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"% surfs@uniserve" |
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14 Oct 2004 04:21:48 PM |
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HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
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| User: "Janithor" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 05:51:30 PM |
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% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 05:55:18 PM |
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"Janithor" <Janithor@comcast.net> wrote in message
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% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
yea , you were the first person i thought of ,
he looked just like someone you would know
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| User: "audrey in velvet" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 06:59:38 PM |
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On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:29:37 PM |
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"audrey in velvet" <lindauermadness@mydotcomaddress.com> wrote in message
news:1097798441.Qq3fdv4LNzxXNWZ7UmEXvQ@teranews...
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
because we are friends , one day if i find the time i'll explain ... friends
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| User: "Janithor" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:04:38 PM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
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| User: "audrey in velvet" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:07:57 PM |
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On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
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| User: "Janithor" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:11:12 PM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
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| User: "audrey in velvet" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:15:02 PM |
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On 15/10/04 1:11 am, in article 416F15A0.8030506@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
i dont have a point...but i wanted to know why you still cared
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| User: "Janithor" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:22:24 PM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:11 am, in article 416F15A0.8030506@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
i dont have a point...but i wanted to know why you still cared
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:30:47 PM |
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"Janithor" <Janithor@comcast.net> wrote in message
news:416F1840.5000608@comcast.net...
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audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:11 am, in article 416F15A0.8030506@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the
update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
i dont have a point...but i wanted to know why you still cared
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
i think she needs a twinkie
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| User: "audrey in velvet" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:29:15 PM |
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On 15/10/04 1:22 am, in article 416F1840.5000608@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:11 am, in article 416F15A0.8030506@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
i dont have a point...but i wanted to know why you still cared
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:37:23 PM |
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"audrey in velvet" <lindauermadness@mydotcomaddress.com> wrote in message
news:1097800221.vOFtRXxH/3V6GJTamrL9vA@teranews...
On 15/10/04 1:22 am, in article 416F1840.5000608@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:11 am, in article 416F15A0.8030506@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the
update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
i dont have a point...but i wanted to know why you still cared
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
maybe you could start a petition ,
and get everyone not to talk to me ,
but it wouldn't help much ,
cause when i come here ,
i'm just talking to myself anyway ,
so everything would still be the same
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| User: "audrey in velvet" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 07:47:21 PM |
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On 15/10/04 1:37 am, in article 10mu6vrk4co6k83@corp.supernews.com, "%"
<surfs@uniserve> wrote:
"audrey in velvet" <lindauermadness@mydotcomaddress.com> wrote in message
news:1097800221.vOFtRXxH/3V6GJTamrL9vA@teranews...
On 15/10/04 1:22 am, in article 416F1840.5000608@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:11 am, in article 416F15A0.8030506@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the
update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
i dont have a point...but i wanted to know why you still cared
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
maybe you could start a petition ,
and get everyone not to talk to me ,
you sound evil or jealous
but it wouldn't help much ,
cause when i come here ,
i'm just talking to myself anyway ,
so everything would still be the same
which one are you?
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: HEY JANITHOR GET A LOAD OF THIS |
14 Oct 2004 08:02:32 PM |
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"audrey in velvet" <lindauermadness@mydotcomaddress.com> wrote in message
news:1097801306.znarFtARNmpzkF9BTIqAAg@teranews...
On 15/10/04 1:37 am, in article 10mu6vrk4co6k83@corp.supernews.com, "%"
<surfs@uniserve> wrote:
"audrey in velvet" <lindauermadness@mydotcomaddress.com> wrote in
message
news:1097800221.vOFtRXxH/3V6GJTamrL9vA@teranews...
On 15/10/04 1:22 am, in article 416F1840.5000608@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:11 am, in article 416F15A0.8030506@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:04 am, in article 416F1416.2000100@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 14/10/04 11:51 pm, in article 416F02F1.9050705@comcast.net,
"Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
% wrote:
i went for a bike ride ,
i road all over town ,
i rode for about an hour ,
and every where i went ,
i got passed by the same guy ,
in a rented truc , like he was following me
Good, I was worried he was going to stiff me. Thanks for the
update.
why do you respond to him?
Why do you respond to him?
i dont know to be honest.
Why did you ask me the question? What is your point?
i dont have a point...but i wanted to know why you still cared
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
maybe you could start a petition ,
and get everyone not to talk to me ,
you sound evil or jealous
but it wouldn't help much ,
cause when i come here ,
i'm just talking to myself anyway ,
so everything would still be the same
which one are you?
i'm interchangable , i can be whatever i like
that's why i'm the king of ASD
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| User: "Janithor" |
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14 Oct 2004 07:40:31 PM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
If she goofed around like %, then sure, but she doesn't. They're very
different, so I respond to each differently.
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| User: "audrey in velvet" |
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14 Oct 2004 07:45:51 PM |
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On 15/10/04 1:40 am, in article 416F1C7E.5070107@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
If she goofed around like %, then sure, but she doesn't. They're very
different, so I respond to each differently.
youre so logical...
but i wish you could read my mind instead
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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14 Oct 2004 07:59:51 PM |
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"audrey in velvet" <lindauermadness@mydotcomaddress.com> wrote in message
news:1097801216.qNT0jgCVRlVC8LarAQ76VQ@teranews...
On 15/10/04 1:40 am, in article 416F1C7E.5070107@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
If she goofed around like %, then sure, but she doesn't. They're very
different, so I respond to each differently.
youre so logical...
but i wish you could read my mind instead
its a short novel , " Curious George Has Schitsophrenia "
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| User: "Janithor" |
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14 Oct 2004 07:52:28 PM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:40 am, in article 416F1C7E.5070107@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
If she goofed around like %, then sure, but she doesn't. They're very
different, so I respond to each differently.
youre so logical...
but i wish you could read my mind instead
Partly I think I come here to practice social skills too. Being able to
be goofy is a good thing, my whole life everyone hounded me for being
too serious and never smiling. I'm very much a loner, I get a lot of
social contact here that I don't get IRL.
Sorry I can't read your mind. :-/
Don't worry, wombn beats on me for not being able to read her mind either.
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| User: "audrey in velvet" |
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14 Oct 2004 08:03:56 PM |
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On 15/10/04 1:52 am, in article 416F1F4B.7040704@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
On 15/10/04 1:40 am, in article 416F1C7E.5070107@comcast.net, "Janithor"
<Janithor@comcast.net> wrote:
x-no-archive: yes
audrey in velvet wrote:
I still don't understand what you're trying to ask me. Mostly when I
respond to him I'm just goofing around.
wouldnt it be more fun to goof with demminini?
If she goofed around like %, then sure, but she doesn't. They're very
different, so I respond to each differently.
youre so logical...
but i wish you could read my mind instead
Partly I think I come here to practice social skills too. Being able to
be goofy is a good thing, my whole life everyone hounded me for being
too serious and never smiling. I'm very much a loner, I get a lot of
social contact here that I don't get IRL.
Sorry I can't read your mind. :-/
Don't worry, wombn beats on me for not being able to read her mind either.
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact? like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the internet isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your typing coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive in case you
want blackmail them someday...
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would most like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
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| User: "Janithor" |
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14 Oct 2004 08:22:33 PM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact? like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the internet isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your typing coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive in case you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would most like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant revulsion
and fear.
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| User: "DaKitty" |
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14 Oct 2004 10:36:54 PM |
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"Janithor" <Janithor@comcast.net> wrote in message
news:416F2650.2050906@comcast.net...
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact? like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive in case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant revulsion
and fear.
Hey, I met you and I know damn well that's not true!
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14 Oct 2004 10:39:30 PM |
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"DaKitty" <Imgonna@dotcomsomething.net> wrote in message
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"Janithor" <Janithor@comcast.net> wrote in message
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact? like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the
internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive in
case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant revulsion
and fear.
Hey, I met you and I know damn well that's not true!
i rest my case
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact? like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the
internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive in
case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in
different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would
most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant
revulsion
and fear.
Hey, I met you and I know damn well that's not true!
i rest my case
Come to think of it, there are things about my new boyfriend... Mr. Nice
Guy, that remind me of Thor, and it's a very good thing.
Of course, unless I manage to smother him, like I have a tendency to do, and
make him run off screaming.
I don't know how not to do that :(
I think I have a major handicap when it comes to dating.
*sigh*
When I like someone, I want to be with them all the time. :-\ I gather
that's a bad thing.
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14 Oct 2004 11:17:54 PM |
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"DaKitty" <Imgonna@dotcomsomething.net> wrote in message
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact?
like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the
internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your
typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive
in
case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in
different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional
communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would
most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant
revulsion
and fear.
Hey, I met you and I know damn well that's not true!
i rest my case
Come to think of it, there are things about my new boyfriend... Mr. Nice
Guy, that remind me of Thor, and it's a very good thing.
Of course, unless I manage to smother him, like I have a tendency to do,
and
make him run off screaming.
I don't know how not to do that :(
I think I have a major handicap when it comes to dating.
*sigh*
When I like someone, I want to be with them all the time. :-\ I gather
that's a bad thing.
moderation is the key , no matter what the substance is
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15 Oct 2004 12:28:06 AM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact?
like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the
internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your
typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive
in
case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in
different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional
communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would
most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant
revulsion
and fear.
Hey, I met you and I know damn well that's not true!
i rest my case
Come to think of it, there are things about my new boyfriend... Mr. Nice
Guy, that remind me of Thor, and it's a very good thing.
Of course, unless I manage to smother him, like I have a tendency to do,
and
make him run off screaming.
I don't know how not to do that :(
I think I have a major handicap when it comes to dating.
*sigh*
When I like someone, I want to be with them all the time. :-\ I gather
that's a bad thing.
moderation is the key , no matter what the substance is
you know, all this talk about 'addictive personality'...
well, alcohol, I can take it or leave it. Many other things I can take or
leave.
Relationships... I can't.
It's because of that stupid abandonment panic anxiety.
Looking at it logically it's rally stupid, you get attached, and in that
period of a relationship when things aren't for sure, you think that if
things don't work out, you're going to die... total panic attack. Just the
thought if it possibly not working out sends you into an irrational panic. I
HATE it... But I don't know how to not make it happen this way.
My new boyfriend just knows a tad, on the surface that I have some
abandonment issues... he has no clue how bad it is... Although, he has been
noticing that I'm not doing all that well lately. He thinks it's because
he's not doing enough. I tell him it's not him, that it's me, that I'm not
really good at taking it slow, that it's not his fault.
I want to take it slow too... I just have no idea how I'm going to pull it
off, cause the anxieties are killing me... and It's gotten bad enough that
every now and then I slip and bug him with stuff I know I shouldn't.
Maybe I need to look into something to take to dampen the effect for a
while.
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15 Oct 2004 08:55:19 AM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact?
like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the
internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your
typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard
drive
in
case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in
different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional
communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i
would
most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant
revulsion
and fear.
Hey, I met you and I know damn well that's not true!
i rest my case
Come to think of it, there are things about my new boyfriend... Mr.
Nice
Guy, that remind me of Thor, and it's a very good thing.
Of course, unless I manage to smother him, like I have a tendency to
do,
and
make him run off screaming.
I don't know how not to do that :(
I think I have a major handicap when it comes to dating.
*sigh*
When I like someone, I want to be with them all the time. :-\ I
gather
that's a bad thing.
moderation is the key , no matter what the substance is
you know, all this talk about 'addictive personality'...
well, alcohol, I can take it or leave it. Many other things I can take or
leave.
Relationships... I can't.
It's because of that stupid abandonment panic anxiety.
Looking at it logically it's rally stupid, you get attached, and in that
period of a relationship when things aren't for sure, you think that if
things don't work out, you're going to die... total panic attack. Just the
thought if it possibly not working out sends you into an irrational panic.
I
HATE it... But I don't know how to not make it happen this way.
My new boyfriend just knows a tad, on the surface that I have some
abandonment issues... he has no clue how bad it is... Although, he has
been
noticing that I'm not doing all that well lately. He thinks it's because
he's not doing enough. I tell him it's not him, that it's me, that I'm not
really good at taking it slow, that it's not his fault.
I want to take it slow too... I just have no idea how I'm going to pull it
off, cause the anxieties are killing me... and It's gotten bad enough that
every now and then I slip and bug him with stuff I know I shouldn't.
Maybe I need to look into something to take to dampen the effect for a
while.
maybe or maybe your in a hurry to get to the disaterous end already
hurry up , move in , hurry up let me smother you , hurry up and hate me
hurry up and dump me . its one way of controlling and being able to predict
the outcome
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15 Oct 2004 03:33:24 PM |
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face
contact?
like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease?
the
internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your
typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard
drive
in
case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in
different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional
communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i
would
most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant
revulsion
and fear.
Hey, I met you and I know damn well that's not true!
i rest my case
Come to think of it, there are things about my new boyfriend... Mr.
Nice
Guy, that remind me of Thor, and it's a very good thing.
Of course, unless I manage to smother him, like I have a tendency to
do,
and
make him run off screaming.
I don't know how not to do that :(
I think I have a major handicap when it comes to dating.
*sigh*
When I like someone, I want to be with them all the time. :-\ I
gather
that's a bad thing.
moderation is the key , no matter what the substance is
you know, all this talk about 'addictive personality'...
well, alcohol, I can take it or leave it. Many other things I can take
or
leave.
Relationships... I can't.
It's because of that stupid abandonment panic anxiety.
Looking at it logically it's rally stupid, you get attached, and in that
period of a relationship when things aren't for sure, you think that if
things don't work out, you're going to die... total panic attack. Just
the
thought if it possibly not working out sends you into an irrational
panic.
I
HATE it... But I don't know how to not make it happen this way.
My new boyfriend just knows a tad, on the surface that I have some
abandonment issues... he has no clue how bad it is... Although, he has
been
noticing that I'm not doing all that well lately. He thinks it's because
he's not doing enough. I tell him it's not him, that it's me, that I'm
not
really good at taking it slow, that it's not his fault.
I want to take it slow too... I just have no idea how I'm going to pull
it
off, cause the anxieties are killing me... and It's gotten bad enough
that
every now and then I slip and bug him with stuff I know I shouldn't.
Maybe I need to look into something to take to dampen the effect for a
while.
maybe or maybe your in a hurry to get to the disaterous end already
hurry up , move in , hurry up let me smother you , hurry up and hate me
hurry up and dump me . its one way of controlling and being able to
predict
the outcome
Hmmm, I hope I'm not doing that. But, I'll have to give it some thought.
My first reaction would be... I may be doing this... I'm in a hurry to show,
here, this is why people don't like me, so before I get any closer to you, I
need to know you can tolerate the worst. then it gets better after that.
I'm also thinking... This is where I have a hard time balancing the feelings
vs. logic, cause logic tells me to do one things, and feelings to do
something else. at some point feelings get too intense to set them aside,
and I react to them, instead of following the logic.
Something that I think fits, I read it a year or two ago is about the
'attachment styles' there are secure and insecure attachments. Insecure
attachments have 2 subtypes... the distant on and the clingy one. I'm
definitely the clingy one. Don't mean to be, but the feelings tend to take
over.
Yea, it is an attempt to control the outcome, but an attempt that more often
gives the undesired outcome.
Well, what I'm trying to do is talk about it here more and not act like that
around him as much...
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"Janithor" <Janithor@comcast.net> wrote in message
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audrey in velvet wrote:
i thought social skills was mainly about face to face contact? like
interpreting body language and making people feel at ease? the internet
isnt
good at that sort of thing...more like youre practicing your typing
coding
skills and checking out the contents of other peoples hard drive in case
you
want blackmail them someday...
True. Still, there are subtleties that you can pick up on in different
people. I think it takes real life experience to see them and
understand them. I read somewhere that 80% of emotional communication
is non-verbal.
iow, borrrrrrriiiiiiinnnnnngg.
but suppose i met you *in real life* what do you suppose i would most
like
about you, other than the fact that you cant read my mind?
You'd hate my guts, most women who meet me IRL feel an instant revulsion
and fear.
the revulsion i can understand ,
but i think the fear is a fantasy ,
you want them to feel fear ,
so in your mind they do ,
but the truth is , you are not that much to fear
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14 Oct 2004 08:28:50 PM |
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% wrote:
the revulsion i can understand ,
but i think the fear is a fantasy ,
you want them to feel fear ,
so in your mind they do ,
but the truth is , you are not that much to fear
I love you too.
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14 Oct 2004 08:38:31 PM |
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% wrote:
the revulsion i can understand ,
but i think the fear is a fantasy ,
you want them to feel fear ,
so in your mind they do ,
but the truth is , you are not that much to fear
I love you too.
well don't get angry just because you don't scare me
wishing I caused fear in people is not one of my desired attributes
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