On Wed, 25 Feb 2004 10:00:47 -0500, Pastor Dave
<nospam*-*pastordave38@yahoo.com> wrote:
On 22 Feb 2004 16:26:22 -0800,
nelliganemile@hotmail.com (Brent Norman) spake thusly:
Pastor Dave <nospam-draymond@minister.com> wrote in message news:<oahh30hh0jksp2s5e8us73cpr5q0b1d3fj@4ax.com>...
On 21 Feb 2004 17:33:22 -0800,
nelliganemile@hotmail.com (Brent Norman) spake thusly:
I've done much snippage here. The reason is that I
just want to deal with the points and this post is
getting to be book size. :)
So you tell stories involving your gay partner, instead
of a heterosexual one. That equals a change of
lifestyle.
How do we define any "lifestyle"?
Now you're being evasive.
Am I?
Yes.
You also keep a different circle of
friends. Gay friends that you would probably never
have met, if you were not homosexual.
Now we're talking!
Finally, an admission. I've snipped the attempt to
explain it away. The point is, that what I said is
accurate. The fact is, that you said that it didn't
make any difference in your lifestyle and yet, it does.
Does having gay friends constitute a significant change in lifestyle?
I don't think so.
Then you are not honest, because it's more than just
knowing gay people. We've been over this. You're
running in circles here.
Absolutely, but I am not alone. I am only echoing what
God has said on the matter. I happen to agree with
Him. :)
God's word never said anything about a homosexual lifestyle, at least
nothing that is recognizable today.
God's word stands forever and the Bible clearly
condemns homosexual acts.
It is clear in the modern translations, perhaps, but the original
sources, call that into question. This is treading close on a
completely different thread, since the core of this thread is civil
marriage, not religious.
The original sources don't call it into question at
all. In fact, if you think they do, then tell me
exactly which passages you're discussing and we can
deal with them. I would welcome such a conversation.
There are several versions of the Bible that actually use the word
"homosexual" (1 Corinthians and Timothy) in a list of offenders, to
support the view of homosexuality being a sin. We both know what
passages are being referred to. We have the Leviticus codes that
people like to employ in their position. The extremists seem to
inconsistently apply those codes like a choose-your-own-adventure
novel, discounting the fact that many of the rules dictated here have
faded to irrelevancy in modern times, and had a specific purpose at
the time they were given to the people.
God's word stands forever and homosexual acts are not
new, so it still applies. What you're really saying,
is that modern society accepts homosexuality. That
isn't true either. Some people do and guess what,
there were more people back then who did. It was
considered part of life in many cultures and yet, the
Bible says what it says, so the times are irrelevant.
Then there's the S&G story(Genesis 19), which I believe has no
description of any homosexuals I have ever ever known. One would have
to disregard the traditional uses of the Hebrew in order to believe
that this is a condemnation of homosexuality.
That's a ridiculous statement. You'd have to twist it
pretty badly, to make it say anything other than a
condemnation of homosexual acts.
Through the ages the
story has changed its flavour from its original intent and purpose,
more tinged with cultural pollution stemming from about the 13th
Century. As soon as historical and Biblical context is added in, the
apparent meaning changes.
That's an accusation, not a fact. But see, here is
where the homosexual tries to protect himself. Just in
case I do prove that it is condemning homosexual acts,
you'll tell me that it has changed anyway.
Other references to that story do not mention homosexuality at all
when referring to the crimes of the cities. Even the very use of the
word 'sodomy' that some people use to describe a homosexual(male) act,
is an invention that stems from cultural influences, rather than true
Biblical foundations.
Wrong. Jude references the events told in Genesis and
tells us it was sexual sin...
"Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them
in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication,
and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an
example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire."
- Jude 7
Lastly, the passages from Romans 1:26-27. Paul's writings are
challenging at best, using familiar words in unfamiliar ways. The
people he is describing were not homosexuals, or, at very least,
unlike any homosexuals alive today. This passage is describing some
type of idolatrous ritual/worship for which there is no modern
equivalent, but would have been clearly understood by the people of
the time. If Paul were around today, he might write a proscription on
a modern type of idol worship, internet porn addiction, which is
completely understood by any of us today, but if applied to the people
of Paul's time, would be completely irrelevant. It simply didn't
exist. Just as the practices that Paul describes here don't exist
today.
Paul describes what started in idolatry. His
statements tells us that. He is not limiting it to
that. He tells us where it started.
Of course I agree with you, but we are not talking
about "many things". We are talking about men dressing
up as women, dancing half naked down the street.
It's sensationalism, and unnecessary.
It is morally wrong, but it is an accurate reflection.
I think you mistake acceptance of people who are
different, with accepting everything that they do.
In terms of homosexual acts, you do not have to approve of what they
do, you are not privy to those things which you object to. If I was
one of the biblical literalist-extremists, I could conceivably
disapprove of heterosexuals having any sort of non-procreative sex,
That's not what the Bible says. Having sex out of
wedlock is fornication though and that is what
homosexuals do.
"But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman
to lust after her hath committed adultery with her
already in his heart." - Matthew 5:28
According to that line, practically everyone is guilty of sin in the
same degree.
Yes, that's true. But we aren't talking about
"everybody".
So if I would get myself married to a woman, and have heterosexual
relations with her, yet the whole time be thinking of being with a
man, I have already committed the 'sin' of homosexuality, which is the
same as actually doing it.
You would be guilty of lust.
I was implying that you might approve of a homosexual male couple that
doesn't have anal sex, and only kisses and holds hands.
No, I wouldn't.
Basing it on the modern Bible, it doesn't show anything that clearly
forbids the above, does it? Why would you not approve, if you could
know for sure that the couple doesn't engage in sex? ('lie' with one
another as they do with women)
It doesn't specifically condemn cocaine. Does that
mean it's okay? What the Bible does condemn, is
homosexual sex.
Please show me where homosexual sex is condemned in the Bible.
You already mentioned some relevant passages. Would
you like to discuss them?
Adultery is hurtful to the parties involved, whether they know or not.
And I believe that homosexual acts are as well. The
Bible teaches that. Read Romans 1. Homosexual acts
and lusts are the result of man worshipping false gods,
many years ago.
The concepts referenced in Romans 1 involve practices and consequences
that no longer exist today, and haven't existed for centuries. Those
people were immersed in evil, doing all kinds of evil without any
remorse.
No, Romans 1 starts with those practices. It does not
end the discussion there.
Romans 1 starts with idolatrous practices, and ends with people going
against their natures, sinking deeper and deeper into crazed evil
lunatics that have no regard for anything good. I've seen people
using Romans 1 to conclude that God sent HIV/AIDS to homosexuals as
fulfillment of Romans 12:26-27, a laughable premise at best.
Romans 1 does not end up with people going against
their nature. I can see you have been reading the
typical homosexual propaganda. :) Romans 1 deals with
people going against nature, period. As I said, we can
discuss it. I have no problem with that, as I'm sure
you guessed. :)
I'm sorry that we don't meet on that point. I may be guilty of
certain sins at certain times, but my life is not full of sin. My life
is full of love, friendship, peace, joy, pain, uncertainty, fun,
creativity, and family. I have been blessed with having the best
friends, health and family a guy could ask for, and I thank God for it
every day. How do I show it? I try to impart the same feelings to
everyone I meet in the course of my life, so that others may have
similar. But at the end of the day, we are all sinners in one way or
another. I truly seek to live my life by the golden rule, which I
believe to be a universal truth
You see yourself as a good guy.
I would like to think that I try not to do wrong to anyone, and I hope
to be treated in a similar fashion.
You do wrong. We all do wrong. The problem is that
man doesn't admit it to himself.
Mark 12:
30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with
all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this
is the first commandment.
31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour
as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these
Loving your neighbor does not, nor has it ever
consisted of approving of their sin. You are misusing
Scripture here.
You don't truly know your neighbour's sins, that is between God and
the person committing it, unless that sin affects someone negatively,
such as in the case of rape, stealing, murder or deception. Even if
having a specific type of sex is a sin, you will likely not be privy
to such encounters, be it salacious details or direct observation,
again unless it was a crime like rape.
When someone has a homosexual relationship going on,
then yes, I do know my neighbors sins. :)
Do you spy on your neighbours, often?