I am in a combined state of listlessness and extreme tension. My ex keeps
calling me by my former last name, my father's name, which drives me to
hysteria (there was sexual and physical abuse by him, and I never never use or
claim that last name). I am having a hard time keeping up with research and
lesson plans work and I am very lonley for a friend. I am tierd of fighting
with my ex and being told I am a "*****" or a failure as a mother. I may be
these things but do not need to hear it. I am going to find a way in New York
to somehow keep Maria with me and not live with him, I don't know how, but
somehow . . .
Very depressed and I feel so trapped and even bitter. Going to try to do at
least one lesson plan.
Rosena
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| User: "JJ9691" |
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12 May 2004 09:55:43 AM |
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Hang in there Roseana.
I feel very off balance too the last couple of days, Playing catch up at work,
behind in everything, and so alone, just like you, but were not alone we just
feel like that,,, agghhhhhhh! people don't make any sense,
Don't let Jjohn get you down, define your- self by what you think not by what
he thinks,
be well, jill
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12 May 2004 10:17:44 AM |
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Thanks, dear. It is a drag to be off-balance. Hope it improves for you.
R. :)
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| User: "Nom dePlume nomdeplume1000-at-yahoo.com" |
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12 May 2004 10:45:09 PM |
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Is he doing this on purpose? One way to deal with it is to tell him
that you will not respond to being called by the wrong name, and
either walk out or hang up if he does it. Maybe that would work for
you?
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Why, yes, in fact, I am a rocket scientist.
Guide to Medications for Mental Illness:
http://www.geocities.com/nomdeplume1000
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"Trishamolson" <trishamolson@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20040512080801.15479.00001300@mb-m05.aol.com...
I am in a combined state of listlessness and extreme tension. My ex
keeps
calling me by my former last name, my father's name, which drives me
to
hysteria (there was sexual and physical abuse by him, and I never
never use or
claim that last name). I am having a hard time keeping up with
research and
lesson plans work and I am very lonley for a friend. I am tierd of
fighting
with my ex and being told I am a "*****" or a failure as a mother.
I may be
these things but do not need to hear it. I am going to find a way in
New York
to somehow keep Maria with me and not live with him, I don't know
how, but
somehow . . .
Very depressed and I feel so trapped and even bitter. Going to try
to do at
least one lesson plan.
Rosena
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| User: "Bev Thornton" |
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12 May 2004 09:40:45 AM |
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Trishamolson wrote:
I am in a combined state of listlessness and extreme tension. My ex keeps
calling me by my former last name, my father's name, which drives me to
hysteria (there was sexual and physical abuse by him, and I never never
use or claim that last name).
A reason but not an excuse. Focus on the moment.
I don't know how, but somehow . . .
It's easy, one of those thing you just have to 'do,' like plunging into cold
water.
Very depressed and I feel so trapped and even bitter. Going to try to do
at least one lesson plan.
That too, just do it.
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| User: "Trishamolson" |
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12 May 2004 09:49:15 AM |
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Thanks Bev . . .always helps to "see" you. How are you???
Me
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