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"Alan Harding" |
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22 Jul 2006 02:50:08 AM |
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Everyone would be better off without me |
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
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The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Rhiannon" |
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23 Jul 2006 11:19:46 PM |
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"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
You don't want it in your head, but there it is, shoved in there like a CD
in a drive. FWIW I wouldn't be better off without you. I would miss you
terribly Alan.
--
Rhi
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| User: "Jane" |
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25 Jul 2006 04:15:02 AM |
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"Rhiannon" <rhiannon_2@netzero.com> wrote in message
news:ea1ho6$k9n$1@news.datemas.de...
"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
You don't want it in your head, but there it is, shoved in there like a CD
in a drive. FWIW I wouldn't be better off without you. I would miss you
terribly Alan.
--
Rhi
I agree with Rhi Alan, I would miss you too.
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| User: "Teilhard Knight" |
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22 Jul 2006 12:43:41 PM |
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"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
C'mon, you are not serious.
--
Teilhard Knight
The Extraterrestrial
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I am not screwed up .......... It's all in my mind
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: Everyone would be better off without me |
22 Jul 2006 04:41:20 PM |
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In message <4if6ekF3cq7jU1@individual.net>, Teilhard Knight
<teilhk@privacy.net> writes
"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
C'mon, you are not serious.
Certainly I was, and have been, occasionally, during the day.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Teilhard Knight" |
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22 Jul 2006 06:25:56 PM |
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"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:1iEeatDAupwEFw+Z@harding.demon.co.uk...
In message <4if6ekF3cq7jU1@individual.net>, Teilhard Knight
<teilhk@privacy.net> writes
"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
C'mon, you are not serious.
Certainly I was, and have been, occasionally, during the day.
Then you are all wrong. There is no ASD without Alan Harding.
--
Teilhard Knight
The Extraterrestrial
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I am not screwed up .......... It's all in my mind
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| User: "" |
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22 Jul 2006 06:50:09 PM |
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On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 18:25:56 -0500, "Teilhard Knight"
<teilhk@privacy.net> wrote:
->"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
->news:1iEeatDAupwEFw+Z@harding.demon.co.uk...
->> In message <4if6ekF3cq7jU1@individual.net>, Teilhard Knight
->> <teilhk@privacy.net> writes
->> >"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
->> >news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
->>
->> >> Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
->> >> night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
->> >> it isn't true.
->> >
->> >C'mon, you are not serious.
->>
->> Certainly I was, and have been, occasionally, during the day.
->
->Then you are all wrong. There is no ASD without Alan Harding.
Seconded.
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| User: "Violet" |
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23 Jul 2006 12:51:35 AM |
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notchimera wrote:
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 18:25:56 -0500, "Teilhard Knight"
<teilhk@privacy.net> wrote:
->"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
->news:1iEeatDAupwEFw+Z@harding.demon.co.uk...
->> In message <4if6ekF3cq7jU1@individual.net>, Teilhard Knight
->> <teilhk@privacy.net> writes
->> >"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
->> >news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
->>
->> >> Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
->> >> night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
->> >> it isn't true.
->> >
->> >C'mon, you are not serious.
->>
->> Certainly I was, and have been, occasionally, during the day.
->
->Then you are all wrong. There is no ASD without Alan Harding.
Seconded.
I totally agree, you're 'the salt of the earth' type - I'm thinking of
you & hoping you feel better.
I know it's hard - (((Alan)))
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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22 Jul 2006 11:57:47 PM |
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Alan Harding wrote...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just
arrived last night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have
done the trick, not that it isn't true.
it's lousy when your brain tricks you like that. i hope that you
sleep better tonight so that your tomorrow's better.
-lisa
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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23 Jul 2006 03:36:50 AM |
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In message <Xns98099CB0F7ADmccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4>, lisa in mass.
<mccats@rcn.com> writes
Alan Harding wrote...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just
arrived last night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have
done the trick, not that it isn't true.
it's lousy when your brain tricks you like that. i hope that you
sleep better tonight so that your tomorrow's better.
It seems okay today, but I haven't finished my first coffee yet, so it's
early.
:)
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "" |
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22 Jul 2006 12:15:11 PM |
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Alan Harding wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
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Well, for one thing, ASD would certainly not be better off without
you... so right there that takes the "everyone" out of the sentance...
and I would bet anything that the world is better off with you as
well...
-"jordy"
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| User: "Violet" |
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22 Jul 2006 08:02:23 AM |
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Alan Harding wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
You can't possible believe that, hope you feel a bit better today.
Even /I/ don't think that - despite people's hopes for me to stop
posting ;)
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| User: "purpleveggie" |
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25 Jul 2006 04:30:05 AM |
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Alan Harding wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
you must stay mr fuzzy face!
your pic reminds me of uncle albert in fools and horses :O)
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| User: "Gayle" |
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22 Jul 2006 09:23:01 AM |
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Alan Harding wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
Scary thinking, Alan, and please count
me in amongst the folks who benefit from
your presence.
Gayle
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| User: "David" |
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22 Jul 2006 08:56:11 AM |
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Am sorry you had a rough night last night, I slept ok, but had a bad dream.
This is common with the medication I am taking. It wouldn't be a bad idea to
mention on your next dr's visit.
"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that it
isn't true.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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22 Jul 2006 04:38:47 PM |
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In message <1153576012_84597@sp6iad.superfeed.net>, David
<dav2dd@gmail.com> writes
"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:pWIZXuCwidwEFw+0@harding.demon.co.uk...
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that it
isn't true.
Am sorry you had a rough night last night, I slept ok, but had a bad dream.
This is common with the medication I am taking. It wouldn't be a bad idea to
mention on your next dr's visit.
If it hasn't worn off, I shall. I need to ring him about upping the
lithium.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "aaron from suburbia" |
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23 Jul 2006 02:24:04 AM |
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Hi Alan.
hey I know where you're coming from, in my own way. I have thoughts
like that from time to time. of course, it isnt true. everyone would
be worse off without you. even me!
Yes, I hate that feeling. I freaking hate it. when I'm short on
sleep, it greatly increases my chances for a depressive crash, and
feelings like that. have some good sleep man, and know, that you're
important, even if you don't think so. please feel better.
Alan Harding wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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24 Jul 2006 03:35:32 PM |
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In message <1153639444.055399.37290@i3g2000cwc.googlegroups.com>, aaron
from suburbia <suburbanlife@mail.com> writes
Hi Alan.
hey I know where you're coming from, in my own way. I have thoughts
like that from time to time. of course, it isnt true. everyone would
be worse off without you. even me!
Yes, I hate that feeling. I freaking hate it. when I'm short on
sleep, it greatly increases my chances for a depressive crash, and
feelings like that. have some good sleep man, and know, that you're
important, even if you don't think so. please feel better.
Sleep makes a difference, I think. It's wearing off. That was the
longest period I've had.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "" |
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22 Jul 2006 10:53:40 AM |
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On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 08:50:08 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
->Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
->night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
->it isn't true.
Away from the computer, at least, no one would be better off without
me. Guess it's why I've become so self-centered. I try to find what
solitary fulfillment I can. This is impossible when I'm badly
depressed. Fortunately, I'm in the middle right now.
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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22 Jul 2006 04:42:21 PM |
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In message <88i4c2to7oa0395c7113qk3rj7lvu4jkdi@4ax.com>, notchimera
<dont@bother.com> writes
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 08:50:08 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
->Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
->night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
->it isn't true.
Away from the computer, at least, no one would be better off without
me. Guess it's why I've become so self-centered. I try to find what
solitary fulfillment I can. This is impossible when I'm badly
depressed. Fortunately, I'm in the middle right now.
I think I may need to take up computer games again - it occupies my
head.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "" |
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22 Jul 2006 06:49:19 PM |
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On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 22:42:21 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
->I think I may need to take up computer games again - it occupies my
->head.
Go for it. I'm sitting here playing a simple one that I've liked for
over ten years. Resting after spending the afternoon scraping paint,
ick. I'm in a rare period of being able to concentrate and finish
books. Going to read one later.
Idleness is the worst thing we can do.
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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24 Jul 2006 03:33:20 PM |
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In message <ntd5c2tph2q940ulkbjrhd5f1qbeej322c@4ax.com>, notchimera
<dont@bother.com> writes
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 22:42:21 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
->I think I may need to take up computer games again - it occupies my
->head.
Go for it. I'm sitting here playing a simple one that I've liked for
over ten years. Resting after spending the afternoon scraping paint,
ick. I'm in a rare period of being able to concentrate and finish
books. Going to read one later.
Idleness is the worst thing we can do.
I've been trying to set up 'Baldur's Gate' (I've always liked the
Dungeons and Dragons type of game). I can't get it the way I liked. I've
not played it for three or four years, and it's only when I come to
something I remember in the settings that I realise there is a 'better'
way of doing things.
Right now I'm beating my head against to keyboard to find a way of
matching the portraits of saved characters to the characters I've saved.
I saved a human female, which is what the loaded character says, but
it's lost the custom portrait and given me a dwarf instead. Not that I
have something against dwarves (in case he sees one with a battle-axe).
Frustration's better than cogitation.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "aaron from suburbia" |
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23 Jul 2006 02:28:17 AM |
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x-no-archive: yes
notchimera wrote:
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 08:50:08 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
->Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
->night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
->it isn't true.
Away from the computer, at least, no one would be better off without
me. Guess it's why I've become so self-centered. I try to find what
solitary fulfillment I can. This is impossible when I'm badly
depressed. Fortunately, I'm in the middle right now.
hope you feel better Claudia - i would say i am right smack in the
middle.... inbetween feeling alright and feeling like *****. i think
you're not as self-centered as you think. not self-centered at all.
you're a survivalist, in this brutal, cruel, *****-bin of a world.
i'm thinkin' of ya.
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| User: "ponette" |
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22 Jul 2006 11:12:24 AM |
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On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 08:50:08 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
I wouldn't be better off without you. So it isn't true.
Glad you're feeling a bit better this morning.
p
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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22 Jul 2006 04:42:59 PM |
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In message <5hj4c2lhr8g44ivks3mptqsm6ec6uk8psj@4ax.com>, ponette
<ponette0000@yahoo.com> writes
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 08:50:08 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
I wouldn't be better off without you. So it isn't true.
Glad you're feeling a bit better this morning.
Feeling better wore off.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "ponette" |
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22 Jul 2006 11:50:20 PM |
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On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 22:42:59 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
In message <5hj4c2lhr8g44ivks3mptqsm6ec6uk8psj@4ax.com>, ponette
<ponette0000@yahoo.com> writes
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 08:50:08 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
I wouldn't be better off without you. So it isn't true.
Glad you're feeling a bit better this morning.
Feeling better wore off.
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm stubbornly going to prefer to being on
this plane over another no matter how you feel, and I'm sorry you
aren't feeling good, but that doesn't change my own stance. And you
can't stop me. The world is far better with you in it. You can dodge
that, but you can't change that. Don't even try to.
Wishing you the best--
p
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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24 Jul 2006 03:34:08 PM |
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In message <hpv5c29qi23kg3aluaaf8fqdavr3lclnip@4ax.com>, ponette
<ponette0000@yahoo.com> writes
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 22:42:59 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
In message <5hj4c2lhr8g44ivks3mptqsm6ec6uk8psj@4ax.com>, ponette
<ponette0000@yahoo.com> writes
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 08:50:08 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
I wouldn't be better off without you. So it isn't true.
Glad you're feeling a bit better this morning.
Feeling better wore off.
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm stubbornly going to prefer to being on
this plane over another no matter how you feel, and I'm sorry you
aren't feeling good, but that doesn't change my own stance. And you
can't stop me. The world is far better with you in it. You can dodge
that, but you can't change that. Don't even try to.
Wishing you the best--
Thank you. I'm not commenting on your comment. ;)
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "ponette" |
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24 Jul 2006 04:35:33 PM |
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x-no-archive: yes
Alan Harding wrote:
Thank you. I'm not commenting on your comment. ;)
Thank you for not commenting on my comment about my comment. The
comment about my comment wasn't written by me, but by my inner editor.
;)
p
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| User: "ponette" |
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23 Jul 2006 11:22:45 AM |
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On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 21:50:20 -0700, ponette <ponette0000@yahoo.com>
wrote:
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm stubbornly going to prefer to being on
this plane over another no matter how you feel, and I'm sorry you
aren't feeling good, but that doesn't change my own stance. And you
can't stop me. The world is far better with you in it. You can dodge
that, but you can't change that. Don't even try to.
That was supposed to read "I'm stubbornly going to prefer you being on
this plane." Which is indeed true. But I didn't realize I sounded so
lecture-y until I read this back -- ick. Sorry 'bout that.
p
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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24 Jul 2006 03:34:33 PM |
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In message <4e87c2dla8bhb971q4vcrs3arft4rbld5c@4ax.com>, ponette
<ponette0000@yahoo.com> writes
On Sat, 22 Jul 2006 21:50:20 -0700, ponette <ponette0000@yahoo.com>
wrote:
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm stubbornly going to prefer to being on
this plane over another no matter how you feel, and I'm sorry you
aren't feeling good, but that doesn't change my own stance. And you
can't stop me. The world is far better with you in it. You can dodge
that, but you can't change that. Don't even try to.
That was supposed to read "I'm stubbornly going to prefer you being on
this plane." Which is indeed true. But I didn't realize I sounded so
lecture-y until I read this back -- ick. Sorry 'bout that.
That's what you said, isn't it?
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "slunky" |
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22 Jul 2006 11:50:26 AM |
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_/ Alan Harding wrote \_
Don't you just hate it when you think like that? It just arrived last
night, but a poor night's sleep seems to have done the trick, not that
it isn't true.
I hate feeling like that sometimes Alan.
--
-slunky
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