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Topic: Sociology > Depression
User: "MrsHawK"
Date: 01 Aug 2004 08:18:06 AM
Object: In Memory of Jeff
Can we start a thread to send to Linda, letting her know how much Jeff meant
to us all, and how much he will be missed by us?
For me, he offered me so much support and hope.
I will miss him every day.
Sarah
aka MrsHawK
aka JesaB
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User: "pannah"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 09:16:24 AM
~o~m~*~m~a~n~i~*~p~e~m~e~*~h~u~m~* ~o~m~*~m~a~n~i~*~p~e~m~e~*~h~u~m~*
Jeff was there for me whenever I needed to talk. When I had insomnia, when I
was upset, when I was happy, when I was mad, he was always there and tried
to help me. He talked me through a thousand sleepless nights. He always
greeted me, awknowledged me and showed me he cared. He was always there at 3
am willing to help and talk and crush the lonliness. He smoked me up at
Mena's meets, respected me, never hit on me or degraded me, never took
advantage of anyone. Jeff was strong and sweet and smart and always
encouraged me. He always had my back, always ready and willing to protect me
and stick up for me even if I was wrong. He understood, he always
understood. I'm going to miss him very much. He was always kind to everyone
he met. I will never forget the politcal rants, his knowledge of the world
and his advice which was always good. He'd never steer you in the wrong
direction. He was an awesome guy.
I miss you Jeff ! I'm sorry you had to go so soon. :-(
Love Pannah
~o~m~*~m~a~n~i~*~p~e~m~e~*~h~u~m~* ~o~m~*~m~a~n~i~*~p~e~m~e~*~h~u~m~*
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User: ""

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 09:48:13 AM
<lurk>
Jeff was a wonderful friend and a wise man. He loved his wife, Linda,
a great deal. He loved his in-laws and surrogate parents. When both
became ill, his mother-in-law with Alzheimer's, his devotion to their
care knew no bounds. He definitely loved his cats; they provided each
other with great joy.
He was brilliant. Never afraid to tell you about his well-thought-out
views on politics and world affairs. He suffered from PTSD, yet he
always had a receptive ear for fellow sufferers.
During the worst of my divorce, Jeff chatted with me night after
night, imparting hope, making jokes and discussing the spiritual ideas
we shared. Later, when his in-laws became sick, there were times when
he was exhausted and wondered if he could handle everything. I
listened and guided whenever he asked. He asked for so little, it was
a privilege to be there for him. I used to plead with him to slow down
and take care of himself. He was his own man, though, and I
ultimately respected his decisions.
Along with PTSD, he had fibromyalgia, sleep apnea and other physical
ailments. He was often in physical pain. He suffered from bouts of
insomnia. He'd fill the time by being a friend to all of us on
#freeasd.
Jeff was extraordinary. As much as I'll miss him, I'll always feel
his presence. I am comforted that his pain has ended.
Rest well, Jeff. You were a soldier of honor.
</lurk>
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User: "chaptal"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 01:20:52 PM
"MrsHawK" <sarah@thezoo.ca> wrote in message
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Can we start a thread to send to Linda, letting her know how much Jeff

meant

to us all, and how much he will be missed by us?

For me, he offered me so much support and hope.

I will miss him every day.

I met him at the Buffalo meet in 1998. Seemed like a very good and caring
person. He was always kind to me, and seemingly everyone, in IRC. I know
he'll be missed by many.
Ed


Sarah
aka MrsHawK
aka JesaB


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User: "Missy"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 04:04:04 PM
(((((McLindy)))))
I am so very sorry. Jeff was there for me during some rough times. I
really have no words for the sadness I feel right now.
missy
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User: "Ms. Cellophane"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 06:58:12 PM
I met Jeff and McLindy at the Louisville meet, don't remember the year.
They were good people. I had talked to Jeff many times on IRC and he was
always nice and greeted me when ever I entered the room. He was always
jovial to me no matter what he was feeling.
Rest in Peace McCavity.
My thoughts go out to you Linda. Please take care of yourself.
MisJ
"MrsHawK" <sarah@thezoo.ca> wrote in message
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Can we start a thread to send to Linda, letting her know how much Jeff

meant

to us all, and how much he will be missed by us?

For me, he offered me so much support and hope.

I will miss him every day.

Sarah
aka MrsHawK
aka JesaB


.

User: "amylou"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 05 Aug 2004 04:46:28 PM
I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.
amylou
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User: "John Ashcroft"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 05 Aug 2004 06:01:02 PM
On Thu, 05 Aug 2004 21:46:28 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.

amylou

Jeff is dead so stop using him to feel sorry for yourself.
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User: "amylou"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 05 Aug 2004 09:31:09 PM
"John Ashcroft" <A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote in message
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On Thu, 05 Aug 2004 21:46:28 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.

amylou


Jeff is dead so stop using him to feel sorry for yourself.

I don't feel sorry for myself. I feel lucky that I got to meet such
a warm, caring person. And I feel sorry that he is gone, when
others who are much less deserving are still here.
amylou
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User: "% surfs@uniserve"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 05 Aug 2004 09:49:02 PM
"amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com> wrote in message
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"John Ashcroft" <A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote in message
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On Thu, 05 Aug 2004 21:46:28 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.

amylou


Jeff is dead so stop using him to feel sorry for yourself.


I don't feel sorry for myself. I feel lucky that I got to meet such
a warm, caring person. And I feel sorry that he is gone, when
others who are much less deserving are still here.

amylou


amy when you see this guys name , ignore it , he's really not well
he'll say anything he thinks will hurt you
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User: "amylou"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 05 Aug 2004 09:57:58 PM
"%" <surfs@uniserve> wrote in message
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"amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com> wrote in message
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"John Ashcroft" <A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote in message
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On Thu, 05 Aug 2004 21:46:28 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.

amylou


Jeff is dead so stop using him to feel sorry for yourself.


I don't feel sorry for myself. I feel lucky that I got to meet such
a warm, caring person. And I feel sorry that he is gone, when
others who are much less deserving are still here.

amylou



amy when you see this guys name , ignore it , he's really not well
he'll say anything he thinks will hurt you

Thanks. I'd figured as much. Just hate to see a thread like this hijacked...
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User: "% surfs@uniserve"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 05 Aug 2004 09:59:40 PM
"amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com> wrote in message
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"amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com> wrote in message
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"John Ashcroft" <A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote in message
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On Thu, 05 Aug 2004 21:46:28 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.

amylou


Jeff is dead so stop using him to feel sorry for yourself.


I don't feel sorry for myself. I feel lucky that I got to meet such
a warm, caring person. And I feel sorry that he is gone, when
others who are much less deserving are still here.

amylou



amy when you see this guys name , ignore it , he's really not well
he'll say anything he thinks will hurt you


Thanks. I'd figured as much. Just hate to see a thread like this

hijacked...



yea , me too , but you know how there's one in every group
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User: "JayDee"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 06 Aug 2004 12:43:46 AM
On Thu, 5 Aug 2004 19:59:40 -0700, "%" <surfs@uniserve> wrote:

Thanks. I'd figured as much. Just hate to see a thread like this

hijacked...
yea , me too , but you know how there's one in every group

at least one, plus onlooking co-trollage, and lotza sock-puppets too
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User: "JayDee"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 06 Aug 2004 12:35:56 AM
On Fri, 06 Aug 2004 02:57:58 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

amy when you see this guys name , ignore it , he's really not well
he'll say anything he thinks will hurt you

killfile...

Thanks. I'd figured as much. Just hate to see a thread like this =

hijacked...
using the dead to start a diss cussion. low-dog *****...
I don't like to mess with things concerning the dead
it usta totally freak me out knowing itza-coming...
but I got beyond it, finally. *****! just in time, too
dead just puts me off; twoleggeds, and cats...
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User: "JayDee"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 06 Aug 2004 12:44:37 AM
On Thu, 5 Aug 2004 19:49:02 -0700, "%" <surfs@uniserve> wrote:

amy when you see this guys name , ignore it , he's really not well
he'll say anything he thinks will hurt you

I ain't too-fond of nasty little pit-bulls like that...
.


User: "John Ashcroft"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 06 Aug 2004 07:27:06 AM
On Fri, 06 Aug 2004 02:31:09 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:


"John Ashcroft" <A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote in message
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On Thu, 05 Aug 2004 21:46:28 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.

amylou


Jeff is dead so stop using him to feel sorry for yourself.


I don't feel sorry for myself. I feel lucky that I got to meet such
a warm, caring person. And I feel sorry that he is gone, when
others who are much less deserving are still here.

amylou

Grow up.
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User: "MrsHawK"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 05 Aug 2004 06:03:13 PM
ok, I am going to take this opportunity to say
SHUT THE ***** UP
give us this one thread to mourn the loss of a wonderful person, friend to
many of us; and to pass our feelings on to his wife.
"John Ashcroft" <A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote in message
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On Thu, 05 Aug 2004 21:46:28 GMT, "amylou" <amylouky@insightbb.com>
wrote:

I remember Jeff, of course.
Met him at the Louky meet..
He'll be missed.
*hugs* Linda.. thoughts and prayers will
be with you.

amylou


Jeff is dead so stop using him to feel sorry for yourself.



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User: "Lord Salt"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 10:34:56 AM
In article <i46Pc.3071$zXz1.738@news04.bloor.is.net.cable.rogers.com>,
"MrsHawK" <sarah@thezoo.ca> wrote:

Can we start a thread to send to Linda, letting her know how much Jeff meant
to us all, and how much he will be missed by us?

For me, he offered me so much support and hope.

I will miss him every day.

Sarah
aka MrsHawK
aka JesaB

Jeff gave until he didn't have anything left to give, and then, he'd
give double.
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User: "JohnM"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 12:14:29 PM
Linda, I am very sorry for your loss of Jeff. For so many years I have seen
his nick in the depression irc rooms...Jeff and other people in these rooms
have been a source of help for me. I am grateful for that. If it is okay
I will say a prayer for you and Jeff and your family.
JohnM (aka Johnnny48 on irc)
"MrsHawK" <sarah@thezoo.ca> wrote in message
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Can we start a thread to send to Linda, letting her know how much Jeff

meant

to us all, and how much he will be missed by us?

For me, he offered me so much support and hope.

I will miss him every day.

Sarah
aka MrsHawK
aka JesaB


.
User: "Marybeth"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 12:26:21 PM
X-no-archive:yes
Linda and Jeff are just lovely, caring and loving people. I am so incredibly
sorry to hear of Jeff's passing and my thoughts and prayers will be with Linda
at this time.
I met them both. Jeff is funny and compassionate. He was a true ASDer in the
sense that he gave so much of himself, his experiences, and his time and heart
to others. He was extremely supportive and many, many people will carry around
memories of times he jumped to the forefront to support us in our times of
need.
Sending my love to Linda,
Mary Beth
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User: "Flashfire"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 08:17:46 PM
MrsHawK wrote:

Can we start a thread to send to Linda, letting her know how much
Jeff meant to us all, and how much he will be missed by us?

For me, he offered me so much support and hope.

I will miss him every day.

Sarah
aka MrsHawK
aka JesaB

I met Jeff when I first went to #grinch and then followed onto #freeasd.
Jeff was always the first person to say Hi when you came in the channel, he
always offered help, guidance and caring. He had a keen sense of humour and
there were many times when I felt more like crying and Jeff would get me
laughing. I knew that he was in a great deal of emotional and physical pain
himself, but no matter how hard it was for him, he always gave of himself to
others who needed a shoulder to cry on or a friend to help take away some of
the blues. I have not been on #freeasd much the past couple of years, but
the few times I have dropped in and Jeff was there, he would just pick up
where we left off as if I had never been away. I will miss him, #freeasd
will not bee the same without @mcavity....my deepest sympathies to Linda and
thier family.....your grief is shared by many who loved him.
--
Regards Lee
Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of
enthusiasm. ~ Sir Winston Churchill
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User: ""

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 01 Aug 2004 09:09:57 AM
On Sun, 01 Aug 2004 13:18:06 GMT, "MrsHawK" <sarah@thezoo.ca>
wrote:

<(((*> Can we start a thread to send to Linda, letting her know how much Jeff meant
<(((*> to us all, and how much he will be missed by us?

I knew Jeff from his kindness and support to others. Someone who
fought daily with his own demons, and from that struggle was
inspired to reach out to those who were in pain.
A good man, a truly _human_ being.
Tara J. Ballance
Montreal, Canada
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User: "Erik"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 02:29:32 PM
dang it.
I don't know what to say. I hadn't been in close touch recently but I'd
think about Jeff and Linda frequently and hoped life was being kind to
them. I'm really terribly sorry. this sucks.
all the best to Linda. this must be incredibly hard. will send thoughts
of peace.
Erik
catdoc
Erik
--
www.eriktrips.com
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User: "used2be"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 11:42:47 AM
i can't believe you are gone jeffie.
i can't imagine your sorrow, linda.
words are stupid. words are completely inadequate.
my heart hurts for you!!
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User: "John Ashcroft"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 12:08:20 PM
On Mon, 02 Aug 2004 16:42:47 GMT, "used2be"
<cindyb@ERASETHISaustin.rr.com> wrote:


i can't believe you are gone jeffie.

i can't imagine your sorrow, linda.

words are stupid. words are completely inadequate.

my heart hurts for you!!


He was a very bad man.
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User: "EllyKitty"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 01:18:29 PM
On 2 Aug 2004 17:08:20 GMT, John Ashcroft
<A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote:

On Mon, 02 Aug 2004 16:42:47 GMT, "used2be"
<cindyb@ERASETHISaustin.rr.com> wrote:


i can't believe you are gone jeffie.

i can't imagine your sorrow, linda.

words are stupid. words are completely inadequate.

my heart hurts for you!!



He was a very bad man.

Who da F is John Ashcroft??
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User: "Luna"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 01:22:34 PM
"EllyKitty" <sunflowers@securenet.net> wrote in message
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On 2 Aug 2004 17:08:20 GMT, John Ashcroft
<A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote:

On Mon, 02 Aug 2004 16:42:47 GMT, "used2be"
<cindyb@ERASETHISaustin.rr.com> wrote:


i can't believe you are gone jeffie.

i can't imagine your sorrow, linda.

words are stupid. words are completely inadequate.

my heart hurts for you!!



He was a very bad man.



Who da F is John Ashcroft??

He's absolutely nobody who happened to find $6.95 on his mommy's dresser (the
cost of signing up for anon remailer).
Hi Elly. I met Jeff when I used to frequent IRC, he was a nice guy.
Jean
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User: "John Ashcroft"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 01:36:17 PM
On Mon, 2 Aug 2004 14:22:34 -0400, "Luna" <jean_collins@hotmail.com>
wrote:


"EllyKitty" <sunflowers@securenet.net> wrote in message
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On 2 Aug 2004 17:08:20 GMT, John Ashcroft
<A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote:

On Mon, 02 Aug 2004 16:42:47 GMT, "used2be"
<cindyb@ERASETHISaustin.rr.com> wrote:


i can't believe you are gone jeffie.

i can't imagine your sorrow, linda.

words are stupid. words are completely inadequate.

my heart hurts for you!!



He was a very bad man.



Who da F is John Ashcroft??


He's absolutely nobody who happened to find $6.95 on his mommy's dresser (the
cost of signing up for anon remailer).

Hi Elly. I met Jeff when I used to frequent IRC, he was a nice guy.

Jean

Jeff..............Lmfao!
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User: "% surfs@uniserve"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 01:13:04 PM
"EllyKitty" <sunflowers@securenet.net> wrote in message
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On 2 Aug 2004 17:08:20 GMT, John Ashcroft
<A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote:

On Mon, 02 Aug 2004 16:42:47 GMT, "used2be"
<cindyb@ERASETHISaustin.rr.com> wrote:


i can't believe you are gone jeffie.

i can't imagine your sorrow, linda.

words are stupid. words are completely inadequate.

my heart hurts for you!!



He was a very bad man.



Who da F is John Ashcroft??

he's one of a group of trolls that has been coming here and being really
stupid for a few months now , it seems the best way to treat him is not to
treat him at all and he'll go away
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User: "John Ashcroft"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 04:23:25 PM
On Mon, 2 Aug 2004 11:13:04 -0700, "%" <surfs@uniserve> wrote:


"EllyKitty" <sunflowers@securenet.net> wrote in message
news:ra1tg0l8ka6i96m6aj84eopgocd0vukt9k@4ax.com...

On 2 Aug 2004 17:08:20 GMT, John Ashcroft
<A.G@a-man-of-great-integrity.net> wrote:

On Mon, 02 Aug 2004 16:42:47 GMT, "used2be"
<cindyb@ERASETHISaustin.rr.com> wrote:


i can't believe you are gone jeffie.

i can't imagine your sorrow, linda.

words are stupid. words are completely inadequate.

my heart hurts for you!!



He was a very bad man.



Who da F is John Ashcroft??



he's one of a group of trolls that has been coming here and being really
stupid for a few months now , it seems the best way to treat him is not to
treat him at all and he'll go away

Go away!? Lmfao...........We've been here for over a year to support
asd.
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User: "% surfs@uniserve"

Title: Re: In Memory of Jeff 02 Aug 2004 04:37:55 PM

he's one of a group of trolls that has been coming here and being really
stupid for a few months now , it seems the best way to treat him is not

to

treat him at all and he'll go away


Go away!? Lmfao...........We've been here for over a year to support
asd.



you've been here as long as i tell you you've been here
and you do what i tell you to do while you are here
and when i have no further use for you , you will be outta here
now go ahead and answer this because i told you to
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