no, i'd like them to work it out so my son doesn't lose his dad
forever.


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"punk" <punkn05@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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my son, pjr., came over today to do yardwork with his gf. we had a
chance to talk a bit and i figured out what is going on with him and
his dad. the day our divorce was final my ex told pjr he wanted him
out of the house. my ex has a million reasons why, but, it seems he
has decided he wants to sell the house and start a new life in ct.
fine, but, he's trying to manipulate the situation so he can get what
he wants.

i told my son, it's not about him or his gf. it's just that his dad
prolly wants to sell the house so he's trying to get him out. i told
him don't take it personally, it's just a tactic. i told pjr. he
should make his dad discuss the situation with him and make plans
together for a smooth transition, instead of being at his's dad mercy
just waiting for the hatchet to swing.

my son seemed a lot less stressed when i spoke with him on the phone
this evening. i hope he and his dad can find their way thru this.

and you think he should manipulate it ,
in a way that gets you what you want

he and his gf are trying to get an apt together.

meanwhile, the kid comes over with her and we started talking about the
new kitten she just bought. he was complaining about how she paid $100
for the kitty. but i noticed he had some fresh ink on his arm so i
said "if you and s keep spending your money that way, you're never
gonna have an apt".

he'd rather stay at his dad's cuz his dad is only there one day every
week or two.

i just told him he needs to have a talk with his dad and work out some
plans that will work for each of them.