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"David" |
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03 Sep 2006 01:25:10 AM |
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for your information |
I show signs...
http://www.ptypes.com/passive-aggpd.html
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| User: "Rhiannon" |
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04 Sep 2006 12:46:27 PM |
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"David" <dav2dd@gmail.com> wrote in message
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I show signs...
http://www.ptypes.com/passive-aggpd.html
Wow. That's my ex husband all over.
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Rhi
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| User: "RGB" |
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03 Sep 2006 01:32:29 AM |
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In article <7zuKg.7862$Zm1.7443@dukeread02>, "David" <dav2dd@gmail.com>
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I show signs...
http://www.ptypes.com/passive-aggpd.html
A website devoted to "Christian theological psychology"? What the *****?
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| User: "David" |
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03 Sep 2006 02:29:08 AM |
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I obviously did not look through this website throughoughly, I do see that
there is a growing pattern of aggressive behavior from those on this group,
even from within this very post. I was merely suggesting that I also have
had these tendancies. If you are concerned about this type of pattern in
your life, I would suggest letting your doctor know.
"RGB" <mark022806-asd@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:1GuKg.57131$TP1.41788@fe04.news.easynews.com...
In article <7zuKg.7862$Zm1.7443@dukeread02>, "David" <dav2dd@gmail.com>
wrote:
I show signs...
http://www.ptypes.com/passive-aggpd.html
A website devoted to "Christian theological psychology"? What the *****?
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| User: "RGB" |
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03 Sep 2006 03:13:50 AM |
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In article <7vvKg.7865$Zm1.279@dukeread02>, "David" <dav2dd@gmail.com>
wrote:
I show signs...
http://www.ptypes.com/passive-aggpd.html
A website devoted to "Christian theological psychology"?
What the *****?
I obviously did not look through this website throughoughly
In general, when reading (and especially when citing)
http://www.xyz.com.blahblahblah.html, it's a good idea to check out
http://www.xyz.com. In this case, we have a site that's just sitting in
wait like a questing tick on a blade of tall grass to grab on to
someone ready to pass on URLs without realizing the advocacy behind
them.
I do see that there is a growing pattern of aggressive behavior from
those on this group, even from within this very post. I was merely
suggesting that I also have had these tendancies. If you are
concerned about this type of pattern in your life, I would suggest
letting your doctor know.
I understand what you were doing. I'm just pointing out that your
source here is a website devoted to something many people would not
regard as objective, scientific psychology.
Your advice about me and my doctor is not necessary nor particularly
welcome. You may have noticed that a number of people have gotten
frosted shorts WRT this passion of yours for telling people -- in often
wildly inappropriate circumstances, like this one -- to consult their
doctors. You might want to consider toning it down a bit. It makes you
a target for assholes like Franz and % and diminishes your credibility
with even more reasonable people.
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: for your information |
03 Sep 2006 10:37:35 AM |
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"RGB" <mark022806-asd@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:19wKg.275800$P02.66215@fe07.news.easynews.com...
In article <7vvKg.7865$Zm1.279@dukeread02>, "David" <dav2dd@gmail.com>
wrote:
I show signs...
http://www.ptypes.com/passive-aggpd.html
A website devoted to "Christian theological psychology"?
What the *****?
I obviously did not look through this website throughoughly
In general, when reading (and especially when citing)
http://www.xyz.com.blahblahblah.html, it's a good idea to check out
http://www.xyz.com. In this case, we have a site that's just sitting in
wait like a questing tick on a blade of tall grass to grab on to
someone ready to pass on URLs without realizing the advocacy behind
them.
I do see that there is a growing pattern of aggressive behavior from
those on this group, even from within this very post. I was merely
suggesting that I also have had these tendancies. If you are
concerned about this type of pattern in your life, I would suggest
letting your doctor know.
I understand what you were doing. I'm just pointing out that your
source here is a website devoted to something many people would not
regard as objective, scientific psychology.
Your advice about me and my doctor is not necessary nor particularly
welcome. You may have noticed that a number of people have gotten
frosted shorts WRT this passion of yours for telling people -- in often
wildly inappropriate circumstances, like this one -- to consult their
doctors. You might want to consider toning it down a bit. It makes you
a target for assholes like Franz and % and diminishes your credibility
with even more reasonable people.
picking on the sick guys , tsk tsk
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| User: "" |
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03 Sep 2006 08:41:14 AM |
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On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 08:13:50 GMT, RGB <mark022806-asd@yahoo.com>
wrote:
<snip>
->In this case, we have a site that's just sitting in
->wait like a questing tick on a blade of tall grass to grab on to
->someone ready to pass on URLs without realizing the advocacy behind
->them.
Damn, Mark, that was GOOD! When are you going to write a book?
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: for your information |
03 Sep 2006 10:39:05 AM |
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"notchimera" <dont@bother.com> wrote in message
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On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 08:13:50 GMT, RGB <mark022806-asd@yahoo.com>
wrote:
<snip>
->In this case, we have a site that's just sitting in
->wait like a questing tick on a blade of tall grass to grab on to
->someone ready to pass on URLs without realizing the advocacy behind
->them.
Damn, Mark, that was GOOD! When are you going to write a book?
maybe when he gets over obsessing about my *****
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| User: "RGB" |
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03 Sep 2006 12:00:40 PM |
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In article <a9mlf2hehb96mi39bb5g3amb4najf02vlp@4ax.com>,
notchimera<dont@bother.com> wrote, quoting me:
In this case, we have a site that's just sitting in wait like a
questing tick on a blade of tall grass to grab on to someone ready
to pass on URLs without realizing the advocacy behind them.
Damn, Mark, that was GOOD! When are you going to write a book?
Thanks! Wasn't it? I just love the word that word "questing" in
connection with those vile little things. It's what they do when they
crawl to the tip of a blade of grass or the edge of a low leaf and just
hang out there with their front legs extended, waiting. I was gonna
post an image link but it's too disgusting. God I hate ticks.
Book? Eh. Takes more than being a good flamer to write something people
will pay money for. I don't think I have the shtuff to write anything
extended that would be worth reading. But thanks anyway!
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| User: "Charles" |
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03 Sep 2006 01:36:24 AM |
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On Sun, 3 Sep 2006 01:25:10 -0500, "David" <dav2dd@gmail.com> wrote:
I show signs...
http://www.ptypes.com/passive-aggpd.html
# expresses envy and resentment toward those apparently more
fortunate;
# voices exaggerated and persistent complaints of personal misfortune;
I think he posts here.
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| User: "Charles" |
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03 Sep 2006 01:38:10 AM |
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I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
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| User: "jill" |
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03 Sep 2006 01:05:56 PM |
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Charles wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Its me charles how'd you know,
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| User: "Charles" |
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03 Sep 2006 01:55:37 PM |
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On 3 Sep 2006 11:05:56 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Its me charles how'd you know,
I've been reading your mail.
<:-)
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| User: "Charles" |
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03 Sep 2006 07:22:10 PM |
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On 3 Sep 2006 11:05:56 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Its me charles how'd you know,
for me we'd have to add:
* avoids occupational activities that involve significant
interpersonal contact, because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or
rejection;
* is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of
being liked;
* shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the
fear of being shamed or ridiculed;
* is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social
situations;
* is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of
feelings of inadequacy;
* views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or
inferior to others;
* is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage
in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing.
* neither desires nor enjoys close relationships, including
being part of a family;
* almost always chooses solitary activities;
* has little, if any, interest in having sexual experiences
with another person;
* takes pleasure in few, if any, activities;
* lacks close friends or confidants other than first-degree
relatives;
* appears indifferent to the praise or criticism of others;
* shows emotional coldness, detachment, or flattened
affectivity.
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| User: "jill" |
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04 Sep 2006 12:45:32 PM |
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Charles wrote:
On 3 Sep 2006 11:05:56 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Its me charles how'd you know,
for me we'd have to add:
* avoids occupational activities that involve significant
interpersonal contact, because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or
rejection;
* is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of
being liked;
* shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the
fear of being shamed or ridiculed;
* is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social
situations;
* is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of
feelings of inadequacy;
* views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or
inferior to others;
* is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage
in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing.
* neither desires nor enjoys close relationships, including
being part of a family;
* almost always chooses solitary activities;
* has little, if any, interest in having sexual experiences
with another person;
* takes pleasure in few, if any, activities;
* lacks close friends or confidants other than first-degree
relatives;
* appears indifferent to the praise or criticism of others;
* shows emotional coldness, detachment, or flattened
affectivity.
I would like to add a couple of things to your list.
can be funny
Has a sense of fairness when dealing with others.
waving, jill
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| User: "Charles" |
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04 Sep 2006 08:10:25 PM |
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On 4 Sep 2006 10:45:32 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
On 3 Sep 2006 11:05:56 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Its me charles how'd you know,
for me we'd have to add:
* avoids occupational activities that involve significant
interpersonal contact, because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or
rejection;
* is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of
being liked;
* shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the
fear of being shamed or ridiculed;
* is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social
situations;
* is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of
feelings of inadequacy;
* views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or
inferior to others;
* is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage
in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing.
* neither desires nor enjoys close relationships, including
being part of a family;
* almost always chooses solitary activities;
* has little, if any, interest in having sexual experiences
with another person;
* takes pleasure in few, if any, activities;
* lacks close friends or confidants other than first-degree
relatives;
* appears indifferent to the praise or criticism of others;
* shows emotional coldness, detachment, or flattened
affectivity.
I would like to add a couple of things to your list.
can be funny
Has a sense of fairness when dealing with others.
waving, jill
What a nice thing to say, I'm thinking of penciling that into my DSM.
thanks
Charles
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| User: "BoredToTears" |
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04 Sep 2006 08:28:28 PM |
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Charles wrote:
On 3 Sep 2006 11:05:56 -0700, "jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Its me charles how'd you know,
for me we'd have to add:
* avoids occupational activities that involve significant
interpersonal contact, because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or
rejection;
* is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of
being liked;
* shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the
fear of being shamed or ridiculed;
* is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social
situations;
* is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of
feelings of inadequacy;
* views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or
inferior to others;
* is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage
in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing.
* neither desires nor enjoys close relationships, including
being part of a family;
* almost always chooses solitary activities;
* has little, if any, interest in having sexual experiences
with another person;
* takes pleasure in few, if any, activities;
* lacks close friends or confidants other than first-degree
relatives;
* appears indifferent to the praise or criticism of others;
* shows emotional coldness, detachment, or flattened
affectivity.
You're me, ain'tcha? You better be, cos that's just too feckin weird.
Here's one:
* likes cheese
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| User: "áñti-ëVêrYtHïñG" |
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03 Sep 2006 01:47:42 PM |
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On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 06:38:10 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Damn ng is occupied by mad people.
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| User: "jill" |
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04 Sep 2006 12:38:02 PM |
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=E1=F1ti-=EBV=EArYtH=EF=F1G wrote:
On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 06:38:10 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrot=
e:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Damn ng is occupied by mad people.
Ah, that wasn't on the list. jill
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| User: "Rhiannon" |
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04 Sep 2006 12:44:39 PM |
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"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1157391482.636663.3510@m73g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
áñti-ëVêrYtHïñG wrote:
On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 06:38:10 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net>
wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Damn ng is occupied by mad people.
Ah, that wasn't on the list. jill
Laugh! Thanks Jill for that laugh out loud. :-)
--
Rhi
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| User: "jill" |
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04 Sep 2006 02:00:10 PM |
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Rhiannon wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1157391482.636663.3510@m73g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
=E1=F1ti-=EBV=EArYtH=EF=F1G wrote:
On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 06:38:10 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net>
wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Damn ng is occupied by mad people.
Ah, that wasn't on the list. jill
Laugh! Thanks Jill for that laugh out loud. :-)
--
Rhi
there is not greater feeling then being understood and sharing a
laugh, (smiling) Take care of yourself ! jill
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| User: "jill" |
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04 Sep 2006 02:08:15 PM |
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jill wrote:
Rhiannon wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1157391482.636663.3510@m73g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
=E1=F1ti-=EBV=EArYtH=EF=F1G wrote:
On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 06:38:10 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net>
wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Damn ng is occupied by mad people.
Ah, that wasn't on the list. jill
Laugh! Thanks Jill for that laugh out loud. :-)
--
Rhi
there is not greater feeling then being understood and sharing a
laugh, (smiling) Take care of yourself ! jill
I just think of you as someone who doesn't take care of herself cuz
she is to busy taking care of everyone else. you matter too you know,
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| User: "Rhiannon" |
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05 Sep 2006 10:04:04 AM |
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"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1157396895.784909.268560@m73g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
jill wrote:
Rhiannon wrote:
"jill" <ojj9691@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1157391482.636663.3510@m73g2000cwd.googlegroups.com...
áñti-ëVêrYtHïñG wrote:
On Sun, 03 Sep 2006 06:38:10 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net>
wrote:
I know this one does:
* usual mood is dominated by dejection, gloominess,
cheerlessness, joylessness, unhappiness;
* self-concept centers around beliefs of inadequacy,
worthlessness, and low self-esteem;
* is critical, blaming, and derogatory toward self;
* is brooding and given to worry;
* is negativistic, critical, and judgmental toward others;
* is pessimistic;
* is prone to feeling guilty or remorseful.
Damn ng is occupied by mad people.
Ah, that wasn't on the list. jill
Laugh! Thanks Jill for that laugh out loud. :-)
--
Rhi
there is not greater feeling then being understood and sharing a
laugh, (smiling) Take care of yourself ! jill
I just think of you as someone who doesn't take care of herself cuz
she is to busy taking care of everyone else. you matter too you know,
Awww thanks Jill. I'm doing pretty good these days with the taking care of
me. I am actually learning how and not feeling guitly about it. Yay me!
But thanks for worrying about me. :) It's appreciated.
--
Rhi
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