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"Fast Recovery" |
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30 Jul 2007 08:10:13 AM |
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If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
It only raises your blood pressure and it doesn't make me feel bad. If
it was functional I would keep it, but since it isn't, dump it.
Events and circumstance alone do not cause anger. Anger results from
how people view what happens to them. There are four types of
thinking that typically create dysfunctional anger.
http://www.stressgroup.com/angerorigins.html
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| User: "humble life" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 08:22:49 AM |
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Fast Recovery wrote:
It only raises your blood pressure and it doesn't make me feel bad. If
it was functional I would keep it, but since it isn't, dump it.
Events and circumstance alone do not cause anger. Anger results from
how people view what happens to them. There are four types of
thinking that typically create dysfunctional anger.
http://www.stressgroup.com/angerorigins.html
You are not qualified to know.
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| User: "Fast Recovery" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 09:00:45 AM |
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On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 14:22:49 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
You are not qualified to know.
Are you?
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| User: "humble life" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 09:32:17 AM |
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Fast Recovery wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 14:22:49 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
You are not qualified to know.
Are you?
Experience qualifies me. A wide range of differing experiences that
can't be pulled down into a simple schematic. All with different
atmospheres, moods and rules.
I am not a student in these matters.
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| User: "Fast Recovery" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 09:51:17 AM |
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On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:32:17 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
Experience qualifies me. A wide range of differing experiences that
can't be pulled down into a simple schematic. All with different
atmospheres, moods and rules.
I am not a student in these matters.
If experience qualifies you, then it qualifies me. Right? Is there
any worthwhile function that you can find in getting angry at one of
my posts?
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| User: "humble life" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 09:56:50 AM |
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Fast Recovery wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:32:17 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
Experience qualifies me. A wide range of differing experiences that
can't be pulled down into a simple schematic. All with different
atmospheres, moods and rules.
I am not a student in these matters.
If experience qualifies you, then it qualifies me. Right? Is there
any worthwhile function that you can find in getting angry at one of
my posts?
It doesn't qualify you to talk about experiences you haven't actually had.
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| User: "Fast Recovery" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 10:24:15 AM |
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On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:56:50 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
Is there
any worthwhile function that you can find in getting angry at one of
my posts?
It doesn't qualify you to talk about experiences you haven't actually had.
I'm asking you if you see any worthwhile funciton in getting angry at
one of my posts. Do you?
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| User: "humble life" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 10:43:15 AM |
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Fast Recovery wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:56:50 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
Is there
any worthwhile function that you can find in getting angry at one of
my posts?
It doesn't qualify you to talk about experiences you haven't actually had.
I'm asking you if you see any worthwhile funciton in getting angry at
one of my posts. Do you?
I don't understand the word funciton. It makes me think you're getting
angry and loosing yourself into a flow of obsession.
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| User: "Fast Recovery" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 10:53:36 AM |
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On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 16:43:15 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
I don't understand the word funciton. It makes me think you're getting
angry and loosing yourself into a flow of obsession.
Is your anger over my posts helpful to you?
I can't make you think anything. If you think I am obsessed, then
remember this. You could be right or you could be wrong. You might
not have enough information yet to form an opinion, so don't judge me.
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| User: "humble life" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 12:01:37 PM |
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Fast Recovery wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 16:43:15 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
I don't understand the word funciton. It makes me think you're getting
angry and loosing yourself into a flow of obsession.
Is your anger over my posts helpful to you?
I can't make you think anything. If you think I am obsessed, then
remember this. You could be right or you could be wrong. You might
not have enough information yet to form an opinion, so don't judge me.
lol
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 12:14:33 PM |
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On Jul 30, 8:53 am, Fast Recovery <flyin...@hotmail.com> wrote:
I can't make you think anything. If you think I am obsessed, then
remember this. You could be right or you could be wrong. You might
not have enough information yet to form an opinion, so don't judge me.
How would you know if he feels anger or not? You have NO clue what he
thinks or feels, it's all merely conjecture on your part.
~Rose
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| User: "slunky" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 11:27:03 AM |
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_/ Fast Recovery wrote \_
I can't make you think anything. If you think I am obsessed, then
remember this. You could be right or you could be wrong. You might
not have enough information yet to form an opinion, so don't judge me.
It's pretty clear that you're obsessed.
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-slunky
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| User: "RGB" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 11:53:44 AM |
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In article <slrnfas49i.12s.slunky@evo.zero>,
slunky <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote:
_/ Fast Recovery wrote \_
I can't make you think anything. If you think I am obsessed, then
remember this. You could be right or you could be wrong. You might
not have enough information yet to form an opinion, so don't judge me.
It's pretty clear that you're obsessed.
But he's got a Funciton®. Which, in case anybody doesn't know, is a
really cool old electronic drum machine from the early 1970's, one of
the first ever made. Groups like the "Funky Fortune Tellers" and
"Katastrofee" used to use it a lot. It lets you dispute your irrational
beliefs to a nifty beat.
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| User: "slunky" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 12:00:51 PM |
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_/ RGB wrote \_
But he's got a Funciton®. Which, in case anybody doesn't know, is a
really cool old electronic drum machine from the early 1970's, one of
the first ever made. Groups like the "Funky Fortune Tellers" and
"Katastrofee" used to use it a lot. It lets you dispute your irrational
beliefs to a nifty beat.
I've got a Boss Dr Rhythm DR-770.
--
-slunky
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| User: "RGB" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 12:12:05 PM |
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In article <slrnfas68t.12s.slunky@evo.zero>,
slunky <slunky@globalzero.org> wrote:
But he's got a Funciton®. Which, in case anybody doesn't know, is a
really cool old electronic drum machine from the early 1970's, one of
the first ever made. Groups like the "Funky Fortune Tellers" and
"Katastrofee" used to use it a lot. It lets you dispute your irrational
beliefs to a nifty beat.
I've got a Boss Dr Rhythm DR-770.
Is it really a licensed physician, or do they just call it that?
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| User: "slunky" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 12:16:41 PM |
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_/ RGB wrote \_
Is it really a licensed physician, or do they just call it that?
Not only is it a Dr, it's the Boss.
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-slunky
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| User: "Noon Cat Nick" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 11:11:20 AM |
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humble life wrote:
Fast Recovery wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:56:50 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
Is there
any worthwhile function that you can find in getting angry at one of
my posts?
It doesn't qualify you to talk about experiences you haven't actually
had.
I'm asking you if you see any worthwhile funciton in getting angry at
one of my posts. Do you?
I don't understand the word funciton. It makes me think you're getting
angry and loosing yourself into a flow of obsession.
I don't understand the word loosing. It makes me think you perceive him
as becoming unraveled. (Which would be apt, now that I ponder on it.)
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| User: "RGB" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 11:56:04 AM |
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In article <I4ori.28684$Xa3.22862@attbi_s22>,
Noon Cat Nick <chatdemidi@hotmail.com> wrote:
I don't understand the word funciton. It makes me think you're getting
angry and loosing yourself into a flow of obsession.
I don't understand the word loosing. It makes me think you perceive him
as becoming unraveled. (Which would be apt, now that I ponder on it.)
"Loosing" was a way of introducing a limited amount of random variation
into the rhythms produced by the Funciton®. Also called "humanizing", it
made it sound a little more natural and less machinelike.
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| User: "humble life" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 12:02:45 PM |
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RGB wrote:
In article <I4ori.28684$Xa3.22862@attbi_s22>,
Noon Cat Nick <chatdemidi@hotmail.com> wrote:
I don't understand the word funciton. It makes me think you're getting
angry and loosing yourself into a flow of obsession.
I don't understand the word loosing. It makes me think you perceive him
as becoming unraveled. (Which would be apt, now that I ponder on it.)
"Loosing" was a way of introducing a limited amount of random variation
into the rhythms produced by the Funciton®. Also called "humanizing", it
made it sound a little more natural and less machinelike.
i'll go with that because i feel like it
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| User: "cal" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is"dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 11:56:40 AM |
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On 7/30/07 10:51 AM, in article q3ura3p38k5c2hr5ujvfudgj8qlgunmk0n@4ax.com,
"Fast Recovery" <flying14@hotmail.com> wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:32:17 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
Experience qualifies me. A wide range of differing experiences that
can't be pulled down into a simple schematic. All with different
atmospheres, moods and rules.
I am not a student in these matters.
If experience qualifies you, then it qualifies me. Right? Is there
any worthwhile function that you can find in getting angry at one of
my posts?
no purpose is served by being angry at a fool, but one may point out that
you're a fool without being the slightest bit angry about it.
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| User: "humble life" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 01:51:37 PM |
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cal wrote:
On 7/30/07 10:51 AM, in article q3ura3p38k5c2hr5ujvfudgj8qlgunmk0n@4ax.com,
"Fast Recovery" <flying14@hotmail.com> wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 15:32:17 +0100, humble life
<humble.life@nospam.com> wrote:
Experience qualifies me. A wide range of differing experiences that
can't be pulled down into a simple schematic. All with different
atmospheres, moods and rules.
I am not a student in these matters.
If experience qualifies you, then it qualifies me. Right? Is there
any worthwhile function that you can find in getting angry at one of
my posts?
no purpose is served by being angry at a fool, but one may point out that
you're a fool without being the slightest bit angry about it.
i'll add a fairtrade teabag to that
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 12:12:11 PM |
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On Jul 30, 7:00 am, Fast Recovery <flyin...@hotmail.com> wrote:
On Mon, 30 Jul 2007 14:22:49 +0100, humble life
<humble.l...@nospam.com> wrote:
You are not qualified to know.
Are you?
No one is more qualified than I am to know what I'm thinking and
feeling, MOST DEFINITELY more than you will EVER be. You're
projecting your own frustration on me, I am not angry, I am amused and
saddened by your complete and total ignorance.
~Rose
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: If you get angry over my posts, then your anger is "dysfunctional." |
30 Jul 2007 02:52:13 PM |
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That's what you think, sweety.
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The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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