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"lisa in mass." |
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31 Oct 2006 09:37:51 AM |
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family thanksgiving strife |
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 09:40:14 AM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986D6C2394832mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
what an interesting way to give thanks
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| User: "justabeing" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 09:47:44 AM |
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"÷" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986D6C2394832mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
what an interesting way to give thanks
yeah no *****
my family's so extended and fractured I don't have to worry about that stuff
anymore, seems like everybody is doing different things...........
its actually a bit of relief
last couple years I've had Thanksgiving Pizza
(although my girl always ends up bringing me a big plate of food from
wherever she's went, traditional stuff, she's a good kid)
i got a feeling this Thanksgiving may be the best one I've had in ages : )
and I have ALOT to be thankful for this year
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| User: "Whitewater" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 01:05:32 PM |
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justabeing wrote:
"=F7" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:zOmdnUlfC5zh89rYnZ2dnUVZ_o2dnZ2d@giganews.com...
"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986D6C2394832mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
what an interesting way to give thanks
yeah no *****
my family's so extended and fractured I don't have to worry about that st=
uff
anymore, seems like everybody is doing different things...........
its actually a bit of relief
last couple years I've had Thanksgiving Pizza
(although my girl always ends up bringing me a big plate of food from
wherever she's went, traditional stuff, she's a good kid)
i got a feeling this Thanksgiving may be the best one I've had in ages : )
and I have ALOT to be thankful for this year
My family does kind of a pot luck traditional Thanksgiving. W/the usual
mashed & sweet potatoes, Turkey, my mothers mushroom gravy, cranberries
(jellied out of the can), my sisters brocolli dish, homemade mac n
cheese, toss salad, onion soup, salad,rolls, cup cakes, pies... I know
I'm forgetting somethings but its just being w/family is what you
should get out of it. We have our tiffs I hate. Some ppl can't always
make it, but enjoy yor time together.
Hell I'm hungry.
:p
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 09:45:15 AM |
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÷ wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
what an interesting way to give thanks
yeah. i thought so. i'd like to clobber them both for stubborn
stupidity.
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| User: "used2be" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 03:13:02 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986D6C2394832mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 07:48:49 PM |
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used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all going
to be very difficult for everyone.
-lisa
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| User: "%" |
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31 Oct 2006 07:54:06 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
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used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all going
to be very difficult for everyone.
-lisa
they're like you then ay
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 08:19:39 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986DD3B99973Cmccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all
going to be very difficult for everyone.
-lisa
they're like you then ay
gee, thanks.
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| User: "%" |
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31 Oct 2006 08:23:24 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
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% wrote...
"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986DD3B99973Cmccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all
going to be very difficult for everyone.
-lisa
they're like you then ay
gee, thanks.
well there's no talking to you most of the time ,
i'm not saying that's a bad thing or a good thing ,
i'm just saying , through you i see a family similarity
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| User: "used2be" |
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31 Oct 2006 09:23:24 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
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used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all going
to be very difficult for everyone.
i think i'd just avoid it completely. if they are going to act like
children, don't go. why participate in it?
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 09:32:37 PM |
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used2be wrote...
"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986DD3B99973Cmccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all
going to be very difficult for everyone.
i think i'd just avoid it completely. if they are going to
act like children, don't go. why participate in it?
that would put my mother in an even worse position. she's
holding it because otherwise my younger brother won't go. if i
won't go now, she's damned either way.
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| User: "%" |
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31 Oct 2006 09:37:22 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
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used2be wrote...
"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986DD3B99973Cmccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all
going to be very difficult for everyone.
i think i'd just avoid it completely. if they are going to
act like children, don't go. why participate in it?
that would put my mother in an even worse position. she's
holding it because otherwise my younger brother won't go. if i
won't go now, she's damned either way.
nothing like self empowerment
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| User: "used2be" |
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31 Oct 2006 09:52:49 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
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used2be wrote...
"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns986DD3B99973Cmccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
used2be wrote...
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
i must admit, that *is* a bit ridiculous!!
yep. but there's no talking to either of them, so it's all
going to be very difficult for everyone.
i think i'd just avoid it completely. if they are going to
act like children, don't go. why participate in it?
that would put my mother in an even worse position. she's
holding it because otherwise my younger brother won't go. if i
won't go now, she's damned either way.
well yeah, if your mom is having it then definitely go. i tho't it was at
one of the brothers for some reason. but you're right...if mom is having
it, you gotta support her! let the brothers duke it out and stay away from
the conflict if you can. sorry girl!
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| User: "Judith Stillwater" |
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01 Nov 2006 07:11:11 AM |
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On 31 Oct 2006 15:37:51 GMT, "lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
It occurs to me that you could make it unanimous and refuse to drive
to your parents' house :) Something tells me you won't do that, but
I'm just throwing it out as an option.
judith
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
01 Nov 2006 09:07:43 AM |
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Judith Stillwater wrote...
On 31 Oct 2006 15:37:51 GMT, "lisa in mass."
<mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my
brother's house is both relatively mid-point and large
enough to hold all of the family. nobody else has a dining
room big enough to hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes
follow an international theme, with a different country's
cuisine being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline
autistic. he had the same hairstyle throughout his school
years and insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when
not available in changing sizes and fashions. anything
being different than expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and
announced that if the meal was not to be purely
traditional, that he and his family were not coming. the
elder brother balked and said that if it were a traditional
meal, it was not going to take place at his house. so,
everyone's traveling to my parents' house, though we'll
have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the day before
thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served in the
living room on several tables, because the dining room's
nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
It occurs to me that you could make it unanimous and refuse
to drive to your parents' house :) Something tells me you
won't do that, but I'm just throwing it out as an option.
judith
i wouldn't do that to my mother. she's the one who's really
suffering the most through this. also, we'd agreed to drive to
my parents' house the day after thanksgiving to have a medical
procedure done for my son because we'd already be half way.
so, we're kindof stuck going, anyway.
-lisa
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| User: "jill" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
01 Nov 2006 10:32:23 AM |
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lisa in mass. wrote:
Judith Stillwater wrote...
On 31 Oct 2006 15:37:51 GMT, "lisa in mass."
<mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my
brother's house is both relatively mid-point and large
enough to hold all of the family. nobody else has a dining
room big enough to hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes
follow an international theme, with a different country's
cuisine being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline
autistic. he had the same hairstyle throughout his school
years and insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when
not available in changing sizes and fashions. anything
being different than expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and
announced that if the meal was not to be purely
traditional, that he and his family were not coming. the
elder brother balked and said that if it were a traditional
meal, it was not going to take place at his house. so,
everyone's traveling to my parents' house, though we'll
have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the day before
thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served in the
living room on several tables, because the dining room's
nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
It occurs to me that you could make it unanimous and refuse
to drive to your parents' house :) Something tells me you
won't do that, but I'm just throwing it out as an option.
judith
i wouldn't do that to my mother. she's the one who's really
suffering the most through this. also, we'd agreed to drive to
my parents' house the day after thanksgiving to have a medical
procedure done for my son because we'd already be half way.
so, we're kindof stuck going, anyway.
-lisa
Just cuz your brothers are just thinking about themselves does not
mean you have to act like a selfish jerk too. No offense but its
true. My response to this kind of thing is usually to just get
roaring drunk on the day as a form of silent protest. I think I have
finally out grown this behavior.
Sounds like holloween was good anyway, your right the really little
kids are so cute , I got one little girl who was dressed up like a
cow , too cute.
good luck , jill
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| User: "justabeing" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
01 Nov 2006 03:23:15 PM |
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"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
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lisa in mass. wrote:
Judith Stillwater wrote...
On 31 Oct 2006 15:37:51 GMT, "lisa in mass."
<mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my
brother's house is both relatively mid-point and large
enough to hold all of the family. nobody else has a dining
room big enough to hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes
follow an international theme, with a different country's
cuisine being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline
autistic. he had the same hairstyle throughout his school
years and insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when
not available in changing sizes and fashions. anything
being different than expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and
announced that if the meal was not to be purely
traditional, that he and his family were not coming. the
elder brother balked and said that if it were a traditional
meal, it was not going to take place at his house. so,
everyone's traveling to my parents' house, though we'll
have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the day before
thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served in the
living room on several tables, because the dining room's
nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
It occurs to me that you could make it unanimous and refuse
to drive to your parents' house :) Something tells me you
won't do that, but I'm just throwing it out as an option.
judith
i wouldn't do that to my mother. she's the one who's really
suffering the most through this. also, we'd agreed to drive to
my parents' house the day after thanksgiving to have a medical
procedure done for my son because we'd already be half way.
so, we're kindof stuck going, anyway.
-lisa
Just cuz your brothers are just thinking about themselves does not
mean you have to act like a selfish jerk too. No offense but its
true. My response to this kind of thing is usually to just get
roaring drunk on the day as a form of silent protest. I think I have
finally out grown this behavior.
Sounds like holloween was good anyway, your right the really little
kids are so cute , I got one little girl who was dressed up like a
cow , too cute.
good luck , jill
I can relate
I used to do that too
now i feel sorry I did
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01 Nov 2006 04:53:59 PM |
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justabeing wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1162398743.372427.59810@m73g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
Judith Stillwater wrote...
On 31 Oct 2006 15:37:51 GMT, "lisa in mass."
<mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my
brother's house is both relatively mid-point and large
enough to hold all of the family. nobody else has a dining
room big enough to hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes
follow an international theme, with a different country's
cuisine being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline
autistic. he had the same hairstyle throughout his school
years and insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when
not available in changing sizes and fashions. anything
being different than expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and
announced that if the meal was not to be purely
traditional, that he and his family were not coming. the
elder brother balked and said that if it were a traditional
meal, it was not going to take place at his house. so,
everyone's traveling to my parents' house, though we'll
have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the day before
thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served in the
living room on several tables, because the dining room's
nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
It occurs to me that you could make it unanimous and refuse
to drive to your parents' house :) Something tells me you
won't do that, but I'm just throwing it out as an option.
judith
i wouldn't do that to my mother. she's the one who's really
suffering the most through this. also, we'd agreed to drive to
my parents' house the day after thanksgiving to have a medical
procedure done for my son because we'd already be half way.
so, we're kindof stuck going, anyway.
-lisa
Just cuz your brothers are just thinking about themselves does not
mean you have to act like a selfish jerk too. No offense but its
true. My response to this kind of thing is usually to just get
roaring drunk on the day as a form of silent protest. I think I have
finally out grown this behavior.
Sounds like holloween was good anyway, your right the really little
kids are so cute , I got one little girl who was dressed up like a
cow , too cute.
good luck , jill
I can relate
I used to do that too
now i feel sorry I did
I am always tortured by remorse.. I hope I finally see that this
does nothing but make everything worse. took me years to get that,
Hi justa , glad you are in love . the whole world looks better
these days I imagine. jill
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01 Nov 2006 04:38:09 PM |
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jill wrote:
My response to this kind of thing is usually to just get
roaring drunk on the day as a form of silent protest.
I've sometimes wanted to do the same thing, though I never have...
all in all though, I enjoy thanksgiving dinner...
-"Jordy"
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| User: "punk" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 04:29:19 PM |
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families can suck. so can holiasys.
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 07:48:22 PM |
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lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
I'm sorry Lisa... I hope everything works out... familly get
together definatly can have some tension mixed in with all the other
ingrediants, unfortunatly...
-"Jordy"
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 07:52:22 PM |
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"jordy" wrote...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my
brother's house is both relatively mid-point and large
enough to hold all of the family. nobody else has a dining
room big enough to hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having
to make the same, traditional meal every year. every year
he serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes
follow an international theme, with a different country's
cuisine being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline
autistic. he had the same hairstyle throughout his school
years and insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when
not available in changing sizes and fashions. anything
being different than expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and
announced that if the meal was not to be purely
traditional, that he and his family were not coming. the
elder brother balked and said that if it were a
traditional meal, it was not going to take place at his
house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents' house,
though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the day
before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
I'm sorry Lisa... I hope everything works out... familly
get
together definatly can have some tension mixed in with all
the other ingrediants, unfortunatly...
it'll work out somehow. unfortunately, there's going to be way
too many people to comfortably fit in my parents' house and
noplace for all the kids to play. it's going to be
interesting.
-lisa
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| User: "Brianversion" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 01:28:41 PM |
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lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained anybody
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake. Screw
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't spoken
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
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| User: "÷" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 01:55:56 PM |
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"Brianversion" <brianguitar@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162322921.049996.53420@k70g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained anybody
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake. Screw
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't spoken
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
i think that's what family is for ,
so you can have people all your life to fight with
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| User: "Whitewater" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 02:54:06 PM |
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=F7 wrote:
"Brianversion" <brianguitar@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162322921.049996.53420@k70g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained anybody
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake. Screw
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't spoken
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
i think that's what family is for ,
so you can have people all your life to fight with
by george he's got it!
:p
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 02:58:09 PM |
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"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162328046.645480.228670@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
÷ wrote:
"Brianversion" <brianguitar@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162322921.049996.53420@k70g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained anybody
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake. Screw
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't spoken
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
i think that's what family is for ,
so you can have people all your life to fight with
by george he's got it!
:p
i'm more than just the gorgeous face you see in the newsgroups
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| User: "Whitewater" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 04:09:39 PM |
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% wrote:
"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162328046.645480.228670@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
=F7 wrote:
"Brianversion" <brianguitar@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162322921.049996.53420@k70g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained anybo=
dy
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake. Screw
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't spok=
en
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
i think that's what family is for ,
so you can have people all your life to fight with
by george he's got it!
:p
i'm more than just the gorgeous face you see in the newsgroups
I was wondering what you looked like.
;)
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 04:11:00 PM |
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"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162332578.951965.175170@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
% wrote:
"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162328046.645480.228670@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
÷ wrote:
"Brianversion" <brianguitar@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162322921.049996.53420@k70g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained
anybody
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake. Screw
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't
spoken
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
i think that's what family is for ,
so you can have people all your life to fight with
by george he's got it!
:p
i'm more than just the gorgeous face you see in the newsgroups
I was wondering what you looked like.
;)
oh really
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| User: "Whitewater" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 04:24:36 PM |
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% wrote:
"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162332578.951965.175170@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
% wrote:
"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162328046.645480.228670@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
=F7 wrote:
"Brianversion" <brianguitar@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162322921.049996.53420@k70g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained
anybody
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake. Scr=
ew
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't
spoken
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to =
mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
i think that's what family is for ,
so you can have people all your life to fight with
by george he's got it!
:p
i'm more than just the gorgeous face you see in the newsgroups
I was wondering what you looked like.
;)
oh really
Yeah, curious bout a lot of things. I wonder what a lot a ppl look like
that I blab to.
Thx
;)
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: family thanksgiving strife |
31 Oct 2006 04:31:46 PM |
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"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162333476.158084.106680@m73g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
% wrote:
"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162332578.951965.175170@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
% wrote:
"Whitewater" <whitewater960@tmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162328046.645480.228670@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
÷ wrote:
"Brianversion" <brianguitar@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1162322921.049996.53420@k70g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
lisa in mass. wrote:
it finally came to a head this year. the elder of my brother's
house is both relatively mid-point and large enough to hold
all of the family. nobody else has a dining room big enough to
hold twenty-something people.
this brother loves to cook, and hates the idea of having to
make the same, traditional meal every year. every year he
serves turkey, but its preparation and the side dishes follow
an international theme, with a different country's cuisine
being showcased each year.
our younger brother abhors change. he's borderline autistic.
he had the same hairstyle throughout his school years and
insisted on wearing the same clothing, even when not available
in changing sizes and fashions. anything being different than
expected throws him for a total loop.
this year, the younger brother put his foot down and announced
that if the meal was not to be purely traditional, that he and
his family were not coming. the elder brother balked and said
that if it were a traditional meal, it was not going to take
place at his house. so, everyone's traveling to my parents'
house, though we'll have a 4-5 hour trip to get there on the
day before thanksgiving. once there, the dinner will be served
in the living room on several tables, because the dining
room's nowhere big enough.
so now everyone's *****. the joys of family.
-lisa
That sucks. Any chance you can broker a deal with Bro #2 and Bro#1?
Of course, then your parents have to drive 5 hours...
I'm having it here this year, second time I've ever entertained
anybody
in my life. Labor day was a success with half the family here, so my
mother will cook here, and I'm even inviting my brother who divorced
and his girlfriend who trashed the family at my father's wake.
Screw
it, everyone can be forgiven, and we all know people who haven't
spoken
for 20 years over silly stuff. She probably won't come anyway./ Man
it's a beautiful day in the Northeast, isn't it Lisa? Good day to
mow
the yard and mulch the leaves.
Brian
i think that's what family is for ,
so you can have people all your life to fight with
by george he's got it!
:p
i'm more than just the gorgeous face you see in the newsgroups
I was wondering what you looked like.
;)
oh really
Yeah, curious bout a lot of things. I wonder what a lot a ppl look like
that I blab to.
Thx
;)
there is a web page with some of our pictures on it
.
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