Dude, who the hell do you think you are. You are his sponsor, not his
keeper.

Relationships are his business.

Your job as a sponsor if to help him work the 12 steps in HIS life HIS
way, not to push you own morals or values onto him. No wonder you
USED to sponsor him. Is he still clean?

I remember telling my sponsor that I was seeing some new chick when I
was 1 month clean.

He said "that's great, try and take it slow though. If it is gods
will work then it will work if not then deal with it as best you can."

Are you also one of those people who think the only way to work the
steps is to write on them, or do the workbook? Jesus fucking Christ a
workbook for drug addicts. There are as many ways to work the program
as there are members, as each member gets to decide on his or her god,
thus only they truly know what gods will for them is.

Now for my immediate 10'th step.
Sorry to rail against you. This post is actually aimed at an incestual
pedophile (he screwed his 5 year old daughter when he was 10 years
clean)

who attends the meeting I attend and displays the same attitude
and tone as you post. Since I can't even speak to the man without
wanting to kill him I am addressing it in the least damaging way I can
think of which is to insult you, who can easily laugh it off as some
internet nut. Not much damage done to anyone.

Be well

MD


Mikey <mikeyyymc@comutron.net> wrote in message news:<otddj0hl1td7gbsv06g1f9cdgmtfpobsp8@4ax.com>...

Last week I wrote a letter to a dude that I had sponsored...

Began it with...

"Dude, every time I said it was OK to get in a relationship with a
gal, I also said that it was under the condition that you went to a
meeting every day, didn't use between meetings, and called before you
used when you had the urge..."

Ended it with...

"We will not be accepting collect phone calls..."

Then put it in an envelope and mailed it to him...

Mikey

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