speaknever wrote:

I have a friend who is over time has gone from super nice to super
mean. We went to highschool together where I basically gathered all of
my nerves and pestered him until we became friends. And we were great
friends. I went to college and tried a year of university and went to
the same one he did. He was one year ahead of me, and I a year behind.
We took different subjects but still met up and hung outside of school
regularily. This was a year ago.

I am taking a year off and now when we see each other it's in a group
setting and he is always horridly making fun of me. Last year I felt
maybe he had a crush on me and now it's like he truly detestes me.
He's always making fun of my pictures (i take self-pictures), tries to
"correct" my opinions, and it's always in front of others. I also have
a blog (private for now) which he used to praise me for but now it's
like a huge joke.

I finally confronted him about this, asking why is he treating me like
this? Why all of a sudden? I was rude and abrupt in my msg saying that
he never makes any effort to come see me, only when we can be in a
group so I can be the center of all the jokes. I am shaking and
stomach aching wondering if there was something specific I did, or
that he never really liked me at all and I was wasting my time and
putting too much importance on this friendship.

I am always on the outside of my relationships watching them turn to
*****, helpless. Feeling any move I make will be the thing that tears
it apart.

don't do that