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Sociology > Depression |
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"Mz R." |
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07 Apr 2004 09:28:30 PM |
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Evening in emergency |
I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making me feel
worse.
Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work and my
husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see me is a week
from now)and the doc recommended that I stay overnight but I couldn't
do it.
Too afraid.
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
i feel like such a flake.
Mz.R.
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| User: "JohnM" |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
08 Apr 2004 11:53:25 AM |
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I think a lot of people think they said too much or reacted in the wrong
way at times.....but in a therapists office you can let your feelings and
experiences out, it is a safe place to do so. You did the right thing going
to see a therapist. Having your spouse cheat in you is very hurtful. It is
not suprising that "could not stop crying" under the circumstances. I
think the average wife who is cheated on has a similar reaction. And
getting your meds checked or adjusted given the additional stress, is not a
bad idea. Give yourself a pat on the back for seeing the therapist and for
posting to get support here.
JohnM
"Mz R." <mz_rancid@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2afa7d68.0404071828.2632303@posting.google.com...
I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making me feel
worse.
Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work and my
husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see me is a week
from now)and the doc recommended that I stay overnight but I couldn't
do it.
Too afraid.
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
i feel like such a flake.
Mz.R.
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
07 Apr 2004 09:58:25 PM |
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Mz R. wrote...
I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making
me feel worse.
Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work
and my husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see
me is a week from now)and the doc recommended that I stay
overnight but I couldn't do it.
Too afraid.
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
i feel like such a flake.
Mz.R.
not a flake at all. under too much stress.
i hope things go well at the evaluation. be prepared in case
they want you to stay overnight, at least bring a few
essentials with you, if you can. if they do recommend a brief
stay, i hope you'll take advantage of the short break this
will give you from everything going on right now in your life.
take good care,
-lisa
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| User: "foolio" |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
10 Apr 2004 09:29:47 AM |
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Mz R. wrote:
I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making me feel
worse.
Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work and my
husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see me is a week
from now)and the doc recommended that I stay overnight but I couldn't
do it.
Too afraid.
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
i feel like such a flake.
Mz.R.
(((((((Mz.R.)))))))
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| User: "Bev Thornton" |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
08 Apr 2004 02:36:59 AM |
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Mz R. wrote:
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
That's good. Maybe something beneficial will come of it.
i feel like such a flake.
Why?
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
08 Apr 2004 07:11:02 PM |
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On 7 Apr 2004 19:28:30 -0700, (Mz R.)
wrote:
<(((*> I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making me feel
<(((*> worse.
But once you get help, in time it will help you feel better.
<(((*> Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work and my
<(((*> husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
<(((*> and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
<(((*> what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
Dear lord, girl, given the crap that you're gonig through right
now, any one of us would feel just as upset as you do.
You can deal, just not all at once, and not when you're feeling
so run down and stressed.
<(((*> I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see me is a week
<(((*> from now)and the doc recommended that I stay overnight but I couldn't
<(((*> do it.
<(((*> Too afraid.
<(((*> so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
<(((*> i feel like such a flake.
Not a flake. Smart cookie, if you ask me. You've taken some
action toward getting the help you need.
There's no shame in asking for help when you need it. And
remember, we all need help sometimes. This is your time to need
help.
Tara J. Ballance
Montreal, Canada
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| User: "Lucida" |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
07 Apr 2004 09:37:16 PM |
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On 7 Apr 2004 19:28:30 -0700, (Mz R.) wrote:
I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making me feel
worse.
Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work and my
husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see me is a week
from now)and the doc recommended that I stay overnight but I couldn't
do it.
Too afraid.
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
i feel like such a flake.
Mz.R.
Don't feel like a flake. You are in a very stressful situation, even
without the depression. I am at a point where I realize that
hospitalization may become an option. I was really upset about it, but
I have come to realize that if I were that ill with anything else, I'd
go. You do what you have to to survive. There is nothing wrong with
needing someplace safe to regroup.
Hang in there, and I will be hoping that all goes well for you
tomorrow. You have a lot to deal with right now, and it is okay to
need a little extra help.
Lucida
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| User: "Nom dePlume nomdeplume1000-at-yahoo.com" |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
08 Apr 2004 12:02:32 AM |
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R, when you need help, you should get help. You are doing the right
thing. You don't need to feel like a flake; you should feel like
someone who has enough sense to come in out of the rain, instead of
standing there and yelling, "I'm dry! Really, I'm dry! Glub!"
--
Nom dePlume, Ph.D
Why, yes, in fact, I am a rocket scientist.
Guide to Medications for Mental Illness:
http://www.geocities.com/nomdeplume1000
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"Mz R." <mz_rancid@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2afa7d68.0404071828.2632303@posting.google.com...
I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making me feel
worse.
Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work and my
husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see me is a
week
from now)and the doc recommended that I stay overnight but I
couldn't
do it.
Too afraid.
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
i feel like such a flake.
Mz.R.
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| User: "John" |
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| Title: Re: Evening in emergency |
07 Apr 2004 09:35:08 PM |
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"Mz R." <mz_rancid@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:2afa7d68.0404071828.2632303@posting.google.com...
I am in really bad shape and trying to get help is making me feel
worse.
Saw my therp today and just lost it. Told him about work and my
husband cheating on me and could not stop crying.
and now i feel like such a totally hysterical twit!
what is wrong that I can't deal with things?
I went to emergency (because the earliest my doc will see me is a week
from now)and the doc recommended that I stay overnight but I couldn't
do it.
Too afraid.
so I am scheduled for an 'evaluation' tomorrow morning.
i feel like such a flake.
Mz.R.
Sounds like it was a good thing you went, though.
Release is always good. At least for me.
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