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User: "Bible John, BA"
Date: 10 Aug 2005 05:10:42 PM
Object: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people
I strive to have good spelling, grammar and mechanics in these studies.
But I do make mistakes from time to time so please be so kind and report
what you find to me. Thank you!
I like to start some of my bible messages with something kinda funny so
Listen to this.
A 92-yr old man went to the Dr to get a physical. About a week later
the doctor saw the man walking down the street with a beautiful woman.
The doctor surprised stopped the man and asked if the man was doing
good. The man replied and said that he was only following his
orders. You said to get a hot mamma and stay cheerful. The doctor
said, no I never said that, I said that you had a heart murmur and to be
careful!
Alright Christians as you read this I want you to hold up your bibles and
repeat the following like you mean it.
-------
This is my Bible I am what it says I am, I have what it says I have, and
I can do what it says I can to do.
Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess that my mind
is alert and my heart is receptive, and that I will never be the same.
I am about to receive the, incorruptible, indestructible seed of the word
of God, I will never be the same, never, never, never, I will be never
be the same.
In Jesus name
-----------
Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged
people
All of us know of people in our lives that are disabled, mentally ill,
or disadvantaged in some way.
Showing little attention to disabled people and special attention to
non-disabled people is what I have done many times in my life.
I can remember Back in my Community College days knowing a student named
Henry. Henry was both physically and learning disabled. Henry got
teased often not only because of his Tom Hanks look alike features but
because of his disabilities. I was not the only one to tease him nor
did I tease him the most, but I did target him often enough that he
never forgot me. Well I never saw Henry after the Fall 1997 semester
until about a year later when he got hired to work in sales at a company
that I was employed with at the time.
Henry tried to be a very honest employee, but because of his somewhat
loud awkward voice, with the addition of his learning and physical
disabilities he was sort of out of place at the company and the store
manager knew this. The store manager would often target Henry by
looking for all his faults, asking employees to time his breaks, and
also to monitor his every move. I remember once Henry applied to be
technology sales supervisor (a position I later was promoted to with
little effort on my part) and was refused it very quickly. Henry knew
his tech stuff, perhaps more than myself, and certainly more than the
other employees working in that department of the time. But what hurt
Henry getting his supervisor promotion was probably his very obvious
disabilities which customers often found awkward.
Customers would often complain about Henry, which did land him in bad
terms with management. Because of issues he had no control over Henry
did not seem the right fit for a supervisor position, which angered him
even more. Henry also required a caretaker whom would assist him with
his learning disabilities from time to time. This along with his
disabilities made it hard for him to be a right fit for a supervisor
position.
In response to his denial from becoming supervisor he would always carry
a small pocket notepad with him and take notes, and I remember once he
brought a tape recorder in the store and threatened to record anyone
that so called harassed him! Then I remember one day in 1998 Henry made
a mistake that cost the company some $600 dollars. This was all the
manager needed to fire Henry, which did happen on his next shift.
Typically a manager who acts in a professional manor would call an
employee into the office and fire him, but in this case the store
manager fired Henry right on the sales floor! Henry got angry and yelled
at the store manager right then and there. I know all this because I
was near the scene. The shouting match was so loud that it got the
attention of others, and all employees near the scene knew that Henry
was fired!
Some time later Henry filed a lawsuit against the company to prove
unjust terminated based on a disability or disabilities and won some
money giving him a free trip to Stanford University later to earn a
degree in Computer science. It was about 4 years later that I saw Henry
in the store in 2002 during a time when I was a very successful
technology sales supervisor. Like all customers I tried to treat Henry
like he was my no#1 customer, but Henry refused to receive any service
from me, probably because of the way I treated him in the past. He made
his dissatisfaction with me very vocal which got the attention of some
onlookers. I failed with Henry because I failed to treat him like he
was no#1, and I did pick on him back during our community college days
in 1997. Henry never forgot my sins and probably still holds a grudge
toward me to this very day. So I will say that my example is one not to
follow when dealing with people with disabilities and other
disadvantages like Henry.
There are many passages in scripture that deal with how to treat such
people, but I will focus on only one for this study.
James 2:1-7 (NIV)
James 2:1 My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ,
dont show favoritism.
This is all too often almost impossible to do as Christians.
Unbelievers always show favoritism, and as the church we should set the
tone. But all too often the church is just like the world. John
MacArthur wrote a book called "Ashamed of the Gospel, when the church
becomes like the world." In it he proves that most of the church is just
like the world, and I would not for a second disagree with John
MacArthur, because what he says on this matter is true!
James 2:2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and
fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in.
James 2:3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes
and say, "Heres a good seat for you," but say to the poor man, "You
stand there" or "Sit on the floor by my feet,"
So many Christians do not practice this! So many pay more attention to
the rich than to the poor. All too often in church ministry in order to
be hired as a leader, you must have it all together. Often in church we
disassociate ourselves with those that do not look the best on the
outside. I remember one time in 2002 as an experiment I showed up to a
college ministry and acted like I was mentally retarded. I dressed like
a child, I spoke like a child, and I very much behaved like a child.
Surprisingly many of the liberals at this church welcomed me, and
offered their assistance. One girl even tried to counsel me with my
highly exaggerated and inflated issues.
James 2:4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges
with evil thoughts?
James 2:5 Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are
poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the
kingdom he promised those who love him?
All too often is it hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.
Matt. 19:24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the
eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."
All too often are the poor the most effective disciples for our Lord.
In my geography I discovered that research proves that those who live in
highly wealthy communities to be less reliant on God than those that
live in poor areas. This is all to say that money does corrupt as the
bible says below.
1Tim. 6:10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some
people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced
themselves with many griefs.
James 2:6 But you have insulted the poor. Is it not the rich who are
exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court?
James 2:7 Are they not the ones who are slandering the noble name of him
to whom you belong?
All too often my problems are with rich people. I've tried many times
to receive assistance on a issue, which many of the rich have refused,
while the some of the poor have assisted. Notice also that in the
passage the bible clearly does not say that a Christian will not got to
court or not have legal matters. There are some that believe that any
Christian that is having legal problems is in sin, but this from the
above seems unbiblical!
So my dear friends please learn the lesson that I did and do not repeat
my treatment of Henry to other Henrys in your life.
Well may God bless you and have a blessed day for ministry!
John Wolf
BA Church Education Ministries, Simpson University 2005
AS Business Computer technology specialist, Canada College 2000
--
BA Church Education Ministries AS Business/IT specialist
CERM- Church Education Resource Ministries
http://johnw.freeshell.org/bible/
http://johnw.freeshell.org/bible/unbeliever_list.htm
2 Tim 4:2
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User: "God"

Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 05:18:50 PM
Cometh the hour, cometh "Bible John, BA" <john.doggett@x-files.gov>
who, with imperceptibly subtle footwork in free.christians, gave us
this:

I do make mistakes from time to time

It's easy enough to stop the biggest one you make, that thing you do
that makes your rib cage expand and contract: Just stop doing it.
David Silverman F.L.A.H.N. aa #2208
Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.
.
User: "$ Glorious Appearing $"

Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 07:00:05 PM
"God" <TheLord@heaven.gov> wrote in message
news:j7vkf19g73nm0c3v99b0nv430bnks0ub83@4ax.com...

Cometh the hour, cometh "Bible John, BA" <john.doggett@x-files.gov>
who, with imperceptibly subtle footwork in free.christians, gave us
this:

I do make mistakes from time to time


It's easy enough to stop the biggest one you make, that thing you do
that makes your rib cage expand and contract: Just stop doing it.
David Silverman F.L.A.H.N. aa #2208

Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.

Are you God really?
Yours in Christ
.
User: "God"

Title: Re: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 11 Aug 2005 01:38:08 AM
Cometh the hour, cometh "$ Glorious Appearing $"
<london.nl@btinternet.com>
who, with imperceptibly subtle footwork in free.christians, gave us
this:


"God" <TheLord@heaven.gov> wrote in message
news:j7vkf19g73nm0c3v99b0nv430bnks0ub83@4ax.com...

Cometh the hour, cometh "Bible John, BA" <john.doggett@x-files.gov>
who, with imperceptibly subtle footwork in free.christians, gave us
this:

I do make mistakes from time to time


It's easy enough to stop the biggest one you make, that thing you do
that makes your rib cage expand and contract: Just stop doing it.
David Silverman F.L.A.H.N. aa #2208

Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.



Are you God really?

Yours in Christ

Of course not. I actually exist, which is how you are able to see this
message.
Yours in truth,
David Silverman F.L.A.H.N. aa #2208
Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.
.


User: "Pastor Dave"

Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 10:37:38 PM
On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 23:18:50 +0100, God
<TheLord@heaven.gov> spake thusly:

Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.

Is that why more atrocities have been committed
by atheist nations? The very country you are in,
was set up by Christians. You're a hypocrite.
--
Pastor Dave
"If you believe what you like in the Gospel,
and reject what you like - it is not the Gospel
you believe, but yourselves." - St. Augustine
http://www.ecclesia.org/truth/solution.html
http://tinyurl.com/ce97m
.
User: "Muffin"

Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 11 Aug 2005 12:04:39 AM
I found this moving article about "the importance of PRIDE to the
disabled" on the web
A Defense of Disability Pride
Marissa Johnson
Marissa Johnson wrote the following in response to messages on the
invisible-disability listserv in which people indicated they were
"offended" by the slogan, "Disabled & Proud." It was so good, I had to
post it on the website.
"I think I need to weigh in on this one. My name is Marissa Johnson and my
disabilities are Epilepsy and Depression. I grew up in a family that had
no idea what to do with my disabilities other than take me to doctors to
play the "med game" and try to get me cured. I didn't even know that the
diagnoses I had were considered "disabilities" and I never had an IEP in
school or did anything related to disability.
It wasn't until I was in college and a friend of mine got a job at my
university's "Disability Services" office that I started to see disability
in a different light. In my junior year, one of the Disability Services
staff conducted a 10-week "Institute on Disability and Leadership." I
attended and got my introduction to disability history, culture,
community, and issues. That course changed my life. I subsequently
attended a leadership conference for youth with disabilities in DC and am
now the chair of the committee that plans that conference. My career
changed from education to disability rather quickly.
There was a time when I definitely could not imagine wearing a T-shirt
that says "Disabled & Proud" and certainly my family still finds it odd
and hard to understand. However, several experiences and people in my life
have helped to transform the way I think about my disability. I have the
pleasure of working with Sarah at Access Living and of witnessing the
changes that take place in the youth we serve through our leadership and
organizing training. Young people who begin the training with little or no
self-esteem and feel ashamed of a fundamental part of who they are leave
16 weeks later feeling confident, at peace with themselves, and ready to
take on the world. This is such an important program and I support Sarah's
fund-raising efforts 100%.
Am I proud of the fact that I sometimes space out and mumble things
(seizures)? Am I proud of the fact that I feel sad all the time and
sometimes can barely get out of bed? No...not really. But when I wear my
Disabled & Proud shirt, it's not to say that I'm proud of the things I
"can't" do or the difficult aspects of my disability. What I am proud of
is my heritage and culture as a person with a disability.
I am proud to be a part of a community that has fought discrimination and
societal barriers for decades. I am proud to know that my predescessors
include the likes of Justin Dart and Ed Roberts who saw something that
needed to be done to improve the lives of people with disabilities and
they did it. People who wouldn't take "no...we can't make it accessible"
for an answer and fought to achieve the things they wanted to
achieve...despite society's opinions about what they could and could not
do.
When I think of who I am and what makes me disabled and proud, it is the
fact that I have role models and leaders who have shown me that I can do
whatever I want, despite what other people tell me. I am proud to be a
member of a community that strives to make society equitable and
accessible. I am proud to consider Sarah and other members of our
community my sisters and brothers and work together with them to make
positive changes in the lives of people with disabilities. I am proud to
be a part of a movement that fundamentally values humanity in any shape or
form.
I have struggled with discrimination, including people not considering me
disabled because I don't "look disabled" and people teasing me when I have
seizures or telling me to "just feel better" when I'm depressed. At the
heart of discrimination is society's belief that if we keep others down,
keep them living in shame and fear, we won't have to share anything with
them.
We live in the richest society in the world. And let's face it, that
society values perfection above all else - the privileged ones in our
society are the white, upper class, size 6, beautiful, straight,
intelligent, "happy" people. If you don't meet that description, you're
considered a threat. No one in that class would want to empower anyone
else because they just might have to share their piece of the pie with
them.
African Americans, Gay people, Women, Immigrants, People on Welfare, and
people with disabilities all face similar barriers. Do we tell African
Americans to "overcome their blackness"? Do we tell women to stop being
women? No! So why do we insist that you cannot be a proud and confident
person as long as you have a disability? And why does society believe that
it's okay to kill a disabled child because they would live such a life of
suffering?
My disability pride comes from my heritage and culture as a disabled
person. My pride is a result of a community and movement that I believe in
with all my heart. I am proud to be counted among the ranks of those who
wish to see society treat ALL people equally without regard for skin
color, annual income, gender, or disability status, and who will work to
achieve equality for all.
I am disabled and proud and will gladly wear my T-shirt to show the world
that people with disabilities are out there and we're demanding equal
treatment...and to try to instill in my disabled brothers and sisters that
same sense of pride in their heritage and history."
RIGHT ON MARISSA!
.

User: "God"

Title: Re: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 11 Aug 2005 01:34:45 AM
Cometh the hour, cometh Pastor Dave
<news-group-mail@nospam-tampa-bay.rr.com>
who, with imperceptibly subtle footwork in free.christians, gave us
this:

On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 23:18:50 +0100, God
<TheLord@heaven.gov> spake thusly:


Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.


Is that why more atrocities have been committed
by atheist nations? The very country you are in,
was set up by Christians. You're a hypocrite.

The country I am in was set up by pagans, invaded by other pagans -
twice, then the second lot of pagans converted to Christianity ( a
sect of a bronze age death cult) who buggerred off leaving it run by
two more invading bunches of pagans who both later converted to
Christianity, then it was invaded by another bunch of Christians who
stole all the land and oppressed the other Christians and pagans, then
dragged a load of them off to the middle east to try and destroy a
rival civilisation. Along they way, they tried to wipe out half my
ancestors.
When they got there they behaved like barbarians towards all of the
people who lived there, including other Christians. My country's
constitutional setup was later amended massively by those who sought
to free themselves from oppression by a bunch of Christians in the
same country the second lot of invading pagans came from, and at that
point began to protect and welcome that half of my ancestors the last
lot of Christian invaders had tried to wipe out on their way to the
Middle East.
Secularism, not religion, built civilisation. Religion, not
secularism, is hell bent on destroying it, led by your fellow Death
Cultist Osama Bin Laden. Why? because you Death Cultists don't like
not being in charge.
David Silverman F.L.A.H.N. aa #2208
Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.
.

User: "Muffin"

Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 11:55:42 PM
In article <kthlf11iugpi0igkjmc8hhh7ur3p7b7hm0@4ax.com>, Pastor Dave
<news-group-mail@nospam-tampa-bay.rr.com> wrote:

On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 23:18:50 +0100, God
<TheLord@heaven.gov> spake thusly:


Either religion goes or civilisation does. It's that simple.


Is that why more atrocities have been committed
by atheist nations? The very country you are in,
was set up by Christians. You're a hypocrite.

--

Pastor Dave

Firstly you are not a genine Baptist "pastor" but a fraud
Secondly you are incorrect. There have been very few atheist nations and
the level of atrocity committed by these comes nowhere near the levels
committed by religious nations. This includes the acts committed by
Stalin and Mao and the unacceptable repressions in modern China (a nation
America seems very keen to trade with)
No atrocities are acceptable but it is difficult to stop them when a
"Christian" nation such as the United States seeks to block the operation
of an international war crimes court
+++++++++++++++++
.



User: "Bible Bob"

Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 08:13:26 PM
On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 15:10:42 -0700, "Bible John, BA"
<john.doggett@x-files.gov> wrote:
John,
Much better, pretty much rightly divided word of truth.
There are few technial points.
1. Seems to me you improved your introduction. No attacks and
pleasant attitude. You might want to leave out the grammar stuff from
the first paragraph because it indicates the potential for error and
will cause people to look for error. When Jesus spoke, He spoke with
authority and confidence. Maybe if you write the thesis first, fine
tune it so that you are confident about it and then write your
introduction, the introduction will appear more confident. If you
want to be confident, act confident.
2. Isn't that the same joke you used last time?
3. Again, you are using motivation techniques that would normally be
used by a teacher who is in the presence of an audience.
4. Not a criticism, but you can not escape you history or your
reputation. Your story about Henry was very good. I fear that people
will interpret Henry to be you. To prevent that, you might consider
not including things about a person that appear similar to you in the
readers mind. For example, Tom Hanks, tape recorders, law suits, and
the like. Remember the goal is to put what you know into them via
words and the fewer distractions the more apt they will be to retain
what you are trying to communicate.
5. Commentary on the Bible portion inserted below.

I strive to have good spelling, grammar and mechanics in these studies.
But I do make mistakes from time to time so please be so kind and report
what you find to me. Thank you!

I like to start some of my bible messages with something kinda funny so
Listen to this.

A 92-yr old man went to the Dr to get a physical. About a week later
the doctor saw the man walking down the street with a beautiful woman.
The doctor surprised stopped the man and asked if the man was doing
good. The man replied and said that he was only following his
orders. You said to get a hot mamma and stay cheerful. The doctor
said, no I never said that, I said that you had a heart murmur and to be
careful!

Alright Christians as you read this I want you to hold up your bibles and
repeat the following like you mean it.
-------
This is my Bible I am what it says I am, I have what it says I have, and
I can do what it says I can to do.

Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess that my mind
is alert and my heart is receptive, and that I will never be the same.

I am about to receive the, incorruptible, indestructible seed of the word
of God, I will never be the same, never, never, never, I will be never
be the same.

In Jesus name
-----------
Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged
people

All of us know of people in our lives that are disabled, mentally ill,
or disadvantaged in some way.

Showing little attention to disabled people and special attention to
non-disabled people is what I have done many times in my life.

I can remember Back in my Community College days knowing a student named
Henry. Henry was both physically and learning disabled. Henry got
teased often not only because of his Tom Hanks look alike features but
because of his disabilities. I was not the only one to tease him nor
did I tease him the most, but I did target him often enough that he
never forgot me. Well I never saw Henry after the Fall 1997 semester
until about a year later when he got hired to work in sales at a company
that I was employed with at the time.

Henry tried to be a very honest employee, but because of his somewhat
loud awkward voice, with the addition of his learning and physical
disabilities he was sort of out of place at the company and the store
manager knew this. The store manager would often target Henry by
looking for all his faults, asking employees to time his breaks, and
also to monitor his every move. I remember once Henry applied to be
technology sales supervisor (a position I later was promoted to with
little effort on my part) and was refused it very quickly. Henry knew
his tech stuff, perhaps more than myself, and certainly more than the
other employees working in that department of the time. But what hurt
Henry getting his supervisor promotion was probably his very obvious
disabilities which customers often found awkward.

Customers would often complain about Henry, which did land him in bad
terms with management. Because of issues he had no control over Henry
did not seem the right fit for a supervisor position, which angered him
even more. Henry also required a caretaker whom would assist him with
his learning disabilities from time to time. This along with his
disabilities made it hard for him to be a right fit for a supervisor
position.

In response to his denial from becoming supervisor he would always carry
a small pocket notepad with him and take notes, and I remember once he
brought a tape recorder in the store and threatened to record anyone
that so called harassed him! Then I remember one day in 1998 Henry made
a mistake that cost the company some $600 dollars. This was all the
manager needed to fire Henry, which did happen on his next shift.
Typically a manager who acts in a professional manor would call an
employee into the office and fire him, but in this case the store
manager fired Henry right on the sales floor! Henry got angry and yelled
at the store manager right then and there. I know all this because I
was near the scene. The shouting match was so loud that it got the
attention of others, and all employees near the scene knew that Henry
was fired!

Some time later Henry filed a lawsuit against the company to prove
unjust terminated based on a disability or disabilities and won some
money giving him a free trip to Stanford University later to earn a
degree in Computer science. It was about 4 years later that I saw Henry
in the store in 2002 during a time when I was a very successful
technology sales supervisor. Like all customers I tried to treat Henry
like he was my no#1 customer, but Henry refused to receive any service
from me, probably because of the way I treated him in the past. He made
his dissatisfaction with me very vocal which got the attention of some
onlookers. I failed with Henry because I failed to treat him like he
was no#1, and I did pick on him back during our community college days
in 1997. Henry never forgot my sins and probably still holds a grudge
toward me to this very day. So I will say that my example is one not to
follow when dealing with people with disabilities and other
disadvantages like Henry.

There are many passages in scripture that deal with how to treat such
people, but I will focus on only one for this study.

James 2:1-7 (NIV)

James 2:1 My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ,
dont show favoritism.

This is all too often almost impossible to do as Christians.
Unbelievers always show favoritism, and as the church we should set the
tone. But all too often the church is just like the world. John
MacArthur wrote a book called "Ashamed of the Gospel, when the church
becomes like the world." In it he proves that most of the church is just
like the world, and I would not for a second disagree with John
MacArthur, because what he says on this matter is true!

Isn't that due in part because they are taught "in the church" to be
worldly; not by sermons from the pastor but by examples from other
members. Comments such as "Sister Sarah has a nice new hat, I wonder
how much it cost, I wish my husband could afford one for me" spoken by
an "older" "respected" woman will have affect positive or negative.
Speaking of women elders. Just before I retired in 1986 I met a 19
year old girl at a college I was attending whose father had died
years earlier. Long story short, she was a sharp young lady and we
became instant friends and when I retired I moved here to Charlotte.
Her mother lived here but she was not comfortable there and moved in
with me. She liked girls, but was celebate, and through her I met a
total of 13 other young girls who all attended the same church and
were taught by the same deaconess. All fourteen had been led into an
alternative lifestyle. I worked with all of them and over the years
all but one of them has married or became involved with men. All of
the girls trusted me and would talk to me about anything and I do mean
anything except one thing and that was the deaconess at the SDA chruch
they attended. All of them changed denominations.
The job description for a SDA Deaconess goes something like this:
Deaconesses are concerned with the material needs of the congregation,
including the comfort of worshippers; security and upkeep of church
property; ministry to the sick, shut-ins, widows, and orphans; and
specific responsibilities during the Communion Service and Baptismal
Ceremony. Appartently at least one of them offered alternative
education services,too.
Oh, I helped my little friend through college, sent her to France
when she graduated,and she now has her Masters and is doing very well
in the Marines with her husband. She is to us just as much our child
as my biological son and daughter are.
I think that is a good example of how the world can creep into the
church.


James 2:2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and
fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in.
James 2:3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes
and say, "Heres a good seat for you," but say to the poor man, "You
stand there" or "Sit on the floor by my feet,"

So many Christians do not practice this! So many pay more attention to
the rich than to the poor. All too often in church ministry in order to
be hired as a leader, you must have it all together. Often in church we
disassociate ourselves with those that do not look the best on the
outside. I remember one time in 2002 as an experiment I showed up to a
college ministry and acted like I was mentally retarded. I dressed like
a child, I spoke like a child, and I very much behaved like a child.
Surprisingly many of the liberals at this church welcomed me, and
offered their assistance. One girl even tried to counsel me with my
highly exaggerated and inflated issues.

I don't think it was wise to share that personal remark as it will
cause people to stray from your message. It causes them to focus on
your reputation and not your teaching.


James 2:4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges
with evil thoughts?
James 2:5 Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are
poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the
kingdom he promised those who love him?

All too often is it hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.
Matt. 19:24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the
eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."

All too often are the poor the most effective disciples for our Lord.
In my geography I discovered that research proves that those who live in
highly wealthy communities to be less reliant on God than those that
live in poor areas. This is all to say that money does corrupt as the
bible says below.
1Tim. 6:10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some
people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced
themselves with many griefs.

James 2:6 But you have insulted the poor. Is it not the rich who are
exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court?
James 2:7 Are they not the ones who are slandering the noble name of him
to whom you belong?

All too often my problems are with rich people. I've tried many times
to receive assistance on a issue, which many of the rich have refused,
while the some of the poor have assisted. Notice also that in the
passage the bible clearly does not say that a Christian will not got to
court or not have legal matters. There are some that believe that any
Christian that is having legal problems is in sin, but this from the
above seems unbiblical!

You are teaching about being exploited by the rich and offer as an
example how you tried unsuccessfully to exploit the rich. It does
speak of people going to court but does not indicate that that
behavior is proper. The same unloving, un-Christlike behavior is
mentioned in 1 Cor 6:1


So my dear friends please learn the lesson that I did and do not repeat
my treatment of Henry to other Henrys in your life.

Well may God bless you and have a blessed day for ministry!

John Wolf

BA Church Education Ministries, Simpson University 2005

AS Business Computer technology specialist, Canada College 2000

Good job.
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Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 08:57:01 PM
In article <087lf1ls7g22u5v6u3cepntpnj2lqfpch5@4ax.com>,
Bible Bob <biblebobnospam@biblebob.net> wrote:

1. Seems to me you improved your introduction. No attacks and
pleasant attitude

Well if I am teaching a apologetics message then there will bee exposure
of false teachers, doctrines, philosophies, ministry models, and cults.
But I was not as the message was topical. Please please learn the
differences between the following.
Exegetical/expository messages
Topical messages
Theological messages
Apologetics messages
Missional messages
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Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 10:06:42 PM
It seems to me that you are confusing Pride with wealth and the love of wealth
In fact those who are obsessed with their love of wealth are those with
the least pride in themselves as human beings and sharers of humanity
MATTHEW 19
16 ¶ And, behold, one came and said unto him, Good Master, what good thing
shall I do, that I may have eternal life?
17 And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but
one, that is, God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the
commandments.
18 He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou
shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false
witness,
19 Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour
as thyself.
20 The young man saith unto him, All these things have I kept from my
youth up: what lack I yet?
21 Jesus said unto him, If thou wilt be perfect, go and sell that thou
hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and
come and follow me.
22 But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful: for
he had great possessions.
23 ¶ Then said Jesus unto his disciples, Verily I say unto you, That a
rich man shall hardly enter into the kingdom of heaven.
24 And again I say unto you, It is easier for a camel to go through the
eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God.
+++++++++++
ACTS @
37 ¶ Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said
unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall
we do?
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in
the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive
the gift of the Holy Ghost.
39 For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are
afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call.
40 And with many other words did he testify and exhort, saying, Save
yourselves from this untoward generation.
41 Then they that gladly received his word were baptized: and the same
day there were added unto them about three thousand souls.
42 ¶ And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and
fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.
43 And fear came upon every soul: and many wonders and signs were done by
the apostles.
44 And all that believed were together, and had all things common;
45 And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as
every man had need.
46 And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking
bread from house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness
of heart,
47 Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord
added to the church daily such as should be saved.
(Clear enough for you!)
+++++++++++++++++++++++++
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User: "Bible Bob"

Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 10:46:36 PM
On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 18:57:01 -0700, "Bible John, BA"
<john.doggett@x-files.gov> wrote:

In article <087lf1ls7g22u5v6u3cepntpnj2lqfpch5@4ax.com>,
Bible Bob <biblebobnospam@biblebob.net> wrote:

1. Seems to me you improved your introduction. No attacks and
pleasant attitude


Well if I am teaching a apologetics message then there will bee exposure
of false teachers, doctrines, philosophies, ministry models, and cults.
But I was not as the message was topical. Please please learn the
differences between the following.


Exegetical/expository messages
Topical messages
Theological messages
Apologetics messages
Missional messages

I like Christ's and Paul's ways better.
1 Peter 3:15 KJV
But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and [be] ready always to
[give] an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope
that is in you with meekness and fear:
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Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 08:53:54 PM
In article <087lf1ls7g22u5v6u3cepntpnj2lqfpch5@4ax.com>,
Bible Bob <biblebobnospam@biblebob.net> wrote:

On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 15:10:42 -0700, "Bible John, BA"
<john.doggett@x-files.gov> wrote:

John,

Much better, pretty much rightly divided word of truth.

There are few technial points.

1. Seems to me you improved your introduction. No attacks and
pleasant attitude. You might want to leave out the grammar stuff from
the first paragraph because it indicates the potential for error and
will cause people to look for error.

Good point
When Jesus spoke, He spoke with

authority and confidence.

Right
Maybe if you write the thesis first, fine

tune it so that you are confident about it and then write your
introduction, the introduction will appear more confident. If you
want to be confident, act confident.

I usually do not use a thesis for a study like this. Thesis are usually
for english type papers. A exegetical paper I would never write a
thesis, nor would I on a bible message like this for Usenet. However
for professional sermons and such perhaps. But these are just Usenet
studies.


2. Isn't that the same joke you used last time?

Yes I thought no one would notice


3. Again, you are using motivation techniques that would normally be
used by a teacher who is in the presence of an audience.

Yeah I know but its fun to look like Joel Osteen. (Weatherly will stone
me for this remark, because JW seems to hate Joel for no good reason).

4. Not a criticism, but you can not escape you history or your

reputation. Your story about Henry was very good. I fear that people
will interpret Henry to be you.

Well I made it very clear that he was not. Ifr you read it, you would
know the following.
a) I picked on Henry in the Fall 1997 semester at a community college
b) I witnessed henry's being fired by the store manager, since it was a
public scene
c) I ran into Henry once again in 2002, and he was very vocal that he
did not want my service
Taken the above into consideration how can Henry be me?
To prevent that, you might consider

not including things about a person that appear similar to you in the
readers mind. For example, Tom Hanks, tape recorders, law suits, and
the like.

Since when do I look like Tom Hanks?
Remember the goal is to put what you know into them via

words and the fewer distractions the more apt they will be to retain
what you are trying to communicate.

5. Commentary on the Bible portion inserted below.

I strive to have good spelling, grammar and mechanics in these studies.
But I do make mistakes from time to time so please be so kind and report
what you find to me. Thank you!

I like to start some of my bible messages with something kinda funny so
Listen to this.

A 92-yr old man went to the Dr to get a physical. About a week later
the doctor saw the man walking down the street with a beautiful woman.
The doctor surprised stopped the man and asked if the man was doing
good. The man replied and said that he was only following his
orders. You said to get a hot mamma and stay cheerful. The doctor
said, no I never said that, I said that you had a heart murmur and to be
careful!

Alright Christians as you read this I want you to hold up your bibles and
repeat the following like you mean it.
-------
This is my Bible I am what it says I am, I have what it says I have, and
I can do what it says I can to do.

Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess that my mind
is alert and my heart is receptive, and that I will never be the same.

I am about to receive the, incorruptible, indestructible seed of the word
of God, I will never be the same, never, never, never, I will be never
be the same.

In Jesus name
-----------
Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged
people

All of us know of people in our lives that are disabled, mentally ill,
or disadvantaged in some way.

Showing little attention to disabled people and special attention to
non-disabled people is what I have done many times in my life.

I can remember Back in my Community College days knowing a student named
Henry. Henry was both physically and learning disabled. Henry got
teased often not only because of his Tom Hanks look alike features but
because of his disabilities. I was not the only one to tease him nor
did I tease him the most, but I did target him often enough that he
never forgot me. Well I never saw Henry after the Fall 1997 semester
until about a year later when he got hired to work in sales at a company
that I was employed with at the time.

Henry tried to be a very honest employee, but because of his somewhat
loud awkward voice, with the addition of his learning and physical
disabilities he was sort of out of place at the company and the store
manager knew this. The store manager would often target Henry by
looking for all his faults, asking employees to time his breaks, and
also to monitor his every move. I remember once Henry applied to be
technology sales supervisor (a position I later was promoted to with
little effort on my part) and was refused it very quickly. Henry knew
his tech stuff, perhaps more than myself, and certainly more than the
other employees working in that department of the time. But what hurt
Henry getting his supervisor promotion was probably his very obvious
disabilities which customers often found awkward.

Customers would often complain about Henry, which did land him in bad
terms with management. Because of issues he had no control over Henry
did not seem the right fit for a supervisor position, which angered him
even more. Henry also required a caretaker whom would assist him with
his learning disabilities from time to time. This along with his
disabilities made it hard for him to be a right fit for a supervisor
position.

In response to his denial from becoming supervisor he would always carry
a small pocket notepad with him and take notes, and I remember once he
brought a tape recorder in the store and threatened to record anyone
that so called harassed him! Then I remember one day in 1998 Henry made
a mistake that cost the company some $600 dollars. This was all the
manager needed to fire Henry, which did happen on his next shift.
Typically a manager who acts in a professional manor would call an
employee into the office and fire him, but in this case the store
manager fired Henry right on the sales floor! Henry got angry and yelled
at the store manager right then and there. I know all this because I
was near the scene. The shouting match was so loud that it got the
attention of others, and all employees near the scene knew that Henry
was fired!

Some time later Henry filed a lawsuit against the company to prove
unjust terminated based on a disability or disabilities and won some
money giving him a free trip to Stanford University later to earn a
degree in Computer science. It was about 4 years later that I saw Henry
in the store in 2002 during a time when I was a very successful
technology sales supervisor. Like all customers I tried to treat Henry
like he was my no#1 customer, but Henry refused to receive any service
from me, probably because of the way I treated him in the past. He made
his dissatisfaction with me very vocal which got the attention of some
onlookers. I failed with Henry because I failed to treat him like he
was no#1, and I did pick on him back during our community college days
in 1997. Henry never forgot my sins and probably still holds a grudge
toward me to this very day. So I will say that my example is one not to
follow when dealing with people with disabilities and other
disadvantages like Henry.

There are many passages in scripture that deal with how to treat such
people, but I will focus on only one for this study.

James 2:1-7 (NIV)

James 2:1 My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ,
dont show favoritism.

This is all too often almost impossible to do as Christians.
Unbelievers always show favoritism, and as the church we should set the
tone. But all too often the church is just like the world. John
MacArthur wrote a book called "Ashamed of the Gospel, when the church
becomes like the world." In it he proves that most of the church is just
like the world, and I would not for a second disagree with John
MacArthur, because what he says on this matter is true!


Isn't that due in part because they are taught "in the church" to be
worldly; not by sermons from the pastor but by examples from other
members. Comments such as "Sister Sarah has a nice new hat, I wonder
how much it cost, I wish my husband could afford one for me" spoken by
an "older" "respected" woman will have affect positive or negative.

Amen they are.

Speaking of women elders. Just before I retired in 1986 I met a 19
year old girl at a college I was attending whose father had died
years earlier. Long story short, she was a sharp young lady and we
became instant friends and when I retired I moved here to Charlotte.
Her mother lived here but she was not comfortable there and moved in
with me. She liked girls, but was celebate, and through her I met a
total of 13 other young girls who all attended the same church and
were taught by the same deaconess. All fourteen had been led into an
alternative lifestyle. I worked with all of them and over the years
all but one of them has married or became involved with men. All of
the girls trusted me and would talk to me about anything and I do mean
anything except one thing and that was the deaconess at the SDA chruch
they attended. All of them changed denominations.

Hmm


The job description for a SDA Deaconess goes something like this:
Deaconesses are concerned with the material needs of the congregation,
including the comfort of worshippers; security and upkeep of church
property; ministry to the sick, shut-ins, widows, and orphans; and
specific responsibilities during the Communion Service and Baptismal
Ceremony. Appartently at least one of them offered alternative
education services,too.

A woman shall not teach or have authority over a man so writes Paul.
often the problems I have in work and my life are because women are in
positions they do not belong. Women belong in the home cooking and
cleaning and taking care of people. They do not belong in management
positions, unless the positions pertain to their natural gifts.


Oh, I helped my little friend through college, sent her to France
when she graduated,and she now has her Masters and is doing very well
in the Marines with her husband. She is to us just as much our child
as my biological son and daughter are.

I think that is a good example of how the world can creep into the
church.


James 2:2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and
fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in.
James 2:3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes
and say, "Heres a good seat for you," but say to the poor man, "You
stand there" or "Sit on the floor by my feet,"

So many Christians do not practice this! So many pay more attention to
the rich than to the poor. All too often in church ministry in order to
be hired as a leader, you must have it all together. Often in church we
disassociate ourselves with those that do not look the best on the
outside. I remember one time in 2002 as an experiment I showed up to a
college ministry and acted like I was mentally retarded. I dressed like
a child, I spoke like a child, and I very much behaved like a child.
Surprisingly many of the liberals at this church welcomed me, and
offered their assistance. One girl even tried to counsel me with my
highly exaggerated and inflated issues.


I don't think it was wise to share that personal remark as it will
cause people to stray from your message. It causes them to focus on
your reputation and not your teaching.

Yeah maybe or it can help to illustrate my point. Maybe I should have
said "A friend of mine." But it was fun being retarded that day and
receiving the help from those girls. It proved that there are loving
people in a liberal church.


James 2:4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges
with evil thoughts?
James 2:5 Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are
poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the
kingdom he promised those who love him?

All too often is it hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.
Matt. 19:24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the
eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."

All too often are the poor the most effective disciples for our Lord.
In my geography I discovered that research proves that those who live in
highly wealthy communities to be less reliant on God than those that
live in poor areas. This is all to say that money does corrupt as the
bible says below.
1Tim. 6:10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some
people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced
themselves with many griefs.

James 2:6 But you have insulted the poor. Is it not the rich who are
exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court?
James 2:7 Are they not the ones who are slandering the noble name of him
to whom you belong?

All too often my problems are with rich people. I've tried many times
to receive assistance on a issue, which many of the rich have refused,
while the some of the poor have assisted. Notice also that in the
passage the bible clearly does not say that a Christian will not got to
court or not have legal matters. There are some that believe that any
Christian that is having legal problems is in sin, but this from the
above seems unbiblical!


You are teaching about being exploited by the rich and offer as an
example how you tried unsuccessfully to exploit the rich. It does
speak of people going to court but does not indicate that that
behavior is proper. The same unloving, un-Christlike behavior is
mentioned in 1 Cor 6:1

Yes
1Cor. 6:1 If any of you has a dispute with another, dare he take it
before the ungodly for judgment instead of before the saints?
Christian matters should be taken to christians


So my dear friends please learn the lesson that I did and do not repeat
my treatment of Henry to other Henrys in your life.

Well may God bless you and have a blessed day for ministry!

John Wolf

BA Church Education Ministries, Simpson University 2005

AS Business Computer technology specialist, Canada College 2000


Good job.




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Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 10 Aug 2005 10:44:37 PM
On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 18:53:54 -0700, "Bible John, BA"
<john.doggett@x-files.gov> wrote:

In article <087lf1ls7g22u5v6u3cepntpnj2lqfpch5@4ax.com>,
Bible Bob <biblebobnospam@biblebob.net> wrote:

On Wed, 10 Aug 2005 15:10:42 -0700, "Bible John, BA"
<john.doggett@x-files.gov> wrote:

John,

Much better, pretty much rightly divided word of truth.

There are few technial points.

1. Seems to me you improved your introduction. No attacks and
pleasant attitude. You might want to leave out the grammar stuff from
the first paragraph because it indicates the potential for error and
will cause people to look for error.


Good point

When Jesus spoke, He spoke with

authority and confidence.


Right


Maybe if you write the thesis first, fine

tune it so that you are confident about it and then write your
introduction, the introduction will appear more confident. If you
want to be confident, act confident.



I usually do not use a thesis for a study like this. Thesis are usually
for english type papers. A exegetical paper I would never write a
thesis, nor would I on a bible message like this for Usenet. However
for professional sermons and such perhaps. But these are just Usenet
studies.


2. Isn't that the same joke you used last time?


Yes I thought no one would notice

ME! Not notice?:)



3. Again, you are using motivation techniques that would normally be
used by a teacher who is in the presence of an audience.


Yeah I know but its fun to look like Joel Osteen. (Weatherly will stone
me for this remark, because JW seems to hate Joel for no good reason).

Well, I can't say that Jesus would stone you for it. There is nothing
wrong with having role models in different areas of your life even if
they are of a different faith. We can learn something from just about
everyone, friend or foe.



4. Not a criticism, but you can not escape you history or your

reputation. Your story about Henry was very good. I fear that people
will interpret Henry to be you.


Well I made it very clear that he was not. Ifr you read it, you would
know the following.

a) I picked on Henry in the Fall 1997 semester at a community college
b) I witnessed henry's being fired by the store manager, since it was a
public scene
c) I ran into Henry once again in 2002, and he was very vocal that he
did not want my service

Taken the above into consideration how can Henry be me?

I did not say he was and I believe you. But when you write you have
to keep in mind that people are cynical and willing and ready to think
evil of you. That is not important in itself because their ignorance
does not hurt you; but it hurts them if there is something in the
message they need and do not see it because they are thinking wrong
thoughts. The goal is to transfer data as incorrupted as possible
between two terminals. With computers there are not emotions to get
in the way; with people there are.



To prevent that, you might consider

not including things about a person that appear similar to you in the
readers mind. For example, Tom Hanks, tape recorders, law suits, and
the like.


Since when do I look like Tom Hanks?

I didn't say you did. Why do you look so different in the two
pictures on your web site? You look like a kid on the left and and
much older on he right.


Remember the goal is to put what you know into them via

words and the fewer distractions the more apt they will be to retain
what you are trying to communicate.




5. Commentary on the Bible portion inserted below.

I strive to have good spelling, grammar and mechanics in these studies.
But I do make mistakes from time to time so please be so kind and report
what you find to me. Thank you!

I like to start some of my bible messages with something kinda funny so
Listen to this.

A 92-yr old man went to the Dr to get a physical. About a week later
the doctor saw the man walking down the street with a beautiful woman.
The doctor surprised stopped the man and asked if the man was doing
good. The man replied and said that he was only following his
orders. You said to get a hot mamma and stay cheerful. The doctor
said, no I never said that, I said that you had a heart murmur and to be
careful!

Alright Christians as you read this I want you to hold up your bibles and
repeat the following like you mean it.
-------
This is my Bible I am what it says I am, I have what it says I have, and
I can do what it says I can to do.

Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess that my mind
is alert and my heart is receptive, and that I will never be the same.

I am about to receive the, incorruptible, indestructible seed of the word
of God, I will never be the same, never, never, never, I will be never
be the same.

In Jesus name
-----------
Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged
people

All of us know of people in our lives that are disabled, mentally ill,
or disadvantaged in some way.

Showing little attention to disabled people and special attention to
non-disabled people is what I have done many times in my life.

I can remember Back in my Community College days knowing a student named
Henry. Henry was both physically and learning disabled. Henry got
teased often not only because of his Tom Hanks look alike features but
because of his disabilities. I was not the only one to tease him nor
did I tease him the most, but I did target him often enough that he
never forgot me. Well I never saw Henry after the Fall 1997 semester
until about a year later when he got hired to work in sales at a company
that I was employed with at the time.

Henry tried to be a very honest employee, but because of his somewhat
loud awkward voice, with the addition of his learning and physical
disabilities he was sort of out of place at the company and the store
manager knew this. The store manager would often target Henry by
looking for all his faults, asking employees to time his breaks, and
also to monitor his every move. I remember once Henry applied to be
technology sales supervisor (a position I later was promoted to with
little effort on my part) and was refused it very quickly. Henry knew
his tech stuff, perhaps more than myself, and certainly more than the
other employees working in that department of the time. But what hurt
Henry getting his supervisor promotion was probably his very obvious
disabilities which customers often found awkward.

Customers would often complain about Henry, which did land him in bad
terms with management. Because of issues he had no control over Henry
did not seem the right fit for a supervisor position, which angered him
even more. Henry also required a caretaker whom would assist him with
his learning disabilities from time to time. This along with his
disabilities made it hard for him to be a right fit for a supervisor
position.

In response to his denial from becoming supervisor he would always carry
a small pocket notepad with him and take notes, and I remember once he
brought a tape recorder in the store and threatened to record anyone
that so called harassed him! Then I remember one day in 1998 Henry made
a mistake that cost the company some $600 dollars. This was all the
manager needed to fire Henry, which did happen on his next shift.
Typically a manager who acts in a professional manor would call an
employee into the office and fire him, but in this case the store
manager fired Henry right on the sales floor! Henry got angry and yelled
at the store manager right then and there. I know all this because I
was near the scene. The shouting match was so loud that it got the
attention of others, and all employees near the scene knew that Henry
was fired!

Some time later Henry filed a lawsuit against the company to prove
unjust terminated based on a disability or disabilities and won some
money giving him a free trip to Stanford University later to earn a
degree in Computer science. It was about 4 years later that I saw Henry
in the store in 2002 during a time when I was a very successful
technology sales supervisor. Like all customers I tried to treat Henry
like he was my no#1 customer, but Henry refused to receive any service
from me, probably because of the way I treated him in the past. He made
his dissatisfaction with me very vocal which got the attention of some
onlookers. I failed with Henry because I failed to treat him like he
was no#1, and I did pick on him back during our community college days
in 1997. Henry never forgot my sins and probably still holds a grudge
toward me to this very day. So I will say that my example is one not to
follow when dealing with people with disabilities and other
disadvantages like Henry.

There are many passages in scripture that deal with how to treat such
people, but I will focus on only one for this study.

James 2:1-7 (NIV)

James 2:1 My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ,
dont show favoritism.

This is all too often almost impossible to do as Christians.
Unbelievers always show favoritism, and as the church we should set the
tone. But all too often the church is just like the world. John
MacArthur wrote a book called "Ashamed of the Gospel, when the church
becomes like the world." In it he proves that most of the church is just
like the world, and I would not for a second disagree with John
MacArthur, because what he says on this matter is true!


Isn't that due in part because they are taught "in the church" to be
worldly; not by sermons from the pastor but by examples from other
members. Comments such as "Sister Sarah has a nice new hat, I wonder
how much it cost, I wish my husband could afford one for me" spoken by
an "older" "respected" woman will have affect positive or negative.



Amen they are.


Speaking of women elders. Just before I retired in 1986 I met a 19
year old girl at a college I was attending whose father had died
years earlier. Long story short, she was a sharp young lady and we
became instant friends and when I retired I moved here to Charlotte.
Her mother lived here but she was not comfortable there and moved in
with me. She liked girls, but was celebate, and through her I met a
total of 13 other young girls who all attended the same church and
were taught by the same deaconess. All fourteen had been led into an
alternative lifestyle. I worked with all of them and over the years
all but one of them has married or became involved with men. All of
the girls trusted me and would talk to me about anything and I do mean
anything except one thing and that was the deaconess at the SDA chruch
they attended. All of them changed denominations.



Hmm


The job description for a SDA Deaconess goes something like this:
Deaconesses are concerned with the material needs of the congregation,
including the comfort of worshippers; security and upkeep of church
property; ministry to the sick, shut-ins, widows, and orphans; and
specific responsibilities during the Communion Service and Baptismal
Ceremony. Appartently at least one of them offered alternative
education services,too.



A woman shall not teach or have authority over a man so writes Paul.
often the problems I have in work and my life are because women are in
positions they do not belong. Women belong in the home cooking and
cleaning and taking care of people. They do not belong in management
positions, unless the positions pertain to their natural gifts.


Oh, I helped my little friend through college, sent her to France
when she graduated,and she now has her Masters and is doing very well
in the Marines with her husband. She is to us just as much our child
as my biological son and daughter are.

I think that is a good example of how the world can creep into the
church.


James 2:2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and
fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in.
James 2:3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes
and say, "Heres a good seat for you," but say to the poor man, "You
stand there" or "Sit on the floor by my feet,"

So many Christians do not practice this! So many pay more attention to
the rich than to the poor. All too often in church ministry in order to
be hired as a leader, you must have it all together. Often in church we
disassociate ourselves with those that do not look the best on the
outside. I remember one time in 2002 as an experiment I showed up to a
college ministry and acted like I was mentally retarded. I dressed like
a child, I spoke like a child, and I very much behaved like a child.
Surprisingly many of the liberals at this church welcomed me, and
offered their assistance. One girl even tried to counsel me with my
highly exaggerated and inflated issues.


I don't think it was wise to share that personal remark as it will
cause people to stray from your message. It causes them to focus on
your reputation and not your teaching.


Yeah maybe or it can help to illustrate my point. Maybe I should have
said "A friend of mine." But it was fun being retarded that day and
receiving the help from those girls. It proved that there are loving
people in a liberal church.

I can relate. When I was 14 I went swimming at a lake up in Michigan
with my Dad. There was a anchored raft out in the lake that I decided
to swim to. As I neared it, my legs cramped up and I started sinking
and might have drowned were it not for the girls on the raft that
jumped in and pulled me out. They pulled me onto the raft and
massaged my legs and calmed me down. Yea, sure they calmed me down; 14
years old alone with pretty girls in bathing suits.




James 2:4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges
with evil thoughts?
James 2:5 Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are
poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the
kingdom he promised those who love him?

All too often is it hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.
Matt. 19:24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the
eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."

All too often are the poor the most effective disciples for our Lord.
In my geography I discovered that research proves that those who live in
highly wealthy communities to be less reliant on God than those that
live in poor areas. This is all to say that money does corrupt as the
bible says below.
1Tim. 6:10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some
people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced
themselves with many griefs.

James 2:6 But you have insulted the poor. Is it not the rich who are
exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court?
James 2:7 Are they not the ones who are slandering the noble name of him
to whom you belong?

All too often my problems are with rich people. I've tried many times
to receive assistance on a issue, which many of the rich have refused,
while the some of the poor have assisted. Notice also that in the
passage the bible clearly does not say that a Christian will not got to
court or not have legal matters. There are some that believe that any
Christian that is having legal problems is in sin, but this from the
above seems unbiblical!


You are teaching about being exploited by the rich and offer as an
example how you tried unsuccessfully to exploit the rich. It does
speak of people going to court but does not indicate that that
behavior is proper. The same unloving, un-Christlike behavior is
mentioned in 1 Cor 6:1


Yes

1Cor. 6:1 If any of you has a dispute with another, dare he take it
before the ungodly for judgment instead of before the saints?

Christian matters should be taken to christians




So my dear friends please learn the lesson that I did and do not repeat
my treatment of Henry to other Henrys in your life.

Well may God bless you and have a blessed day for ministry!

John Wolf

BA Church Education Ministries, Simpson University 2005

AS Business Computer technology specialist, Canada College 2000


Good job.




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Title: Re: Weekly Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged people 12 Aug 2005 06:58:32 PM
In article <guglf19b75b8ft6um6cnquss830a9l0dkq@4ax.com>,
Bible Bob <biblebobnospam@biblebob.net> wrote:

ME! Not notice?:)

I should spend more time on the next one.



3. Again, you are using motivation techniques that would normally be
used by a teacher who is in the presence of an audience.


Yeah I know but its fun to look like Joel Osteen. (Weatherly will stone
me for this remark, because JW seems to hate Joel for no good reason).


Well, I can't say that Jesus would stone you for it. There is nothing
wrong with having role models in different areas of your life even if
they are of a different faith. We can learn something from just about
everyone, friend or foe.

Osteen is saved no doubt. Weatherly should learn to listen to what he
says.



4. Not a criticism, but you can not escape you history or your

reputation. Your story about Henry was very good. I fear that people
will interpret Henry to be you.


Well I made it very clear that he was not. Ifr you read it, you would
know the following.

a) I picked on Henry in the Fall 1997 semester at a community college
b) I witnessed henry's being fired by the store manager, since it was a
public scene
c) I ran into Henry once again in 2002, and he was very vocal that he
did not want my service

Taken the above into consideration how can Henry be me?


I did not say he was and I believe you. But when you write you have
to keep in mind that people are cynical and willing and ready to think
evil of you. That is not important in itself because their ignorance
does not hurt you; but it hurts them if there is something in the
message they need and do not see it because they are thinking wrong
thoughts. The goal is to transfer data as incorrupted as possible
between two terminals. With computers there are not emotions to get
in the way; with people there are.



To prevent that, you might consider

not including things about a person that appear similar to you in the
readers mind. For example, Tom Hanks, tape recorders, law suits, and
the like.


Since when do I look like Tom Hanks?


I didn't say you did. Why do you look so different in the two
pictures on your web site? You look like a kid on the left and and
much older on he right.


Remember the goal is to put what you know into them via

words and the fewer distractions the more apt they will be to retain
what you are trying to communicate.




5. Commentary on the Bible portion inserted below.

I strive to have good spelling, grammar and mechanics in these studies.
But I do make mistakes from time to time so please be so kind and report
what you find to me. Thank you!

I like to start some of my bible messages with something kinda funny so
Listen to this.

A 92-yr old man went to the Dr to get a physical. About a week later
the doctor saw the man walking down the street with a beautiful woman.
The doctor surprised stopped the man and asked if the man was doing
good. The man replied and said that he was only following his
orders. You said to get a hot mamma and stay cheerful. The doctor
said, no I never said that, I said that you had a heart murmur and to be
careful!

Alright Christians as you read this I want you to hold up your bibles and
repeat the following like you mean it.
-------
This is my Bible I am what it says I am, I have what it says I have, and
I can do what it says I can to do.

Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess that my mind
is alert and my heart is receptive, and that I will never be the same.

I am about to receive the, incorruptible, indestructible seed of the word
of God, I will never be the same, never, never, never, I will be never
be the same.

In Jesus name
-----------
Topical Bible Message-Learning how to love disabled & disadvantaged
people

All of us know of people in our lives that are disabled, mentally ill,
or disadvantaged in some way.

Showing little attention to disabled people and special attention to
non-disabled people is what I have done many times in my life.

I can remember Back in my Community College days knowing a student named
Henry. Henry was both physically and learning disabled. Henry got
teased often not only because of his Tom Hanks look alike features but
because of his disabilities. I was not the only one to tease him nor
did I tease him the most, but I did target him often enough that he
never forgot me. Well I never saw Henry after the Fall 1997 semester
until about a year later when he got hired to work in sales at a company
that I was employed with at the time.

Henry tried to be a very honest employee, but because of his somewhat
loud awkward voice, with the addition of his learning and physical
disabilities he was sort of out of place at the company and the store
manager knew this. The store manager would often target Henry by
looking for all his faults, asking employees to time his breaks, and
also to monitor his every move. I remember once Henry applied to be
technology sales supervisor (a position I later was promoted to with
little effort on my part) and was refused it very quickly. Henry knew
his tech stuff, perhaps more than myself, and certainly more than the
other employees working in that department of the time. But what hurt
Henry getting his supervisor promotion was probably his very obvious
disabilities which customers often found awkward.

Customers would often complain about Henry, which did land him in bad
terms with management. Because of issues he had no control over Henry
did not seem the right fit for a supervisor position, which angered him
even more. Henry also required a caretaker whom would assist him with
his learning disabilities from time to time. This along with his
disabilities made it hard for him to be a right fit for a supervisor
position.

In response to his denial from becoming supervisor he would always carry
a small pocket notepad with him and take notes, and I remember once he
brought a tape recorder in the store and threatened to record anyone
that so called harassed him! Then I remember one day in 1998 Henry made
a mistake that cost the company some $600 dollars. This was all the
manager needed to fire Henry, which did happen on his next shift.
Typically a manager who acts in a professional manor would call an
employee into the office and fire him, but in this case the store
manager fired Henry right on the sales floor! Henry got angry and yelled
at the store manager right then and there. I know all this because I
was near the scene. The shouting match was so loud that it got the
attention of others, and all employees near the scene knew that Henry
was fired!

Some time later Henry filed a lawsuit against the company to prove
unjust terminated based on a disability or disabilities and won some
money giving him a free trip to Stanford University later to earn a
degree in Computer science. It was about 4 years later that I saw Henry
in the store in 2002 during a time when I was a very successful
technology sales supervisor. Like all customers I tried to treat Henry
like he was my no#1 customer, but Henry refused to receive any service
from me, probably because of the way I treated him in the past. He made
his dissatisfaction with me very vocal which got the attention of some
onlookers. I failed with Henry because I failed to treat him like he
was no#1, and I did pick on him back during our community college days
in 1997. Henry never forgot my sins and probably still holds a grudge
toward me to this very day. So I will say that my example is one not to
follow when dealing with people with disabilities and other
disadvantages like Henry.

There are many passages in scripture that deal with how to treat such
people, but I will focus on only one for this study.

James 2:1-7 (NIV)

James 2:1 My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ,
dont show favoritism.

This is all too often almost impossible to do as Christians.
Unbelievers always show favoritism, and as the church we should set the
tone. But all too often the church is just like the world. John
MacArthur wrote a book called "Ashamed of the Gospel, when the church
becomes like the world." In it he proves that most of the church is just
like the world, and I would not for a second disagree with John
MacArthur, because what he says on this matter is true!


Isn't that due in part because they are taught "in the church" to be
worldly; not by sermons from the pastor but by examples from other
members. Comments such as "Sister Sarah has a nice new hat, I wonder
how much it cost, I wish my husband could afford one for me" spoken by
an "older" "respected" woman will have affect positive or negative.



Amen they are.


Speaking of women elders. Just before I retired in 1986 I met a 19
year old girl at a college I was attending whose father had died
years earlier. Long story short, she was a sharp young lady and we
became instant friends and when I retired I moved here to Charlotte.
Her mother lived here but she was not comfortable there and moved in
with me. She liked girls, but was celebate, and through her I met a
total of 13 other young girls who all attended the same church and
were taught by the same deaconess. All fourteen had been led into an
alternative lifestyle. I worked with all of them and over the years
all but one of them has married or became involved with men. All of
the girls trusted me and would talk to me about anything and I do mean
anything except one thing and that was the deaconess at the SDA chruch
they attended. All of them changed denominations.



Hmm


The job description for a SDA Deaconess goes something like this:
Deaconesses are concerned with the material needs of the congregation,
including the comfort of worshippers; security and upkeep of church
property; ministry to the sick, shut-ins, widows, and orphans; and
specific responsibilities during the Communion Service and Baptismal
Ceremony. Appartently at least one of them offered alternative
education services,too.



A woman shall not teach or have authority over a man so writes Paul.
often the problems I have in work and my life are because women are in
positions they do not belong. Women belong in the home cooking and
cleaning and taking care of people. They do not belong in management
positions, unless the positions pertain to their natural gifts.


Oh, I helped my little friend through college, sent her to France
when she graduated,and she now has her Masters and is doing very well
in the Marines with her husband. She is to us just as much our child
as my biological son and daughter are.

I think that is a good example of how the world can creep into the
church.


James 2:2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and
fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in.
James 2:3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes
and say, "Heres a good seat for you," but say to the poor man, "You
stand there" or "Sit on the floor by my feet,"

So many Christians do not practice this! So many pay more attention to
the rich than to the poor. All too often in church ministry in order to
be hired as a leader, you must have it all together. Often in church we
disassociate ourselves with those that do not look the best on the
outside. I remember one time in 2002 as an experiment I showed up to a
college ministry and acted like I was mentally retarded. I dressed like
a child, I spoke like a child, and I very much behaved like a child.
Surprisingly many of the liberals at this church welcomed me, and
offered their assistance. One girl even tried to counsel me with my
highly exaggerated and inflated issues.


I don't think it was wise to share that personal remark as it will
cause people to stray from your message. It causes them to focus on
your reputation and not your teaching.


Yeah maybe or it can help to illustrate my point. Maybe I should have
said "A friend of mine." But it was fun being retarded that day and
receiving the help from those girls. It proved that there are loving
people in a liberal church.


I can relate. When I was 14 I went swimming at a lake up in Michigan
with my Dad. There was a anchored raft out in the lake that I decided
to swim to. As I neared it, my legs cramped up and I started sinking
and might have drowned were it not for the girls on the raft that
jumped in and pulled me out. They pulled me onto the raft and
massaged my legs and calmed me down. Yea, sure they calmed me down; 14
years old alone with pretty girls in bathing suits.




James 2:4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges
with evil thoughts?
James 2:5 Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are
poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the
kingdom he promised those who love him?

All too often is it hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.
Matt. 19:24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the
eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."

All too often are the poor the most effective disciples for our Lord.
In my geography I discovered that research proves that those who live in
highly wealthy communities to be less reliant on God than those that
live in poor areas. This is all to say that money does corrupt as the
bible says below.
1Tim. 6:10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some
people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced
themselves with many griefs.

James 2:6 But you have insulted the poor. Is it not the rich who are
exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court?
James 2:7 Are they not the ones who are slandering the noble name of him
to whom you belong?

All too often my problems are with rich people. I've tried many times
to receive assistance on a issue, which many of the rich have refused,
while the some of the poor have assisted. Notice also that in the
passage the bible clearly does not say that a Christian will not got to
court or not have legal matters. There are some that believe that any
Christian that is having legal problems is in sin, but this from the
above seems unbiblical!


You are teaching about being exploited by the rich and offer as an
example how you tried unsuccessfully to exploit the rich. It does
speak of people going to court but does not indicate that that
behavior is proper. The same unloving, un-Christlike behavior is
mentioned in 1 Cor 6:1


Yes

1Cor. 6:1 If any of you has a dispute with another, dare he take it
before the ungodly for judgment instead of before the saints?

Christian matters should be taken to christians




So my dear friends please learn the lesson that I did and do not repeat
my treatment of Henry to other Henrys in your life.

Well may God bless you and have a blessed day for ministry!

John Wolf

BA Church Education Ministries, Simpson University 2005

AS Business Computer technology specialist, Canada College 2000


Good job.




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