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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
08 May 2006 04:06:45 PM |
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In message <Xns97BDA9C446286mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4>, lisa in mass.
<mccats@rcn.com> writes
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
Some years ago, someone did a social psychology test and found that
having the cashier touch your hand while giving you your change, rather
than just drop it into you palm, significantly improved the rating you
gave to the transaction.
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The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "" |
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08 May 2006 03:46:25 PM |
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lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
yeah, I definatly believe it... I wasn't touched much as a baby, so
I think I need it paticularly... the U.S. is also a very touch deprived
culture... I know what you mean about "huggers" too, it can be awkward
when you meet an aquaintance, and you don't know whether to hug them or
shake their hands or what...
-"jordie"
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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08 May 2006 03:50:38 PM |
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wrote...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all
kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers
touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie people at
partial now.
-lisa
yeah, I definatly believe it... I wasn't touched much as
a baby, so
I think I need it paticularly... the U.S. is also a very
touch deprived culture... I know what you mean about
"huggers" too, it can be awkward when you meet an
aquaintance, and you don't know whether to hug them or
shake their hands or what...
-"jordie"
these are people i've known for a day or two who, if they know
i'm having a hard time, grab me in a hug. it's all i can do to
keep from shoving them.
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| User: "%" |
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08 May 2006 03:53:20 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns97BDAB579A150mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
wrote...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all
kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers
touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie people at
partial now.
-lisa
yeah, I definatly believe it... I wasn't touched much as
a baby, so
I think I need it paticularly... the U.S. is also a very
touch deprived culture... I know what you mean about
"huggers" too, it can be awkward when you meet an
aquaintance, and you don't know whether to hug them or
shake their hands or what...
-"jordie"
these are people i've known for a day or two who, if they know
i'm having a hard time, grab me in a hug. it's all i can do to
keep from shoving them.
they're just trying to cop a feel
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| User: "" |
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08 May 2006 03:54:44 PM |
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lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all
kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers
touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie people at
partial now.
-lisa
yeah, I definatly believe it... I wasn't touched much as
a baby, so
I think I need it paticularly... the U.S. is also a very
touch deprived culture... I know what you mean about
"huggers" too, it can be awkward when you meet an
aquaintance, and you don't know whether to hug them or
shake their hands or what...
-"jordie"
these are people i've known for a day or two who, if they know
i'm having a hard time, grab me in a hug. it's all i can do to
keep from shoving them.
it could be that they don't realize that it makes you
uncomfortable... some people hug everyone, some people like me hug
sometimes out of affection or because because I'm trying to be
friendly... it's hard to tell sometimes what the other person wants...
-"jordie"
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| User: "Michael A. Ball" |
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08 May 2006 05:21:42 PM |
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On 8 May 2006 13:54:44 -0700, wrote:
... it could be that they don't realize that it makes you
uncomfortable... some people hug everyone, some people like me hug
sometimes out of affection or because because I'm trying to be
friendly... it's hard to tell sometimes what the other person wants...
I've always wondered whether or not people could tell that I didn't want to be
touched--especially hugged. Actually, I sometimes wonder why they can't tell! I almost
feel tingly, or something, when I'm touched by strangers--and some acquaintances. It would
be interesting if we could generate an electric discharge at will. LOL
Play with fire! Zildjan drum sticks
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| User: "jill" |
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08 May 2006 06:01:31 PM |
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lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
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| User: "%" |
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08 May 2006 06:06:14 PM |
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"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
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| User: "jill" |
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08 May 2006 06:26:26 PM |
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% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
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| User: "jill" |
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08 May 2006 06:33:13 PM |
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jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
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| User: "%" |
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08 May 2006 06:36:36 PM |
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"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who
call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say
anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all
worse.
jill
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
well then you give them permission to keep doing it ,
there's nothing wrong with saying i prefer to be called Jill
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| User: "Rhiannon" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
10 May 2006 11:25:39 PM |
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"%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
well then you give them permission to keep doing it ,
there's nothing wrong with saying i prefer to be called Jill
Exactly!
--
Rhi
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| User: "Charles" |
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08 May 2006 06:43:02 PM |
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On Mon, 8 May 2006 16:36:36 -0700, "%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who
call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say
anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all
worse.
jill
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
well then you give them permission to keep doing it ,
there's nothing wrong with saying i prefer to be called Jill
One waitress called "Mister" which was a bit strange. I associate it
with the porn flicks where the girl is pretending to be young. The
waitress calls other people "Senor" so she is just translating. Now
she calls me Charlie, that's more comfortable.
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
08 May 2006 06:51:26 PM |
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"Charles" <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote in message
news:kilv52h323tpph75gb7vfmjfq5uhcdg1cv@4ax.com...
On Mon, 8 May 2006 16:36:36 -0700, "%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds
crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who
call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not
thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say
anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all
worse.
jill
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying
to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
well then you give them permission to keep doing it ,
there's nothing wrong with saying i prefer to be called Jill
One waitress called "Mister" which was a bit strange. I associate it
with the porn flicks where the girl is pretending to be young. The
waitress calls other people "Senor" so she is just translating. Now
she calls me Charlie, that's more comfortable.
i remember the first time a kid called me , ' Sir "
boy did that feel funny , i didn't even like ,
my 18 year old nephew calling me uncle in front of my name
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
08 May 2006 07:57:16 PM |
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% wrote...
"Charles" <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote in message
news:kilv52h323tpph75gb7vfmjfq5uhcdg1cv@4ax.com...
On Mon, 8 May 2006 16:36:36 -0700, "%" <persent@gmail.com>
wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com
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jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegrou
ps.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you...
even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news
about how touch releases all kinds of brain
hormones. animals of all kinds
crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers
touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie
people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know
those people who
call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate
that,, I am not
thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But
You can't say
anything
because they are just trying to be nice which
only makes it all
worse.
jill
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they
were just trying
to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all
so manipulative it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning
me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me
sweetie. jeeeez
well then you give them permission to keep doing it ,
there's nothing wrong with saying i prefer to be called
Jill
One waitress called "Mister" which was a bit strange. I
associate it with the porn flicks where the girl is
pretending to be young. The waitress calls other people
"Senor" so she is just translating. Now she calls me
Charlie, that's more comfortable.
i remember the first time a kid called me , ' Sir "
boy did that feel funny , i didn't even like ,
my 18 year old nephew calling me uncle in front of my name
now it feels weird not calling my father's good friend
'uncle'. like i'm supposed to suddenly be too grown up. i
still call my blood relatives 'aunt' and 'uncle', so why did
he suddenly change? my kids' friends call me 'lisa'. i can't
bear to do the 'mrs.' thing.
-lisa
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
09 May 2006 02:10:31 AM |
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In message <2LCdnSco0P4cRMLZRVn-jw@giganews.com>, % <persent@gmail.com>
writes
"Charles" <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote in message
news:kilv52h323tpph75gb7vfmjfq5uhcdg1cv@4ax.com...
On Mon, 8 May 2006 16:36:36 -0700, "%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds
crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who
call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not
thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say
anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all
worse.
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying
to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
well then you give them permission to keep doing it ,
there's nothing wrong with saying i prefer to be called Jill
One waitress called "Mister" which was a bit strange. I associate it
with the porn flicks where the girl is pretending to be young. The
waitress calls other people "Senor" so she is just translating. Now
she calls me Charlie, that's more comfortable.
i remember the first time a kid called me , ' Sir "
boy did that feel funny , i didn't even like ,
my 18 year old nephew calling me uncle in front of my name
Uncle Alan still sounds weird. As yet I haven't been called great uncle
Alan. My eldest grand niece is eleven, so I should make great, great
uncle Alan before I die, maybe more. Won't that be fun.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "" |
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09 May 2006 12:41:18 PM |
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Alan Harding wrote:
In message <2LCdnSco0P4cRMLZRVn-jw@giganews.com>, % <persent@gmail.com>
writes
"Charles" <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote in message
news:kilv52h323tpph75gb7vfmjfq5uhcdg1cv@4ax.com...
On Mon, 8 May 2006 16:36:36 -0700, "%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds
crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who
call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not
thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say
anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all
worse.
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying
to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
well then you give them permission to keep doing it ,
there's nothing wrong with saying i prefer to be called Jill
One waitress called "Mister" which was a bit strange. I associate it
with the porn flicks where the girl is pretending to be young. The
waitress calls other people "Senor" so she is just translating. Now
she calls me Charlie, that's more comfortable.
i remember the first time a kid called me , ' Sir "
boy did that feel funny , i didn't even like ,
my 18 year old nephew calling me uncle in front of my name
Uncle Alan still sounds weird. As yet I haven't been called great uncle
Alan. My eldest grand niece is eleven, so I should make great, great
uncle Alan before I die, maybe more. Won't that be fun.
--
I often ask my nephew (jordie) to say "uncle" before my name... I
like the way it sounds, and it helps remind me that I want to be a good
uncle...
-"jordie"
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09 May 2006 02:05:32 AM |
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In message <1147131193.565073.151530@g10g2000cwb.googlegroups.com>, jill
<ojj9691@aol.com> writes
jill wrote:
% wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1147129291.164860.217630@e56g2000cwe.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
oh Honey , you poor sweet thing ,
they aren't trying to be nice ,
they're taking advantage of you ,
in a situation where they can get away with it
Yjou can't say anything though. They act like they were just trying to
be nice and you are the one with the problem. Its all so manipulative
it makes me crazy!! agghh,
***** ,, I did it again, I meant to say,, You, meaning me or I can't
say anything when people ,other women mostly, call me sweetie.
jeeeez
It's really % being self referential. He projects a lot.
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08 May 2006 06:30:45 PM |
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"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
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| Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
| everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
| sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
| because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
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yeah , like used2be does ,
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| User: "Janithor" |
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09 May 2006 01:26:02 AM |
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Justin Case wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
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| Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
| everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
| sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
| because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
| jill
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yeah , like used2be does ,
It's OK for chicks, it's just a chick thing. Unless it's done
condescendingly, but I've seen her use it with almost everyone. It's
like wombn told me about a guy at work, he touched her, and that made
her squirm. Then she watched him and realized he did it to everyone,
even other guys. So she just wrote it off as him being a touchy-feely
kinda guy, and didn't worry about it after that.
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| User: "Charles" |
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08 May 2006 06:29:45 PM |
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On 8 May 2006 16:01:31 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote:
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how touch
releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of all kinds crave
touch. atm, i hate when relative strangers touch me, though. we
have a couple of huggie people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am not thier
sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But You can't say anything
because they are just trying to be nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
for me It depends on who is doing it. the waitress and the
restaurant, that's okay, she's just trying to do her job. Used2be
called me that one time, I felt all gooshy inside.
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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08 May 2006 08:00:12 PM |
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Charles wrote...
On 8 May 2006 16:01:31 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com>
wrote:
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of
all kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative
strangers touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie
people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those
people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am
not thier sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But
You can't say anything because they are just trying to be
nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
for me It depends on who is doing it. the waitress and the
restaurant, that's okay, she's just trying to do her job.
Used2be called me that one time, I felt all gooshy inside.
i hate it most when it's a stranger or recent acquaintance. i
consider most people here friends, so it doesn't bother me at
all here.
-lisa
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
09 May 2006 02:15:14 AM |
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In message <Xns97BDD5A61D9D3mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4>, lisa in mass.
<mccats@rcn.com> writes
Charles wrote...
On 8 May 2006 16:01:31 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com>
wrote:
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of
all kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative
strangers touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie
people at partial now.
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those
people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am
not thier sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But
You can't say anything because they are just trying to be
nice which only makes it all worse.
for me It depends on who is doing it. the waitress and the
restaurant, that's okay, she's just trying to do her job.
Used2be called me that one time, I felt all gooshy inside.
i hate it most when it's a stranger or recent acquaintance. i
consider most people here friends, so it doesn't bother me at
all here.
I call Wynne sweetie, on principle.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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09 May 2006 06:52:24 AM |
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Alan Harding wrote...
In message <Xns97BDD5A61D9D3mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4>,
lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> writes
Charles wrote...
On 8 May 2006 16:01:31 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com>
wrote:
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of
all kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative
strangers touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie
people at partial now.
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those
people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am
not thier sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But
You can't say anything because they are just trying to be
nice which only makes it all worse.
for me It depends on who is doing it. the waitress and
the restaurant, that's okay, she's just trying to do her
job. Used2be called me that one time, I felt all gooshy
inside.
i hate it most when it's a stranger or recent acquaintance.
i consider most people here friends, so it doesn't bother
me at all here.
I call Wynne sweetie, on principle.
i do the same to michael. he tries not to let me see him
cringe.
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| User: "Charles" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
08 May 2006 08:12:06 PM |
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On 9 May 2006 01:00:12 GMT, "lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
Charles wrote...
On 8 May 2006 16:01:31 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com>
wrote:
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of
all kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative
strangers touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie
people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those
people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am
not thier sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But
You can't say anything because they are just trying to be
nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
for me It depends on who is doing it. the waitress and the
restaurant, that's okay, she's just trying to do her job.
Used2be called me that one time, I felt all gooshy inside.
i hate it most when it's a stranger or recent acquaintance. i
consider most people here friends, so it doesn't bother me at
all here.
-lisa
I was thinking about this a bit after I posted it. I don't think I'd
like it so much if Brian Sunderland or Diminimi called me that, Well,
Brian, anyway.
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
08 May 2006 08:15:17 PM |
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Charles wrote...
On 9 May 2006 01:00:12 GMT, "lisa in mass."
<mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
Charles wrote...
On 8 May 2006 16:01:31 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com>
wrote:
lisa in mass. wrote:
wrote...
it feels good when people touch you... even
strangers...
-"jordie"
i read an article years ago in science news about how
touch releases all kinds of brain hormones. animals of
all kinds crave touch. atm, i hate when relative
strangers touch me, though. we have a couple of huggie
people at partial now.
-lisa
Me too.. and along those same lines,, you know those
people who call
everybody hon,, Honey and sweetie,, I hate that,, I am
not thier sweetie,, uggh, I hate hate hate that,, But
You can't say anything because they are just trying to be
nice which only makes it all worse.
jill
for me It depends on who is doing it. the waitress and
the restaurant, that's okay, she's just trying to do her
job. Used2be called me that one time, I felt all gooshy
inside.
i hate it most when it's a stranger or recent acquaintance.
i consider most people here friends, so it doesn't bother
me at all here.
-lisa
I was thinking about this a bit after I posted it. I don't
think I'd like it so much if Brian Sunderland or Diminimi
called me that, Well, Brian, anyway.
i did say most people here. luckily, i can't conceive of brian
calling me 'hon' or 'sweetie', so i think i'm safe :-)
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| User: "Charles" |
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08 May 2006 08:18:00 PM |
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On 9 May 2006 01:15:17 GMT, "lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
i did say most people here. luckily, i can't conceive of brian
calling me 'hon' or 'sweetie', so i think i'm safe :-)
That idea does almost sprain the brain, doesn't it.
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
08 May 2006 08:19:57 PM |
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"Charles" <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote in message
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On 9 May 2006 01:15:17 GMT, "lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
i did say most people here. luckily, i can't conceive of brian
calling me 'hon' or 'sweetie', so i think i'm safe :-)
That idea does almost sprain the brain, doesn't it.
i never care what anyone calls me
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| User: "Janithor" |
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| Title: Re: being touched feels good |
09 May 2006 01:24:04 AM |
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% wrote:
"Charles" <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote in message
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On 9 May 2006 01:15:17 GMT, "lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
i did say most people here. luckily, i can't conceive of brian
calling me 'hon' or 'sweetie', so i think i'm safe :-)
That idea does almost sprain the brain, doesn't it.
i never care what anyone calls me
liar
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