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"victorious man" |
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01 Sep 2006 11:52:57 PM |
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feeling lonely |
I must be the loneliest person on earth. Day after day, week after week,
year after year, decade after decade, I just work, eat, and sleep, with no
friends and no hope.
Almost nobody would miss me if I died tomorrow. The only people who
congratulated me on my last birthday were my mom, my brother and his
family, the car dealership where I bought my truck, and my employer. My
employer of course congratulates every employee, so that doesn't mean
anything. The car dealership just wants me to buy more from them. My
immediate family cares about me, but they are thousands of miles away. I
have nobody here.
How can I recover from depression when I'm in an environment where I'm
deprived of the basic necessities of life?
Holidays don't help either. Too much time to think.
--
- victorious man
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"Every time we do something, you tell me Americans will do this and will do
that. I want to tell you something very clear: don't worry about American
pressure on Israel; we, the Jewish people, control America, and the
Americans know it." - Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon, October 3, 2001
"We have the Israelis coming to us for equipment. We can say we can't
possibly get the Congress to support a program like this. And they say
don't worry about the Congress. We will take care of the Congress. This is
somebody from another country, but they can do it. They own, you know, the
banks in this country. The newspapers. Just look at where the Jewish money
is." -- General George S. Brown
"Israel controls the United States Senate."
- Sen. William Fulbright
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
02 Sep 2006 04:14:37 PM |
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In message <Xns9831DEA8D86C9victorABCABCABCABCio@207.115.17.102>,
victorious man <victorious@no.net> writes
I must be the loneliest person on earth. Day after day, week after week,
year after year, decade after decade, I just work, eat, and sleep, with no
friends and no hope.
Almost nobody would miss me if I died tomorrow. The only people who
congratulated me on my last birthday were my mom, my brother and his
family, the car dealership where I bought my truck, and my employer. My
employer of course congratulates every employee, so that doesn't mean
anything. The car dealership just wants me to buy more from them. My
immediate family cares about me, but they are thousands of miles away. I
have nobody here.
How can I recover from depression when I'm in an environment where I'm
deprived of the basic necessities of life?
Stop depriving yourself.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
11 Sep 2006 09:14:30 PM |
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Alan Harding =E5=86=99=E9=81=93=EF=BC=9A
In message <Xns9831DEA8D86C9victorABCABCABCABCio@207.115.17.102>,
victorious man <victorious@no.net> writes
I must be the loneliest person on earth. Day after day, week after week,
year after year, decade after decade, I just work, eat, and sleep, with =
no
friends and no hope.
Almost nobody would miss me if I died tomorrow. The only people who
congratulated me on my last birthday were my mom, my brother and his
family, the car dealership where I bought my truck, and my employer. My
employer of course congratulates every employee, so that doesn't mean
anything. The car dealership just wants me to buy more from them. My
immediate family cares about me, but they are thousands of miles away. I
have nobody here.
How can I recover from depression when I'm in an environment where I'm
deprived of the basic necessities of life?
why this ? i don't know why your say this , each one can think he or
she is the loneliest person on earth. but it is not the truth. everyone
can think this ,but the truth is we are not so lonely as you think.
oh , sorry my english is not very well ,i can't express my feeling
freely. i go after freedom and my dream. i have a dream travel around
the world to feel all kinds of the world's life ! of cause with my
wife in future. so feel lonely is normal.
just fight for your dream and the true life. my friends. with hope
,freedom, courage !
now , go to change your life ! change yourself first ! with hope !
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
11 Sep 2006 04:35:15 AM |
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this is the first time i come to here. just for i feeling lonely. hi !
everyone ! just be happy!
we are here with you ! my friends !
i like this music -- NANA lonely lonely lonely
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| User: "eoygeo" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
11 Sep 2006 10:07:52 AM |
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wrote:
this is the first time i come to here. just for i feeling lonely. hi !
everyone ! just be happy!
we are here with you ! my friends !
i like this music -- NANA lonely lonely lonely
stick my tounge out )> when lonely <( to a voices
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| User: "Contrarian" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
11 Sep 2006 02:55:06 PM |
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eoygeo <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote:
stick my tounge out )> when lonely <( to a voices
Well hello eoygeo!
--
Breaking news: http://lazerbrody.typepad.com July 24/25 especially
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
11 Sep 2006 08:57:24 PM |
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eoygeo =E5=86=99=E9=81=93=EF=BC=9A
hf-20000@163.com wrote:
this is the first time i come to here. just for i feeling lonely. hi !
everyone ! just be happy!
we are here with you ! my friends !
i like this music -- NANA lonely lonely lonely
stick my tounge out )> when lonely <( to a voices
i don't know your means very clearly. maybe the word "tounge" means
"tongue".
you mean just to talk with friends? or others?
where are you from? your work ?
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| User: "Charles" |
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02 Sep 2006 12:55:50 AM |
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On Sat, 02 Sep 2006 04:52:57 GMT, victorious man <victorious@no.net>
wrote:
I must be the loneliest person on earth. Day after day, week after week,
year after year, decade after decade, I just work, eat, and sleep, with no
friends and no hope.
Almost nobody would miss me if I died tomorrow. The only people who
congratulated me on my last birthday were my mom, my brother and his
family, the car dealership where I bought my truck, and my employer. My
employer of course congratulates every employee, so that doesn't mean
anything. The car dealership just wants me to buy more from them. My
immediate family cares about me, but they are thousands of miles away. I
have nobody here.
How can I recover from depression when I'm in an environment where I'm
deprived of the basic necessities of life?
Holidays don't help either. Too much time to think.
Nobody's going to change it but you. Santa Clause doesn't bring
friends anymore.
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| User: "Rhiannon" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
04 Sep 2006 12:40:25 PM |
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On Sat, 02 Sep 2006 04:52:57 GMT, victorious man <victorious@no.net>
wrote:
I must be the loneliest person on earth. Day after day, week after week,
year after year, decade after decade, I just work, eat, and sleep, with
no
friends and no hope.
Almost nobody would miss me if I died tomorrow. The only people who
congratulated me on my last birthday were my mom, my brother and his
family, the car dealership where I bought my truck, and my employer. My
employer of course congratulates every employee, so that doesn't mean
anything. The car dealership just wants me to buy more from them. My
immediate family cares about me, but they are thousands of miles away. I
have nobody here.
How can I recover from depression when I'm in an environment where I'm
deprived of the basic necessities of life?
Holidays don't help either. Too much time to think.
No one should have to live this way and breaks my heart. It really does.
Regardless of how hateful you can be at times. Does the hate make you
lonely or has being lonely made you hate. Only you know the answer to that
and only you can do something about it. It's one of two ways Vic Man.
Learn to love yourself and others or learn to love your solitude. Either
work on the paranoia, the hypersensitivity, the rages, the bigotry, all the
things that prevent you from functioning normally socially, or learn how to
live alone and like it. Talk to your pdoc about specialized treatment or
therapy (DBT might be a good start) for the things that are wrong in you and
your life and once you do that you'll either be able to live with others and
meet people or you'll be able to live alone and enjoy it. Either way it's
going to take hard work that only *you* can do. I'm sorry you're feeling so
badly. No one deserves what you're going through. *I* can't hate people
enough to wish that on anyone. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers and
hope you get some help with this.
--
Rhi
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| User: "victorious man" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
04 Sep 2006 01:25:46 PM |
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"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in
news:edhoc6$unt$1@news.datemas.de:
No one should have to live this way and breaks my heart. It really
does. Regardless of how hateful you can be at times. Does the hate
make you lonely or has being lonely made you hate.
I don't think hate makes me lonely, since I don't express any hate in
real life, only here. Also, if I hate two categories of people, it is
because they deserve it.
Only you know the
answer to that and only you can do something about it. It's one of
two ways Vic Man. Learn to love yourself and others or learn to love
your solitude.
I don't have to love *everybody*.
Either work on the paranoia,
I don't think I have paranoia.
the hypersensitivity, the
rages,
These are two symptoms of Bipolar II.
the bigotry, all the things that prevent you from functioning
normally socially,
It is mostly my extreme anxiety, and my complete lack of social skills,
caused by a life spent alone, that prevent me from functioning
"normally" socially.
or learn how to live alone and like it.
I didn't like it when I was a small child, I don't like it now, and I'll
never like it.
Talk to
your pdoc about specialized treatment or therapy (DBT might be a good
start) for the things that are wrong in you and your life and once you
do that you'll either be able to live with others and meet people or
you'll be able to live alone and enjoy it. Either way it's going to
take hard work that only *you* can do. I'm sorry you're feeling so
badly. No one deserves what you're going through. *I* can't hate
people enough to wish that on anyone. I'll keep you in my thoughts
and prayers and hope you get some help with this.
--
Rhi
Thanks.
--
- victorious man
----------
"Every time we do something, you tell me Americans will do this and will
do that. I want to tell you something very clear: don't worry about
American pressure on Israel; we, the Jewish people, control America, and
the Americans know it." - Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon, October
3, 2001
"We have the Israelis coming to us for equipment. We can say we can't
possibly get the Congress to support a program like this. And they say
don't worry about the Congress. We will take care of the Congress. This
is somebody from another country, but they can do it. They own, you
know, the banks in this country. The newspapers. Just look at where the
Jewish money is." -- General George S. Brown
"Israel controls the United States Senate."
- Sen. William Fulbright
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
05 Sep 2006 01:25:40 AM |
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In message <Xns983474547C575victorABCABCABCABCio@207.115.17.102>,
victorious man <victorious@no.net> writes
"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in
news:edhoc6$unt$1@news.datemas.de:
No one should have to live this way and breaks my heart. It really
does. Regardless of how hateful you can be at times. Does the hate
make you lonely or has being lonely made you hate.
I don't think hate makes me lonely, since I don't express any hate in
real life, only here. Also, if I hate two categories of people, it is
because they deserve it.
Loneliness is an interior thing. Being alone isn't sufficient, or
necessary, as lots of people can affirm. You must work on what's inside
you to stop feeling lonely.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Rhiannon" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
05 Sep 2006 11:56:13 AM |
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"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:TbiP0sAkhR$EFwgX@harding.demon.co.uk...
In message <Xns983474547C575victorABCABCABCABCio@207.115.17.102>,
victorious man <victorious@no.net> writes
"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in
news:edhoc6$unt$1@news.datemas.de:
No one should have to live this way and breaks my heart. It really
does. Regardless of how hateful you can be at times. Does the hate
make you lonely or has being lonely made you hate.
I don't think hate makes me lonely, since I don't express any hate in
real life, only here. Also, if I hate two categories of people, it is
because they deserve it.
No they don't. That's my point. No one deserves to be hated. Hate is not
a *normal* human emotion. It's a perversion of other, emotions like fear
and threat that we don't work on and let fester and let poison us. Hate is
what comes from not dealing with anger, and resentment, and other feelings
with workable solutions, but it is not natural to the human condition.
--
Rhi
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| User: "GlennT" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
11 Sep 2006 06:40:33 AM |
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Alan Harding wrote:
In message <Xns983474547C575victorABCABCABCABCio@207.115.17.102>,
victorious man <victorious@no.net> writes
"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in
news:edhoc6$unt$1@news.datemas.de:
No one should have to live this way and breaks my heart. It really
does. Regardless of how hateful you can be at times. Does the hate
make you lonely or has being lonely made you hate.
I don't think hate makes me lonely, since I don't express any hate in
real life, only here. Also, if I hate two categories of people, it is
because they deserve it.
Loneliness is an interior thing. Being alone isn't sufficient, or
necessary, as lots of people can affirm. You must work on what's inside
you to stop feeling lonely.
Yeah, but I like being alone. Lonely? I've got an entire community
inside my head.
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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11 Sep 2006 03:52:55 PM |
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In message <1157974832.961211.23450@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com>,
GlennT <trucage@xtra.co.nz> writes
Alan Harding wrote:
In message <Xns983474547C575victorABCABCABCABCio@207.115.17.102>,
victorious man <victorious@no.net> writes
"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in
news:edhoc6$unt$1@news.datemas.de:
No one should have to live this way and breaks my heart. It really
does. Regardless of how hateful you can be at times. Does the hate
make you lonely or has being lonely made you hate.
I don't think hate makes me lonely, since I don't express any hate in
real life, only here. Also, if I hate two categories of people, it is
because they deserve it.
Loneliness is an interior thing. Being alone isn't sufficient, or
necessary, as lots of people can affirm. You must work on what's inside
you to stop feeling lonely.
Yeah, but I like being alone. Lonely? I've got an entire community
inside my head.
I've written an entire community, but only when I've been alone.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "GlennT" |
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15 Sep 2006 06:36:28 AM |
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Alan Harding wrote:
In message <1157974832.961211.23450@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com>,
GlennT <trucage@xtra.co.nz> writes
Yeah, but I like being alone. Lonely? I've got an entire community
inside my head.
I've written an entire community, but only when I've been alone.
It seems I see everything when I am alone. In company I become clouded
with their brain static. Still, it does break the monotony of
everything.
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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16 Sep 2006 01:30:44 AM |
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In message <1158320188.930343.286050@e3g2000cwe.googlegroups.com>,
GlennT <trucage@xtra.co.nz> writes
Alan Harding wrote:
In message <1157974832.961211.23450@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com>,
GlennT <trucage@xtra.co.nz> writes
Yeah, but I like being alone. Lonely? I've got an entire community
inside my head.
I've written an entire community, but only when I've been alone.
It seems I see everything when I am alone. In company I become clouded
with their brain static. Still, it does break the monotony of
everything.
I don't become clouded in company. It's as though someone else takes
over and, for two or three hours, I'm as cheery as ever I was. I crash
after wards. I do my thinking between top and bottom, when I'm on my
own, usually.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Bacon" |
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02 Sep 2006 02:10:31 AM |
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On Sat, 02 Sep 2006 04:52:57 GMT, victorious man <victorious@no.net>
wrote:
I must be the loneliest person on earth. Day after day, week after week,
year after year, decade after decade, I just work, eat, and sleep, with no
friends and no hope.
Almost nobody would miss me if I died tomorrow. The only people who
congratulated me on my last birthday were my mom, my brother and his
family, the car dealership where I bought my truck, and my employer. My
employer of course congratulates every employee, so that doesn't mean
anything. The car dealership just wants me to buy more from them. My
immediate family cares about me, but they are thousands of miles away. I
have nobody here.
How can I recover from depression when I'm in an environment where I'm
deprived of the basic necessities of life?
Holidays don't help either. Too much time to think.
Your perspective is fucked...you pretty much describe my situation
too, but I love it and never feel lonely. Think about it, marriages
always fail and friends eventually ask you to help them move. Get a
real pet, clean your ***** up for once, and enjoy your freedom.
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| User: "slunky" |
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| Title: Re: feeling lonely |
01 Sep 2006 11:55:28 PM |
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Stop being a hateful bigot and you might make more friends. How can you
hope to have people want to be close to you when you treat men like
mice?
--
-slunky
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| User: "purpleveggie" |
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02 Sep 2006 12:22:41 AM |
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slunky wrote:
Stop being a hateful bigot and you might make more friends. How can you
hope to have people want to be close to you when you treat men like
mice?
--
-slunky
here here,well sais that man!
you reap what you sow in life.
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| User: "~C.B.~" |
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02 Sep 2006 01:24:48 AM |
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victorious man wrote:
I must be the loneliest person on earth. Day after day, week after week,
year after year, decade after decade, I just work, eat, and sleep, with no
friends and no hope.
Almost nobody would miss me if I died tomorrow. The only people who
congratulated me on my last birthday were my mom, my brother and his
family, the car dealership where I bought my truck, and my employer. My
employer of course congratulates every employee, so that doesn't mean
anything. The car dealership just wants me to buy more from them. My
immediate family cares about me, but they are thousands of miles away. I
have nobody here.
How can I recover from depression when I'm in an environment where I'm
deprived of the basic necessities of life?
Holidays don't help either. Too much time to think.
--
- victorious man
----------
"Every time we do something, you tell me Americans will do this and will do
that. I want to tell you something very clear: don't worry about American
pressure on Israel; we, the Jewish people, control America, and the
Americans know it." - Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon, October 3, 2001
"We have the Israelis coming to us for equipment. We can say we can't
possibly get the Congress to support a program like this. And they say
don't worry about the Congress. We will take care of the Congress. This is
somebody from another country, but they can do it. They own, you know, the
banks in this country. The newspapers. Just look at where the Jewish money
is." -- General George S. Brown
"Israel controls the United States Senate."
- Sen. William Fulbright
Love yourself. Love others.
~C.B.~
http://shespillsthebeans.blogspot.com
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