My father died on Sunday. There is only me and my mother in the house and
everything has not just been laid at my feet but thrown there.
I have a book full of psychological and physiological problems too.
I do not know how to deal or handle things -- I an having scarey and
terrifing thoughts.
My parents have made sure my entire life that I HAVE TO DEPEND ON THEM and I
do not know how to care for myself yet alone everything else.
PLEASE HELP ME!! -- I have no friends --They have made sure of that, they
have wanted me completely dependent on them and they have done it and I am
SOO MUCH MORE THAN TERRIFIED about the present let alone the future.
I you need more information I'll gladly send it. I need help and it seems
impossible to find it.
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<ssamuel@teleport.com> wrote in message
news:8sJKf.2520$VI6.2405@newsread1.news.pas.earthlink.net...
My father died on Sunday. There is only me and my mother in the house and
everything has not just been laid at my feet but thrown there.
I have a book full of psychological and physiological problems too.
I do not know how to deal or handle things -- I an having scarey and
terrifing thoughts.
My parents have made sure my entire life that I HAVE TO DEPEND ON THEM and
I
do not know how to care for myself yet alone everything else.
PLEASE HELP ME!! -- I have no friends --They have made sure of that,
they
have wanted me completely dependent on them and they have done it and I am
SOO MUCH MORE THAN TERRIFIED about the present let alone the future.
I you need more information I'll gladly send it. I need help and it seems
impossible to find it.
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Dru
cgoodsNOSPAM@teleport.com
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21 Feb 2006 01:26:41 PM |
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On 2006-02-21, <ssamuel@teleport.com> wrote:
My father died on Sunday. There is only me and my mother in the house and
everything has not just been laid at my feet but thrown there.
That's hard, stressful. Have you spoken to a grief counselor?
I have a book full of psychological and physiological problems too.
Do you see a doctor?
I do not know how to deal or handle things -- I an having scarey and
terrifing thoughts.
There are medications that can help with that. Luvox is one, it's an
antidepressant.
My parents have made sure my entire life that I HAVE TO DEPEND ON THEM and I
do not know how to care for myself yet alone everything else.
You can learn what are called life skills. There are courses.
There are therapies for dependency issues, too.
PLEASE HELP ME!! -- I have no friends --They have made sure of that, they
have wanted me completely dependent on them and they have done it and I am
SOO MUCH MORE THAN TERRIFIED about the present let alone the future.
You have to hold it right there and knock off the dependency stuff, the
"PLEASE HELP ME!!" - you have to help yourself, first.
You may need to break it all up and get help for different things in
different places. Like, intrusive troubling thoughts, see a doctor;
dependency issues, see a therapist; life skills, a social worker; general
care; a nurse.
I you need more information I'll gladly send it. I need help and it seems
impossible to find it.
That's just how it seems. It's possible to find what you need. May take
some time, but it takes awhile to heal and learn.
What resources are available to you depends on where you live and how much
mobility you have. A local crisis line, if there is one, is a good place
to start. Do you know if there is one? If there is, you can call and tell
them the same as you wrote here and they will likely have a list of
resources available in the community.
A grief counselor could also be a good place to start, a good one will
be able to point you to local resources for aid with everything you've
mentioned.
If you already have a book full of psychological problems and you
regularly see a doctor about them, tell the doctor about your fears. Soon.
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