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Topic: Religions > Atheism
User: "Newtons Cat"
Date: 30 Oct 2004 01:27:07 PM
Object: Sexual re-orientation
In Britain homosexuals are trying to make it a crime for anyone to offer therapeutic help
for homosexuals who want to re-orientate.
Once a homosexual - always a homosexual.
A homosexual friend of mine, a very active homosexual, met, and fell in love with a
woman. When they tried to make love, as soon as penetration started, he panicked
and fled the room. She would find him hiding under the kitchen table, crying.
His story goes as follows:
He was at school in California. At the age of 12 he had a "traumatic experience". He
was discovered in a cupboard with Paul Newman's daughter. He was expelled from the
school. His adoptive parents locked him in the bathroom for four hours as punishment.
And so on ...
Most homosexuals react VERY AGGRESSIVELY to stories like the above.
There are many unhappy homosexuals who can relate similar experiences.
Once a homosexual - always a homosexual.
Heil to the gay fuhrer - sort of thing.
.

User: "JTEM"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 30 Oct 2004 01:52:10 PM
"Newton's Cat" <Flying_Pussy@Antigravity.com> wrote

In Britain homosexuals are trying to make it a crime for
anyone to offer therapeutic help for homosexuals who
want to re-orientate.

Cool!
There's absolutely no evidence that such "Therapy" has ever
once worked, and there's every indication that it is counter
productive.
Here's the example I usually use:
Imagine a large group of people truly want to believe that
they are the Messiah, and they truly believe with all their
hearts that it is bad to not believe that they are the Messiah.
Imagine these people so want to believe that they are the
Messiah that many are willing to spends tens of thousands
of dollars on "Treatment" to help them believe they are
the Messiah.
Imagine a large number of well-educated professionals,
employing every technique in their arsenal, dedicate
themselves to "Treating" these people, helping them to
believe that they are the Messiah.
Imagine these professionals see great value in believing
that you're the Messiah, and see not believing that you're
the Messiah as a terrible thing.
Given these circumstances, would a 3% claimed "Success"
rate really impress you?
Apparently so.
But in the case of "Changing" gay people under such
circumstances, even the claimed 3% "Success" rate
can't survive scrutiny.
.
User: "duke"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 07:40:36 AM
On Sat, 30 Oct 2004 14:52:10 -0400, "JTEM" <gymraven@hotmail.com> wrote:

There's absolutely no evidence that such "Therapy" has ever
once worked, and there's every indication that it is counter
productive.
Here's the example I usually use:
Imagine

Whoops, jtem just left the room.
duke
*****
Matthew 22
14"For many are invited, but few are chosen."
*****
.
User: "JTEM"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 01 Nov 2004 10:51:00 AM
"duke" <duckgumbo32@cox.net> wrote

Whoops,

Ironically, this would be appropriate for everything you
post.
.


User: "towelie"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 30 Oct 2004 04:26:10 PM
TV's JTEM wrote:

"Newton's Cat" <Flying_Pussy@Antigravity.com> wrote

In Britain homosexuals are trying to make it a crime for
anyone to offer therapeutic help for homosexuals who
want to re-orientate.


Cool!

I disagree that it should be a crime. For whatever reason, if a person
wants to change their sexuality and somebody offers to help them, what is
wrong with that? As long as it's consentual, I have no problem with it.
--
I'm George W. Bush, and Karl Rove approved this message.
aa #2133
ap #19
.
User: "JTEM"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 03:51:22 AM
"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.

Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?
.
User: "towelie"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 04:14:05 AM
TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?

I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime we'll
have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.
--
I'm George W. Bush, and Karl Rove approved this message.
aa #2133
ap #19
.
User: "JTEM"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 11:15:31 AM
"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a
crime we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a
whole can of worms.

There is a big difference that you're ignoring.
We are talking about licensed professionals here, doing
the opposite of that their license requires.
Obviously if someone wants to "Change" then they feel
very bad about themselves. These professionals are not
changing them, but they are validating those bad feelings,
making the patients even worse.
So the end results is that the "Patients" are every bit as
guy as they were when they began "Therapy," but they
now have the added weight from 1) the failure to change
and 2) the authority figure of the therapist confirming
their bad feelings.
.

User: "The other Donald"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 09:33:02 AM
"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime we'll
have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.

What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?
Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?
Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their actions?
And no, towlie, I don't see where there is any sort of slippery slope. The
idiots can have their religion, but they cannot use it as some sort of
medical cure. Homosexuality as 'curable' is just another religious scam.
--
-Donald in Austin
AA #2104
Apatriot #22
Atheist FF/EMT
.....and ordained minister
Stork pin recipient: May 1, 2003 -Madelyn
.
User: "towelie"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 10:36:47 AM
TV's The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their
actions?

The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.
--
I'm George W. Bush, and Karl Rove approved this message.
aa #2133
ap #19
.
User: "The other Donald"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 10:48:44 AM
"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ukikrF2btl3sU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their
actions?


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.

Then they should be, and their actions should be criminalized.
Right now here in Texas, we are fighting the Battle of Ignorance with those
morons over what is published in our high school 'health' textbooks
regarding sexuality.
--
-Donald in Austin
AA #2104
Apatriot #22
Atheist FF/EMT
.....and ordained minister
Stork pin recipient: May 1, 2003 -Madelyn
.
User: "Uncle Dollar Bill"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 01:53:02 PM
On Sun, 31 Oct 2004 16:48:44 GMT in alt.atheism, "The other Donald"
<the_donald_13@yeehaw2.com> defied the status quo and scrawled upon the toilet
stall:


"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ukikrF2btl3sU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their
actions?


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.


Then they should be, and their actions should be criminalized.

Right now here in Texas, we are fighting the Battle of Ignorance with those
morons over what is published in our high school 'health' textbooks
regarding sexuality.

Let us not also forget that even if murder is considered part of your religion,
you will nonetheless be prosecuted. There has been a line drawn for some
religiously-motivated forms of murder that are crimes, such as with Satanic
ritual sacrifice (assuming it ever occurs), and some religiously-motivated forms
of murder that aren't - such as with Christian Scientists who let their children
die for lack of medical care. The line is arbitrary and is in desperate need of
erasing.
--
L8r,
Uncle Dollar Bill
"Opinions are like people - every ***** has one..."
.
User: "Mike Painter"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 12:38:24 PM
Uncle Dollar Bill wrote:


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.


Then they should be, and their actions should be criminalized.

Right now here in Texas, we are fighting the Battle of Ignorance
with those morons over what is published in our high school 'health'
textbooks regarding sexuality.


Let us not also forget that even if murder is considered part of your
religion, you will nonetheless be prosecuted. There has been a line
drawn for some religiously-motivated forms of murder that are crimes,
such as with Satanic ritual sacrifice (assuming it ever occurs), and
some religiously-motivated forms of murder that aren't - such as with
Christian Scientists who let their children die for lack of medical
care. The line is arbitrary and is in desperate need of erasing.

It is the choice and right of the christian scientist to refuse medical
treatment.
California has a law which would allow for such people to be treated H&S
5150 says if you are a danger to yourself, to others or unable to care for
yourself you may be committed for 72 hours against your will.
However to invoke such a law would imply that the fundamental beliefs of
these people are wrong.
Those beliefs are based on religion and as stupid as I think religion is,
I'm not willing to remove the rights of those people.
.
User: "Uncle Dollar Bill"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 04:34:01 PM
On Sun, 31 Oct 2004 18:38:24 GMT in alt.atheism, "Mike Painter"
<mddotpainter@sbcglobal.net> defied the status quo and scrawled upon the toilet
stall:

Uncle Dollar Bill wrote:


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.


Then they should be, and their actions should be criminalized.

Right now here in Texas, we are fighting the Battle of Ignorance
with those morons over what is published in our high school 'health'
textbooks regarding sexuality.


Let us not also forget that even if murder is considered part of your
religion, you will nonetheless be prosecuted. There has been a line
drawn for some religiously-motivated forms of murder that are crimes,
such as with Satanic ritual sacrifice (assuming it ever occurs), and
some religiously-motivated forms of murder that aren't - such as with
Christian Scientists who let their children die for lack of medical
care. The line is arbitrary and is in desperate need of erasing.


It is the choice and right of the christian scientist to refuse medical
treatment.

When an adult Christian Scientist is making that choice for his or her self, I
wholeheartedly agree. When they're making that choice on behalf of their
defenseless dependant children, I wholeheartedly disagree. It's child abuse,
plain & simple, and when the child dies, it's murder.

California has a law which would allow for such people to be treated H&S
5150 says if you are a danger to yourself, to others or unable to care for
yourself you may be committed for 72 hours against your will.

However to invoke such a law would imply that the fundamental beliefs of
these people are wrong.
Those beliefs are based on religion and as stupid as I think religion is,
I'm not willing to remove the rights of those people.

Danger to themselves - agree. Danger to others - disagree.
--
L8r,
Uncle Dollar Bill
"Opinions are like people - every ***** has one..."
.




User: "Mark K. Bilbo"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 04:22:37 PM
In our last episode <2ukikrF2btl3sU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out of
the bushes shouting:

TV's The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their actions?


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.

Here we go, read this:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/weekend/story/0,3605,1183596,00.html
Found it while I was trying to find *some evidence that "Newton's Cat"
wasn't making this ***** up (by the way, I can't find any evidence that
there's any discussion in the UK to ban "reorientation therapy," it
apparently doesn't even *exist in the UK).
Get this from the above:
"There is no such thing as a homosexual," the chief speaker, a clinical
psychologist called Dr Joseph Nicolosi, assures his audience. "Everyone is
heterosexual. Some of you may have a homosexual problem. But you are still
a heterosexual. 'Homosexual' is simply a description of a psychological
disorder, prompted by an inner sense of emptiness. This," he reminds them,
"by the way, is non-religious, non-political information. This is
scientific information."
This is what I mean. Pseudo-scientific claims and offers of "therapy."
We don't have to go anywhere *near religion. The "repairative therapy"
bunch are making claims of being *scientific.
Here in the US we do at least this much:
"Since 1998, any client in the US seeking reparative therapy has been
obliged by the American Psychiatric Association to sign a consent form
acknowledging its position: that sexual reorientation is impossible and
that attempting it may cause psychological harm."
(I did not know that myself)
Read the article, though, and pay *particular attention to what Nicolosi
considers a "success." It's interesting.
I just LOVE this part:
"[Nicolosi's] clients are encouraged to form healthy friendships with
straight men, take vigorous physical exercise and use manly vocabulary
such as 'dude.'"
I like to fell out of my chair laughing at that one.
Huh. Despite the layoff (which started around August after the Great
Flower Bed Disaster <g>), my bench press is still more than my body
weight. My closest friends are *very straight males. And while I never
picked up "dude" (I lived for years in LA, it's surfer lingo <g>), I cuss
like a construction worker. I've also worked construction. I like pickup
trucks and hand guns. I like dogs, don't care much for cats (though
kittens are fun). Prefer Pit Bulls. Wear jeans, t-shirts, and baseball cap.
I wish that ***** Nicolosi would get in *my face about masculinity.
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Alt-atheism website at: http://www.alt-atheism.org
-----------------------------------------------------------
"Being surprised at the fact that the universe
is fine tuned for life is akin to a puddle being
surprised at how well it fits its hole"
-- Douglas Adams
.
User: "Mekkala"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 01 Nov 2004 12:12:21 PM
On Sun 31 Oct 2004 04:22:37p, "Mark K. Bilbo"
<alt-atheism@org.webmaster> kicked back with a beer, ruminated at
length, fell asleep, woke up, lit up a joint, then fell asleep again
after thoughtfully blurting out:

In our last episode <2ukikrF2btl3sU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out
of the bushes shouting:

TV's The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for
a person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their
actions?


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.


Here we go, read this:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/weekend/story/0,3605,1183596,00.html

Found it while I was trying to find *some evidence that "Newton's Cat"
wasn't making this ***** up (by the way, I can't find any evidence that
there's any discussion in the UK to ban "reorientation therapy," it
apparently doesn't even *exist in the UK).

Get this from the above:

"There is no such thing as a homosexual," the chief speaker, a
clinical psychologist called Dr Joseph Nicolosi, assures his audience.
"Everyone is heterosexual. Some of you may have a homosexual problem.
But you are still a heterosexual. 'Homosexual' is simply a description
of a psychological disorder, prompted by an inner sense of emptiness.
This," he reminds them, "by the way, is non-religious, non-political
information. This is scientific information."


This is what I mean. Pseudo-scientific claims and offers of "therapy."
We don't have to go anywhere *near religion. The "repairative therapy"
bunch are making claims of being *scientific.

Here in the US we do at least this much:

"Since 1998, any client in the US seeking reparative therapy has been
obliged by the American Psychiatric Association to sign a consent form
acknowledging its position: that sexual reorientation is impossible
and that attempting it may cause psychological harm."

(I did not know that myself)

Read the article, though, and pay *particular attention to what
Nicolosi considers a "success." It's interesting.

I just LOVE this part:

"[Nicolosi's] clients are encouraged to form healthy friendships with
straight men, take vigorous physical exercise and use manly vocabulary
such as 'dude.'"

I like to fell out of my chair laughing at that one.

Huh. Despite the layoff (which started around August after the Great
Flower Bed Disaster <g>), my bench press is still more than my body
weight. My closest friends are *very straight males. And while I never
picked up "dude" (I lived for years in LA, it's surfer lingo <g>), I
cuss like a construction worker. I've also worked construction. I like
pickup trucks and hand guns. I like dogs, don't care much for cats
(though kittens are fun). Prefer Pit Bulls. Wear jeans, t-shirts, and
baseball cap.

I wish that ***** Nicolosi would get in *my face about masculinity.

It's the stereotype. More gay men are effeminate than straight men, so
even though there are plenty of manly gay men and effeminate straight
men (hell, I'm a bit effeminate myself, but then a good number of women
like that, so I get by just fine ;) ), people tend to assume that gay =
feminine, straight = masculine.
--
Mekkala, Atheist #2148
"Atheism is ... the bed-rock of sanity in a world of madness."
--Emmett F. Fields
.
User: "Mark K. Bilbo"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 01 Nov 2004 01:05:21 PM
In our last episode <Xns95947DD5FE7F6Mekkala@199.45.49.11>, Mekkala lept
out of the bushes shouting:

On Sun 31 Oct 2004 04:22:37p, "Mark K. Bilbo" <alt-atheism@org.webmaster>
kicked back with a beer, ruminated at length, fell asleep, woke up, lit up
a joint, then fell asleep again after thoughtfully blurting out:

In our last episode <2ukikrF2btl3sU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out of
the bushes shouting:

TV's The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their
actions?


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.


Here we go, read this:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/weekend/story/0,3605,1183596,00.html

Found it while I was trying to find *some evidence that "Newton's Cat"
wasn't making this ***** up (by the way, I can't find any evidence that
there's any discussion in the UK to ban "reorientation therapy," it
apparently doesn't even *exist in the UK).

Get this from the above:

"There is no such thing as a homosexual," the chief speaker, a clinical
psychologist called Dr Joseph Nicolosi, assures his audience. "Everyone
is heterosexual. Some of you may have a homosexual problem. But you are
still a heterosexual. 'Homosexual' is simply a description of a
psychological disorder, prompted by an inner sense of emptiness. This,"
he reminds them, "by the way, is non-religious, non-political
information. This is scientific information."


This is what I mean. Pseudo-scientific claims and offers of "therapy."
We don't have to go anywhere *near religion. The "repairative therapy"
bunch are making claims of being *scientific.

Here in the US we do at least this much:

"Since 1998, any client in the US seeking reparative therapy has been
obliged by the American Psychiatric Association to sign a consent form
acknowledging its position: that sexual reorientation is impossible and
that attempting it may cause psychological harm."

(I did not know that myself)

Read the article, though, and pay *particular attention to what Nicolosi
considers a "success." It's interesting.

I just LOVE this part:

"[Nicolosi's] clients are encouraged to form healthy friendships with
straight men, take vigorous physical exercise and use manly vocabulary
such as 'dude.'"

I like to fell out of my chair laughing at that one.

Huh. Despite the layoff (which started around August after the Great
Flower Bed Disaster <g>), my bench press is still more than my body
weight. My closest friends are *very straight males. And while I never
picked up "dude" (I lived for years in LA, it's surfer lingo <g>), I
cuss like a construction worker. I've also worked construction. I like
pickup trucks and hand guns. I like dogs, don't care much for cats
(though kittens are fun). Prefer Pit Bulls. Wear jeans, t-shirts, and
baseball cap.

I wish that ***** Nicolosi would get in *my face about masculinity.


It's the stereotype. More gay men are effeminate than straight men, so
even though there are plenty of manly gay men and effeminate straight men
(hell, I'm a bit effeminate myself, but then a good number of women like
that, so I get by just fine ;) ), people tend to assume that gay =
feminine, straight = masculine.

I wonder is it that more are or that people notice them more? I don't
actually know. But I gotta wonder...
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Alt-atheism website at: http://www.alt-atheism.org
-----------------------------------------------------------
"Being surprised at the fact that the universe
is fine tuned for life is akin to a puddle being
surprised at how well it fits its hole"
-- Douglas Adams
.



User: "Mark K. Bilbo"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 03:37:02 PM
In our last episode <2ukikrF2btl3sU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out of
the bushes shouting:

TV's The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their actions?


The Christian Scientists do exactly this, and they go unpunished.

You can do it to *yourself. You can't open up shop and charge the public
for "cures" that are draped in pseudo-scientific language.
Keep in mind that repairative therapy is claimed to be "scientific." They
are making promises--and, oh yes, charging money--for a "therapy."
Yes, you can claim Jeeebus will magick away the gay. You can pray at
people all day long. Claim you have a *therapy, you're in a very different
realm...
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Alt-atheism website at: http://www.alt-atheism.org
-----------------------------------------------------------
"Being surprised at the fact that the universe
is fine tuned for life is akin to a puddle being
surprised at how well it fits its hole"
-- Douglas Adams
.


User: "Mike Painter"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 12:33:37 PM
The other Donald wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


What if religious tripe was used to treat cancer?

Or, instead of a tetanus shot, a doctor prescribed daily prayers for a
person that stepped on a rusty nail?

Would you then change your mind as to the criminality of their
actions?

Those actions are illegal if done by the medical profession.
Even Chiropractors would go to jail for such action and the basis of their
belief is that *anything* can be cured by adjustments. (One of them could
cure my poverty if they accepted Randi's challenge and gave the money to
me... if they won)
If Joe the atheist was in Fred's will and convinced him that prayer would
cure him of his disease and he died I suspect there might be some criminal
action that could be brought.
However if a bunch of sincere people stand around and pray for a dying
person of the same faith I suspect it would be hard to prove criminal action
even if the person was not consulted.
That would have happened here a few years ago had the people not contacted
the woman's son. He got there and called 911.
I was first in the door and was told by a sincere lady that the woman would
not go to the hospital.
The paramedics got there a few minutes later and one of them said "If you go
to the hospital you will live. If you stay here you will die by morning."
She went, she lived. (Congestive heart failure.)
There was a "miracle" that night. I watched them land a copter on a dark
road with powerlines and trees coming right to the edge. I didn't think it
could have been towed in there.
.


User: "Mark K. Bilbo"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 05:46:02 AM
In our last episode <2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out of
the bushes shouting:

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime we'll
have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.

If they practice medicine, psychiatry, or any such thing, we damn well can
regulate it. And *do.
Or should we grant a "religious exemption" in the medical fields?
--
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EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Alt-atheism website at: http://www.alt-atheism.org
-----------------------------------------------------------
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is fine tuned for life is akin to a puddle being
surprised at how well it fits its hole"
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User: "Al Klein"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 09:58:16 AM
On Sun, 31 Oct 2004 05:46:02 -0600, "Mark K. Bilbo"
<alt-atheism@org.webmaster> said in alt.atheism:

In our last episode <2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out of
the bushes shouting:
If they practice medicine, psychiatry, or any such thing, we damn well can
regulate it. And *do.
Or should we grant a "religious exemption" in the medical fields?

We already do. Faith healing isn't illegal - it's constitutionally
protected. You can kill a person by convincing him that you can
protect his soul from hell if he refrains from seeking medical
treatment and you can't be prosecuted for it.
--
"Christians, it is needless to say, utterly detest each other. They slander each
other constantly with the vilest forms of abuse and cannot come to any sort of
agreement in their teachings. Each sect brands its own, fills the head of its own
with deceitful nonsense, and makes perfect little pigs of those it wins over to its
side."
- Celsus On the True Doctrine, translated by R. Joseph Hoffman, Oxford University Press, 1987
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User: "Mark K. Bilbo"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 03:20:39 PM
In our last episode <vp2ao05h2emke0o3p0roh6gj2metbsjfrm@4ax.com>, Al Klein
lept out of the bushes shouting:

On Sun, 31 Oct 2004 05:46:02 -0600, "Mark K. Bilbo"
<alt-atheism@org.webmaster> said in alt.atheism:

In our last episode <2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out of
the bushes shouting:


If they practice medicine, psychiatry, or any such thing, we damn well
can regulate it. And *do.


Or should we grant a "religious exemption" in the medical fields?


We already do. Faith healing isn't illegal - it's constitutionally
protected. You can kill a person by convincing him that you can protect
his soul from hell if he refrains from seeking medical treatment and you
can't be prosecuted for it.

Yes but.
I know it's a fine line *here because of separation being overtly
expressed in our Constitution and because the government is too quick to
pander to the religious but, still, claiming "religious freedom" won't
protect you if you are practicing medicine without licensing or offering
quack "cures." Many folks have discovered this the hard way.
It's true that you can get away with a *lot more than I think we ought to
allow but the courts don't treat "religious freedom" as an instant "get
out of the law free" card.
Well, not *yet. The Christians *are working on that.
(Anyway, this *alleged event--considering the source, I want a cite before
I'll believe anything--isn't taking place in the US to begin with.)
My point is "repairative therapy" is known *quackery. They try stealing
the authority of science by clothing it in pseudo-science babble but it's
just snake oil. There's no such thing as a "cure" for homosexuality.
We *do have the legal authority and obligation to regulate that.
They want to claim in their churches that Jeebus magicks away the gay,
that's pretty much out of reach. When they try claiming they have a
*therapy, they're stepping outside the protection of religious freedom.
Now they might get away with it *here. But that doesn't mean the Brits
have to put up with the snake oil salesmen and quacks does it?
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Alt-atheism website at: http://www.alt-atheism.org
-----------------------------------------------------------
"Being surprised at the fact that the universe
is fine tuned for life is akin to a puddle being
surprised at how well it fits its hole"
-- Douglas Adams
.
User: "Al Klein"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 09:39:25 PM
On Sun, 31 Oct 2004 15:20:39 -0600, "Mark K. Bilbo"
<alt-atheism@org.webmaster> said in alt.atheism:

My point is "repairative therapy" is known *quackery.

Well, wait a minute.
If they try to coercively change a homosexual to heterosexuality, it's
assault, or something close, and medical (probably) quackery.
But what if someone who's lived a homosexual life for years decides
that he *wants* to live heterosexually, but he's
afraid|confused|whatever, and *wants* outside help to adjust? Would
you consider that a therapist|psychologist|psychiatrist who attempts
to help him is committing quackery? (We're probably talking about
someone who *is* heterosexual, but has been living a homosexual life -
not a homosexual. But how does anyone but the subject know?)

They try stealing
the authority of science by clothing it in pseudo-science babble but it's
just snake oil. There's no such thing as a "cure" for homosexuality.

The same as the "cure" for heterosexuality, genetic maleness, etc.
It's called death.

Now they might get away with it *here. But that doesn't mean the Brits
have to put up with the snake oil salesmen and quacks does it?

If Shrubby has his way, it does. After all, what gives the Brits the
right that no one else in this world has - to not do what Shrubbery's
god wants?
--
"Christians, it is needless to say, utterly detest each other. They slander each
other constantly with the vilest forms of abuse and cannot come to any sort of
agreement in their teachings. Each sect brands its own, fills the head of its own
with deceitful nonsense, and makes perfect little pigs of those it wins over to its
side."
- Celsus On the True Doctrine, translated by R. Joseph Hoffman, Oxford University Press, 1987
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User: "JTEM"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 01 Nov 2004 10:21:20 AM
"Al Klein" <rukbat@pern.invalid> wrote

But what if someone who's lived a homosexual life for years decides
that he *wants* to live heterosexually, but he's
afraid|confused|whatever, and *wants* outside help to adjust? Would
you consider that a therapist|psychologist|psychiatrist who attempts
to help him is committing quackery?

Help him "Change"?
Yes. Definitely. There is no question.
.

User: "Mark K. Bilbo"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 01 Nov 2004 06:40:51 AM
In our last episode <tkbbo0dq2cv5fmurq3507slu2njdo9ds13@4ax.com>, Al Klein
lept out of the bushes shouting:

On Sun, 31 Oct 2004 15:20:39 -0600, "Mark K. Bilbo"
<alt-atheism@org.webmaster> said in alt.atheism:

My point is "repairative therapy" is known *quackery.


Well, wait a minute.

If they try to coercively change a homosexual to heterosexuality, it's
assault, or something close, and medical (probably) quackery.

But what if someone who's lived a homosexual life for years decides that
he *wants* to live heterosexually, but he's afraid|confused|whatever, and
*wants* outside help to adjust? Would you consider that a
therapist|psychologist|psychiatrist who attempts to help him is committing
quackery? (We're probably talking about someone who *is* heterosexual,
but has been living a homosexual life - not a homosexual. But how does
anyone but the subject know?)

Attempts to help him deal with whatever is going on with him or offers to
"cure" him of his homosexuality? Offering a bogus "cure" is *always
quackery. What are we talking about here? NARTH and the "repairative
therapy" crew are offering something that flat does *not *exist (and
they're taking money for it by the way).
Someone who *isn't homosexual but has been behaving exclusively
homosexual? In *this society? I could buy the *reverse given the social
pressures. That actually happens. Men who are predominantly (but not
necessarily totally) homosexual who bend to social pressures and end up
married. Even manage to maintain some degree of a straight relationship
though it's an unstable situation and pretty much inevitably blows up in
their faces (and the woman's and any kids involved... NARTH is *so "family
values" oriented, they're setting people up to do serious emotional damage
to spouses and children).
I suppose given how variable (and even odd) we humans can be, there could
be some number of bisexuals who, for whatever reason, have trouble forming
relationships with the opposite sex and want help dealing with that?
But that's not changing an orientation. That would be something else.
And one thing else it would be is hard to believe. I mean in *this
society? A guy who never had any opportunities to have sex with women?
Um... how likely is *that?

They try stealing
the authority of science by clothing it in pseudo-science babble but it's
just snake oil. There's no such thing as a "cure" for homosexuality.


The same as the "cure" for heterosexuality, genetic maleness, etc. It's
called death.

Now they might get away with it *here. But that doesn't mean the Brits
have to put up with the snake oil salesmen and quacks does it?


If Shrubby has his way, it does. After all, what gives the Brits the
right that no one else in this world has - to not do what Shrubbery's god
wants?

Well, given his track record, even if he got really mad at the British,
he'd probably invade... Australia?
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Alt-atheism website at: http://www.alt-atheism.org
-----------------------------------------------------------
"Being surprised at the fact that the universe
is fine tuned for life is akin to a puddle being
surprised at how well it fits its hole"
-- Douglas Adams
.
User: "Al Klein"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 01 Nov 2004 11:04:29 PM
On Mon, 01 Nov 2004 06:40:51 -0600, "Mark K. Bilbo"
<alt-atheism@org.webmaster> said in alt.atheism:

In our last episode <tkbbo0dq2cv5fmurq3507slu2njdo9ds13@4ax.com>, Al Klein
lept out of the bushes shouting:

But what if someone who's lived a homosexual life for years decides that
he *wants* to live heterosexually, but he's afraid|confused|whatever, and
*wants* outside help to adjust? Would you consider that a
therapist|psychologist|psychiatrist who attempts to help him is committing
quackery? (We're probably talking about someone who *is* heterosexual,
but has been living a homosexual life - not a homosexual. But how does
anyone but the subject know?)

Attempts to help him deal with whatever is going on with him or offers to
"cure" him of his homosexuality?

"Eat the sky". "Cure ... of homosexuality" parses, but makes no
sense. Unless "cure ... of being human" does.

Someone who *isn't homosexual but has been behaving exclusively
homosexual? In *this society? I could buy the *reverse given the social
pressures. That actually happens.

I think it happens both ways, but much more often in the former (your
example) case.

Men who are predominantly (but not
necessarily totally) homosexual who bend to social pressures and end up
married.

I know (of - I've lost contact with both of them) 2 who are homosexual
- no interest in women, but married so as to not stand out.

Even manage to maintain some degree of a straight relationship
though it's an unstable situation and pretty much inevitably blows up in
their faces (and the woman's and any kids involved

Yep - both cases above.

I suppose given how variable (and even odd) we humans can be, there could
be some number of bisexuals who, for whatever reason, have trouble forming
relationships with the opposite sex and want help dealing with that?

Almost certainly. Name a possible condition and there are probably
some people in it.

And one thing else it would be is hard to believe. I mean in *this
society? A guy who never had any opportunities to have sex with women?
Um... how likely is *that?

Opportunities? Where did that one come from? (Not that, when I was a
teenager, there were many opportunities. But, then, I'm one of the
oldest posters here. :) )

If Shrubby has his way, it does. After all, what gives the Brits the
right that no one else in this world has - to not do what Shrubbery's god
wants?

Well, given his track record, even if he got really mad at the British,
he'd probably invade... Australia?

No, they're (now) fundy friends. He'd probably invade Iceland. Or
Paraguay. Or New Mexico. That's a foreign country, isn't it?
--
"Christians, it is needless to say, utterly detest each other. They slander each
other constantly with the vilest forms of abuse and cannot come to any sort of
agreement in their teachings. Each sect brands its own, fills the head of its own
with deceitful nonsense, and makes perfect little pigs of those it wins over to its
side."
- Celsus On the True Doctrine, translated by R. Joseph Hoffman, Oxford University Press, 1987
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User: "towelie"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 09:03:39 AM
TV's Mark K. Bilbo wrote:

In our last episode <2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out
of the bushes shouting:

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


If they practice medicine, psychiatry, or any such thing, we damn
well can regulate it. And *do.

Or should we grant a "religious exemption" in the medical fields?

They already have "christian counseling."
--
I'm George W. Bush, and Karl Rove approved this message.
aa #2133
ap #19
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User: "Uncle Dollar Bill"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 31 Oct 2004 12:13:07 PM
On Sun, 31 Oct 2004 09:03:39 -0600 in alt.atheism, "towelie"
<bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> defied the status quo and scrawled upon the toilet
stall:

TV's Mark K. Bilbo wrote:

In our last episode <2ujsqkF2c09evU1@uni-berlin.de>, towelie lept out
of the bushes shouting:

TV's JTEM wrote:

"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote

I disagree that it should be a crime.


Okay, so you "disagree." Now what about my example?


I agree that it is quackery, but if we make stuff like that a crime
we'll have to ban religion as well. It opens a whole can of worms.


If they practice medicine, psychiatry, or any such thing, we damn
well can regulate it. And *do.

Or should we grant a "religious exemption" in the medical fields?


They already have "christian counseling."

Yuk. Been there, done that. "Christian Counseling" is a bit like telling
someone to kick their drug habit by taking up pot-growing as a hobby. The
problems they counsel are so prolifically self-creating, you'd make more
progress if you simply stayed home and mailed them your checks.
--
L8r,
Uncle Dollar Bill
"Opinions are like people - every ***** has one..."
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User: "kathryn"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 30 Oct 2004 06:36:05 PM
"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2uif7iF2aprt9U1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"Newton's Cat" <Flying_Pussy@Antigravity.com> wrote

In Britain homosexuals are trying to make it a crime for
anyone to offer therapeutic help for homosexuals who
want to re-orientate.


Cool!


I disagree that it should be a crime. For whatever reason, if a person
wants to change their sexuality and somebody offers to help them, what is
wrong with that? As long as it's consentual, I have no problem with it.

--

I'm George W. Bush, and Karl Rove approved this message.

Because most homosexual people are born homosexual? If you've suffered some
kind of experience which makes you adverse to the opposite - for example
some women who were abused by men as a child, then you should be receiving
treatment to get over the abuse not to turn you back to hetrosexuality.
.
User: "Uncle Dollar Bill"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 30 Oct 2004 09:58:06 PM
On Sat, 30 Oct 2004 23:36:05 +0000 (UTC) in alt.atheism, "kathryn" <bob@bob.com>
defied the status quo and scrawled upon the toilet stall:


"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2uif7iF2aprt9U1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"Newton's Cat" <Flying_Pussy@Antigravity.com> wrote

In Britain homosexuals are trying to make it a crime for
anyone to offer therapeutic help for homosexuals who
want to re-orientate.


Cool!


I disagree that it should be a crime. For whatever reason, if a person
wants to change their sexuality and somebody offers to help them, what is
wrong with that? As long as it's consentual, I have no problem with it.

--

I'm George W. Bush, and Karl Rove approved this message.


Because most homosexual people are born homosexual? If you've suffered some
kind of experience which makes you adverse to the opposite - for example
some women who were abused by men as a child, then you should be receiving
treatment to get over the abuse not to turn you back to hetrosexuality.

I feel I was born homosexual, but I'd love to in the worst way lust a woman.
Just to see what it's like. So far, I've only ever "lusted" Melissa Etheridge,
and I don't think that really counts - not 'cuz she's not clearly a woman, but
'cuz I didn't lust her for her body. Her music stirred me so much that I just
wanted to get down & dirty with her, that's all. But to look at a set of
knockers and see them like most straight men appear to? I'd very much like to
be able to do that. Can't, though. :-/
Anyway, if ever sexuality _can_ become a conscious, flexible choice with no
necessary lifelong permanence for anyone who doesn't want it to be permanent,
I'd be all for that, too. I think we're a long, long, long way off from that,
though. There _might_ be a case where someone who has some sort of sexual
_hangup_ could be helped to "get over it" - i.e., someone who really isn't
"gay", but who may be "bi" and just unwilling to accept their feelings towards
the opposite sex for some reason. I'm all for those people getting help, too,
as I see their hangup as a definite and serious problem. But with everything we
know at present, you're not going to let something "emerge" that isn't already
there.
.
User: "Mark K. Bilbo"

Title: Re: Sexual re-orientation 30 Oct 2004 07:35:29 PM
In our last episode <41845388.1480694@newsgroups.bellsouth.net>, Uncle
Dollar Bill lept out of the bushes shouting:

On Sat, 30 Oct 2004 23:36:05 +0000 (UTC) in alt.atheism, "kathryn"
<bob@bob.com> defied the status quo and scrawled upon the toilet stall:


"towelie" <bugoNOSPAM@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2uif7iF2aprt9U1@uni-berlin.de...

TV's JTEM wrote:

"Newton's Cat" <Flying_Pussy@Antigravity.com> wrote

In Britain homosexuals are trying to make it a crime for anyone to
offer therapeutic help for homosexuals who want to re-orientate.


Cool!


I disagree that it should be a crime. For whatever reason, if a person
wants to change their sexuality and somebody offers to help them, what
is wrong with that? As long as it's consentual, I have no problem with
it.

--

I'm George W. Bush, and Karl Rove approved this message.


Because most homosexual people are born homosexual? If you've suffered
some kind of experience which makes you adverse to the opposite - for
example some women who were abused by men as a child, then you should be
receiving treatment to get over the abuse not to turn you back to
hetrosexuality.


I feel I was born homosexual, but I'd love to in the worst way lust a
woman. Just to see what it's like.

Really? Not me. I have simply never been interested. Or thought about
being interested. Or been curious about thinking about being interested.
I must anchor one of the extreme ends of the spectrum. <g>
To this *day, men being attracted to women just confuses me. I deal with
it intellectually, knowing its there and for good evolutionary reasons
(<g>) but I'll never know *why.

So far, I've only ever "lusted"
Melissa Etheridge, and I don't think that really counts - not 'cuz she's
not clearly a woman, but 'cuz I didn't lust her for her body. Her music
stirred me so much that I just wanted to get down & dirty with her, that's
all. But to look at a set of knockers and see them like most straight men
appear to? I'd very much like to be able to do that. Can't, though. :-/

Anyway, if ever sexuality _can_ become a conscious, flexible choice with
no necessary lifelong permanence for anyone who doesn't want it to be
permanent, I'd be all for that, too. I think we're a long, long, long way
off from that, though. There _might_ be a case where someone who has some
sort of sexual _hangup_ could be helped to "get over it" - i.e., someone
who really isn't "gay", but who may be "bi" and just unwilling to accept
their feelings towards the opposite sex for some reason. I'm all for
those people getting help, too, as I see their hangup as a definite and
serious problem. But with everything we know at present, you're not going
to let something "emerge" that isn't already there.

The time it'll take to figure sexuality out to the level we could "change"
anything, human society will have just gotten *over it (among a lot of
things that seem "important" now) and the stresses that make people want
to "change" will have vanished or...
We just won't be here having gone extinct at our own hands.
--
Mark K. Bilbo - a.a. #1423
EAC Department of Linguistic Subversion
Alt-atheism website at: http://www.alt-atheism.org
-----------------------------------------------------------
"Being surprised at the fact that the universe
is fine tuned for life is akin to a puddle being
surprised at how well it fits its hole"
-- Douglas Adams
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