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"Famousdog" |
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22 Jun 2004 04:54:29 AM |
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Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
One of the many things that makes me daily incandescent with rage is
the trend being cynically promoted among our teenagers to take "purity
pledges". From what i observe, this obscene, manipulative project is
the obsession of a bunch of bible-weilding, neurotic parents with
right-wing tendencies who can't stand the idea of some boy touching
their poor Tiffany:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
"Gee thats a great idea Bob! And we'll just ignore the statistics that
suggest that teenage pregnancy and STDs actually go up in groups of
teenagers who take purity pledges because they haven't been educated
properly!"
"Good idea! The kids will be easy to convince thanks to goody-goody
celebrities like Britney hopping on the bandwagon and spouting
nonsense about how they're saving themselves. And there's no need to
worry about the horrendous damage done to the self-esteeem of
teenagers who fall off the wagon and have sex - because they deserve
everything they get, the dirty *****!"
"Nice one Bob"
"Thanks Stan"
There's nothing wrong with having deeply-felt religious beliefs
regarding sexual relations, but like so many superpower civilisations,
the US is a macho, patriarchal, domineering society (just look at
Iraq) and "purity pledges" are just another aspect of that.
Cheers, famousdog.
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
24 Jun 2004 11:30:55 AM |
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In article <40DA0717.39A53822@ayhoo.com>, ujb says...
"j weatherly
Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God,
anti-Christian) will give my children the slant on sex that I want
them to have?
That statement sure does open the doors to the imagination.
You have such a way with words pal!
Here's jw's "slant" on sex:
Her first Time"
"F***k me!" she moaned beneath me as my c*** slid deep and hit bottom,
glancing off her ...
alt.sex.first-time - Dec. 29, 2002 by John Weatherly -
at
httpX://groups.google.com/groups?q=sex%5C+author:john_weatherly47%40yahoo.co
m&start=10&hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&selm=knht0v43ldq2nuhup38beee6pedd16qp
mg%404ax.com&rnum=11
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Robyn
Resident Witchypoo & EAC Spellcaster
#1557
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
24 Jun 2004 12:34:14 PM |
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On Thu, 24 Jun 2004 16:30:55 +0000 in episode
<3lDCc.6706$H4.307@www.newsranger.com> we saw our hero Robibnikoff
<nospam@newsranger.com>:
In article <40DA0717.39A53822@ayhoo.com>, ujb says...
"j weatherly
Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God, anti-Christian)
will give my children the slant on sex that I want them to have?
That statement sure does open the doors to the imagination. You have such
a way with words pal!
Here's jw's "slant" on sex:
Her first Time"
"F***k me!" she moaned beneath me as my c*** slid deep and hit bottom,
glancing off her ...
Hit bottom?
On second thought, first person who tries to explain gets it in the shins...
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
"I think it's the worst kept secret in Washington.
That everybody - everybody I talk to in Washington
has known and fully knows what [the neo-conservative]
agenda was and what they were trying to do."
[Retired General Anthony Zinni]
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| User: "bardi" |
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
24 Jun 2004 12:44:27 PM |
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"Mark K. Bilbo" <y@hoo.com-amikchi> wrote in message
news:pan.2004.06.24.17.34.14.59698@hoo.com-amikchi...
On Thu, 24 Jun 2004 16:30:55 +0000 in episode
<3lDCc.6706$H4.307@www.newsranger.com> we saw our hero Robibnikoff
<nospam@newsranger.com>:
In article <40DA0717.39A53822@ayhoo.com>, ujb says...
"j weatherly
Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God,
anti-Christian)
will give my children the slant on sex that I want them to have?
That statement sure does open the doors to the imagination. You have
such
a way with words pal!
Here's jw's "slant" on sex:
Her first Time"
"F***k me!" she moaned beneath me as my c*** slid deep and hit bottom,
glancing off her ...
Hit bottom?
On second thought, first person who tries to explain gets it in the
shins...
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Apparently it is quite simple though..he wishes sex education taken out of
the classroom and put back on the rest room walls where it belongs,eh?
dnp
bardi
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| User: "Robibnikoff" |
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
24 Jun 2004 12:44:01 PM |
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In article <pan.2004.06.24.17.34.14.59698@hoo.com-amikchi>, Mark K. Bilbo
says...
On Thu, 24 Jun 2004 16:30:55 +0000 in episode
<3lDCc.6706$H4.307@www.newsranger.com> we saw our hero Robibnikoff
<nospam@newsranger.com>:
In article <40DA0717.39A53822@ayhoo.com>, ujb says...
"j weatherly
Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God, anti-Christian)
will give my children the slant on sex that I want them to have?
That statement sure does open the doors to the imagination. You have such
a way with words pal!
Here's jw's "slant" on sex:
Her first Time"
"F***k me!" she moaned beneath me as my c*** slid deep and hit bottom,
glancing off her ...
Hit bottom?
On second thought, first person who tries to explain gets it in the shins...
SNARK! Goodness gracious, mercy me ;D
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Robyn
Resident Witchypoo & EAC Spellcaster
#1557
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| User: "Mark K. Bilbo" |
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
24 Jun 2004 04:42:27 PM |
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On Thu, 24 Jun 2004 17:44:01 +0000 in episode
<BpECc.6715$H4.301@www.newsranger.com> we saw our hero Robibnikoff
<nospam@newsranger.com>:
In article <pan.2004.06.24.17.34.14.59698@hoo.com-amikchi>, Mark K. Bilbo
says...
On Thu, 24 Jun 2004 16:30:55 +0000 in episode
<3lDCc.6706$H4.307@www.newsranger.com> we saw our hero Robibnikoff
<nospam@newsranger.com>:
In article <40DA0717.39A53822@ayhoo.com>, ujb says...
"j weatherly
Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God,
anti-Christian) will give my children the slant on sex that I want
them to have?
That statement sure does open the doors to the imagination. You have
such a way with words pal!
Here's jw's "slant" on sex:
Her first Time"
"F***k me!" she moaned beneath me as my c*** slid deep and hit
bottom, glancing off her ...
Hit bottom?
On second thought, first person who tries to explain gets it in the
shins...
SNARK! Goodness gracious, mercy me ;D
There are just somethings we weren't meant to know.
Or at least *I'm not...
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
"I think it's the worst kept secret in Washington.
That everybody - everybody I talk to in Washington
has known and fully knows what [the neo-conservative]
agenda was and what they were trying to do."
[Retired General Anthony Zinni]
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| User: "Gregory Gadow" |
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
23 Jun 2004 04:02:05 PM |
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"j weatherly
x-no-archive: yes
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 14:18:58 GMT, "Scout Lady" <scoutlady@nospam.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"Gregory Gadow" <techbear@serv.net> wrote in message
news:40D83AE4.E5D2254@serv.net...
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom.
What church groups are pushing purity pledges and fighting tooth and nail to
eliminate sex education?
One I know of is the Baptists.
Specifically, the Southern Baptists Association. Most Baptist groups are nowhere
near as fundamentalist in doctrine and outlook as the SBA.
And I agree. Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God,
anti-Christian) will give my children the slant on sex that I want
them to have?
"Slant?" What is "slanted" about medically accurate information on pregnancy
prevention?
That is,there is the world's approach, and there's the
Christian approach, and there's the Catholic approach.
Meaning that there is the factual approach, the superstitious approach and the
ostrich's approach. Only one of these three approaches is proven, in actual
studies, to reduce both pregnancy and the incident of sexually transmitted
disease.
--
Gregory Gadow for Washington State House
Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
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| User: "j weatherly" |
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23 Jun 2004 10:34:13 PM |
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x-no-archive: yes
On Wed, 23 Jun 2004 14:02:05 -0700, Gregory Gadow <techbear@serv.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"j weatherly
x-no-archive: yes
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 14:18:58 GMT, "Scout Lady" <scoutlady@nospam.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"Gregory Gadow" <techbear@serv.net> wrote in message
news:40D83AE4.E5D2254@serv.net...
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom.
What church groups are pushing purity pledges and fighting tooth and nail to
eliminate sex education?
One I know of is the Baptists.
Specifically, the Southern Baptists Association. Most Baptist groups are nowhere
near as fundamentalist in doctrine and outlook as the SBA.
And I agree. Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God,
anti-Christian) will give my children the slant on sex that I want
them to have?
"Slant?" What is "slanted" about medically accurate information on pregnancy
prevention?
"Slant" meaning the public school approach to sex education is
sometimes GRAPHIC textbooks that a lot of Christian parents have
complained is practically pornographic in photographic detail. Slant
meaning the kids who are in public sex education are taught the
cleanness, the prevention, technique, and then told to "go and enjoy."
They have not been taught abstinence until they are mature enough to
handle it.
If the public school material were merely pregnancy and physiology
information, I'd have no complaints. It so happens, however, that I
have Christian friends with kids in Washington state public schools
who have called the public sex education "pornographic" in nature.
My son is in private, Christian school, and has learned his sex
education in that context.
That is,there is the world's approach, and there's the
Christian approach, and there's the Catholic approach.
Meaning that there is the factual approach, the superstitious approach and the
ostrich's approach.
Ridiculous. And you have now revealed your agenda. Unless the public
school does it, it isn't done correctly. My point with the above list
was, the world teaches the kids anatomy, and pregnancy/disease
prevention, and then tells 9th graders "go have fun!"
The Christian approach is to teach them all the public school teaches
them, without using porn to do so, and then teaching them the benefits
of abstaining until they're of age/married.
The Roman Catholic approach is to teach them the anatomy and the
prophylactic information, and then tell them sex is dirty and evil
unless you want to make babies.
Only one of these three approaches is proven, in actual
studies, to reduce both pregnancy and the incident of sexually transmitted
disease.
Nonsense. But I wouldn't expect you of tiny, uninformed, closed mind
to believe otherwise.
jw
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| User: "Gregory Gadow" |
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24 Jun 2004 08:35:16 AM |
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"j weatherly
x-no-archive: yes
I can't help but to laugh at people with such little faith in their opinions that
they feel the need to both post under a pseudonym AND request that their posts not be
preserved for latter reference.
On Wed, 23 Jun 2004 14:02:05 -0700, Gregory Gadow <techbear@serv.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"j weatherly
x-no-archive: yes
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 14:18:58 GMT, "Scout Lady" <scoutlady@nospam.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"Gregory Gadow" <techbear@serv.net> wrote in message
news:40D83AE4.E5D2254@serv.net...
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom.
What church groups are pushing purity pledges and fighting tooth and nail to
eliminate sex education?
One I know of is the Baptists.
Specifically, the Southern Baptists Association. Most Baptist groups are nowhere
near as fundamentalist in doctrine and outlook as the SBA.
And I agree. Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God,
anti-Christian) will give my children the slant on sex that I want
them to have?
"Slant?" What is "slanted" about medically accurate information on pregnancy
prevention?
"Slant" meaning the public school approach to sex education is
sometimes GRAPHIC textbooks that a lot of Christian parents have
complained is practically pornographic in photographic detail.
It would be very difficult to provide accurate information on pregnancy prevention
without providing accurate information. Some times, that information requires things
like pictures of what syphilis sores and herpes chancres really look like. It would
be even more difficult to provide accurate information about procreation, pregancy
prevention and basic personal hygiene without using words like "penis", "testicles",
"vagina", "labia" and "clitoris."
I stopped tittering at the pictures in health books when I was in 5th grade. How sad
that so many resumed adults still do so.
Slant
meaning the kids who are in public sex education are taught the
cleanness, the prevention, technique, and then told to "go and enjoy."
Where? When? Every sex education program for school children I have ever seen -- the
ones I went through in the early 80's all the way to the ones my younger brothers
went through about 5 years ago -- all taught the hows and whys of physical maturity,
cleanliness, prevention and consequences. There was always a strong emphasis to wait,
even from the "community health" class I had to take in college (a public school,
mind you, well noted for it's liberal, progressive attitudes) in 1997. Methinks that,
like the "pornography" issue, the supposed attitude of "go and enjoy" is likewise a
sick fantasy.
They have not been taught abstinence until they are mature enough to
handle it.
Bull.
If the public school material were merely pregnancy and physiology
information, I'd have no complaints. It so happens, however, that I
have Christian friends with kids in Washington state public schools
who have called the public sex education "pornographic" in nature.
Again, what specifically do you mean by "pornographic in nature?" Pictures of STD
sores? Movies showing a woman giving birth, which is about as unsexy as humanly
possible and which has caused more than one high school girl to take vows of
chastity? Just because narrow-minded ignoramouses find every mention of "penis" and
"vagina" to be obscene doesn't make them pornographic.
My son is in private, Christian school, and has learned his sex
education in that context.
What context is that? From the way you are arguing, I half expect he still thinks
that storks bring babies.
That is,there is the world's approach, and there's the
Christian approach, and there's the Catholic approach.
Meaning that there is the factual approach, the superstitious approach and the
ostrich's approach.
Ridiculous. And you have now revealed your agenda.
My one and only "agenda" is to see that medically accurate information is what is
taught in schools. "Purity pledges" and vows of chastity only lead to ignorance, not
education. YOU may be happy with schools teaching ignorance, but I am not.
Unless the public school does it, it isn't done correctly.
Where have I ever said that? Where have I ever implied that? You are making stuff up,
even though lying is one of the Big Sins.
When schools teach, they must teach accurate information. When schools teach sex
education, they should be required to teach information that is medically accurate. I
am appalled that you would disagree.
My point with the above list
was, the world teaches the kids anatomy, and pregnancy/disease
prevention, and then tells 9th graders "go have fun!"
I very much doubt that 9th graders are being told to go out and ***** like rabbits.
You have either bought someone elses lie or you are lying now.
The Christian approach is to teach them all the public school teaches
them, without using porn to do so,
Again, what porn?
and then teaching them the benefits
of abstaining until they're of age/married.
By instilling fear, by using religious arguments that have no place in the public
schools and by resorting to half-truths and outright fabrications to make their
points. Then, when the children do come of age or get married, guess what? THEY ARE
STILL IGNORANT. They have no factual education on why monogamy is a good thing, only
religious arguments that, like so much of religion, will be discarded and ignored
when they become inconvenient.
Southern states, where these "abstinance only" programs are most implemented, has the
HIGHEST rate of teen pregnancy and STD transmission in the entire United States. The
lowest rates are, always and proveably, in the states with medically accurate sex
education in the public schools.
The Roman Catholic approach is to teach them the anatomy and the
prophylactic information, and then tell them sex is dirty and evil
unless you want to make babies.
Which, from what I've seen, is the same approach taken by the Protestant (read:
fundamentalist) approach to sex education.
Only one of these three approaches is proven, in actual
studies, to reduce both pregnancy and the incident of sexually transmitted
disease.
Nonsense. But I wouldn't expect you of tiny, uninformed, closed mind
to believe otherwise.
I was not aware that insisting on accurate information was the mark of a tiny,
uninformed, closed mind.
--
Gregory Gadow for Washington State House
Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
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| User: "Pangur Ban" |
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24 Jun 2004 06:42:52 PM |
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Gregory Gadow wrote:
"j weatherly
x-no-archive: yes
I can't help but to laugh at people with such little faith in their opinions that
they feel the need to both post under a pseudonym AND request that their posts not be
preserved for latter reference.
On Wed, 23 Jun 2004 14:02:05 -0700, Gregory Gadow <techbear@serv.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"j weatherly
x-no-archive: yes
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 14:18:58 GMT, "Scout Lady" <scoutlady@nospam.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"Gregory Gadow" <techbear@serv.net> wrote in message
news:40D83AE4.E5D2254@serv.net...
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
Again, what specifically do you mean by "pornographic in nature?" Pictures of STD
sores? Movies showing a woman giving birth, which is about as unsexy as humanly
possible and which has caused more than one high school girl to take vows of
chastity?
I may just tape a couple of those "Birth Day"
segments from TV and add them to my presentations
on DV at the "alternative schools" - no, wait.
Those girls are already pregnant. *sigh* Never
mind. :-(
Pangur -
Gregory Gadow for Washington State House
Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
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| User: "Mike Painter" |
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24 Jun 2004 12:15:24 AM |
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"j weatherly @yahoo.com>" <john_w<no> wrote in message
news:pgikd09mnhl4gu32bmlonvq5g58shpeivd@4ax.com...
x-no-archive: yes
"Slant" meaning the public school approach to sex education is
sometimes GRAPHIC textbooks that a lot of Christian parents have
complained is practically pornographic in photographic detail. Slant
meaning the kids who are in public sex education are taught the
cleanness, the prevention, technique, and then told to "go and enjoy."
They have not been taught abstinence until they are mature enough to
handle it.
If the public school material were merely pregnancy and physiology
information, I'd have no complaints. It so happens, however, that I
have Christian friends with kids in Washington state public schools
who have called the public sex education "pornographic" in nature.
References please. Only about 70% of schools even teach sex ed and about 90%
of those teach abstinence only. Bush and his religion have seen to that. At
best that approach only reduces pregnancy by 40%.
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| User: "Robibnikoff" |
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24 Jun 2004 07:56:02 AM |
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In article <pgikd09mnhl4gu32bmlonvq5g58shpeivd@4ax.com>, j weatherly <john_w
says...snip
"Slant" meaning the public school approach to sex education is
sometimes GRAPHIC textbooks that a lot of Christian parents have
complained is practically pornographic in photographic detail. Slant
meaning the kids who are in public sex education are taught the
cleanness, the prevention, technique, and then told to "go and enjoy."
They have not been taught abstinence until they are mature enough to
handle it.
I'm assuming you can prove this assertion. Please do so and offer cites.
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Robyn
Resident Witchypoo & EAC Spellcaster
#1557
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| User: "Mike Painter" |
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24 Jun 2004 04:35:24 PM |
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"Robibnikoff" <nospam@newsranger.com> wrote in message
news:CbACc.6682$H4.244@www.newsranger.com...
In article <pgikd09mnhl4gu32bmlonvq5g58shpeivd@4ax.com>, j weatherly
<john_w
says...snip
"Slant" meaning the public school approach to sex education is
sometimes GRAPHIC textbooks that a lot of Christian parents have
complained is practically pornographic in photographic detail. Slant
meaning the kids who are in public sex education are taught the
cleanness, the prevention, technique, and then told to "go and enjoy."
They have not been taught abstinence until they are mature enough to
handle it.
I'm assuming you can prove this assertion. Please do so and offer cites.
I asked first. Maybe we can survive if you hold your breath half the time
and I the other half.
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| User: "Jos Flachs" |
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24 Jun 2004 07:12:09 AM |
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On Wed, 23 Jun 2004 20:34:13 -0700, j weatherly <john_w<no>@yahoo.com>
cross posted to
alt.christnet.christianlife,alt.religion.christian,alt.religion.christian.baptist,alt.atheism,alt.religion.christian.episcopal:
"Slant?" What is "slanted" about medically accurate information on pregnancy
prevention?
"Slant" meaning the public school approach to sex education is
sometimes GRAPHIC textbooks that a lot of Christian parents have
complained is practically pornographic in photographic detail.
Rather difficult to educated without proper material. Maybe you could
find some Taliban books on the subject? An emminent person (you just
informed us that you considered a Pulitzer price within your
capabilities) should have little trouble translating it.
Slant
meaning the kids who are in public sex education are taught the
cleanness, the prevention, technique, and then told to "go and enjoy."
They have not been taught abstinence until they are mature enough to
handle it.
Abstinence DOES NOT WORK. Priests have never been able to control
themselves, through the ages. If the learned men of god can't handle
it, what do you expect of teenagers?
If the public school material were merely pregnancy and physiology
information, I'd have no complaints.
Maybe a 1910 edition on the subject might pass your ideas.
It so happens, however, that I
have Christian friends with kids in Washington state public schools
who have called the public sex education "pornographic" in nature.
As said by the man who writes incest stories. Hubris, what does that
mean?
My son is in private, Christian school, and has learned his sex
education in that context.
So?
That is,there is the world's approach, and there's the
Christian approach, and there's the Catholic approach.
Meaning that there is the factual approach, the superstitious approach and the
ostrich's approach.
Ridiculous. And you have now revealed your agenda. Unless the public
school does it, it isn't done correctly.
An opinion is not exactly an agenda.
My point with the above list
was, the world teaches the kids anatomy, and pregnancy/disease
prevention, and then tells 9th graders "go have fun!"
The world does not teach that at all. Maybe you should finish your
primary eduction. It is clearly lacking.
The Christian approach is to teach them all the public school teaches
them, without using porn to do so, and then teaching them the benefits
of abstaining until they're of age/married.
Abstinence DOES NOT WORK. How often do you need to hear that? Observe
what your priest, ministers and other shamans are doing. Even worse:
how many ministers have been caught adultering? They even can't use
the [weak!] excuse of having no wife. All of them are married.
The Roman Catholic approach is to teach them the anatomy and the
prophylactic information, and then tell them sex is dirty and evil
unless you want to make babies.
It is exactly what you want to teach your kids - if you haven't
already.
Only one of these three approaches is proven, in actual
studies, to reduce both pregnancy and the incident of sexually transmitted
disease.
Nonsense. But I wouldn't expect you of tiny, uninformed, closed mind
to believe otherwise.
A black hole is compared to you open and airy.
Auberge d'EAC
** menu du jour **
[Holy] Pigeon Coated with Mango Sauce - a divine dish!
Votre chef:# aa 1987.
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On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 14:18:58 GMT, "Scout Lady" <scoutlady@nospam.net>
wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
"Gregory Gadow" <techbear@serv.net> wrote in message
news:40D83AE4.E5D2254@serv.net...
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom.
What church groups are pushing purity pledges and fighting tooth and nail to
eliminate sex education?
One I know of is the Baptists. And I agree. Sex education can/should
be done in the home. Who knows if the school (anti-God,
anti-Christian) will give my children the slant on sex that I want
them to have? That is,there is the world's approach, and there's the
Christian approach, and there's the Catholic approach.
They
mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing about safer sex or the use of
birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or too frightened to have sex.
The children don't have any need for that knowledge before they are
ready to use it. And it remains the parents' responsibility.
jw
--
Who are they?
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Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
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22 Jun 2004 07:16:46 PM |
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Gregory Gadow wrote:
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not have to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom. They
mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing about safer sex or the use of birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or too frightened to have sex.
What a shame folks don't learn from history! Kids
will have sex when they decide to do so - fear or
no fear and ignorance or no ignorance. I
remember well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and ignorance just
doesn't work.
Pangur
--
Gregory Gadow for Washington State House
Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
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23 Jun 2004 07:48:43 AM |
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"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org> wrote in message
news:OZ3Cc.117589$Gx4.43540@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Gregory Gadow wrote:
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are
also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom.
They
mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing about safer sex or the use of
birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or too frightened to have sex.
What a shame folks don't learn from history! Kids
will have sex when they decide to do so - fear or
no fear and ignorance or no ignorance. I
remember well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and ignorance just
doesn't work.
Pangur
I'm still waiting for the names of these churches that are pushing chastity
and fighting sex education tooth and nail............
--
Gregory Gadow for Washington State House
Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
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23 Jun 2004 02:10:12 PM |
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Scout Lady wrote:
"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org> wrote in message
news:OZ3Cc.117589$Gx4.43540@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Gregory Gadow wrote:
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are
also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom.
They
mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing about safer sex or the use of
birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or too frightened to have sex.
What a shame folks don't learn from history! Kids
will have sex when they decide to do so - fear or
no fear and ignorance or no ignorance. I
remember well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and ignorance just
doesn't work.
Pangur
I'm still waiting for the names of these churches that are pushing chastity
and fighting sex education tooth and nail............
--
Gregory Gadow for Washington State House
Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
Not from me! I said nothing about that topic!!
:-) I think you want Cheerful Pickle.
Pangur
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24 Jun 2004 12:27:34 AM |
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"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org> wrote in message
news:oAkCc.122840$Gx4.49752@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Scout Lady wrote:
"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org> wrote in message
news:OZ3Cc.117589$Gx4.43540@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Gregory Gadow wrote:
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes, they do not
have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are
also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom.
They
mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing about safer sex or the use
of
birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or too frightened to have sex.
What a shame folks don't learn from history! Kids
will have sex when they decide to do so - fear or
no fear and ignorance or no ignorance. I
remember well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and ignorance just
doesn't work.
Pangur
I'm still waiting for the names of these churches that are pushing
chastity
and fighting sex education tooth and nail............
--
Gregory Gadow for Washington State House
Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
Not from me! I said nothing about that topic!!
:-) I think you want Cheerful Pickle.
No I was talking to you since you have evidently bought into the unproven
assertions. Before we even can begin to judge why someone wants their
teenage children to be completely ignorant of sex, we must determine whether
there are parents who feel teens shouldn't have access to basic info in the
first place. I simply don't believe it is true, parents may object to the
way sex education is presented but that's not the same thing as objecting to
sex ed in itself.
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24 Jun 2004 06:08:43 AM |
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Scout Lady wrote:
"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org> wrote
in message
news:oAkCc.122840$Gx4.49752@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Scout Lady wrote:
"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org>
wrote in message
news:OZ3Cc.117589$Gx4.43540@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Gregory Gadow wrote:
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700,
Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our
kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until
after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their
wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't
you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges.
All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the
schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this
gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half
the story. Yes, they do not
have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to
do so.
The problem is that the church groups
pushing the purity pledges are
also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate
sex education from the classroom.
They
mistakenly believe that by knowing
nothing about safer sex or the use
of
birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or
too frightened to have sex.
What a shame folks don't learn from
history! Kids will have sex when they
decide to do so - fear or no fear and
ignorance or no ignorance. I remember
well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and
ignorance just doesn't work.
Pangur
I'm still waiting for the names of these
churches that are pushing
chastity
and fighting sex education tooth and
nail............
-- Gregory Gadow for Washington State
House Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
Not from me! I said nothing about that
topic!! :-) I think you want Cheerful
Pickle.
No I was talking to you since you have
evidently bought into the unproven assertions.
Before we even can begin to judge why someone
wants their teenage children to be completely
ignorant of sex, we must determine whether
there are parents who feel teens shouldn't have
access to basic info in the first place. I
simply don't believe it is true, parents may
object to the way sex education is presented
but that's not the same thing as objecting to
sex ed in itself.
" They mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing
about safer sex or the use of birth control, kids
will be too ignorant or
too frightened to have sex.", said CP.
" What a shame folks don't learn from
history! Kids will have sex when they
decide to do so - fear or no fear and
ignorance or no ignorance. I remember
well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and
ignorance just doesn't work"
Cheerful Pickle was talking about "safe sex" -
knowledge of condoms - and birth control. CP
feels that lack of knowledge about these aspects
will prevent teens from having sex due to
fear/ignorance. I responded that these don't work
- lack of knowledge about safe sex and fear of
pregnancy will not stop teens from having sex.
I said nothing about "basic" information - we got
that back in the 50's - but nothing about safe sex
and birth control.
Neither of us was talking about eliminating sex
ed......at least I wasn't.
Pangur
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25 Jun 2004 12:35:38 AM |
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"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org> wrote in message
news:%CyCc.23229$OB3.13214@bgtnsc05-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Scout Lady wrote:
"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org> wrote
in message
news:oAkCc.122840$Gx4.49752@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Scout Lady wrote:
"Pangur Ban" <Pangur-Ban@SatisHouse.org>
wrote in message
news:OZ3Cc.117589$Gx4.43540@bgtnsc04-news.ops.worldnet.att.net...
Gregory Gadow wrote:
Cheerful Pickle wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700,
Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our
kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until
after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their
wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't
you know anything? I know quite a
few
youths who have taken purity pledges.
All of them learned about all
there
is to know about safe sex in the
schools and about an alternative
(chastity) in church. To me, this
gives them choice. You would deny
them
that choice by only telling them half
the story. Yes, they do not
have
to
be pure, but they have the choice to
do so.
The problem is that the church groups
pushing the purity pledges are
also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate
sex education from the classroom.
They
mistakenly believe that by knowing
nothing about safer sex or the use
of
birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or
too frightened to have sex.
What a shame folks don't learn from
history! Kids will have sex when they
decide to do so - fear or no fear and
ignorance or no ignorance. I remember
well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and
ignorance just doesn't work.
Pangur
I'm still waiting for the names of these
churches that are pushing
chastity
and fighting sex education tooth and
nail............
-- Gregory Gadow for Washington State
House Independent, District 43
http://www.gregory-gadow.info
Not from me! I said nothing about that
topic!! :-) I think you want Cheerful
Pickle.
No I was talking to you since you have
evidently bought into the unproven assertions.
Before we even can begin to judge why someone
wants their teenage children to be completely
ignorant of sex, we must determine whether
there are parents who feel teens shouldn't have
access to basic info in the first place. I
simply don't believe it is true, parents may
object to the way sex education is presented
but that's not the same thing as objecting to
sex ed in itself.
" They mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing
about safer sex or the use of birth control, kids
will be too ignorant or
too frightened to have sex.", said CP.
" What a shame folks don't learn from
history! Kids will have sex when they
decide to do so - fear or no fear and
ignorance or no ignorance. I remember
well the girls who got pregnant in my
high school in the 50's. Fear and
ignorance just doesn't work"
Cheerful Pickle was talking about "safe sex" -
knowledge of condoms - and birth control. CP
feels that lack of knowledge about these aspects
will prevent teens from having sex due to
fear/ignorance. I responded that these don't work
- lack of knowledge about safe sex and fear of
pregnancy will not stop teens from having sex.
No CP declared "They mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing about safer
sex or the use of birth control, kids
will be too ignorant or too frightened to have sex"
I simply want to know who "they" are as I have yet to met another parent
that thinks such a silly thing.
I said nothing about "basic" information - we got
that back in the 50's - but nothing about safe sex
and birth control.
I would be rather surprised if you could find a kid 14 or older that isn't
aware that condoms reduce the chance of HIV or how to prevent pregnancy.
Neither of us was talking about eliminating sex
ed......at least I wasn't.
I didn't claim that you were.
Pangur
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22 Jun 2004 03:21:12 PM |
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On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 06:57:56 -0700, Gregory Gadow wrote:
The problem is that the church groups pushing the purity pledges are also
fighting tooth and nail to eliminate sex education from the classroom. They
mistakenly believe that by knowing nothing about safer sex or the use of birth
control, kids will be too ignorant or too frightened to have sex.
Hi, Gregory,
I am sure there are some churches who do just that. In my church, the one
I am familiar with of course, they do advocate the purity pledge but do
not say anything about any issue in the schools, whether it is sex ed or
anything else.
--
Andy Rugg -- The Cheerful Pickle
To email me, please remove "POSTHEAP" from my return address. Thanks.
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22 Jun 2004 02:05:29 PM |
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On Tue 22 Jun 2004 08:41:57a, Cheerful Pickle
<cheerfulpickle@net-venture.compostheap> kicked back with a beer,
ruminated at length, fell asleep, woke up, lit up a joint, then fell
asleep again after thoughtfully blurting out:
On Tue, 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, Famousdog wrote:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
Hi, Famousdog,
What are you talking about? Don't you know anything? I know quite a
few youths who have taken purity pledges. All of them learned about
all there is to know about safe sex in the schools and about an
alternative (chastity) in church. To me, this gives them choice. You
would deny them that choice by only telling them half the story. Yes,
they do not have to be pure, but they have the choice to do so.
Just as a woman as freedom of choice as to what she should do if she
should get pregnant from doing the wild thing, so, too, she has the
freedom of choice as to whether she wants to do the wild thing before
marriage or wait until marriage. Don't deny her that choice by
keeping her in the darkness about her freedom not to go to bed with a
man before marriage.
Wait... do you honestly believe that teens who have sex do so because
they haven't been told they can choose not to?
--
Mekkala, Atheist #2148
"Atheism is ... the bed-rock of sanity in a world of madness."
--Emmett F. Fields
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22 Jun 2004 09:15:48 PM |
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One day in alt.atheism, Also Sprach Famousdog:
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
What a tragedy to discover that poor Tiffany is a 50% partner with that
dork who made billions selling super computers to NASA.
"Gee thats a great idea Bob! And we'll just ignore the statistics that
suggest that teenage pregnancy and STDs actually go up in groups of
teenagers who take purity pledges because they haven't been educated
properly!"
Experience is the best educator. "I've grown accustomed to your face..."
--
Vic Sagerquist
aa#2011
Supervisor, EAC Department of little adhesive-backed "L" shaped
chrome-plastic doo-dads to add feet to Jesus fish department
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It's my funeral and I'll fry if I want to...
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23 Jun 2004 03:49:58 PM |
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x-no-archive: yes
On 22 Jun 2004 02:54:29 -0700, (Famousdog) wrote:
john w replied under copyright 2004 (keep it in the group, folks)
One of the many things that makes me daily incandescent with rage is
the trend being cynically promoted among our teenagers to take "purity
pledges". From what i observe, this obscene, manipulative project is
the obsession of a bunch of bible-weilding, neurotic parents with
right-wing tendencies who can't stand the idea of some boy touching
their poor Tiffany:
Each household has rules. And teens who take purity pledges do better
in school and are more socially balanced than teens who don't. Reason
being, those who have had the "sex" pressure taken off can focus on
school and other activities, and they face FAR less peer pressure to
have sex if the whole group in which they "travel" has taken the same
pledge.
"I know! Rather than educate our kids about safe sex lets convince
them to "save themselves" until after they've married some dork and
then let them find out on their wedding night that neither of them
knows how to do it."
There is so much material to read, so many movies to watch, that no
high school graduate is "uneducated" about sex.
You merely like to promote the pro-sex agenda. Do it someplace else.
jw
"Gee thats a great idea Bob! And we'll just ignore the statistics that
suggest that teenage pregnancy and STDs actually go up in groups of
teenagers who take purity pledges because they haven't been educated
properly!"
nonsense.
"Good idea! The kids will be easy to convince thanks to goody-goody
celebrities like Britney hopping on the bandwagon and spouting
nonsense about how they're saving themselves. And there's no need to
worry about the horrendous damage done to the self-esteeem of
teenagers who fall off the wagon and have sex - because they deserve
everything they get, the dirty *****!"
"Nice one Bob"
"Thanks Stan"
There's nothing wrong with having deeply-felt religious beliefs
regarding sexual relations, but like so many superpower civilisations,
the US is a macho, patriarchal, domineering society (just look at
Iraq) and "purity pledges" are just another aspect of that.
Cheers, famousdog.
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
25 Jun 2004 06:45:02 AM |
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"j weatherly @yahoo.com>" <john_w<no> wrote in message
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Each household has rules. And teens who take purity pledges do better
in school and are more socially balanced than teens who don't. Reason
being, those who have had the "sex" pressure taken off can focus on
school and other activities, and they face FAR less peer pressure to
have sex if the whole group in which they "travel" has taken the same
pledge.
Yes, exactly - if the whole group conforms to the same strictures. But just
as the person who abstains is liable to be pressurised by those who don't,
so the person who is sexually active is liable to be pressurised by the
abstainers. Why not focus on individual, informed choice, and emphasise that
pressure and coercion in either direction is wrong? Individuals vary
enormously in their physical and emotional development and maturity, and
what is right for one person at fifteen or sixteen or seventeen isn't
necessarily right for another at that age. If sexual activity is seen as
something that most people engage in eventually, rather than as a
competition or a benchmark of social popularity, the whole issue becomes
much less stressful.
Jani
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| User: "Pastor Dave" |
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
25 Jun 2004 08:57:20 AM |
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On Fri, 25 Jun 2004 12:45:02 +0100, "Jani"
<jani@dsl.pipex.com> posted thusly:
"j weatherly @yahoo.com>" <john_w<no> wrote in message
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Each household has rules. And teens who take purity pledges do better
in school and are more socially balanced than teens who don't.
Reason being, those who have had the "sex" pressure taken off can
focus on school and other activities, and they face FAR less peer
pressure to have sex if the whole group in which they "travel" has
taken the same pledge.
Yes, exactly - if the whole group conforms to the same strictures. But
just as the person who abstains is liable to be pressurised by those
who don't, so the person who is sexually active is liable to be
pressurised by the abstainers. Why not focus on individual, informed
choice, and emphasise that pressure and coercion in either direction is
wrong? Individuals vary enormously in their physical and emotional
development and maturity, and what is right for one person at fifteen
or sixteen or seventeen isn't necessarily right for another at that
age. If sexual activity is seen as something that most people engage in
eventually, rather than as a competition or a benchmark of social
popularity, the whole issue becomes much less stressful.
And here the liberal must preach sex is okay for
minors, yet they claim that any man who has sex with a
15 year old, should be prosecuted as a pedophile and
want his picture on a sex offenders web site.
Theologians
They don't know nothing
About my soul
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± Pastor Dave ±
"As for me, I have not hastened from being a pastor to follow thee: neither
have I desired the woeful day; thou knowest: that which came out of my lips
was right before thee." - Jeremiah 17:16
"And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is
the word of God:" - Ephesians 6:17
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| User: "Jos Flachs" |
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25 Jun 2004 09:00:54 PM |
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On 25 Jun 2004 13:57:20 GMT, Pastor Dave
<nospam*-*pastordave38@yahoo.com> wrote:
And here the liberal must preach sex is okay for
minors, yet they claim that any man who has sex with a
15 year old, should be prosecuted as a pedophile and
want his picture on a sex offenders web site.
Do they really? Or liberalism is what offends you more than
pedophilia?
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| User: "Pastor Dave" |
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
25 Jun 2004 07:08:39 AM |
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On Fri, 25 Jun 2004 12:45:02 +0100, "Jani"
<jani@dsl.pipex.com> posted thusly:
"j weatherly @yahoo.com>" <john_w<no> wrote in message
news:i1rjd09oev5kvakm7k3gbag9rlfcilkul4@4ax.com...
x-no-archive: yes
Each household has rules. And teens who take purity pledges do better
in school and are more socially balanced than teens who don't. Reason
being, those who have had the "sex" pressure taken off can focus on
school and other activities, and they face FAR less peer pressure to
have sex if the whole group in which they "travel" has taken the same
pledge.
Yes, exactly - if the whole group conforms to the same strictures. But just
as the person who abstains is liable to be pressurised by those who don't,
so the person who is sexually active is liable to be pressurised by the
abstainers. Why not focus on individual, informed choice, and emphasise that
pressure and coercion in either direction is wrong? Individuals vary
enormously in their physical and emotional development and maturity, and
what is right for one person at fifteen or sixteen or seventeen isn't
necessarily right for another at that age. If sexual activity is seen as
something that most people engage in eventually, rather than as a
competition or a benchmark of social popularity, the whole issue becomes
much less stressful.
And here the liberal must preach sex is okay for
minors, yet they claim that any man who has sex with a
15 year old, should be prosecuted as a pedophile and
want his picture on a sex offenders web site.
--
± Pastor Dave Raymond ±
"As for me, I have not hastened from being a pastor
to follow thee: neither have I desired the woeful day;
thou knowest: that which came out of my lips was right
before thee." - Jeremiah 17:16
"And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of
the Spirit, which is the word of God:" - Ephesians 6:17
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| User: "Jani" |
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25 Jun 2004 07:45:33 AM |
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"Pastor Dave" <nospam*-*pastordave38@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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On Fri, 25 Jun 2004 12:45:02 +0100, "Jani"
<jani@dsl.pipex.com> posted thusly:
"j weatherly @yahoo.com>" <john_w<no> wrote in message
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x-no-archive: yes
Each household has rules. And teens who take purity pledges do better
in school and are more socially balanced than teens who don't. Reason
being, those who have had the "sex" pressure taken off can focus on
school and other activities, and they face FAR less peer pressure to
have sex if the whole group in which they "travel" has taken the same
pledge.
Yes, exactly - if the whole group conforms to the same strictures. But
just
as the person who abstains is liable to be pressurised by those who
don't,
so the person who is sexually active is liable to be pressurised by the
abstainers. Why not focus on individual, informed choice, and emphasise
that
pressure and coercion in either direction is wrong? Individuals vary
enormously in their physical and emotional development and maturity, and
what is right for one person at fifteen or sixteen or seventeen isn't
necessarily right for another at that age. If sexual activity is seen as
something that most people engage in eventually, rather than as a
competition or a benchmark of social popularity, the whole issue becomes
much less stressful.
And here the liberal must preach sex is okay for
minors, yet they claim that any man who has sex with a
15 year old, should be prosecuted as a pedophile and
want his picture on a sex offenders web site.
Which comes back to what I said about individual *informed* choice, and
different degrees of maturation. "Man" implies adult, "minor" implies child.
If you remove the loaded terminology, then you can distinguish between the
case of a young woman who is almost sixteen, and a young man who is only
just eighteen, both mature and responsible people, having sex, and a much
older adult coercing an immature (and quite possibly pre-pubescent)
individual who has just passed their fifteenth birthday.
Jani
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| User: "Pastor Dave" |
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| Title: Re: Patriarchy and "Purity pledges" |
25 Jun 2004 08:42:44 PM |
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On Fri, 25 Jun 2004 13:45:33 +0100, "Jani"
<jani@dsl.pipex.com> posted thusly:
"Pastor Dave" <nospam*-*pastordave38@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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On Fri, 25 Jun 2004 12:45:02 +0100, "Jani"
<jani@dsl.pipex.com> posted thusly:
"j weatherly @yahoo.com>" <john_w<no> wrote in message
news:i1rjd09oev5kvakm7k3gbag9rlfcilkul4@4ax.com...
x-no-archive: yes
Each household has rules. And teens who take purity pledges do better
in school and are more socially balanced than teens who don't. Reason
being, those who have had the "sex" pressure taken off can focus on
school and other activities, and they face FAR less peer pressure to
have sex if the whole group in which they "travel" has taken the same
pledge.
Yes, exactly - if the whole group conforms to the same strictures. But
just
as the person who abstains is liable to be pressurised by those who
don't,
so the person who is sexually active is liable to be pressurised by the
abstainers. Why not focus on individual, informed choice, and emphasise
that
pressure and coercion in either direction is wrong? Individuals vary
enormously in their physical and emotional development and maturity, and
what is right for one person at fifteen or sixteen or seventeen isn't
necessarily right for another at that age. If sexual activity is seen as
something that most people engage in eventually, rather than as a
competition or a benchmark of social popularity, the whole issue becomes
much less stressful.
And here the liberal must preach sex is okay for
minors, yet they claim that any man who has sex with a
15 year old, should be prosecuted as a pedophile and
want his picture on a sex offenders web site.
Which comes back to what I said about individual *informed* choice, and
different degrees of maturation. "Man" implies adult, "minor" implies child.
If you remove the loaded terminology, then you can distinguish between the
case of a young woman who is almost sixteen, and a young man who is only
just eighteen, both mature and responsible people, having sex, and a much
older adult coercing an immature (and quite possibly pre-pubescent)
individual who has just passed their fifteenth birthday.
Mature and responsible at 16? I don't think so. And
the scenario you propose is still illegal.
Nor are they "informed". Did you tell them about that
disease that latex doesn't protect against, that is
much more common than AIDS, can be asymptomatic for up
to 15 years, while they infect others and then kills
them? No, I didn't think so. Why? because the
liberals want to promote abortion and the only way to
do that, is to promote sex between kids, which is what
they are.
--
± Pastor Dave Raymond ±
"As for me, I have not hastened from being a pastor
to follow thee: neither have I desired the woeful day;
thou knowest: that which came out of my lips was right
before thee." - Jeremiah 17:16
"And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of
the Spirit, which is the word of God:" - Ephesians 6:17
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