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"No One" |
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12 Sep 2004 03:54:21 AM |
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How to meet women? |
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women, to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a ***** about me. I
was short, never played sports. My father died and my family went through
hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have mustered up the courage to
ask girls out I've been rejected every time.After awhile you just don't feel
like trying. The hate grows in me everyday, and I think i'm going to end up
hurting someone eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage inside
of me, because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and misunderstood,
and helpless.
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| User: "ci+" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
15 Sep 2004 04:02:45 AM |
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"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> in news:wx2dnbFauKunktncUSdV9g@ptd.net:
I've got that rage inside
of me, because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and
misunderstood, and helpless.
use the rage..
--
Progress is a double edged sword. Ever since radical upskirt photographers
came out of their closet, I no longer spot flying nuns. Sad.
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| User: "Darkfalz" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 04:36:20 AM |
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"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote in message
news:wx2dnbFauKunktncUSdV9g@ptd.net...
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women,
to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm
overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying
together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically
attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
I'm sorry to tell you but women who can appreciate a man with your qualities
(euphemism for PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES ONLY, since those are the only
"qualities" that women care about) simply don't exist anymore. Feminism bred
them out of existance.
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| User: "Robin Catfish" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 05:56:44 PM |
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"Darkfalz" <darkfalz.usenet@gmail.com> wrote in message news:<2qijjrFuen0kU1@uni-berlin.de>...
"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote in message
news:wx2dnbFauKunktncUSdV9g@ptd.net...
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women,
to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm
overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying
together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically
attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
I'm sorry to tell you but women who can appreciate a man with your qualities
(euphemism for PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES ONLY, since those are the only
"qualities" that women care about) simply don't exist anymore. Feminism bred
them out of existance.
Feminists don't "breed" you fucking moron!
And how can you, without ever meeting this individual, be an objective
judge of his so-called "qualities?"
You know - you're not very bright.
Catfish
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| User: "Darkfalz" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 06:08:47 PM |
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"Robin Catfish" <beauregard_t_catfish@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:5032572d.0409121456.5482a8c4@posting.google.com...
"Darkfalz" <darkfalz.usenet@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:<2qijjrFuen0kU1@uni-berlin.de>...
"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote in message
news:wx2dnbFauKunktncUSdV9g@ptd.net...
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and
women,
to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm
overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying
together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically
attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine
those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money,
and
you've got a disaster.
I'm sorry to tell you but women who can appreciate a man with your
qualities
(euphemism for PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES ONLY, since those are the only
"qualities" that women care about) simply don't exist anymore. Feminism
bred
them out of existance.
Feminists don't "breed" you fucking moron!
By getting to them while they are young, they have been effectively bred out
of existance.
And how can you, without ever meeting this individual, be an objective
judge of his so-called "qualities?"
He listed the ONLY qualities that women care about in his post.
You know - you're not very bright.
That must make you a virtual black hole.
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| User: "Robin Catfish" |
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12 Sep 2004 05:50:56 PM |
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"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote in message news:<wx2dnbFauKunktncUSdV9g@ptd.net>...
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women, to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
Do you really expect people to believe that there are no short, ugly,
friendless, semi-employed women in the world who will date you?
Hey - look at the bright side - you're NOT jimsummers87!
Catfish
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| User: "Formhandle" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
13 Sep 2004 10:20:00 PM |
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Before I respond to your specific points, I want to say my web site might very well be
the best thing available on the planet help you, and guys in similar situations as you:
http://www.fastseduction.com/
It's 100% free to access, no payments required, no need to give an e-mail address or
anything like that. The whole thing is devoted to helping guys who don't know how to
find, meet, talk to, attract, and do "other stuff" with women to be much better at all
of that. Seriously, this is not bragging, there's no other resource on the planet that
even comes close (and there is effort being done right now to make the basic info in the
guides on the site even 10x better than is is now).
Reference that site later, for now just read my comments below. Oh, and when you
finally do get around to the site, go to the starting point:
http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/
No One wrote:
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
The first step to fixing a problem is figuring out what the problem is. You've reached
step 1. :-)
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women, to
hang out with outside of work.
There's always a way. Chances are, although we live in a society that is now
female-dominated (socially), it's not all "their fault". The source of most people's
issues are within themselves and, you know what, that is the great thing. Because you
have full control over yourself and how to change yourself for the better. There's not
a force in the universe that could possibly hold you back from your free will and
personal freedom to change and improve.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm overstepping
my boundaries.
It's possibly a simple thing, perhaps just the way you open, your tonality, your body
language. If that's a typical reaction you get, then it's mostly definitely not what
you're saying but how you're saying it. The way you initiate your eye contact, the vibe
your body language gives off. These things can be fixed, but only if you know what to
look for.
Oh, BTW, I know you're gut instinct at this point is to say "But it's because I'm short
& ugly." Well, so am I :-) And I'm not like that radbat guy who grew up all happy &
***** - I had a miserable time with girls growing up (trying to get them to like me, not
knowing how to make friends, etc etc). This stuff can be fixed. You just have to put
the right effort into the right places.
On rare occassions women are interested in studying together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically attracted
to me."
What I'm about to say might get the few women who read this newsgroup to react badly to
me, but I'm going to be telling you the truth. Women do not have control over who they
are attracted to. They cannot "force" themselves to be attracted to a certain kind of
guy, even if that guy matches everything they claim they look for in a guy. That is
simply their external motivation speaking, which has nothing to do with the core of how
the process of their attraction works. Think of this process as having a series of
"triggers" and they are completely blind as to what those triggers are, they only know
that they are feeling the attraction, and they associated why they must be feeling it
with external factors that have very little to actually do with it. When you know how
the process works and know how to fire those triggers, all you need from that point on
is persistence and a willingness to keep trying new things even in the face of
Of course, it's not totally as simple as that but overall, really,
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")?
Just like I explained above, women aren't aware of what causes their attraction
mechanisms to work, so they rationalize what they perceive externally as the reason,
even if that has nothing to do with it. Same thing is going on with you. You are
perceiving a "failure" and are associating that failure with externals that have very
little if anything to do with it.
Yes, I understand you guys here talk about HD (Height Discrimination) and such, and I
agree that it exists in society as a whole, but dealing with women is not like dealing
with work environments or some form of established governing body that dictates who is
allowed in and who is allowed out. There is a structure of thinking in society,
certainly, that works against you in this process but that structure is NOT to blame for
the cause & effect you experience with individual women (well, a very small percentage
of them maybe). THAT aspect is completely under your control.
Think of it like this - if you had a family full of tall brothers & sisters & cousins &
aunts & uncles, would they love you less if you were shorter than them? Or had
different color hair than them? No. That's because they have a bond with you that
overcomes it. When you overcome what people might even perceive to be an issue with
you, and they are able to see YOU rather than that which encompasses your externals, you
create a bond that makes the externals meaningless. And with women, overcoming such
perceptions is easier than changing the perceptions of an overall society, even one
filled with 24/7 propaganda that tall & beautiful people are better than others.
Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
No, you've got a starting point, and a goal. Now all you need is the decision to go for
that goal, in an intelligent and productive way. Or, you could just lament and whine
why you're not getting what you want.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a ***** about me. I
was short, never played sports. My father died and my family went through
hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have mustered up the courage to
ask girls out I've been rejected every time.After awhile you just don't feel
like trying. The hate grows in me everyday, and I think i'm going to end up
hurting someone eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage inside
of me, because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and misunderstood,
and helpless.
All of this can be overcome. My experience growing up isn't exactly like yours, but I
had just as many things working "against" me. I'm helping myself now and getting things
to work my way and I'm always happy if I'm able to help someone else in this way.
~Jay
--
Form <formhandle@fastseduction.com>
Fast Seduction 101 - http://www.fastseduction.com/
Class is now in session...
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| User: "Buster Van Buren" |
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14 Sep 2004 05:12:59 AM |
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Geez...with that attitude, no wonder girls don't want to go out with you.
Dating is supposed to be fun, and girls want to go out with guys who look
like they have a fun attitude. Don't try so hard, and things will come
together. Instead of asking a girl out on a "date", why not just developing
a small friendly relationship first. That's going to require
talking...preferrably about cheery things like puppy dogs and music. Then
on an afternoon when you know the girl is sitting around bored, tell her
that you are going to the malt shop for a burger, or to the coffee shop for
a Frappucino and ask if she wants to tag along. Don't make her think that
you think it's a "date" or she'll just turn you down. If she isn't
pressured and thinks it's just a friendly invitation, she'll go (if you
haven't scared her off with that rage, hatred and death *****). Save all the
depressing ***** for AFTER you've slept with her.
I am personally related to someone just like you. He's short (5'3"), ugly,
fat and had no money at one time. He was once shy, until he decided one day
that he hated being shy. He came to me for advice, and I told him to
pretend to be the kind of outgoing guy he wanted to be. He had to put on a
"fake" shell every morning. It took a few months, but all of a sudden he
found out that he wasn't pretending anymore. He had become the outgoing
friendly person that he is today. All of a sudden, he had friends who liked
him because he was friendly, non-depressing and was fun to be around. He
finished college and got a decent paying job (not a lot, but not min. wage
either) The next thing he knew, he was dating all kinds of girls - pretty
ones, ugly ones, skinny ones, fat ones...For years, he always had a
girlfriend and it astounded me. Now he's married to a decent girl, and has
a kid.
Follow my advice and it should work for you....you've got nothing to lose by
trying.
Good Luck.
Buster Van Buren
www.dearbuster.com
www.dearbuster.blogspot.com
buster@dearbuster.com
"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote in message
news:wx2dnbFauKunktncUSdV9g@ptd.net...
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women,
to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm
overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying
together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically
attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a ***** about me.
I
was short, never played sports. My father died and my family went through
hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have mustered up the courage
to
ask girls out I've been rejected every time.After awhile you just don't
feel
like trying. The hate grows in me everyday, and I think i'm going to end
up
hurting someone eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage
inside
of me, because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and
misunderstood,
and helpless.
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: How to meet women? |
14 Sep 2004 05:56:22 AM |
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who want's to meet them , if you see one coming ... run
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| User: "DirtyHeel" |
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12 Sep 2004 04:56:48 AM |
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No One wrote:
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and
women, to hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm
overstepping my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested
in studying together or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're
not "romantically attracted to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine
those two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any
money, and you've got a disaster.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a *****
about me. I was short, never played sports. My father died and my
family went through hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have
mustered up the courage to ask girls out I've been rejected every
time.After awhile you just don't feel like trying. The hate grows in
me everyday, and I think i'm going to end up hurting someone
eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage inside of me,
because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and misunderstood,
and helpless.
Have you tried any online dating sites?
Also, do you happen to have any friends or at least co-workers that you are
acquaintances with? See if one of them knows a chick who's single. A
co-worker of mine knew this single chick and introduced us. She was a babe,
and I guess she liked me (for some odd reason) because we've been dating now
for over 5 months.
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
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| User: "Darkfalz" |
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12 Sep 2004 05:34:55 AM |
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Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys from a
catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore imperfect men than
in real life. And it doesn't matter that the most popular guys are probably
seeing 20 other girls as well (and loving it), it won't stop the women from
ignoring the sub par guys and going for them anyway.
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| User: "The Putt King" |
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12 Sep 2004 10:04:03 AM |
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"Darkfalz" <darkfalz.usenet@gmail.com> wrote in message news:<2qin1vFvkg79U1@uni-berlin.de>...
Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys from a
catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore imperfect men than
in real life. And it doesn't matter that the most popular guys are probably
seeing 20 other girls as well (and loving it), it won't stop the women from
ignoring the sub par guys and going for them anyway.
Your right about online dating. I've never bothered with it and I
never will. In fact all kinds of manufactured dating is *****.
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| User: "DirtyHeel" |
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12 Sep 2004 06:33:07 AM |
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Darkfalz wrote:
Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys
from a catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore
imperfect men than in real life. And it doesn't matter that the most
popular guys are probably seeing 20 other girls as well (and loving
it), it won't stop the women from ignoring the sub par guys and going
for them anyway.
Yeah I guess. I tried online dating for years and din't get jack from it.
But I thought it was just because I live on a crappy island in Canada. I
thought maybe he could have better luck than me. Actually I did have good
luck in some chatrooms a few years ago, but the chicks that were interested
in me were MORE messed up in the head than ME!!!!11!
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
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| User: "Ms Pnoopie Pnats" |
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12 Sep 2004 06:47:23 AM |
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In article <TtW0d.189288$X12.62663@edtnps84>,
says...
Darkfalz wrote:
Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys
from a catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore
imperfect men than in real life. And it doesn't matter that the most
popular guys are probably seeing 20 other girls as well (and loving
it), it won't stop the women from ignoring the sub par guys and going
for them anyway.
Yeah I guess. I tried online dating for years and din't get jack from it.
But I thought it was just because I live on a crappy island in Canada. I
thought maybe he could have better luck than me. Actually I did have good
luck in some chatrooms a few years ago, but the chicks that were interested
in me were MORE messed up in the head than ME!!!!11!
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
so tell me about troll incorporated?
--
I promise to spank the plank daily.
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| User: "DirtyHeel" |
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12 Sep 2004 12:49:44 PM |
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Ms Pnoopie Pnats wrote:
In article <TtW0d.189288$X12.62663@edtnps84>,
says...
Darkfalz wrote:
Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys
from a catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore
imperfect men than in real life. And it doesn't matter that the most
popular guys are probably seeing 20 other girls as well (and loving
it), it won't stop the women from ignoring the sub par guys and
going for them anyway.
Yeah I guess. I tried online dating for years and din't get jack
from it. But I thought it was just because I live on a crappy island
in Canada. I thought maybe he could have better luck than me.
Actually I did have good luck in some chatrooms a few years ago, but
the chicks that were interested in me were MORE messed up in the
head than ME!!!!11!
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
so tell me about troll incorporated?
lol it's just a gimmick I'm using in a wrestling newsgroup. I'm actually not
a troll, more of a troll wannabe.
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
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| User: "Ms Pnoopie Pnats" |
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12 Sep 2004 02:01:48 PM |
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In article <Y_%0d.110017$S55.99028@clgrps12>,
says...
Ms Pnoopie Pnats wrote:
In article <TtW0d.189288$X12.62663@edtnps84>,
says...
Darkfalz wrote:
Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys
from a catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore
imperfect men than in real life. And it doesn't matter that the most
popular guys are probably seeing 20 other girls as well (and loving
it), it won't stop the women from ignoring the sub par guys and
going for them anyway.
Yeah I guess. I tried online dating for years and din't get jack
from it. But I thought it was just because I live on a crappy island
in Canada. I thought maybe he could have better luck than me.
Actually I did have good luck in some chatrooms a few years ago, but
the chicks that were interested in me were MORE messed up in the
head than ME!!!!11!
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
so tell me about troll incorporated?
lol it's just a gimmick I'm using in a wrestling newsgroup. I'm actually not
a troll, more of a troll wannabe.
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
oh ok teh wwf froup? I did a round or two there in my troll career.
--
I promise to spank the plank daily.
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| User: "DirtyHeel" |
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12 Sep 2004 06:20:38 PM |
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Ms Pnoopie Pnats wrote:
In article <Y_%0d.110017$S55.99028@clgrps12>,
says...
Ms Pnoopie Pnats wrote:
In article <TtW0d.189288$X12.62663@edtnps84>,
says...
Darkfalz wrote:
Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys
from a catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore
imperfect men than in real life. And it doesn't matter that the
most popular guys are probably seeing 20 other girls as well (and
loving it), it won't stop the women from ignoring the sub par
guys and going for them anyway.
Yeah I guess. I tried online dating for years and din't get jack
from it. But I thought it was just because I live on a crappy
island in Canada. I thought maybe he could have better luck than
me. Actually I did have good luck in some chatrooms a few years
ago, but the chicks that were interested in me were MORE messed up
in the head than ME!!!!11!
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
so tell me about troll incorporated?
lol it's just a gimmick I'm using in a wrestling newsgroup. I'm
actually not a troll, more of a troll wannabe.
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
oh ok teh wwf froup? I did a round or two there in my troll career.
Yup.
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
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| User: "dennis" |
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12 Sep 2004 08:55:48 AM |
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On Sun, 12 Sep 2004 06:47:23 -0500, Ms Pnoopie Pnats
<myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote:
I promise to spank the plank daily.
??? whats that?
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| User: "Ms Pnoopie Pnats" |
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12 Sep 2004 09:06:53 AM |
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In article <eok8k0972vq257d3roqjgchn32vopaj38j@4ax.com>,
later@notnow.net says...
On Sun, 12 Sep 2004 06:47:23 -0500, Ms Pnoopie Pnats
<myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote:
I promise to spank the plank daily.
??? whats that?
play guitar
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I promise to spank the plank daily.
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| User: "Heartless Pig" |
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12 Sep 2004 09:36:15 AM |
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Ms Pnoopie Pnats <myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote in
news:MPG.1bae220989bff682989efd@news.alt.net:
In article <eok8k0972vq257d3roqjgchn32vopaj38j@4ax.com>,
later@notnow.net says...
On Sun, 12 Sep 2004 06:47:23 -0500, Ms Pnoopie Pnats
<myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote:
I promise to spank the plank daily.
??? whats that?
play guitar
You are gonna look like those Japanese chicks on Kill Bill!
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| User: "Ms Pnoopie Pnats" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 01:57:46 PM |
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In article <Xns9562B2438A2CAer8o3@localhost>, says...
Ms Pnoopie Pnats <myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote in
news:MPG.1bae220989bff682989efd@news.alt.net:
In article <eok8k0972vq257d3roqjgchn32vopaj38j@4ax.com>,
later@notnow.net says...
On Sun, 12 Sep 2004 06:47:23 -0500, Ms Pnoopie Pnats
<myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote:
I promise to spank the plank daily.
??? whats that?
play guitar
You are gonna look like those Japanese chicks on Kill Bill!
what do they look like?
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I promise to spank the plank daily.
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| User: "dennis" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 11:01:22 AM |
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On Sun, 12 Sep 2004 09:06:53 -0500, Ms Pnoopie Pnats
<myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote:
In article <eok8k0972vq257d3roqjgchn32vopaj38j@4ax.com>,
later@notnow.net says...
On Sun, 12 Sep 2004 06:47:23 -0500, Ms Pnoopie Pnats
<myblowupprejectedme@blowuppp.com> wrote:
I promise to spank the plank daily.
??? whats that?
play guitar
oh? (note to self...get mind out of gutter)
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| User: "L" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 08:56:37 AM |
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This is so true. Online dating sites give today's women a great
screening tool. Look right at the picture and if it isn't perfect, move
on. You wouldn't do that if your aunt or friend gave you someone's numberg.
LE
Darkfalz wrote:
Have you tried any online dating sites?
You must be crazy... online dating for women is like picking guys from a
catalogue. This makes it EVEN EASIER for women to ignore imperfect men than
in real life. And it doesn't matter that the most popular guys are probably
seeing 20 other girls as well (and loving it), it won't stop the women from
ignoring the sub par guys and going for them anyway.
--
Larry Edelstein
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| User: "Formhandle" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
13 Sep 2004 10:28:10 PM |
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DirtyHeel wrote:
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Have you tried any online dating sites?
I don't mean to be an *****, but please don't give this guy such useless advice. There is
something else at work here that won't get resolved with an online dating profile, and
has nothing to do with his height or looks. The usefulness of online dating is, for the
vast majority of people, a total hoax.
Also, do you happen to have any friends or at least co-workers that you are
acquaintances with? See if one of them knows a chick who's single. A
co-worker of mine knew this single chick and introduced us. She was a babe,
and I guess she liked me (for some odd reason) because we've been dating now
for over 5 months.
He said he didn't have friends (or what he believes to be friends) and I gather even if
he extened himself in this way he still won't have fixed the core issues of what are
holding him back, tripping him up again, resulting in him coming to even more
unproductive conclusions. It's not as simple as you state unless you're already in an
OK place internally. He's got some internal issues that he has to work through and some
motivational issues as well. And probably some body language stuff - that which
encompasses his "presence" and "vibe" to people.
--
Form <formhandle@fastseduction.com>
Fast Seduction 101 - http://www.fastseduction.com/
Class is now in session...
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| User: "No One" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 10:34:08 AM |
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Yes, I have tried online dating services. Women are great to me until they
1) see my picture or 2) meet me in person.
Then I never see or hear from them again. I'm either too nice, too mean,
just "not their type." If I was goodlooking, it wouldn't matter how I acted.
"DirtyHeel" <dirtyheel@something.com> wrote in message
news:A3V0d.188745$X12.159289@edtnps84...
No One wrote:
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and
women, to hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm
overstepping my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested
in studying together or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're
not "romantically attracted to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine
those two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any
money, and you've got a disaster.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a *****
about me. I was short, never played sports. My father died and my
family went through hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have
mustered up the courage to ask girls out I've been rejected every
time.After awhile you just don't feel like trying. The hate grows in
me everyday, and I think i'm going to end up hurting someone
eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage inside of me,
because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and misunderstood,
and helpless.
Have you tried any online dating sites?
Also, do you happen to have any friends or at least co-workers that you
are
acquaintances with? See if one of them knows a chick who's single. A
co-worker of mine knew this single chick and introduced us. She was a
babe,
and I guess she liked me (for some odd reason) because we've been dating
now
for over 5 months.
--
A Member of Troll Incorporated 3000
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| User: "Darkfalz" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 10:43:43 PM |
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"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote in message
news:4CydnWR7DaNu8dncUSdV9g@ptd.net...
Yes, I have tried online dating services. Women are great to me until they
1) see my picture or 2) meet me in person.
Then I never see or hear from them again. I'm either too nice, too mean,
just "not their type." If I was goodlooking, it wouldn't matter how I
acted.
Absolutely right. It's amazing the excuses women will make for good looking
men and, conversely, amazing how the tinest "flaws" (which probably weren't
even there before) make an unattractive-looking man completely unacceptable.
The way women still continue to manipulate things to avoid having to come
out and admit they've long overtaken men in terms of shallowness truly
pisses me off. And if you mention it, you're automatically branded a
misogynist.
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| User: "Ms Pnoopie Pnats" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 01:58:57 PM |
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In article <4CydnWR7DaNu8dncUSdV9g@ptd.net>, says...
Yes, I have tried online dating services. Women are great to me until they
1) see my picture or 2) meet me in person.
Then I never see or hear from them again. I'm either too nice, too mean,
just "not their type." If I was goodlooking, it wouldn't matter how I acted.
They actually told you why they wouldn't go out anymore.
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I promise to spank the plank daily.
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| User: "Michael Calwell" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
14 Sep 2004 03:08:53 PM |
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No One wrote:
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
Another pertinent height related posting.
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| User: "MCMLXVI" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
14 Sep 2004 02:37:45 PM |
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No One wrote:
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
Michael Calwell wrote:
Another pertinent height related posting.
The best way to deal with off-topic messages that don't interest you is
to ignore them and move on.
Beats me why a.s.shyness stuff keeps getting x-posted to a.s.short (and
vice versa).
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| User: "Solitary Soul" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
13 Sep 2004 08:04:02 PM |
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On Sun, 12 Sep 2004 04:54:21 -0400, "No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote:
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
Maybe this is because you have no clue as to how to meet PEOPLE.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women, to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically attracted
to me."
How do you know this?
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
Your biggest problem is your social ineptitude. If you cannot connect with people
on a personal level - if you are incapable of having friends - then a GIRLfriend
is an unrealistic expectation.
I know a guy who is about 5'8", and he just broke up with a girl who was
not bad looking - she had some issues that made them incompatible.
That guy was married to another woman for over 20 years, and has 2 children
from that marriage. He divorced her for his own reasons - mainly due to his
ex-wife's internet addiction. He has custody of the kids.
This guy is an alpha-male - very confident in himself - and socially adept.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a ***** about me.
That's the worst part of the shyness problem: VERY few non-shy people
understand the nature of the problem, as it can be highly variable in
form and effect (so it's a difficult condition to understand).
... so it stands to reason that noone would give a ***** about someone
who was so inconspicuous.
I was short, never played sports. My father died and my family went through
hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have mustered up the courage to
ask girls out I've been rejected every time. After awhile you just don't feel
like trying. The hate grows in me everyday, and I think i'm going to end up
hurting someone eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage inside
of me, because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and misunderstood,
and helpless.
Ummm ... do you happen to know a guy who calls himself SpathiEluder?
This last part looks familiar for some reason.
Solitary Soul -> http://users3.ev1.net/~solitarysoul/
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In my experience, there is no excuse for thinking positively.
- ASStagon
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| User: "Mean Mr Mustard" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 12:36:56 PM |
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To be honest you have no shot with even an average single woman in
your age group. You're only hope would be to finish school and land a
job that at least has benefits. Then you might want to try your hand
at on-line personals and target single mothers that have a few years
on you.
You might also want to consider steroids or HGH (the illegal stuff) to
improve your physical appearance. It will shorten your life, but
might give you much better odds of at least getting a woman's number.
"No One" <nospam@nospam.net> wrote in message news:<wx2dnbFauKunktncUSdV9g@ptd.net>...
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women, to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a ***** about me. I
was short, never played sports. My father died and my family went through
hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have mustered up the courage to
ask girls out I've been rejected every time.After awhile you just don't feel
like trying. The hate grows in me everyday, and I think i'm going to end up
hurting someone eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage inside
of me, because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and misunderstood,
and helpless.
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| User: "Janithor" |
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| Title: Re: How to meet women? |
12 Sep 2004 04:15:57 AM |
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x-no-archive: yes
No One wrote:
I am 28 and have no clue how to meet women.
I'm a senior at college and I just can't seem to meet people, and women, to
hang out with outside of work.
Whenever I try I get the brush off, and strange looks like i'm overstepping
my boundaries. On rare occassions women are interested in studying together
or being acqiantences but nothing more. They're not "romantically attracted
to me."
Why am I so ugly and unattractive? Why am I so short (5'5")? Combine those
two facts with having no friends, having a temp job, hardly any money, and
you've got a disaster.
I didn't have friends in high school. I was so shy, didn't know how to
handle myself around people, people generally didn't give a ***** about me. I
was short, never played sports. My father died and my family went through
hell, and I spent lots of time alone. When I have mustered up the courage to
ask girls out I've been rejected every time.After awhile you just don't feel
like trying. The hate grows in me everyday, and I think i'm going to end up
hurting someone eventually if things don't change. I've got that rage inside
of me, because of a life of misfortune and being ***** on and misunderstood,
and helpless.
What about that chick you had when you were 17? You had a heck of lot
more action going than me.
Anger = death.
If you truly want a better life, you've got to let go of the anger.
Seriously.
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