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Topic: Sociology > Depression
User: "ensoul"
Date: 23 Jun 2006 12:43:42 PM
Object: he's dying, hospice time
they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
Rick told he wants us to get married, told me b4 he went in the hosp,
guess he knew something
he has maybe 30 days left, haven't told his fmaily of orgin that made
it plan they won't follow his wishes, Rick wants donate his body to a
spec. hosp to others since his cance is so rare, his fmaily says no, he
are going bury him next ti parents, parents that he hated and that
treated him like *****....during the many yrs we have been together they
only showed their heads when he got sick....I'm not clling them until
we're married
my daughter is on her way up and is spending the weekend, hospice is
having trouble getting his pain meds
how do i live without him how?
lynn
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User: "Rebecca Jo"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 08:53:30 PM
"ensoul" <Lensoul99@aol.com> wrote:

they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
Rick told he wants us to get married, told me b4 he went in the hosp,
guess he knew something

:( I'm so sorry. I can't imagine the pain. I hope your last days together
are as peaceful and love-filled as possible.
hugs,
rj
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User: "gravity"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 01:22:00 PM

how do i live without him how?

this is very sad.
Gravity
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User: "gravity"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 01:20:37 PM

treated him like *****....during the many yrs we have been together they
only showed their heads when he got sick

don't get too mad. i have some family members who only send a few emails a
year. particularly if there was a divorce among the parents, it will weaken
family bonds.
Gravity
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User: ""

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 01:31:14 PM
I don't know what to say Lynn . . .my heart goes out to you at such a
terrible time.
Rosena
ensoul wrote:

they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
Rick told he wants us to get married, told me b4 he went in the hosp,
guess he knew something

he has maybe 30 days left, haven't told his fmaily of orgin that made
it plan they won't follow his wishes, Rick wants donate his body to a
spec. hosp to others since his cance is so rare, his fmaily says no, he
are going bury him next ti parents, parents that he hated and that
treated him like *****....during the many yrs we have been together they
only showed their heads when he got sick....I'm not clling them until
we're married

my daughter is on her way up and is spending the weekend, hospice is
having trouble getting his pain meds


how do i live without him how?

lynn

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User: "elegy"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 08:36:18 PM
On 23 Jun 2006 10:43:42 -0700, "ensoul" <Lensoul99@aol.com> wrote:

how do i live without him how?

i'm so sorry lynn. my very best to both of you. i can't even imagine
how hard it must be.
--
read banned books.
http://shattering.org
x-no-archive: yes in headers
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User: "Contrarian"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 25 Jun 2006 11:27:19 AM
ensoul <Lensoul99@aol.com> wrote:

they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
how do i live without him how?

I'm so sorry.

--
but the edge is still Out there. Or maybe it's In... HST (1967)
when i got to the edge , i built a deck % (2005)
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User: "aaron from suburbia"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 25 Jun 2006 02:28:39 PM
ensoul wrote:

they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
Rick told he wants us to get married, told me b4 he went in the hosp,
guess he knew something

he has maybe 30 days left, haven't told his fmaily of orgin that made
it plan they won't follow his wishes, Rick wants donate his body to a
spec. hosp to others since his cance is so rare, his fmaily says no, he
are going bury him next ti parents, parents that he hated and that
treated him like *****....during the many yrs we have been together they
only showed their heads when he got sick....I'm not clling them until
we're married

my daughter is on her way up and is spending the weekend, hospice is
having trouble getting his pain meds


how do i live without him how?

lynn

hey Lynn, i'm so sorry. i hope by some chance, he pulls through.
either way, i'm thinking of you both. i don't really know what it's
like to lose a loved one, to death 'cept my grandfather.
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User: "stan"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 24 Jun 2006 03:17:56 PM
ensoul wrote:
I am so sorry, Lynn. This is a very rough time for both of you. Lean
on your family a lot and friends. One day at a time.
Love Stan

they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
Rick told he wants us to get married, told me b4 he went in the hosp,
guess he knew something

he has maybe 30 days left, haven't told his fmaily of orgin that made
it plan they won't follow his wishes, Rick wants donate his body to a
spec. hosp to others since his cance is so rare, his fmaily says no, he
are going bury him next ti parents, parents that he hated and that
treated him like *****....during the many yrs we have been together they
only showed their heads when he got sick....I'm not clling them until
we're married

my daughter is on her way up and is spending the weekend, hospice is
having trouble getting his pain meds


how do i live without him how?

lynn

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User: "used2be"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 12:47:36 PM
oh girl...i'm so so sorry.
:(
~u2b
--
When you look into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you.
~~Friedrich Nietzsche
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User: "punk"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 01:40:24 PM
sorry about the bad news...
ensoul wrote:

they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
Rick told he wants us to get married, told me b4 he went in the hosp,
guess he knew something

he has maybe 30 days left, haven't told his fmaily of orgin that made
it plan they won't follow his wishes, Rick wants donate his body to a
spec. hosp to others since his cance is so rare, his fmaily says no, he
are going bury him next ti parents, parents that he hated and that
treated him like *****....during the many yrs we have been together they
only showed their heads when he got sick....I'm not clling them until
we're married

my daughter is on her way up and is spending the weekend, hospice is
having trouble getting his pain meds


how do i live without him how?

lynn

.

User: "Naomi"

Title: Re: he's dying, hospice time 23 Jun 2006 06:51:24 PM
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ensoul wrote:

they found another type of cancer, untreatable...told I want him home
ASAP using hospice
Rick told he wants us to get married, told me b4 he went in the hosp,
guess he knew something

Oh dear. It's so sad. Do get married if you can and make the most of
your time. I know that sounds stupid, but the time my Mom spent in
hospice care we talked and talked, and we have so many memories from
that time. Wishing you the best
Naomi
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