing
that there is a risk of pregnancy, I certainly sympathize with her
situation, but I think she should take responsibilty for her actions.
And what about the father?
Ditto.
Alberich
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 05:48:22 PM |
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On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
[snip]
| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
What about the man's responsibility?
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| User: "Alberich" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 05:57:58 PM |
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On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
wrote:
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
[snip]
| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
What about the man's responsibility?
I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
responsibility as well.
Alberich
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| User: "DanielSan" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 11:21:33 PM |
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Alberich wrote:
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
wrote:
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
[snip]
| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
What about the man's responsibility?
I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
responsibility as well.
The man has as much responsibility for what comes out of his body as the
woman does her's. ;-)
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 08:02:21 PM |
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On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >[snip]
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| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >
| >What about the man's responsibility?
|
| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| responsibility as well.
"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
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| User: "Alberich" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 09:22:11 PM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
wrote:
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >[snip]
| >
| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >
| >What about the man's responsibility?
|
| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| responsibility as well.
"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
Does it make you feel good to restate what I just said?
Alberich
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| User: "Jeff North" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 12:42:14 AM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 03:22:11 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<4dg412532r7n0ai0cl4d6vcfr4fa35383q@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| wrote:
| >>|
| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >
| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >
| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>|
| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| responsibility as well.
| >
| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
|
| Does it make you feel good to restate what I just said?
Main Entry: will·ing
Pronunciation: 'wi-li[ng]
Function: adjective
1 : inclined or favorably disposed in mind : READY
2 : prompt to act or respond
3 : done, borne, or accepted by choice or without reluctance
4 : of or relating to the will or power of choosing
Note 3: 'accepted by choice'. He is responsible, no choice in the
matter, full stop.
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| User: "Alberich" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 12:24:05 PM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 06:42:14 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
wrote:
On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 03:22:11 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<4dg412532r7n0ai0cl4d6vcfr4fa35383q@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| wrote:
| >>|
| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >
| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >
| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>|
| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| responsibility as well.
| >
| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
|
| Does it make you feel good to restate what I just said?
Main Entry: will·ing
Pronunciation: 'wi-li[ng]
Function: adjective
1 : inclined or favorably disposed in mind : READY
2 : prompt to act or respond
3 : done, borne, or accepted by choice or without reluctance
4 : of or relating to the will or power of choosing
Note 3: 'accepted by choice'. He is responsible, no choice in the
matter, full stop.
Okay, fine, let me rephrase: "I think I already answered this, but
yes--he should be willing --prior to engaging in sexual activity-- to
take responsibility --for any natural consequences thereof-- as well."
I thought that was clear.
Alberich
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| User: "Jeff North" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 02:53:02 PM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 18:24:05 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<855612tlrn37f74qhmot4na1lf5mg8p45s@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 06:42:14 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 03:22:11 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><4dg412532r7n0ai0cl4d6vcfr4fa35383q@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| wrote:
| >>|
| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| >>| wrote:
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| >>| responsibility as well.
| >>| >
| >>| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >>| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >>| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
| >>|
| >>| Does it make you feel good to restate what I just said?
| >
| >Main Entry: will·ing
| >Pronunciation: 'wi-li[ng]
| >Function: adjective
| >1 : inclined or favorably disposed in mind : READY
| >2 : prompt to act or respond
| >3 : done, borne, or accepted by choice or without reluctance
| >4 : of or relating to the will or power of choosing
| >
| >Note 3: 'accepted by choice'. He is responsible, no choice in the
| >matter, full stop.
|
| Okay, fine, let me rephrase: "I think I already answered this, but
| yes--he should be willing --prior to engaging in sexual activity-- to
| take responsibility --for any natural consequences thereof-- as well."
| I thought that was clear.
No!!!! There is no 'acceptance by choice' in the matter.
He is *equally* responsible for the pregnancy, full stop.
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| User: "Alberich" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 03:10:55 PM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 20:53:02 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
wrote:
On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 18:24:05 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<855612tlrn37f74qhmot4na1lf5mg8p45s@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 06:42:14 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 03:22:11 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><4dg412532r7n0ai0cl4d6vcfr4fa35383q@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| wrote:
| >>|
| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| >>| wrote:
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| >>| responsibility as well.
| >>| >
| >>| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >>| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >>| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
| >>|
| >>| Does it make you feel good to restate what I just said?
| >
| >Main Entry: will·ing
| >Pronunciation: 'wi-li[ng]
| >Function: adjective
| >1 : inclined or favorably disposed in mind : READY
| >2 : prompt to act or respond
| >3 : done, borne, or accepted by choice or without reluctance
| >4 : of or relating to the will or power of choosing
| >
| >Note 3: 'accepted by choice'. He is responsible, no choice in the
| >matter, full stop.
|
| Okay, fine, let me rephrase: "I think I already answered this, but
| yes--he should be willing --prior to engaging in sexual activity-- to
| take responsibility --for any natural consequences thereof-- as well."
| I thought that was clear.
No!!!! There is no 'acceptance by choice' in the matter.
He is *equally* responsible for the pregnancy, full stop.
That's what I'm saying!
Alberich
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| User: "Jeff North" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 03:48:24 PM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 21:10:55 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<0me612lnl1apu4fbun3ufacseopdih6obq@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 20:53:02 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 18:24:05 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><855612tlrn37f74qhmot4na1lf5mg8p45s@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 06:42:14 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| wrote:
| >>|
| >>| >On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 03:22:11 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><4dg412532r7n0ai0cl4d6vcfr4fa35383q@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >>| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| >>| wrote:
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| >>| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| >>| >>| wrote:
| >>| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >>| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| >>| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| >>| >>| responsibility as well.
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >>| >>| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >>| >>| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| Does it make you feel good to restate what I just said?
| >>| >
| >>| >Main Entry: will·ing
| >>| >Pronunciation: 'wi-li[ng]
| >>| >Function: adjective
| >>| >1 : inclined or favorably disposed in mind : READY
| >>| >2 : prompt to act or respond
| >>| >3 : done, borne, or accepted by choice or without reluctance
| >>| >4 : of or relating to the will or power of choosing
| >>| >
| >>| >Note 3: 'accepted by choice'. He is responsible, no choice in the
| >>| >matter, full stop.
| >>|
| >>| Okay, fine, let me rephrase: "I think I already answered this, but
| >>| yes--he should be willing --prior to engaging in sexual activity-- to
| >>| take responsibility --for any natural consequences thereof-- as well."
| >>| I thought that was clear.
| >
| >No!!!! There is no 'acceptance by choice' in the matter.
| >He is *equally* responsible for the pregnancy, full stop.
|
| That's what I'm saying!
Good, I'm glad we cleared that up.
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| User: "Bonnie Bitch" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 02:41:48 AM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, the faaaaabulous supreme deity
Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli, Ruler of the heavens and host of fab parties,
opened the heavens and shone his light upon the wisdom of Jeff North
<jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >[snip]
| >
| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >
| >What about the man's responsibility?
|
| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| responsibility as well.
"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
FREE CLUE: Allie is a Catholic, so THE PENIS (bow thrice to the west)
is SACRED and HOLY. It can do no wrong.
The ingrained misogyny in KKKatholicism permeates every word one of
those christstain fucktards writes. And most of the time, they're too
damn stupid to see it.
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| User: "Alberich" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 12:20:27 PM |
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On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 00:41:48 -0800, Bonnie *****
<bonnieb@fifismaxi.pad> wrote:
On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, the faaaaabulous supreme deity
Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli, Ruler of the heavens and host of fab parties,
opened the heavens and shone his light upon the wisdom of Jeff North
<jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
<0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| wrote:
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >[snip]
| >
| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >
| >What about the man's responsibility?
|
| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| responsibility as well.
"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
FREE CLUE: Allie is a Catholic, so THE PENIS (bow thrice to the west)
is SACRED and HOLY. It can do no wrong.
The ingrained misogyny in KKKatholicism permeates every word one of
those christstain fucktards writes. And most of the time, they're too
damn stupid to see it.
FREE CLUE: I have argued this entire time without, I believe, once
referring to Catholic teaching or the Bible. Now have I referenced
God, nor called anyone that was pro-choice a Godless heathen.
I know that it is a favorite tactic of many groups (including the
militant pro-choice) to confound the Catholic Church with their
opponents in the eyes of all spectators, hoping that will make the
opposition look like a bunch of luddite thugs bent on objectifying
women and keeping the hoi polloi in line with wafers and wine. So
when I hear this (and this is a charitable assessment) idiot playing
the religion card, I can only guess that I'm making at least one
decent argument in there somewhere.
Alberich
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| User: "Jeff North" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 02:55:57 PM |
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|
On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 00:41:48 -0800, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Bonnie ***** <bonnieb@fifismaxi.pad>
<3635129rvq9o7tk0lfr6lp24kdfcprd3gg@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, the faaaaabulous supreme deity
| Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli, Ruler of the heavens and host of fab parties,
| opened the heavens and shone his light upon the wisdom of Jeff North
| <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| wrote:
| >>|
| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >
| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >
| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>|
| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| responsibility as well.
| >
| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
|
| FREE CLUE: Allie is a Catholic, so THE PENIS (bow thrice to the west)
| is SACRED and HOLY. It can do no wrong.
| The ingrained misogyny in KKKatholicism permeates every word one of
| those christstain fucktards writes. And most of the time, they're too
| damn stupid to see it.
Bonnie, let's be fair here. It's the thinking of the average
red-blooded heterosexual male. They can ***** whoever they want and
walk away from the consequences. But it's the womans fault if she gets
pregnant to such a creep.
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| User: "Bonnie Bitch" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 09:54:12 PM |
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|
On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 20:55:57 GMT, the faaaaabulous supreme deity
Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli, Ruler of the heavens and host of fab parties,
opened the heavens and shone his light upon the wisdom of Jeff North
<jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 00:41:48 -0800, in alt.politics.homosexuality
Bonnie ***** <bonnieb@fifismaxi.pad>
<3635129rvq9o7tk0lfr6lp24kdfcprd3gg@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, the faaaaabulous supreme deity
| Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli, Ruler of the heavens and host of fab parties,
| opened the heavens and shone his light upon the wisdom of Jeff North
| <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
|
| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| wrote:
| >>|
| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >
| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >
| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>|
| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| responsibility as well.
| >
| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
|
| FREE CLUE: Allie is a Catholic, so THE PENIS (bow thrice to the west)
| is SACRED and HOLY. It can do no wrong.
| The ingrained misogyny in KKKatholicism permeates every word one of
| those christstain fucktards writes. And most of the time, they're too
| damn stupid to see it.
Bonnie, let's be fair here.
Ok -- the OP is a lying sack of christstain ***** who can't pull his
head off his bishop's schlong long enough to even acknowledge reality.
He gets pissy when his a priori ASSumptions are even mildly
questioned, and he whines like a baby zebra when any "fair, adult
discussion" doesn't include a mention of his a priori ASSumptions
being right (which they're not).
The OP also blindly supports his cult's decision to retain
child-raping clerics on its payroll.
Fair enough? Good.
It's the thinking of the average
red-blooded heterosexual male. They can ***** whoever they want and
walk away from the consequences. But it's the womans fault if she gets
pregnant to such a creep.
And the KKKatholics invented that, IMO. <g>
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| User: "Jeff North" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
11 Mar 2006 10:21:02 PM |
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Bonnie ***** <bonnieb@fifismaxi.pad>
<gi6712ld3acf03pueuiu0f07uvfjqigk9e@4ax.com> wrote:
| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 20:55:57 GMT, the faaaaabulous supreme deity
| Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli, Ruler of the heavens and host of fab parties,
| opened the heavens and shone his light upon the wisdom of Jeff North
| <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
|
| >On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 00:41:48 -0800, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >Bonnie ***** <bonnieb@fifismaxi.pad>
| ><3635129rvq9o7tk0lfr6lp24kdfcprd3gg@4ax.com> wrote:
| >
| >>| On Sat, 11 Mar 2006 02:02:21 GMT, the faaaaabulous supreme deity
| >>| Tlahuizcalpantecuhtli, Ruler of the heavens and host of fab parties,
| >>| opened the heavens and shone his light upon the wisdom of Jeff North
| >>| <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>|
| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:57:58 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| ><0h4412lp7clpepc47d249fgm8ammgag5i4@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >
| >>| >>| On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 23:48:22 GMT, Jeff North <jnorthau@yahoo.com.au>
| >>| >>| wrote:
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| >On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:21:39 GMT, in alt.politics.homosexuality
| >>| >>| >Alberich <Alberich@NoSpam.com>
| >>| >>| ><klm3121721eh2l9jg17chhdhds8kn2nea8@4ax.com> wrote:
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >[snip]
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >>| So yes, I am all in favor of the woman's choice: The woman has (and
| >>| >>| >>| should always have) the right to not engage in sexual activity if she
| >>| >>| >>| is not prepared to accept responsibility for that activity.
| >>| >>| >
| >>| >>| >What about the man's responsibility?
| >>| >>|
| >>| >>| I think I already answered this, but yes--he should be willing to take
| >>| >>| responsibility as well.
| >>| >
| >>| >"he should be willing"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| >>| >It is as much his 'fault' as the woman's.
| >>| >He doesn't have the option of willing to accept his responsibility.
| >>|
| >>| FREE CLUE: Allie is a Catholic, so THE PENIS (bow thrice to the west)
| >>| is SACRED and HOLY. It can do no wrong.
| >>| The ingrained misogyny in KKKatholicism permeates every word one of
| >>| those christstain fucktards writes. And most of the time, they're too
| >>| damn stupid to see it.
| >
| >Bonnie, let's be fair here.
|
| Ok -- the OP is a lying sack of christstain ***** who can't pull his
| head off his bishop's schlong long enough to even acknowledge reality.
| He gets pissy when his a priori ASSumptions are even mildly
| questioned, and he whines like a baby zebra when any "fair, adult
| discussion" doesn't include a mention of his a priori ASSumptions
| being right (which they're not).
| The OP also blindly supports his cult's decision to retain
| child-raping clerics on its payroll.
|
| Fair enough? Good.
|
| >It's the thinking of the average
| >red-blooded heterosexual male. They can ***** whoever they want and
| >walk away from the consequences. But it's the womans fault if she gets
| >pregnant to such a creep.
|
| And the KKKatholics invented that, IMO. <g>
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16 Mar 2006 09:24:30 PM |
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People killers: Some Women (and some men) who kill !
First let me ask you what is a half-truth ? There are seven different
kinds, and no they are not merely half-true, some are totally true, yet
deceptive lies; not in your books yet !
There is a term that refers to social psychopaths...very intellegent,
and very destructive.
For decades North America has been brainwashed to believe the corrupt
hidden killer-people agenda of cults, including one that deceived the
world; cult feminism.
A deceptive cult that used half-truths and half-truth logic to polarize
the sexes, attack the family and kill children, unborn healthy children
at that, all through the use of deceptive half-truths.
Half-truths ?
MEN MAKE MORE THAN WOMEN.
A generalized haf-truth that totally ignores that some or most women
marry men and share in their incomes, together with their children.
Why is this simple reality missing ?
???????????????????????????????????? Why ?
CHILD ABUSE PROGRAMS.
Child abuse programs that don't balance their models with the reality
of children who abuse, themselves and their parents. Why is the agenda
against fathers, mothers, and parents only ?
???????????????????????????????????? Why ?
SPOUSAL ABUSE PROGRAMS.
Programs that speak of stopping violence against women, ( a deceptive
polarizing truth) but why do they ignore all the other forms of abuse,
against women, not to forget men and children ?.
???????????????????????????????????? Why ?
Here in Canada some, ( not all ) lesbians have infiltrated social
programs promoting their anti-male agendas, dividing the family,
polarizing the sexes. Deceptively hiding their 'predator' style of
preying on women. Confirmed to me by Real Women of Canada past
President.
You see in lesbian relationships the abuser is always another women,
but this reality is totally ignored by these individuals who are eager
to promote their hatred of men, and prey on abused women. (Let us not
ignore some men who do the same....)
So the message is not what you think...but why the main media has
remained silent about these deceptive half-truths and how and why these
special interst groups are not concerned about the breakdown of the
family and speak of 'women' and in a world with only women....no men,
no children. A psychotic perspective of reality where they seek to
'kill-people' and or create chaos in our society.
So be warned ! There is good and bad in all groups....from angels to
Catholic Priests who prey on little boys and girls....and then again is
not abortion the greatest form of violence against the future men and
women, the future children of this world ?
Caesar J. B. Squitti
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| User: "Frank ODwyer" |
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 01:25:14 PM |
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Alberich wrote:
On 10 Mar 2006 10:03:24 -0800, "Frank O'Dwyer" <batsignal1@gmail.com>
wrote:
Alberich wrote:
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 08:57:50 -0600, Don Kresch
<ROT13.qxerfpu@jv.ee.pbz.com> wrote:
In alt.atheism On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 06:07:07 GMT, Eden
<banmilk@hotmail.com> let us all know that:
Why does the fetus have rights, and the woman has none?
No anti-choicer ever answers that. They always run away. They never
want to deal with the fact that their line of thought makes a slave of
the woman--a mere vessel without rights which must carry the fetus no
matter what.
There are several possible answers to that question. Take as a group,
they make a poweful argument, even if one that doesn't appeal to or
convince all of its opponents:
(1) The woman has, in most instances, already *made* her choice.
Assuming your conclusion. Namely, that the choice to have an abortion
is not a legitimate choice and should be off the table.
No, my conclusion is that to become pregnant, the woman must have
engaged in sexual intercourse.
"already made her choice" implies no further choices are on the table.
But in fact it is the 'pro-life' who remove the option of ending the
pregnancy from the table, and not the woman...
By analogy, when you get in a car and don't use your safety belt, or it
is faulty, then when you fly through the windscreen you should be left
at the side of the road to bleed to death. You already made your
choice. You chose to fly through the windscreen and bleed to death.
And yes, attending to you will result in the deaths of others. Send the
ambulance elsewhere to those more needy cases. Or, if there are enough
ambulances, don't fund those extra ambulances at all, spend that money
on more deserving cases. Let you die and use your organs to save the
lives of more responsible people. And so on.
....which notably is not carried through to other cases of
'irresponsible' behaviour.
And in any case you go on to argue that it shouldn't matter whether she
chose to have sex or not.
She
made the choice to have sexual intercourse. She made the choice to
use or to not use artificial methods of contraception. She made the
use to employ natural methods of contraception, such as NFP (note,
this is far different than the (far less reliable) "rythym method").
And the zygote went ahead and implanted anyway despite her reasonable
precautions.
It is quite a leap to get from there to consent to pregnancy.
Far and away, the overwhelming majority of women who conceive were not
using birth control of one sort or another. (Or, to be more precise,
the *couple* wasn't using birth control of one sort or another.)
Evidence? In the UK at least, the abortion rates are consistent with
sexually active women using contraception and then some.
In any case this is irrelevant since you don't distinguish between
women who use contraception and those who don't, nor even between those
who consent to sex and those who do not. Your argument is that no
matter how a woman became pregnant there is a justification for forcing
her to remain pregnant, right?
In more general terms your argument is essentially that if someone
needs something to live, they should be able to demand it from whoever
has it - regardless of the cost to that person (short of killing them).
(1a) The fetus has had no opportunity yet to make a choice or, in this
case, to have a choice made for it. (And before the canard that if
the fetus cannot make a choice, it doesn't deserve one gets tossed
out, remember that neither can a two-month-old make a choice as to its
own preservation, either.) To deprive the fetus of its chance to
choose life, therefore, is to subjugate the fetus's rights to the
woman's.
No it is not. First it is far from clear that the fetus has any rights.
If it should have the rights of a person then it is far from clear that
people have a "right to life". Certainly no person has the right to
demand the use of someone else's body and do them harm.
First, you are arguing the conclusion--that there can be no reason to
disallow abortion.
I don't understand the point you're making here.
Second, it is far from normal to consider
pregnancy as "doing harm" to the woman.
It is an objective fact that it does. Stitches, pain, hospital bedrest
are all usual outcomes of pregnancy. Gestational diabetes is not
uncommon and is fairly predictable. There is currently a high profile
case of a Polish woman who was effectively blinded by pregnancy - this
was predictable from the moment she knew she was pregnant and she was
denied an abortion anyway (Poland is predominantly Catholic). She'd
already lost a lot of her sight from previous pregnancies, too - again
it is a case of the 'pro-life' saying no matter what a woman gives, it
is never enough.
Anyway if you did all the things that pregnancy does to a woman
yourself it would not be regarded as normal to say you didn't harm her.
(2) Okay, I hear you say that the woman may be raped, it may be a
result of incest, or some other such argument. (I find it interesting
that these are always presented as two *distinct* reasons for
abortion. As if incest is not included as rape. If not--if the
incest was *consensual*, then this argument holds no water, and should
revert to approach (1). The worry of incestual inbreeding only should
arise upon the practice of incest within multiple generations in the
same branch of the family tree.) The argument goes that the woman
doesn't want this fetus, so why should she be forced to be an
incubator for it?
That's not the argument. It is not that she "doesn't want the fetus"
but she doesn't want to be pregnant.
In the context of this argument, that is a semantic difference.
But an important one. To say she "doesn't want" the fetus assumes a
reason that is nasty and petty - as if she just took a dislike to the
fetus because it was not cute enough. She might be quite happy to have
the fetus if it was delivered by amazon.com and paid for by you,
instead of at risk and harm to herself, and paid for by money she has
not got, or will lose by virtue of going through with the pregnancy. Or
maybe she'd love another baby but prefers having a job and a roof over
her head, or being able to see, or being able to walk.
By the way, she might desparately want the fetus, and be unable to
afford it. She might have other children. The 'pro-life' not only
require the woman to save a life regardless of the cost, but never give
her credit for already having saved lives.
Why should she be forced into a nine-month slavery
to carry something she is not responsible for?
In this instance, a simple "balancing of rights" should be made.
Weigh the rights of the woman--i.e, freedom to live the next nine
months as she wishes and not to be forced to "confinement" by the
fetus--against the fetus's rights--right to life--and see which is
more compelling. It is difficult to imagine that the right to nine
months of freedom can trump the right to an entire life.
Then cancel your plans for the next nine months. Sure, it will hurt a
lot, it will do you some harm, you may have to choose a less lucrative
career, you might lose your house or your children - but we have better
uses for your time and there is only a small chance that it will
disable or kill you.
You do well to draw out the possible downside of pregnancy. Here is
the downside of an abortion. A fetus is certainly--and without
doubt--killed. Your downside (above, not to make a pun) is all
speculative. The level of certainty of outcome should also be taken
into account when weighing the rights.
Your freedom also has downsides that are certain. Every dollar you
spend over what you need to subsist - which is everything beyond
approximately the first dollar per day - is a dollar that could save
lives (of the walking talking variety). Indeed we could probably
squeeze you a bit more without *certainly* killing you.
So, again, cancel your plans for the next nine months. So long as it
definitely saves (prolongs) lives you should be ready to do whatever
anyone says and any risks shouldn't matter to you as long as there is
any chance it might not happen.
As a further argument, suppose that the woman says that having this
baby will upset her entire life--forcing her from graduate school,
bringing the stigma of single-motherhood (which, admittedly, is not
much a stigma in 2006), etc... Adoption counters all of the above
arguments.
No it doesn't. For many women pregnancy is game over, even aside from
the ones it kills. Also, pregnancy and childbirth are directly harmful
in themselves. Certainly the damage done by being FORCED to remain
pregnant for nine months against your will, that is incalculable and
akin to rape.
I cannot accept as fact that pregnancy is directly harmful in itself.
Childbirth is undoubtedly painful, and may be harmful if a C-section
is required, for sure.
The physical harm is obvious, the pain of labour is obvious, things
like episiotomy are obvious. Then there's all the direct and indirect
cost and the opportunity cost too. If all these things happened to you
then you wouldn't have any doubts that you were harmed. And probably if
you did all the things that pregnancy and childbirth does to a woman
yourself you'd be in jail.
- Frank
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| Title: Re: Major anti-choice dodge |
10 Mar 2006 01:59:11 PM |
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On 10 Mar 2006 11:25:14 -0800, "Frank O'Dwyer" <batsignal1@gmail.com>
wrote:
Alberich wrote:
On 10 Mar 2006 10:03:24 -0800, "Frank O'Dwyer" <batsignal1@gmail.com>
wrote:
Alberich wrote:
On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 08:57:50 -0600, Don Kresch
<ROT13.qxerfpu@jv.ee.pbz.com> wrote:
In alt.atheism On Fri, 10 Mar 2006 06:07:07 GMT, Eden
<banmilk@hotmail.com> let us all know that:
Why does the fetus have rights, and the woman has none?
No anti-choicer ever answers that. They always run away. They never
want to deal with the fact that their line of thought makes a slave of
the woman--a mere vessel without rights which must carry the fetus no
matter what.
There are several possible answers to that question. Take as a group,
they make a poweful argument, even if one that doesn't appeal to or
convince all of its opponents:
(1) The woman has, in most instances, already *made* her choice.
Assuming your conclusion. Namely, that the choice to have an abortion
is not a legitimate choice and should be off the table.
No, my conclusion is that to become pregnant, the woman must have
engaged in sexual intercourse.
"already made her choice" implies no further choices are on the table.
But in fact it is the 'pro-life' who remove the option of ending the
pregnancy from the table, and not the woman...
Again, that is arguing the conclusion.
By analogy, when you get in a car and don't use your safety belt, or it
is faulty, then when you fly through the windscreen you should be left
at the side of the road to bleed to death. You already made your
choice. You chose to fly through the windscreen and bleed to death.
And yes, attending to you will result in the deaths of others. Send the
ambulance elsewhere to those more needy cases. Or, if there are enough
ambulances, don't fund those extra ambulances at all, spend that money
on more deserving cases. Let you die and use your organs to save the
lives of more responsible people. And so on.
...which notably is not carried through to other cases of
'irresponsible' behaviour.
And in any case you go on to argue that it shouldn't matter whether she
chose to have sex or not.
Yes, I do. But I frame this argument deliberately, so as to show the
"layers" (for lack of a better way of putting it) of argument that can
be made against the vast majority of those that seek abortion--those
that willingly engaged in sexual relations, and thus became pregnant.
She
made the choice to have sexual intercourse. She made the choice to
use or to not use artificial methods of contraception. She made the
use to employ natural methods of contraception, such as NFP (note,
this is far different than the (far less reliable) "rythym method").
And the zygote went ahead and implanted anyway despite her reasonable
precautions.
It is quite a leap to get from there to consent to pregnancy.
Far and away, the overwhelming majority of women who conceive were not
using birth control of one sort or another. (Or, to be more precise,
the *couple* wasn't using birth control of one sort or another.)
Evidence? In the UK at least, the abortion rates are consistent with
sexually active women using contraception and then some.
I'm not sure I understand what you mean to say here. Could you
possibly rephrase that?
In any case this is irrelevant since you don't distinguish between
women who use contraception and those who don't, nor even between those
who consent to sex and those who do not. Your argument is that no
matter how a woman became pregnant there is a justification for forcing
her to remain pregnant, right?
In a manner of speaking, yes. Although I would argue that there is
*more* justification for disallowing abortions in the case of those
women who willingly consented to sex, I think that is akin to arguing
that those that are decapitated are more dead than those that have
died of natural causes.
In more general terms your argument is essentially that if someone
needs something to live, they should be able to demand it from whoever
has it - regardless of the cost to that person (short of killing them).
Not at all.
(1a) The fetus has had no opportunity yet to make a choice or, in this
case, to have a choice made for it. (And before the canard that if
the fetus cannot make a choice, it doesn't deserve one gets tossed
out, remember that neither can a two-month-old make a choice as to its
own preservation, either.) To deprive the fetus of its chance to
choose life, therefore, is to subjugate the fetus's rights to the
woman's.
No it is not. First it is far from clear that the fetus has any rights.
If it should have the rights of a person then it is far from clear that
people have a "right to life". Certainly no person has the right to
demand the use of someone else's body and do them harm.
First, you are arguing the conclusion--that there can be no reason to
disallow abortion.
I don't understand the point you're making here.
In one respect, I'm proceeding from the original poster's claim: that
the fetus has rights and the woman has none.
Second, it is far from normal to consider
pregnancy as "doing harm" to the woman.
It is an objective fact that it does. Stitches, pain, hospital bedrest
are all usual outcomes of pregnancy. Gestational diabetes is not
uncommon and is fairly predictable. There is currently a high profile
case of a Polish woman who was effectively blinded by pregnancy - this
was predictable from the moment she knew she was pregnant and she was
denied an abortion anyway (Poland is predominantly Catholic). She'd
already lost a lot of her sight from previous pregnancies, too - again
it is a case of the 'pro-life' saying no matter what a woman gives, it
is never enough.
Anyway if you did all the things that pregnancy does to a woman
yourself it would not be regarded as normal to say you didn't harm her.
I think we are misunderstanding each other. I have no doubt that
pregnancy is unpleasant (to put it lightly!) and has the potential to
cause pain--and in some rare cases severe and permanent damage--to a
woman. But, what I mean to say is that when someone discusses being
pregnant, it is almost never to say that she is in harm's way or must
be being all beat-to-hell from the inside, but rather that she is
experiencing the miracle of life, etc. Generally speaking, the only
time one ever hears of pregnancy spoken of in conversation as "doing
harm" is when spoken by pro-choice advocates during a discussion re:
abortion.
(2) Okay, I hear you say that the woman may be raped, it may be a
result of incest, or some other such argument. (I find it interesting
that these are always presented as two *distinct* reasons for
abortion. As if incest is not included as rape. If not--if the
incest was *consensual*, then this argument holds no water, and should
revert to approach (1). The worry of incestual inbreeding only should
arise upon the practice of incest within multiple generations in the
same branch of the family tree.) The argument goes that the woman
doesn't want this fetus, so why should she be forced to be an
incubator for it?
That's not the argument. It is not that she "doesn't want the fetus"
but she doesn't want to be pregnant.
In the context of this argument, that is a semantic difference.
But an important one. To say she "doesn't want" the fetus assumes a
reason that is nasty and petty - as if she just took a dislike to the
fetus because it was not cute enough. She might be quite happy to have
the fetus if it was delivered by amazon.com and paid for by you,
instead of at risk and harm to herself, and paid for by money she has
not got, or will lose by virtue of going through with the pregnancy. Or
maybe she'd love another baby but prefers having a job and a roof over
her head, or being able to see, or being able to walk.
Point taken. However, in conversations like this, you can understand
how the two phrases are often used interchangably and, therefore, I
would assume that use of one meant use of another.
By the way, she might desparately want the fetus, and be unable to
afford it. She might have other children. The 'pro-life' not only
require the woman to save a life regardless of the cost, but never give
her credit for already having saved lives.
I'm not sure I can stretch myself far enough to see that aborting one
child may save the life of another. In almost every instance I can
think of, unwanted children may be placed for adoption upon birth.
Furthermore, I know that there are many private organizations--secular
and religious--which will assist a pregnant woman during her time of
pregnancy. I will not pretend to know all government policies on this
subject, though, and will not comment on them.
Why should she be forced into a nine-month slavery
to carry something she is not responsible for?
In this instance, a simple "balancing of rights" should be made.
Weigh the rights of the woman--i.e, freedom to live the next nine
months as she wishes and not to be forced to "confinement" by the
fetus--against the fetus's rights--right to life--and see which is
more compelling. It is difficult to imagine that the right to nine
months of freedom can trump the right to an entire life.
Then cancel your plans for the next nine months. Sure, it will hurt a
lot, it will do you some harm, you may have to choose a less lucrative
career, you might lose your house or your children - but we have better
uses for your time and there is only a small chance that it will
disable or kill you.
You do well to draw out the possible downside of pregnancy. Here is
the downside of an abortion. A fetus is certainly--and without
doubt--killed. Your downside (above, not to make a pun) is all
speculative. The level of certainty of outcome should also be taken
into account when weighing the rights.
Your freedom also has downsides that are certain. Every dollar you
spend over what you need to subsist - which is everything beyond
approximately the first dollar per day - is a dollar that could save
lives (of the walking talking variety). Indeed we could probably
squeeze you a bit more without *certainly* killing you.
So, again, cancel your plans for the next nine months. So long as it
definitely saves (prolongs) lives you should be ready to do whatever
anyone says and any risks shouldn't matter to you as long as there is
any chance it might not happen.
You misapply the concept of risk. Doing something so long as "there
is any chance it might not happen" is not nearly the same as doing
something with a very low chance of adverse reaction. In pregnancy,
there is a very low risk of adverse reaction and, of those, a high
percentage of problems are medically fixable without much fuss. Doing
something that has "any chance" that a bad outcome might not happen
might be trying to swim a piranha-infested river with a 0.001% chance
of survival. Don't insult the conversation to pretend that,
statistical and logically, we should consider these two sorts of risks
to be the same.
Furthermore, I have no idea where you are writing from, but I invite
you to try to live--even at subsistance--in Arizona for a dollar a
day. What's more, even if a person could survive on $1 per diem,
would you argue that they have no responsibilities to their families
that pre-empt those to the wider world? Should I not contribute to my
daughter's college savings? (Or does college come up as an argument
only when pro-choice proponents argue that an abortion is justified to
allow the poor woman to go to school?) Should I not help support my
elderly father? Etc...
As a further argument, suppose that the woman says that having this
baby will upset her entire life--forcing her from graduate school,
bringing the stigma of single-motherhood (which, admittedly, is not
much a stigma in 2006), etc... Adoption counters all of the above
arguments.
No it doesn't. For many women pregnancy is game over, even aside from
the ones it kills. Also, pregnancy and childbirth are directly harmful
in themselves. Certainly the damage done by being FORCED to remain
pregnant for nine months against your will, that is incalculable and
akin to rape.
I cannot accept as fact that pregnancy is directly harmful in itself.
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