| Topic: |
Sociology > Depression |
| User: |
"Jane" |
| Date: |
23 Jan 2008 09:17:14 PM |
| Object: |
How ya doin Slunk? |
Hanging in there?
--
" You wanna know something? Every now and then say, "What the @$&%#."
"What the @$&%#" gives you freedom. Freedom brings opportunity.
Opportunity makes your future." From the Movie Risky Business 1983
.
|
|
| User: "mighty mouse" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 02:41:56 AM |
|
|
Jane wrote:
Hanging in there?
I hope you're well and truly asleep by now Slunk, and I hope you got
through the rest of your night ok.
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 10:35:12 AM |
|
|
_/ mighty mouse <mousieNOSPAM9947@hotmail.com> wrote \_
I hope you're well and truly asleep by now Slunk, and I hope you got
through the rest of your night ok.
I drugged myself out with three shots of vodka, two thorazines, and a
clonidine. My wife told me now she doesn't want to get divorced yet. I
said it's too late. I already know how she feels.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "lisa in mass." |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 10:43:00 AM |
|
|
slunky <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote...
_/ mighty mouse <mousieNOSPAM9947@hotmail.com> wrote \_
I hope you're well and truly asleep by now Slunk, and I
hope you got through the rest of your night ok.
I drugged myself out with three shots of vodka, two
thorazines, and a clonidine. My wife told me now she
doesn't want to get divorced yet. I said it's too late. I
already know how she feels.
Good for you. That must have been hard.
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 10:45:09 AM |
|
|
_/ lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> wrote \_
Good for you. That must have been hard.
It was kinda hard, but kind of freeing.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "Jane" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 05:45:55 PM |
|
|
"slunky" <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote in message
news:slrnfphg41.257c.slunky@evo.zero...
_/ lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> wrote \_
Good for you. That must have been hard.
It was kinda hard, but kind of freeing.
--
-slunky
It's freeing because you have the control now, it's not taken away from you.
She tried to neuter you in a way, but you took the scissors away!
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 05:49:08 PM |
|
|
_/ Jane <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote \_
It's freeing because you have the control now, it's not taken away from you.
She tried to neuter you in a way, but you took the scissors away!
Yikes!
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 09:22:30 PM |
|
|
_/ Jane <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote \_
Hanging in there?
Trying to for the kid.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "used2be" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 09:32:40 PM |
|
|
"slunky" <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote in message
news:slrnfpg133.257c.slunky@evo.zero...
_/ Jane <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote \_
Hanging in there?
Trying to for the kid.
i can't even imagine how hard it is on your little girl to have her mommy
leave this way...you're a good daddy, slunk. she's lucky to have you.
very, very, very...
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 09:44:39 PM |
|
|
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
i can't even imagine how hard it is on your little girl to have her mommy
leave this way...you're a good daddy, slunk. she's lucky to have you.
very, very, very...
I'm trying to explain to her that mama isn't going to be around anymore
because she keeps saying "Don't worry. We'll find mama." and it just
breaks my heart. I asked my wife to explain it to her when she was here,
but she said she doesn't need to know.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "used2be" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 09:53:17 PM |
|
|
"slunky" <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote in message
news:slrnfpg2cj.257c.slunky@evo.zero...
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
i can't even imagine how hard it is on your little girl to have her mommy
leave this way...you're a good daddy, slunk. she's lucky to have you.
very, very, very...
I'm trying to explain to her that mama isn't going to be around anymore
because she keeps saying "Don't worry. We'll find mama." and it just
breaks my heart. I asked my wife to explain it to her when she was here,
but she said she doesn't need to know.
oh, that makes me cry. and royally *****. good God, what does she
mean that the child doesn't need to know?!!! *sigh* i sure am glad your
sweet girl is with YOU and not her mother. and i hope her mother comes to
her senses very soon and realizes that this child must come first!!!!!
i'm sorry slunk...i'm probably not helping. i'm so emotional tonight, but i
feel strongly about this stuff.
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:05:47 PM |
|
|
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
oh, that makes me cry. and royally *****. good God, what does she
mean that the child doesn't need to know?!!! *sigh* i sure am glad your
sweet girl is with YOU and not her mother. and i hope her mother comes to
her senses very soon and realizes that this child must come first!!!!!
Her other kid never came first. He doesn't even think she's his mom.
i'm sorry slunk...i'm probably not helping. i'm so emotional tonight, but i
feel strongly about this stuff.
It's ok. Any post tonight is a good post to keep me busy.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "used2be" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:30:29 PM |
|
|
"slunky" <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote in message
news:slrnfpg3k7.257c.slunky@evo.zero...
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
oh, that makes me cry. and royally *****. good God, what does she
mean that the child doesn't need to know?!!! *sigh* i sure am glad your
sweet girl is with YOU and not her mother. and i hope her mother comes
to
her senses very soon and realizes that this child must come first!!!!!
Her other kid never came first. He doesn't even think she's his mom.
geez....well, then this comes as no real surprize i guess.
i'm sorry slunk...i'm probably not helping. i'm so emotional tonight,
but i
feel strongly about this stuff.
It's ok. Any post tonight is a good post to keep me busy.
just stay safe, okay?
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:40:42 PM |
|
|
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
geez....well, then this comes as no real surprize i guess.
Not at all.
just stay safe, okay?
I'll try.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| User: "lisa in mass." |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:14:19 PM |
|
|
slunky <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote...
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
i can't even imagine how hard it is on your little girl to
have her mommy leave this way...you're a good daddy,
slunk. she's lucky to have you. very, very, very...
I'm trying to explain to her that mama isn't going to be
around anymore because she keeps saying "Don't worry. We'll
find mama." and it just breaks my heart. I asked my wife to
explain it to her when she was here, but she said she
doesn't need to know.
Oh boy. How can she process this if she doesn't know? Yes, she's
little, but she does think and feel. She knows Mama's not there
and needs to understand it on a toddler level. That Mama can't
live there anymore, but that she's still loved by both parents.
If your wife would just say that much it would help. She doesn't
need details. Just to know that she's still loved.
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:16:35 PM |
|
|
_/ lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> wrote \_
Oh boy. How can she process this if she doesn't know? Yes, she's
little, but she does think and feel. She knows Mama's not there
and needs to understand it on a toddler level. That Mama can't
live there anymore, but that she's still loved by both parents.
If your wife would just say that much it would help. She doesn't
need details. Just to know that she's still loved.
I told her all this stuff, but she needs to hear it from mama too.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "lisa in mass." |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:18:31 PM |
|
|
slunky <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote...
_/ lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> wrote \_
Oh boy. How can she process this if she doesn't know? Yes,
she's little, but she does think and feel. She knows
Mama's not there and needs to understand it on a toddler
level. That Mama can't live there anymore, but that she's
still loved by both parents. If your wife would just say
that much it would help. She doesn't need details. Just to
know that she's still loved.
I told her all this stuff, but she needs to hear it from
mama too.
Yes she does.
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:22:15 PM |
|
|
_/ lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> wrote \_
Yes she does.
Maybe when she says goodbye tonight she will.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| User: "lisa in mass." |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:15:14 PM |
|
|
slunky <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote...
_/ Jane <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote \_
Hanging in there?
Trying to for the kid.
So far, you seem to be doing a good job of it. It's a really
hard thing to go through.
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:18:58 PM |
|
|
_/ lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> wrote \_
So far, you seem to be doing a good job of it. It's a really
hard thing to go through.
I am trying really hard. I can't lose it in front of my daughter, but I
can't put her to bed because my wife is coming back soon and they need
to say goodbye.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "used2be" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:31:55 PM |
|
|
"slunky" <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote in message
news:slrnfpg4cu.257c.slunky@evo.zero...
_/ lisa in mass. <mccats@rcn.com> wrote \_
So far, you seem to be doing a good job of it. It's a really
hard thing to go through.
I am trying really hard. I can't lose it in front of my daughter, but I
can't put her to bed because my wife is coming back soon and they need
to say goodbye.
geez, this is worse than a super sad movie. :/
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:41:13 PM |
|
|
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
geez, this is worse than a super sad movie. :/
That's because it's real, and there's no hope for a happy ending.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "used2be" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:47:59 PM |
|
|
"slunky" <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote in message
news:slrnfpg5mk.257c.slunky@evo.zero...
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
geez, this is worse than a super sad movie. :/
That's because it's real, and there's no hope for a happy ending.
well, it *is* real, but i'd certainly not say there is NO hope for a happy
ending! maybe not the ending you had envisioned, but that does NOT mean
there won't be many happy days to come. you and your little girl can have
an awesome life, slunk. just pour yourself into being safe, well, and into
being a fantastic father. that's all that matters at this point.
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:58:19 PM |
|
|
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
well, it *is* real, but i'd certainly not say there is NO hope for a happy
ending! maybe not the ending you had envisioned, but that does NOT mean
there won't be many happy days to come. you and your little girl can have
an awesome life, slunk. just pour yourself into being safe, well, and into
being a fantastic father. that's all that matters at this point.
Ok, I'll try that, but it's very lonely.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "used2be" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 11:04:53 PM |
|
|
"slunky" <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote in message
news:slrnfpg6mn.257c.slunky@evo.zero...
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
well, it *is* real, but i'd certainly not say there is NO hope for a
happy
ending! maybe not the ending you had envisioned, but that does NOT mean
there won't be many happy days to come. you and your little girl can
have
an awesome life, slunk. just pour yourself into being safe, well, and
into
being a fantastic father. that's all that matters at this point.
Ok, I'll try that, but it's very lonely.
well, when spring rolls around, take your daughter to the park. alot. lots
of moms with kids hang out in parks. :)
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 11:31:36 PM |
|
|
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
well, when spring rolls around, take your daughter to the park. alot. lots
of moms with kids hang out in parks. :)
I'll have to go to the big park, Liberty Park. The only people that go
to the park by me are junkies and me.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
|
|
| User: "%" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 11:06:51 PM |
|
|
slunky wrote:
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
well, it *is* real, but i'd certainly not say there is NO hope for a
happy ending! maybe not the ending you had envisioned, but that
does NOT mean there won't be many happy days to come. you and your
little girl can have an awesome life, slunk. just pour yourself
into being safe, well, and into being a fantastic father. that's
all that matters at this point.
Ok, I'll try that, but it's very lonely.
why , she was never there anyway
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 11:32:08 PM |
|
|
_/ % <persent@gmail.com> wrote \_
why , she was never there anyway
Because I know she won't be around ever.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
| User: "%" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 08:44:38 AM |
|
|
slunky wrote:
_/ % <persent@gmail.com> wrote \_
why , she was never there anyway
Because I know she won't be around ever.
i know , i'm sorry i made a bad crack
.
|
|
|
| User: "slunky" |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
24 Jan 2008 10:35:48 AM |
|
|
_/ % <persent@gmail.com> wrote \_
i know , i'm sorry i made a bad crack
No need to be sorry. It's ok.
--
-slunky
.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| User: "lisa in mass." |
|
| Title: Re: How ya doin Slunk? |
23 Jan 2008 10:44:33 PM |
|
|
slunky <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote...
_/ used2be <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote \_
geez, this is worse than a super sad movie. :/
That's because it's real, and there's no hope for a happy
ending.
That's not true. Daddy can find someone who really loves him for
who he is and is smitten by his daughter, and who places
responsibility and family over nights on the town.
Unfortunately, that reality isn't now. But it's still the middle
of the film, plenty of time for a good ending.
.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Related Articles |
|
|
