Sociology > Depression > I want to be romantically in love with the whole UNIVERSE. Why can't I?
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I want to be romantically in love with the whole UNIVERSE. Why can't I? |
This is from someone who is so depressed that he hallucinates images of
frowning faces every day.
Ever think about how stupid biological pleasures like eating and sex
are? To eat, you stuff gunk in your mouth (well, biologically
nutritious gunk), and chomp it repeatedly at equal time intervals. To
*****, you thrust your penis back and forth in a woman's vagina at equal
repeated time intervals. It's like a rat pressing a button again and
again to be administered cocaine.
Although I definitely enjoy eating, I find it utterly disgusting
compared to sex, and although I have masturbated since the age of 14,
it something I have never had the pleasure of having. Sex is
*intimate*. Sex involves *hugging and kissing* someone, not chomping. I
believe its pleasure is on a higher plane than that of eating. Still,
it is an unintelligent activity, something any animal or
football-playing jerk can do.
In sharp contrast, I consider *music* to be a DIVINE pleasure. To me,
it symbolizes pure emotion. However, it only seems to express that
emotion or longing that we already have for sex. After all, we EVOLVED
to enjoy sex. It follows directly from Darwin's theory that the GOAL OF
LIFE is to have sex. Think about it... the GOAL OF LIFE.
For this end, evolution has prepared for us a special chemical called
"phenylethylamine," which causes us to fall deeply in love with one
member of the opposite sex. When we are in love, this one person means
EVERYTHING to us. So you see, it is because of evolution that we are
all social animals with our ability to fall in love. No man is an
island, or a God.
Now, here is the problem. If, like me, you are both smart AND ugly,
then although you may have GENES that allow you to HELP YOUR SPECIES,
you will never be able to pass these helpful genes on to other human
beings! After all, no woman wants to look at your ugly face, let alone
sleep with you!
I try EVERY DAY to quit masturbating. I tell myself again and again,
"Okay, this is the last time," because being ugly, I want to live a
life that is COMPLETELY intellectual. I don't WANT to NEED people!! I
don't WANT to be a social animal!! I want to study mathematics and
philosophy. I want to know where the universe came from and why it is
the way it is. I want to know the metaphysical truth of all existence,
and I want to dedicate my life to that end. I don't want to be like the
***** football-playing jocks who victimize the weaker, more
"defective" human beings and ***** mindlessly every night!! It's
stupid!!
I don't have a single true friend. Nobody knows what it's like to be
me, because I think about my entire consciousness in philosophical
terms. Until now, all I have EVER wanted in life was a girlfriend. Now
I am vomiting (yes, VOMITING) in despair every day because I feel so
unloved. What a cruel joke for God to play on his ugly, defective
creations. Tell us, God, what is OUR meaning of life?
I am done typing. I apologize if I offended anyone.
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28 Jan 2006 04:32:56 PM |
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<mikeh106@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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This is from someone who is so depressed that he hallucinates images
of
frowning faces every day.
[Deletia]
I am done typing. I apologize if I offended anyone.
There is so much wrong with you, as you have described yourself, that
it is hard to know where to start. In fact, it's impossible, for us
here. I will say this: Humans are what they are, and no amount of
philosophizing over what they should be is going to make any
difference. It's a waste of time. Your time would be better spent in
looking for optimum ways of getting satisfaction out of life as it is.
However, one thing you haven't said looms larger over the landscape
than anything you did say, and that is that you have not done anything
useful to deal with your problems. You've got big ones, way too big
for you to deal with on your own. You need a good psychologist, to
help identify why you are as you are, and how to improve your life.
You may need medication, to help stabilize a brain that may be
malfunctioning. Can you find this kind of help?
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Nom dePlume, Ph.D.
Why, yes, in fact, I am a rocket scientist.
Guide to Medications for Mental Illness:
http://www.geocities.com/nomdeplume1000/
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28 Jan 2006 08:33:18 PM |
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Nom dePlume wrote:
There is so much wrong with you, as you have described yourself, that
it is hard to know where to start. In fact, it's impossible, for us
here. I will say this: Humans are what they are, and no amount of
philosophizing over what they should be is going to make any
difference. It's a waste of time. Your time would be better spent in
looking for optimum ways of getting satisfaction out of life as it is.
However, one thing you haven't said looms larger over the landscape
than anything you did say, and that is that you have not done anything
useful to deal with your problems. You've got big ones, way too big
for you to deal with on your own. You need a good psychologist, to
help identify why you are as you are, and how to improve your life.
You may need medication, to help stabilize a brain that may be
malfunctioning. Can you find this kind of help?
The doctors say they have done everything they can. I have tried the
following medications: Lexapro, Prozac, Wellbutrin, Synthroid, Zyprexa,
Geodon, Cogentin, Risperdal, Haldol, and Thorazine. The nature of my
hallucinations is unusual, and they appear to resist the effects of all
medications including antipsychotics.
Before I wrote this post I was in my room alone, I had gagged several
times, and I was screaming. I felt hopeless and needed a little social
contact.
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| User: "Nom dePlume nomdeplume1000-at-yahoo.com" |
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29 Jan 2006 01:24:00 AM |
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<mikeh106@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Nom dePlume wrote:
There is so much wrong with you, as you have described yourself,
that
it is hard to know where to start. In fact, it's impossible, for
us
here. I will say this: Humans are what they are, and no amount of
philosophizing over what they should be is going to make any
difference. It's a waste of time. Your time would be better spent
in
looking for optimum ways of getting satisfaction out of life as it
is.
However, one thing you haven't said looms larger over the
landscape
than anything you did say, and that is that you have not done
anything
useful to deal with your problems. You've got big ones, way too
big
for you to deal with on your own. You need a good psychologist, to
help identify why you are as you are, and how to improve your
life.
You may need medication, to help stabilize a brain that may be
malfunctioning. Can you find this kind of help?
The doctors say they have done everything they can. I have tried the
following medications: Lexapro, Prozac, Wellbutrin, Synthroid,
Zyprexa,
Geodon, Cogentin, Risperdal, Haldol, and Thorazine. The nature of my
hallucinations is unusual, and they appear to resist the effects of
all
medications including antipsychotics.
Before I wrote this post I was in my room alone, I had gagged
several
times, and I was screaming. I felt hopeless and needed a little
social
contact.
I notice that you focused only on medication as an avenue for help.
Medication can be very useful, but it isn't a cure-all. In fact, if
you are this resistant to medication, it makes me wonder if your
primary problem lies elsewhere than brain chemistry. When did your
problems start? Was it a particular age? Do you have significant
emotional or physical trauma in your past? Your revulsion towards
sexuality makes me wonder if you were abused.
If your problems are trauma-related, then you need a different
approach than what you've been trying so far.
--
Nom dePlume, Ph.D.
Why, yes, in fact, I am a rocket scientist.
Guide to Medications for Mental Illness:
http://www.geocities.com/nomdeplume1000/
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29 Jan 2006 09:13:17 AM |
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Nom dePlume wrote:
I notice that you focused only on medication as an avenue for help.
Medication can be very useful, but it isn't a cure-all. In fact, if
you are this resistant to medication, it makes me wonder if your
primary problem lies elsewhere than brain chemistry. When did your
problems start? Was it a particular age? Do you have significant
emotional or physical trauma in your past? Your revulsion towards
sexuality makes me wonder if you were abused.
I was never abused, but I was brutally beaten and robbed during a
religious journey in which I abstained from sex.
I have always been teased. I have always been the reject. Often when I
am alone I feel a strange sense that someone is teasing me, even when
nobody is around.
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| User: "Nom dePlume nomdeplume1000-at-yahoo.com" |
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29 Jan 2006 01:46:34 PM |
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<mikeh106@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Nom dePlume wrote:
I notice that you focused only on medication as an avenue for
help.
Medication can be very useful, but it isn't a cure-all. In fact,
if
you are this resistant to medication, it makes me wonder if your
primary problem lies elsewhere than brain chemistry. When did your
problems start? Was it a particular age? Do you have significant
emotional or physical trauma in your past? Your revulsion towards
sexuality makes me wonder if you were abused.
I was never abused, but I was brutally beaten and robbed during a
religious journey in which I abstained from sex.
I have always been teased. I have always been the reject. Often when
I
am alone I feel a strange sense that someone is teasing me, even
when
nobody is around.
I'm guessing (and that's all I can do) that you have a problem with
psychosis, but that there's more to the story than that. I suspect
that you have a personality disorder as well, although I can't guess
as to what kind. Regardless, I think that medicine alone isn't going
to be enough for you. I would really recommend you see a psychologist
(that's "psychologist" specifically, not just any kind of therapist)
who has a good background in personality disorders. There are ways of
addressing some of the problems that PD's can cause, but the means are
mostly non-medical. And one thing that comes through in your writing
is an absence of experience with, or even awareness of, psychological
intervention. I think it's time you started looking in this direction.
There may be more help available than you realize.
Can you find a psychologist?
--
Nom dePlume, Ph.D.
Why, yes, in fact, I am a rocket scientist.
Guide to Medications for Mental Illness:
http://www.geocities.com/nomdeplume1000/
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| User: "GuardianAngel" |
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28 Jan 2006 12:28:24 PM |
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This is from someone who is so depressed that he hallucinates images of
frowning faces every day.
Ever think about how stupid biological pleasures like eating and sex
are? To eat, you stuff gunk in your mouth (well, biologically
nutritious gunk), and chomp it repeatedly at equal time intervals. To
*****, you thrust your penis back and forth in a woman's vagina at equal
repeated time intervals. It's like a rat pressing a button again and
again to be administered cocaine.
Although I definitely enjoy eating, I find it utterly disgusting
compared to sex, and although I have masturbated since the age of 14,
it something I have never had the pleasure of having. Sex is
*intimate*. Sex involves *hugging and kissing* someone, not chomping. I
believe its pleasure is on a higher plane than that of eating. Still,
it is an unintelligent activity, something any animal or
football-playing jerk can do.
In sharp contrast, I consider *music* to be a DIVINE pleasure. To me,
it symbolizes pure emotion. However, it only seems to express that
emotion or longing that we already have for sex. After all, we EVOLVED
to enjoy sex. It follows directly from Darwin's theory that the GOAL OF
LIFE is to have sex. Think about it... the GOAL OF LIFE.
For this end, evolution has prepared for us a special chemical called
"phenylethylamine," which causes us to fall deeply in love with one
member of the opposite sex. When we are in love, this one person means
EVERYTHING to us. So you see, it is because of evolution that we are
all social animals with our ability to fall in love. No man is an
island, or a God.
Now, here is the problem. If, like me, you are both smart AND ugly,
then although you may have GENES that allow you to HELP YOUR SPECIES,
you will never be able to pass these helpful genes on to other human
beings! After all, no woman wants to look at your ugly face, let alone
sleep with you!
I try EVERY DAY to quit masturbating. I tell myself again and again,
"Okay, this is the last time," because being ugly, I want to live a
life that is COMPLETELY intellectual. I don't WANT to NEED people!! I
don't WANT to be a social animal!! I want to study mathematics and
philosophy. I want to know where the universe came from and why it is
the way it is. I want to know the metaphysical truth of all existence,
and I want to dedicate my life to that end. I don't want to be like the
***** football-playing jocks who victimize the weaker, more
"defective" human beings and ***** mindlessly every night!! It's
stupid!!
I don't have a single true friend. Nobody knows what it's like to be
me, because I think about my entire consciousness in philosophical
terms. Until now, all I have EVER wanted in life was a girlfriend. Now
I am vomiting (yes, VOMITING) in despair every day because I feel so
unloved. What a cruel joke for God to play on his ugly, defective
creations. Tell us, God, what is OUR meaning of life?
I am done typing. I apologize if I offended anyone.
Ever think about how stupid biological pleasures like eating and sex
are?
It depends...some people live to eat,others eat to live...you decide
which one is stupid...Sex is a pleasure...it's not necessary to be an
"empty" feeling or to be something stupid...for me it's a higher form
of intimacy
To
*****, you thrust your penis back and forth in a woman's vagina at equal
repeated time intervals. It's like a rat pressing a button again and
again to be administered cocaine.
If that's what you feel about sex,then yes it is stupid.
I
believe its pleasure is on a higher plane than that of eating. Still,
it is an unintelligent activity, something any animal or
football-playing jerk can do.
If you think people are animals that's a different subject...Since
there are emotions,feelings and thoughts involved than it is not
exactly "unintelligent activity"
In sharp contrast, I consider *music* to be a DIVINE pleasure. To me,
it symbolizes pure emotion.
I agree...music symbolize pure emotion...
It follows directly from Darwin's theory that the GOAL OF
LIFE is to have sex. Think about it... the GOAL OF LIFE.
I can't agree with it...even though it was something new and
controversial for it's time now there are lots of proofs and facts
against Darwin's theory...anyway..nevermind Darwin's theory,what's the
goal of your life?
For this end, evolution has prepared for us a special chemical called
"phenylethylamine," which causes us to fall deeply in love with one
member of the opposite sex. When we are in love, this one person means
EVERYTHING to us. So you see, it is because of evolution that we are
all social animals with our ability to fall in love. No man is an
island, or a God.
There is no such thing as "absolute truth".There are lots of theories
about our existence..Some scientists believe that our feelings are
caused by chemicals in our brains..others believe that the chemical
reactions in our brains are caused by our feelings.You are too much
into Darwin's theory..
Now, here is the problem. If, like me, you are both smart AND ugly,
then although you may have GENES that allow you to HELP YOUR SPECIES,
you will never be able to pass these helpful genes on to other human
beings! After all, no woman wants to look at your ugly face, let alone
sleep with you!
In my opinion you should try to understand that each person is unique
and special...not just a "specie".And there's a thing called
love...people are not just animals to which you can "pass these helpful
genes". You use the word "ugly " too often...don't you think you judge
yourself more than anyone else is judging you?Let someone get to know
you..there are more important things than the way you look.I'll say it
again..people are not animals
I try EVERY DAY to quit masturbating. I tell myself again and again,
"Okay, this is the last time," because being ugly, I want to live a
life that is COMPLETELY intellectual.
Sorry to say this..but that's a complete *****...people shouldn't be
ashamed of their sexual desires.You keep repeating to yourself that
you're ugly and you believe in it so much that even if someone thinks
you look good you wouldn't believe it.
I don't WANT to NEED people!!!
As you said, people are SOCIAL "animals".Everybody needs someone to
talk to...and the fact that you look different doesn't mean that you
shouldn't have feelings.
I don't want to be like the
***** football-playing jocks who victimize the weaker, more
"defective" human beings and ***** mindlessly every night!! It's
stupid!!
In my opinion you want to be like " the ***** football-playing jocks"
and that's your problem.The COMPLETELY intelectual life may seem a
higher form of existance...the question is are you happy?And what is
stupid? To be the person you want to be..or to be ashamed of your
feelings so much that you prefer to no longer be a person and to become
a "defective social animal"
I don't have a single true friend. Nobody knows what it's like to be
me, because I think about my entire consciousness in philosophical
terms. Until now, all I have EVER wanted in life was a girlfriend. Now
I am vomiting (yes, VOMITING) in despair every day because I feel so
unloved. What a cruel joke for God to play on his ugly, defective
creations. Tell us, God, what is OUR meaning of life?
I think everybody needs a lot of GOOD luck to find a single true
friend.It's easy to make friends but it's not easy to find a true
friend.The good/bad looks change with time..the important thing is to
be beautiful on the inside because trust me there are lots of people
out there who look good on the outside but on the inside are full of
sh*t.It's not God's foult that we live in a sociaty in which people
judge others for the way they look,society in which young people suffer
from anorexia and dream of plastic surgeries.You should love
yourself...when you don't love yourself you start believing that no1
else is able to love you
I am done typing. I apologize if I offended anyone.
haha people here get easily offened so it's good that you apologize
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29 Jan 2006 05:41:01 AM |
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GuardianAngel wrote:
I am done typing. I apologize if I offended anyone.
haha people here get easily offened so it's good that you apologize
As a Reverend, you have sinned. People here only hear offense when
they're reading their posts interpreted in a wholly unholy manner.
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| User: "Patience5" |
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28 Jan 2006 11:53:55 PM |
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I am tired, tonight, and have no energy for composition. However, I do
wish to say that I believe there is wisdom of potentially tremendous
value to you in Guardian Angel's reply to your post. Her (I don't know
why, but I presume she is a woman... I apologize if I am wrong in this
presumption) extensive reply was a great gift- as I see it- and I hope
you will not let her effort on your behalf be lost on you... Print her
words out, if you have a printer, and read them from time to time,
please.
To suffer with loneliness, depression, and hallucinations is a terrible
burden to bear. I sympathize, very much so, and hope you find peace
soon. If possible, please follow the suggestions of others in this
thread, and continue to seek the help of professionals, as well as
working on your own. It takes time- sometimes years- but you _can_
succeed in finding peace (and love).
Christopher
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| User: "Franz Bestuchev" |
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28 Jan 2006 10:24:38 PM |
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This is from someone who is so depressed that he hallucinates images of
frowning faces every day.
I am done typing. I apologize if I offended anyone.
Not offended at all, but do you have a doctor you're working with? What
kind of hallucinations...? It's just a lot to address in a post so I
won't try just sort of wondering about you personally.
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| User: "Bacon" |
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28 Jan 2006 11:58:40 PM |
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athough I have masturbated since the age of 14,
it something I have never had the pleasure of having.
Sounds to me like you're ashamed of your sexuality. As much as you'd
like to exist just as an intellectual, philosophical higher being,
animalistic desires are getting in your way. Try not to think so much
about it, if it feels good, do it. So don't try to set an unattainable
goal to stop masturbating, or to stop craving orgasms...it'll never
work. Maybe take it one step further and treat yourself to
"professional" companionship once in a while. At least then sex won't
be such a mystery to you anymore.
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28 Jan 2006 09:08:55 AM |
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mikeh106@hotmail.com wrote:
This is from someone who is so depressed that he hallucinates images of
frowning faces every day.
You're not necessarily hallucinating, there is a lot of negativity out
there in the real world. The day before Christmas, I remember driving
in heavy traffic, watching people flip each other the bird. Peace on
Earth and goodwill to men, uh huh.
Ever think about how stupid biological pleasures like eating and sex
are? To eat, you stuff gunk in your mouth (well, biologically
nutritious gunk), and chomp it repeatedly at equal time intervals. To
*****, you thrust your penis back and forth in a woman's vagina at equal
repeated time intervals. It's like a rat pressing a button again and
again to be administered cocaine.
Yeah, we're trapped in our biology, for sure.
Although I definitely enjoy eating, I find it utterly disgusting
compared to sex, and although I have masturbated since the age of 14,
it something I have never had the pleasure of having. Sex is
*intimate*. Sex involves *hugging and kissing* someone, not chomping. I
believe its pleasure is on a higher plane than that of eating. Still,
it is an unintelligent activity, something any animal or
football-playing jerk can do.
In sharp contrast, I consider *music* to be a DIVINE pleasure. To me,
it symbolizes pure emotion. However, it only seems to express that
emotion or longing that we already have for sex. After all, we EVOLVED
to enjoy sex. It follows directly from Darwin's theory that the GOAL OF
LIFE is to have sex. Think about it... the GOAL OF LIFE.
We're biologically programmed to crave sex. To have a goal implies some
sort of mental planning on the whole thing. That's the opposite of
evolution. We crave sex because that craving results in increased
probabilities that the sex-craving genes will survive. We don't sit
down and decide that having sex is a great thing. So to call it a goal
is to impose an external meaning on an internal biological process.
There is no goal. We are what we are. The goal comes from inside our
own brains. The urge to merge comes from our biology.
For this end, evolution has prepared for us a special chemical called
"phenylethylamine," which causes us to fall deeply in love with one
member of the opposite sex. When we are in love, this one person means
EVERYTHING to us. So you see, it is because of evolution that we are
all social animals with our ability to fall in love. No man is an
island, or a God.
Now, here is the problem. If, like me, you are both smart AND ugly,
then although you may have GENES that allow you to HELP YOUR SPECIES,
you will never be able to pass these helpful genes on to other human
beings! After all, no woman wants to look at your ugly face, let alone
sleep with you!
Evolution is not about survival of the species, it's about survival of
the gene. So if evolution says having an ugly face is
counter-productive to the probability of your potential mate passing on
her genes, then guess what? You're SOL. Genes have no obligation to
the species, they only have an "obligation" to themselves.
I try EVERY DAY to quit masturbating. I tell myself again and again,
"Okay, this is the last time," because being ugly, I want to live a
life that is COMPLETELY intellectual. I don't WANT to NEED people!! I
don't WANT to be a social animal!! I want to study mathematics and
philosophy. I want to know where the universe came from and why it is
the way it is. I want to know the metaphysical truth of all existence,
and I want to dedicate my life to that end. I don't want to be like the
***** football-playing jocks who victimize the weaker, more
"defective" human beings and ***** mindlessly every night!! It's
stupid!!
You're lying to yourself. If you truly didn't want to be like them,
you'd be indifferent. You wouldn't be making this post.
I don't have a single true friend. Nobody knows what it's like to be
me,
Please. You're not that special. There are over 6,000,000,000 people
on the planet right now.
because I think about my entire consciousness in philosophical
terms. Until now, all I have EVER wanted in life was a girlfriend. Now
I am vomiting (yes, VOMITING) in despair every day because I feel so
unloved. What a cruel joke for God to play on his ugly, defective
creations. Tell us, God, what is OUR meaning of life?
I am done typing. I apologize if I offended anyone.
There are ugly women out there - what about them? Or are you trying to
tell us that out of over 6,000,000,000 people on the planet, you are on
the absolute bottom?
Stop with the martyr stuff, it's not helping you. If one of the
football players' girlfriends walked up to you and offered you free sex,
you'd refuse? Please. Find yourself a nice dork chick, there are lot
of them out there. You're not going to have sex with Pam Anderson, so
get over it.
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28 Jan 2006 08:41:30 PM |
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Janithor wrote:
Please. You're not that special. There are over 6,000,000,000 people
on the planet right now.
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Stop with the martyr stuff, it's not helping you. If one of the
football players' girlfriends walked up to you and offered you free sex,
you'd refuse? Please. Find yourself a nice dork chick, there are lot
of them out there. You're not going to have sex with Pam Anderson, so
get over it.
I am hurt by your tone of voice. Remember, painful stimuli are
amplified in me. That includes your remarks like "Please."
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28 Jan 2006 09:59:30 PM |
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mikeh106@hotmail.com wrote:
Janithor wrote:
Please. You're not that special. There are over 6,000,000,000 people
on the planet right now.
[snip]
Stop with the martyr stuff, it's not helping you. If one of the
football players' girlfriends walked up to you and offered you free sex,
you'd refuse? Please. Find yourself a nice dork chick, there are lot
of them out there. You're not going to have sex with Pam Anderson, so
get over it.
I am hurt by your tone of voice. Remember, painful stimuli are
amplified in me. That includes your remarks like "Please."
Sorry about that. I was attempting the tough love thing. The problem
is, we get guys coming in here posting stuff like this, and when you dig
further, they are pissed because they're not having sex with a different
Pam Anderson lookalike on a nightly basis. If you're a genuine person,
there are lots of women out there, even for physically unattractive guys.
My guess is that you're around 23 yrs old. Things change, hang in there.
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| Title: Re: I want to be romantically in love with the whole UNIVERSE. Why can't I? |
29 Jan 2006 07:31:26 AM |
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"Janithor" <Janithor@comcast.net> wrote in message
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mikeh106@hotmail.com wrote:
I am hurt by your tone of voice. Remember, painful stimuli are
amplified in me. That includes your remarks like "Please."
Sorry about that. I was attempting the tough love thing. The problem
is, we get guys coming in here posting stuff like this, and when you dig
further, they are pissed because they're not having sex with a different
Pam Anderson lookalike on a nightly basis. If you're a genuine person,
there are lots of women out there, even for physically unattractive guys.
My guess is that you're around 23 yrs old. Things change, hang in there.
Excellent advice Thor. He is right Mike. I know you're struggling. I do
however agree there really is someone out there for everyone. It may not
seem that way now but things do change. Constantly. There is no escaping
it. And your time will come.
--
Rhiannon
rhianon@sympatico.ca
The Labyrinth
http://thelabyrinthofr.blogspot.com
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