Hi all.
I'm reasonably new to the group.
It seems like there are a bunch of regulars here, and that you help
each other out: someone to talk to when things are going downhill.
I'm going downhill.
Cant seem to stop arguing with my girlfriend: always threatening to
break up with her, despite not really wnting to. Boring my friends with
hours of mindless crap about my life, my relationship, etc. Feel like I
am going to sabotage this, because it's something really special, and I
probably don't deserve it.
Are there any other 30 something people here, who come home in the
evening and can't be bothered cooking dinner, and who end up bursting
into tears on the couch in front of the tv for no reason?
I've just met this great girl, I'm in thereapy for depression etc, and
things should be on the up: but they're not. It feels like someone else
has control over how I feel during the day, and if she's not there
making things better, then I'm alone and depressed and all screwed up,
thinking she's going to leave me.
Ugh!
I HATE feeling like this!
I guess it would be reassuring to know that at least someone out there
in the world is going through similar stuff.
I don't really want to go home, because she's supposed to be coming
over after yet another big argument today (mostly because I reacted so
badly), but I'm scared she's going to cancel it on me, and that will
make me think she's leaving. Then I'm going to feel like killing
myself.
Good times ahead for me.
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| User: "David" |
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| Title: Re: hi |
08 Aug 2006 08:02:03 AM |
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I think it's great that you're able to recognize when things are beginning
to decompensate. It may be time for a psychiatric evaluation - and maybe for
her too, but you are the most important. I'm not a relationship expert, but
this might be a good thing to mention to a therapist, to talk openly to
about someone you know. I hope that things work well, you seem to have a
good understanding of things.
"ivy" <khrusi01@student.uwa.edu.au> wrote in message
news:1155040758.992785.170450@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
Hi all.
I'm reasonably new to the group.
It seems like there are a bunch of regulars here, and that you help
each other out: someone to talk to when things are going downhill.
I'm going downhill.
Cant seem to stop arguing with my girlfriend: always threatening to
break up with her, despite not really wnting to. Boring my friends with
hours of mindless crap about my life, my relationship, etc. Feel like I
am going to sabotage this, because it's something really special, and I
probably don't deserve it.
Are there any other 30 something people here, who come home in the
evening and can't be bothered cooking dinner, and who end up bursting
into tears on the couch in front of the tv for no reason?
I've just met this great girl, I'm in thereapy for depression etc, and
things should be on the up: but they're not. It feels like someone else
has control over how I feel during the day, and if she's not there
making things better, then I'm alone and depressed and all screwed up,
thinking she's going to leave me.
Ugh!
I HATE feeling like this!
I guess it would be reassuring to know that at least someone out there
in the world is going through similar stuff.
I don't really want to go home, because she's supposed to be coming
over after yet another big argument today (mostly because I reacted so
badly), but I'm scared she's going to cancel it on me, and that will
make me think she's leaving. Then I'm going to feel like killing
myself.
Good times ahead for me.
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: hi |
08 Aug 2006 08:24:16 AM |
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don't listen to David's advice ,
he doesn't have depression ,
and is much too sick himself to be advising anyone
"David" <dav2dd@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:gX%Bg.9373$ok5.1161@dukeread01...
I think it's great that you're able to recognize when things are beginning
to decompensate. It may be time for a psychiatric evaluation - and maybe
for
her too, but you are the most important. I'm not a relationship expert,
but
this might be a good thing to mention to a therapist, to talk openly to
about someone you know. I hope that things work well, you seem to have a
good understanding of things.
"ivy" <khrusi01@student.uwa.edu.au> wrote in message
news:1155040758.992785.170450@i42g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
Hi all.
I'm reasonably new to the group.
It seems like there are a bunch of regulars here, and that you help
each other out: someone to talk to when things are going downhill.
I'm going downhill.
Cant seem to stop arguing with my girlfriend: always threatening to
break up with her, despite not really wnting to. Boring my friends with
hours of mindless crap about my life, my relationship, etc. Feel like I
am going to sabotage this, because it's something really special, and I
probably don't deserve it.
Are there any other 30 something people here, who come home in the
evening and can't be bothered cooking dinner, and who end up bursting
into tears on the couch in front of the tv for no reason?
I've just met this great girl, I'm in thereapy for depression etc, and
things should be on the up: but they're not. It feels like someone else
has control over how I feel during the day, and if she's not there
making things better, then I'm alone and depressed and all screwed up,
thinking she's going to leave me.
Ugh!
I HATE feeling like this!
I guess it would be reassuring to know that at least someone out there
in the world is going through similar stuff.
I don't really want to go home, because she's supposed to be coming
over after yet another big argument today (mostly because I reacted so
badly), but I'm scared she's going to cancel it on me, and that will
make me think she's leaving. Then I'm going to feel like killing
myself.
Good times ahead for me.
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| User: "sad66" |
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| Title: Re: hi |
09 Aug 2006 06:39:23 AM |
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You're such a *****! Grow up man, go lift some weights, you gotta get
that testosterone going. I'm worried about you, you sound like a girl.
If you can't control your relationship with women then you are gay.
ivy wrote:
Hi all.
I'm reasonably new to the group.
It seems like there are a bunch of regulars here, and that you help
each other out: someone to talk to when things are going downhill.
I'm going downhill.
Cant seem to stop arguing with my girlfriend: always threatening to
break up with her, despite not really wnting to. Boring my friends with
hours of mindless crap about my life, my relationship, etc. Feel like I
am going to sabotage this, because it's something really special, and I
probably don't deserve it.
Are there any other 30 something people here, who come home in the
evening and can't be bothered cooking dinner, and who end up bursting
into tears on the couch in front of the tv for no reason?
I've just met this great girl, I'm in thereapy for depression etc, and
things should be on the up: but they're not. It feels like someone else
has control over how I feel during the day, and if she's not there
making things better, then I'm alone and depressed and all screwed up,
thinking she's going to leave me.
Ugh!
I HATE feeling like this!
I guess it would be reassuring to know that at least someone out there
in the world is going through similar stuff.
I don't really want to go home, because she's supposed to be coming
over after yet another big argument today (mostly because I reacted so
badly), but I'm scared she's going to cancel it on me, and that will
make me think she's leaving. Then I'm going to feel like killing
myself.
Good times ahead for me.
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| User: "ivy" |
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| Title: Re: hi |
12 Aug 2006 12:37:47 AM |
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sad66 wrote:
You're such a *****! Grow up man, go lift some weights, you gotta get
that testosterone going. I'm worried about you, you sound like a girl.
If you can't control your relationship with women then you are gay.
HA!
I think that's the best reply so far!
Thanks for the advice, you *****!
To be honest, I tell myself the same thing all the time.
Thanks again,
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: hi |
12 Aug 2006 12:40:39 AM |
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"ivy" <khrusi01@student.uwa.edu.au> wrote in message
news:1155361067.080493.233550@b28g2000cwb.googlegroups.com...
sad66 wrote:
You're such a *****! Grow up man, go lift some weights, you gotta get
that testosterone going. I'm worried about you, you sound like a girl.
If you can't control your relationship with women then you are gay.
HA!
I think that's the best reply so far!
Thanks for the advice, you *****!
everybody is gay
To be honest, I tell myself the same thing all the time.
Thanks again,
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| User: "Kirby Cook" |
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| Title: Re: hi |
08 Aug 2006 11:40:04 AM |
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ivy wrote:
Hi all.
I'm reasonably new to the group.
It seems like there are a bunch of regulars here, and that you help
each other out: someone to talk to when things are going downhill.
I'm going downhill.
Cant seem to stop arguing with my girlfriend: always threatening to
break up with her, despite not really wnting to. Boring my friends with
hours of mindless crap about my life, my relationship, etc. Feel like I
am going to sabotage this, because it's something really special, and I
probably don't deserve it.
Are there any other 30 something people here, who come home in the
evening and can't be bothered cooking dinner, and who end up bursting
into tears on the couch in front of the tv for no reason?
I've just met this great girl, I'm in thereapy for depression etc, and
things should be on the up: but they're not. It feels like someone else
has control over how I feel during the day, and if she's not there
making things better, then I'm alone and depressed and all screwed up,
thinking she's going to leave me.
Ugh!
I HATE feeling like this!
I guess it would be reassuring to know that at least someone out there
in the world is going through similar stuff.
I don't really want to go home, because she's supposed to be coming
over after yet another big argument today (mostly because I reacted so
badly), but I'm scared she's going to cancel it on me, and that will
make me think she's leaving. Then I'm going to feel like killing
myself.
Good times ahead for me.
Yeah, it's no way to feel. And yes, there have been others who have
felt as you do and have gone through what you are going through, and
have posted here about it. If they aren't here now, well, you are, and
your post may help a lurker. So thanks for it.
Kirby
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