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"Who Cares" |
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12 Jun 2004 08:48:46 AM |
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If anyone cares about "Who Cares" - please read. |
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I've been lost and confused and bewildered at the recent spate of events in
my life but not so much anymore because everything that I truly wanted has
come true.
My engagement broke only for a day after which it was re-instated by my
future mother in law who was quite apologetic for the way she allowed
things to get so bad.
There are no more problems expected in the future. My future father in law
has made things almost as official as they can possibly be, by invited me
and my parents and their relatives for a lavish dinner party where we
exchanged flowers and gifts and all assurances were given to me and my
fiance. My engagement which was hushed up till about 3 days ago has been
announced amongst all of her relatives. My fiance is delighted (though
quite nervous and confused as expected in our culture) and of course so am
I. It almost feels as though our prior engagement never actually happened,
but it has now.
I am now officially one of the luckiest and happiest men in this world. I
have been accepted by their family with open arms and open hearts. Just
about everyone has expressed their happiness, and even love for me over our
nearly confirmed union. Which is an incredible feeling.
I was overwhelmed beyond belief with the latest development, and the little
ceremony they threw in my honour. No one has ever shown me so much
importance before in my life. So much so that I haven't been able to eat,
or sleep for the last 2 days because of the high of the experience, of
being shown so much love by so many people in such a short time is almost
paralysing. Because now I can't think of anything else, except how much I
am loved by my fiance and her family.
Thank you all for your understanding and support. Only 5 days ago I was
prepared to kill myself over a little hiccup with my mother in law. But she
has more than made up for that, by announcing me to all her relatives as
her daughter's fiance.
Well .. so I think now the worst chapters in my life have finally come to a
close. And from now on, I look forward to nothing but the joys of a
wonderful life with a wonderful girl and her family.
Who Cares now knows exactly who cares about him. And so I plan to lose this
nickname as a symbol of the sudden remarkable change in my life. I dunno
what to call myself now because this doesn't fit anymore :)
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| User: "used2be" |
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| Title: Re: If anyone cares about "Who Cares" - please read. |
12 Jun 2004 09:05:10 PM |
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"Who Cares" <the_original_jawz(remove)@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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I've been lost and confused and bewildered at the recent spate of events
in
my life but not so much anymore because everything that I truly wanted has
come true.
My engagement broke only for a day after which it was re-instated by my
future mother in law who was quite apologetic for the way she allowed
things to get so bad.
There are no more problems expected in the future. My future father in law
has made things almost as official as they can possibly be, by invited me
and my parents and their relatives for a lavish dinner party where we
exchanged flowers and gifts and all assurances were given to me and my
fiance. My engagement which was hushed up till about 3 days ago has been
announced amongst all of her relatives. My fiance is delighted (though
quite nervous and confused as expected in our culture) and of course so am
I. It almost feels as though our prior engagement never actually happened,
but it has now.
I am now officially one of the luckiest and happiest men in this world. I
have been accepted by their family with open arms and open hearts. Just
about everyone has expressed their happiness, and even love for me over
our
nearly confirmed union. Which is an incredible feeling.
I was overwhelmed beyond belief with the latest development, and the
little
ceremony they threw in my honour. No one has ever shown me so much
importance before in my life. So much so that I haven't been able to eat,
or sleep for the last 2 days because of the high of the experience, of
being shown so much love by so many people in such a short time is almost
paralysing. Because now I can't think of anything else, except how much I
am loved by my fiance and her family.
Thank you all for your understanding and support. Only 5 days ago I was
prepared to kill myself over a little hiccup with my mother in law. But
she
has more than made up for that, by announcing me to all her relatives as
her daughter's fiance.
Well .. so I think now the worst chapters in my life have finally come to
a
close. And from now on, I look forward to nothing but the joys of a
wonderful life with a wonderful girl and her family.
Who Cares now knows exactly who cares about him. And so I plan to lose
this
nickname as a symbol of the sudden remarkable change in my life. I dunno
what to call myself now because this doesn't fit anymore :)
we care.
it deeply disturbs me that these people have so much control over your
happiness and your life. :-( but we'll save that for another day.
i wish you well and hope you have all the happiness you deserve,
u2b
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| User: "Who Cares" |
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| Title: Re: If anyone cares about "Who Cares" - please read. |
14 Jun 2004 07:42:55 AM |
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we care.
thnx :)
it deeply disturbs me that these people have so much control over your
happiness and your life. :-( but we'll save that for another day.
I know what you mean. But I think it's my nature to find my happiness with
others. She confessed her love for me yesterday. And I can't describe how
that makes me feel. I have another 3-4 years of wait before we're married.
But life seems better already.
i wish you well and hope you have all the happiness you deserve,
Thank you for that :) So far so good. And looking better each day.
u2b
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| User: "JPT" |
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| Title: Re: If anyone cares about "Who Cares" - please read. |
12 Jun 2004 10:11:31 PM |
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On 12 Jun 2004 08:48:46 -0500, Who Cares
<the_original_jawz(remove)@yahoo.com> wrote:
Well .. so I think now the worst chapters in my life have finally come to a
close. And from now on, I look forward to nothing but the joys of a
wonderful life with a wonderful girl and her family.
I usually only come in here when I am feeling really low. I read the
posts, look for new names and a few old names, and leave feeling
pretty much the same as when I came.
I enjoyed reading your post. It is good to hear that sometimes things
actually work out well. I hope that your future is as bright as your
post suggests. In spite of the promising outlook, if there happens to
be a bad day now and then, perhaps you can remember back to how you
felt today, and know that it could be that way again. Works for me.
--
"Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way"
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| User: "Jamal Chapultapec" |
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| Title: Re: If anyone cares about "Who Cares" - please read. |
12 Jun 2004 09:47:27 AM |
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Who Cares <the_original_jawz(remove)@yahoo.com> wrote in
news:Xns9506BFAB55992sadasdasfasfc@208.33.61.208:
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I've been lost and confused and bewildered at the recent spate of
events in my life but not so much anymore because everything that I
truly wanted has come true.
My engagement broke only for a day after which it was re-instated by
my future mother in law who was quite apologetic for the way she
allowed things to get so bad.
There are no more problems expected in the future. My future father in
law has made things almost as official as they can possibly be, by
invited me and my parents and their relatives for a lavish dinner
party where we exchanged flowers and gifts and all assurances were
given to me and my fiance. My engagement which was hushed up till
about 3 days ago has been announced amongst all of her relatives. My
fiance is delighted (though quite nervous and confused as expected in
our culture) and of course so am I. It almost feels as though our
prior engagement never actually happened, but it has now.
I am now officially one of the luckiest and happiest men in this
world. I have been accepted by their family with open arms and open
hearts. Just about everyone has expressed their happiness, and even
love for me over our nearly confirmed union. Which is an incredible
feeling.
I was overwhelmed beyond belief with the latest development, and the
little ceremony they threw in my honour. No one has ever shown me so
much importance before in my life. So much so that I haven't been able
to eat, or sleep for the last 2 days because of the high of the
experience, of being shown so much love by so many people in such a
short time is almost paralysing. Because now I can't think of anything
else, except how much I am loved by my fiance and her family.
Thank you all for your understanding and support. Only 5 days ago I
was prepared to kill myself over a little hiccup with my mother in
law. But she has more than made up for that, by announcing me to all
her relatives as her daughter's fiance.
Well .. so I think now the worst chapters in my life have finally come
to a close. And from now on, I look forward to nothing but the joys of
a wonderful life with a wonderful girl and her family.
Who Cares now knows exactly who cares about him. And so I plan to lose
this nickname as a symbol of the sudden remarkable change in my life.
I dunno what to call myself now because this doesn't fit anymore :)
How about "Cared For"?
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: If anyone cares about "Who Cares" - please read. |
12 Jun 2004 09:59:48 PM |
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Who Cares wrote...
Well .. so I think now the worst chapters in my life have
finally come to a close. And from now on, I look forward to
nothing but the joys of a wonderful life with a wonderful
girl and her family.
Who Cares now knows exactly who cares about him. And so I
plan to lose this nickname as a symbol of the sudden
remarkable change in my life. I dunno what to call myself
now because this doesn't fit anymore :)
i'm so glad for you :-)
-lisa
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