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User: "alvintchase"
Date: 09 Jun 2004 03:43:38 PM
Object: Kids are terrible
I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids...It makes me so angry,kids can be so cruel.It's bad enough
to verbally abuse kids,but to physically attack them as well?It just
disgusts me...I'm thankful I left public school after 4th grade.From
5th grade through 8th grade I was at a very religious Jewish school
and from 8th grade through 12th grade I was at a very small quaker
boarding school.In both schools I had no problems at all with
bullying.(or extremly minimal problems at most)If I had stayed in
public school it would have been a different story...
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User: "Jamal Chapultapec"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 09 Jun 2004 05:46:58 PM
(alvintchase) wrote in
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I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids...It makes me so angry,kids can be so cruel.

Nonono. The kids aren't cruel. The victims LET them be cruel. So, you see,
the bullies are actually innocent bystanders.

It's bad enough
to verbally abuse kids,but to physically attack them as well?It just
disgusts me...

No it doesn't. I'm the only one in this group actually capable of
empathizing with such a plight.

I'm thankful I left public school after 4th grade.From
5th grade through 8th grade I was at a very religious Jewish school
and from 8th grade through 12th grade I was at a very small quaker
boarding school.In both schools I had no problems at all with
bullying.(or extremly minimal problems at most)If I had stayed in
public school it would have been a different story...

You'd be like me! :)
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User: "Justin justin1138@REMOVEnet"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 03 Jul 2004 12:40:06 PM
(alvintchase) wrote in
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I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids...It makes me so angry,kids can be so cruel.It's bad enough
to verbally abuse kids,but to physically attack them as well?It just
disgusts me...I'm thankful I left public school after 4th grade.From
5th grade through 8th grade I was at a very religious Jewish school
and from 8th grade through 12th grade I was at a very small quaker
boarding school.In both schools I had no problems at all with
bullying.(or extremly minimal problems at most)If I had stayed in
public school it would have been a different story...

I spent half my childhood in TX and half in CA. My brother and I would
attend school in TX for one year while living with my father, and then
the next year we'd go to CA and stay with my mother. Bullying in TX
schools was almost non-existent, but in CA, bullying was rampant. I
think the reason why was because in CA, the economy was so good that
most people with college degrees would go for higher paying private
sector jobs so you ended up with a lot of bad teachers in CA schools.
The old "those you can't do, teach" scenario. In TX however, a teaching
job is more highly coveted in the slower economy of TX, so the teachers
tend to be of higher quality. And the teacher does make a huge
difference in the occurence of bullying. A good teacher recognizes and
knows who the bullies are and who is getting bullied and will rectify
the situation. A bad teacher will do nothing. Also, in TX (most
districts anyway) corporal punishment is allowed. I personally
witnessed many assholish bullies getting pulled out of the classroom by
the principal and get paddled hard out in the hallway. The bully comes
back into the classroom crying. Sounds brutal but it is REAL effective
as a bullying deterent. Makes for a more peaceful school where kids
don't get victimized as often.
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User: "Whateverafter"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 04 Jul 2004 11:04:14 AM

Subject: Re: Kids are terrible
From: Justin justin1138@REMOVEnet
Date: 7/3/2004 11:40 AM Central America Standard Time
Message-id: <Xns951B8B5F4321Fjustin1138REMOVEzoom@209.25.157.130>

relayer211@hotmail.com (alvintchase) wrote in
news:a78957eb.0406091243.639d5634@posting.google.com:

I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids...It makes me so angry,kids can be so cruel.It's bad enough
to verbally abuse kids,but to physically attack them as well?It just
disgusts me...I'm thankful I left public school after 4th grade.From
5th grade through 8th grade I was at a very religious Jewish school
and from 8th grade through 12th grade I was at a very small quaker
boarding school.In both schools I had no problems at all with
bullying.(or extremly minimal problems at most)If I had stayed in
public school it would have been a different story...



I spent half my childhood in TX and half in CA. My brother and I would
attend school in TX for one year while living with my father, and then
the next year we'd go to CA and stay with my mother. Bullying in TX
schools was almost non-existent, but in CA, bullying was rampant. I
think the reason why was because in CA, the economy was so good that
most people with college degrees would go for higher paying private
sector jobs so you ended up with a lot of bad teachers in CA schools.
The old "those you can't do, teach" scenario. In TX however, a teaching
job is more highly coveted in the slower economy of TX, so the teachers
tend to be of higher quality. And the teacher does make a huge
difference in the occurence of bullying. A good teacher recognizes and
knows who the bullies are and who is getting bullied and will rectify
the situation. A bad teacher will do nothing. Also, in TX (most
districts anyway) corporal punishment is allowed. I personally
witnessed many assholish bullies getting pulled out of the classroom by
the principal and get paddled hard out in the hallway. The bully comes
back into the classroom crying. Sounds brutal but it is REAL effective
as a bullying deterent. Makes for a more peaceful school where kids
don't get victimized as often.


Then you have those schools where the teachers are the bullies, and just
love to pick on the shy children...

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User: "lisa in mass."

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 04 Jul 2004 05:36:40 PM
Whateverafter wrote...


Then you have those schools where the teachers are the
bullies, and just
love to pick on the shy children...

i will never forget my 4th grade teacher backing me into a
corner, berating me, her face 6 inches from mine. i still dream
about her.
-lisa
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User: "Contrarian"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 04 Jul 2004 07:02:54 PM
Justin <justin1138@removenet> wrote:

relayer211@hotmail.com (alvintchase) wrote in
news:a78957eb.0406091243.639d5634@posting.google.com:

I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids


J: I spent half my childhood in TX and half in CA. My brother and I
attend school in TX for one year while living with my father, and then
the next year we'd go to CA and stay with my mother. Bullying in TX
schools was almost non-existent, but in CA, bullying was rampant.
... ... the slower economy of TX, so the teachers
tend to be of higher quality. And the teacher does make a huge
difference in the occurence of bullying. A good teacher recognizes and
knows who the bullies are and who is getting bullied and will rectify
the situation.

Really? No seriously, I had no idea that this is so. I thought
it just happened and once it started it never ended (about 10 years
in my case but I don't think about it that much now)

A bad teacher will do nothing. Also, in TX (most
districts anyway) corporal punishment is allowed. I personally
witnessed many assholish bullies getting pulled out of the classroom by
the principal and get paddled hard out in the hallway. The bully comes
back into the classroom crying. Sounds brutal but it is REAL effective
as a bullying deterent. Makes for a more peaceful school where kids
don't get victimized as often.

Interesting thought. Not PC at all though.
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User: "Justin justin1138@REMOVEnet"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 04 Jul 2004 07:24:00 PM

Sounds brutal but it is REAL effective as a bullying deterent. Makes for

a more peaceful school where kids don't get victimized as often.<<



Interesting thought. Not PC at all though.

I remember this one *****. The rest of us were 13 or 14 in Jr. High, but
this punk had flunked about 3 grades and was like 17, already had hit his
growth spurt, and was a real lardass. He was like 5'8" and 230. The rest
of us were 4'10" and 100. He'd grab 2 of us and push us together like
something out of the 3 Stooges.
BUT this was in Texas! Yes. The 6'4", early 30's, assistant principal
dragged lardass out of class one day after he wouldn't quit interrupting
the teacher. We heard 5 LOUD paddles, then lardass crying. That calmed
lardass down. He didn't mess with us that much after that.
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User: "Whiskers"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 05 Jul 2004 02:27:30 PM
On Sun, 04 Jul 2004 19:24:00 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet> wrote:
snip

BUT this was in Texas! Yes. The 6'4", early 30's, assistant principal
dragged lardass out of class one day after he wouldn't quit interrupting
the teacher. We heard 5 LOUD paddles, then lardass crying. That calmed
lardass down. He didn't mess with us that much after that.

And everyone learned, once again, that it's best to be the biggest bully
in the neighbourhood, one way or another, or stay on the right side of
whoever is. And the answer to trouble, is violence. And hitting people
is fine, as long as they don't hit back. And hit him before he hits you.
And so on. Another generation warped and misled.
We had similar customs here when I was at school; they are now illegal.
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User: "BGumm"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 05 Jul 2004 08:59:39 PM
On Sun, 04 Jul 2004 19:24:00 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet> wrote:
snip

BUT this was in Texas! Yes. The 6'4", early 30's, assistant principal
dragged lardass out of class one day after he wouldn't quit interrupting
the teacher. We heard 5 LOUD paddles, then lardass crying. That calmed
lardass down. He didn't mess with us that much after that.

And everyone learned, once again, that it's best to be the biggest bully
in the neighbourhood, one way or another, or stay on the right side of
whoever is. And the answer to trouble, is violence. And hitting people
is fine, as long as they don't hit back. And hit him before he hits you.
And so on. Another generation warped and misled.
We had similar customs here when I was at school; they are now illegal.
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You are so right. Just showed who is the biggest bully on the heap of life.
Made that bully want to be an even bigger bully later on after school I bet. I
bet the smaller kid in school is the one that took it the hardest after that
little lesson was taught.
Stronger pick on the weaker.....violence solves everything.......it is ok to
hit......lots of good things to teach kids.
Bet that principal never once thought to take the bully aside and try and TALK
to him or find out about this kid's life.
<sigh>
Coporeal (sp? is bad) punishment is not allowed here either anymore. Used to
be parents could send in notes if they wanted to allow their kids to get
whooped at school. I remember my parents signing that note. I remember for my
son NOT signing it. I wanted to be one of the people to handle my child---by
way of talking it out not violent force.
I was humilated one day by being taken out in the hallway and given two whacks
with a paddle after I would not stop talking----I was a chatterbox. I didn't
cry--refused to let him see that. It really didn't hurt either cause I don't
think he was trying to be totally nasty but it still wasn't right. We didn't
have witnesses either back then. Wasn't too long after I got older that if
they did take a child out to get whacked it had to be witnessed.
Whoopie.
Yeah it taught me how to ah shut up.
Becky
"I have seen the sea when it is stormy and wild;
when it is quiet and serene; when it is dark and
moody. And in all its moods, I see myself."
-Martin Buxbaum
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User: "Whiskers"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 06 Jul 2004 05:25:36 PM
On Tue, 06 Jul 2004 01:59:39 +0000,
(BGumm) wrote:
snip

I was humilated one day by being taken out in the hallway and given two whacks
with a paddle after I would not stop talking----I was a chatterbox. I didn't
cry--refused to let him see that. It really didn't hurt either cause I don't
think he was trying to be totally nasty but it still wasn't right. We didn't
have witnesses either back then. Wasn't too long after I got older that if
they did take a child out to get whacked it had to be witnessed.

Corporal punishment was always public, in my school; that was part of the
point, I think - 'pour encourager les autres'.
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User: "Justin justin1138@REMOVEnet"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 05 Jul 2004 09:07:22 PM
Whiskers <catwheezel@operamail.com> wrote in
news:pan.2004.07.05.19.27.24.896390@ID-107770.user.uni-berlin.de:

On Sun, 04 Jul 2004 19:24:00 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet>
wrote:

snip

BUT this was in Texas! Yes. The 6'4", early 30's, assistant
principal dragged lardass out of class one day after he wouldn't quit
interrupting the teacher. We heard 5 LOUD paddles, then lardass
crying. That calmed lardass down. He didn't mess with us that much
after that.


And everyone learned, once again, that it's best to be the biggest
bully in the neighbourhood, one way or another, or stay on the right
side of whoever is. And the answer to trouble, is violence. And
hitting people is fine, as long as they don't hit back. And hit him
before he hits you. And so on. Another generation warped and misled.

We had similar customs here when I was at school; they are now
illegal.

You're trying to say that "paddling kids teaches violence"? In CA where
paddling is outlawed in most districts, you have tons of violent,
bullying kids. In TX, where paddling is allowed, the kids are a lot
better behaved and there's less bullying. It's not like EVERY kid was
getting paddled in TX, just the shitheads were paddled (maybe 1% of the
student body). And it's not like it hurts the kid much; it's mostly
psychological as in "you're acting terrible and your actions have
consequences." Trust me, in an environment where punishment is swift
and immediate, the kids have it way better as a whole.
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User: "wombn"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 06 Jul 2004 03:35:25 AM
On 5 Jul 2004 21:07:22 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet> wrote:

Whiskers <catwheezel@operamail.com> wrote in
news:pan.2004.07.05.19.27.24.896390@ID-107770.user.uni-berlin.de:

On Sun, 04 Jul 2004 19:24:00 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet>
wrote:

snip

BUT this was in Texas! Yes. The 6'4", early 30's, assistant
principal dragged lardass out of class one day after he wouldn't quit
interrupting the teacher. We heard 5 LOUD paddles, then lardass
crying. That calmed lardass down. He didn't mess with us that much
after that.


And everyone learned, once again, that it's best to be the biggest
bully in the neighbourhood, one way or another, or stay on the right
side of whoever is. And the answer to trouble, is violence. And
hitting people is fine, as long as they don't hit back. And hit him
before he hits you. And so on. Another generation warped and misled.

We had similar customs here when I was at school; they are now
illegal.


You're trying to say that "paddling kids teaches violence"? In CA where
paddling is outlawed in most districts, you have tons of violent,
bullying kids. In TX, where paddling is allowed, the kids are a lot
better behaved and there's less bullying. It's not like EVERY kid was
getting paddled in TX, just the shitheads were paddled (maybe 1% of the
student body). And it's not like it hurts the kid much; it's mostly
psychological as in "you're acting terrible and your actions have
consequences." Trust me, in an environment where punishment is swift
and immediate, the kids have it way better as a whole.

There isn't much misbehavior going on in Singapore either.....
Not that I advocate caning, or such.
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User: "Whiskers"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 06 Jul 2004 07:31:26 PM
On Mon, 05 Jul 2004 21:07:22 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet> wrote:
snip

You're trying to say that "paddling kids teaches violence"? In CA where
paddling is outlawed in most districts, you have tons of violent, bullying
kids. In TX, where paddling is allowed, the kids are a lot better behaved
and there's less bullying. It's not like EVERY kid was getting paddled in
TX, just the shitheads were paddled (maybe 1% of the student body). And
it's not like it hurts the kid much; it's mostly psychological as in
"you're acting terrible and your actions have consequences." Trust me, in
an environment where punishment is swift and immediate, the kids have it
way better as a whole.

<http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/>
Crime Index Rates Per 100,000 Inhabitants, year 2000:-
California: overall 3,739.7; violent 621.6; murder 6.1; rape 28.9
Texas: overall 4,955.5; violent 545.1; murder 5.9; rape 37.7
all USA: overall 4,124.0; violent 506.1; murder 5.5; rape 32.0
As I'm sure to be asked, for England and Wales the crime statistics for 12
months to March 2000 are in
<http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs/hosb1200.pdf>. Records here are
not kept in a form directly comparable with the US statistics I found
above. However, the Grand Total line on page 39 of the PDF document
shows, per 100,000 of population:-
Violence against the Person 11,300; sexual offences 70
"Violence" includes 'common assault' and 'obstructing an officer' when no
injury is caused; I haven't tried to extract more detailed figures.
Likewise, 'sexual offences' includes 'indecent exposure' as well as much
worse offences. The detailed definitions of these offences are in
<http://uk.sitestat.com/homeoffice/homeoffice/s?rds.countviolence04pdf&ns_type=pdf&ns_url=[http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs2/countviolence04.pdf]>
or <http://makeashorterlink.com/?G39442DB8> for 'violent' offences, and
<http://uk.sitestat.com/homeoffice/homeoffice/s?rds.countsexual04pdf&ns_type=pdf&ns_url=[http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs2/countsexual04.pdf]>
or <http://makeashorterlink.com/?Y2A432DB8> for 'sexual' offences. 52 and
73 pages respectively ;))
If anyone is sufficiently keen to pick through 100s of pages of
statistics, the official records for England and Wales can be found via
the Home Office <http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/>.
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User: "BGumm"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 07 Jul 2004 01:01:21 AM
I am sorry. Some of you work in the field of teaching and see the paddling and
see what happens and agree with it.
I don't.
You believe it works. Ok fine.
I don't.
I don't believe that you have to hit a kid to keep them in line. I don't
believe you are helping that child out by paddling them.
If they are having problems that you don't know or care about, paddling does
not help it, it makes it worse. Any kind of punishment of that type would not
help a child that possibly needs maybe psychiatric help or therapy???
Paddling will help whack that outta his or her system?
Sure I bet they will tow the line and you will have no problems with them in
school which is basically all you are caring about right?
What happens after school? What is happening to that child after school?
Do you care?
So it is OK to hit them, show them who is boss, make them stand up and take
notice and tow the line and follow in with the rest of the lambs through the
hitting process and to hell with that child's mindset.
SO like 5 or 6 years down the road (or sooner) when you read in the paper that
they have killed someone, robbed a store or whatever you feel nothing because
you were simply keeping them in line in school so they didn't bother the rest
of the students?
<sigh>
I am sorry. I don't get it. I won't get it. Please don't talk to me like I
am stupid either.
I will never understand paddling children---sometimes these so-called
principals do not know when to stop--there have been documented cases of child
abuse in schools. IS that RIGHT? Oh well as long as that child towed the line
and fell into place right?
It is never right to hit. We as parents are taught that, yet our leaders in
our schools are allowed to do it and our teachers feel it is OK to keep the
peace--never mind the harm it might do to the child.
Ugh.
Becky
done with discussing this subject.
"I have seen the sea when it is stormy and wild;
when it is quiet and serene; when it is dark and
moody. And in all its moods, I see myself."
-Martin Buxbaum
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User: "Justin justin1138@REMOVEnet"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 07 Jul 2004 01:31:05 PM
Whiskers <catwheezel@operamail.com> wrote in
news:pan.2004.07.07.00.31.15.534068@ID-107770.user.uni-berlin.de:

On Mon, 05 Jul 2004 21:07:22 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet>
wrote:

snip

You're trying to say that "paddling kids teaches violence"? In CA
where paddling is outlawed in most districts, you have tons of
violent, bullying kids. In TX, where paddling is allowed, the kids
are a lot better behaved and there's less bullying. It's not like
EVERY kid was getting paddled in TX, just the shitheads were paddled
(maybe 1% of the student body). And it's not like it hurts the kid
much; it's mostly psychological as in "you're acting terrible and
your actions have consequences." Trust me, in an environment where
punishment is swift and immediate, the kids have it way better as a
whole.


<http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/>

Crime Index Rates Per 100,000 Inhabitants, year 2000:-

California: overall 3,739.7; violent 621.6; murder 6.1; rape 28.9
Texas: overall 4,955.5; violent 545.1; murder 5.9; rape 37.7

all USA: overall 4,124.0; violent 506.1; murder 5.5; rape 32.0

As I'm sure to be asked, for England and Wales the crime statistics
for 12 months to March 2000 are in
<http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs/hosb1200.pdf>. Records here
are not kept in a form directly comparable with the US statistics I
found above. However, the Grand Total line on page 39 of the PDF
document shows, per 100,000 of population:-

Violence against the Person 11,300; sexual offences 70

"Violence" includes 'common assault' and 'obstructing an officer' when
no injury is caused; I haven't tried to extract more detailed figures.
Likewise, 'sexual offences' includes 'indecent exposure' as well as
much worse offences. The detailed definitions of these offences are
in
<http://uk.sitestat.com/homeoffice/homeoffice/s?

rds.countviolence04pdf&

ns_type=pdf&ns_url=

[http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs2/countviolenc

e04.pdf]> or <http://makeashorterlink.com/?G39442DB8> for 'violent'
offences, and
<http://uk.sitestat.com/homeoffice/homeoffice/s?

rds.countsexual04pdf&ns

_type=pdf&ns_url=

[http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs2/countsexual04.

pdf]> or <http://makeashorterlink.com/?Y2A432DB8> for 'sexual'
offences. 52 and 73 pages respectively ;))

If anyone is sufficiently keen to pick through 100s of pages of
statistics, the official records for England and Wales can be found
via the Home Office <http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/>.

So there's more crime in TX than in CA. All I'm saying is that the
schools in TX are more calm, with less bullying than in CA. More
germaine stats for this debate would be the number of crimes committed
by students on school property. I guess you're trying to say "well
corporal punishment in TX doesn't keep the kids from committing more
crimes later on than the kids in CA do." Might be true, but while
they're IN school, a disciplined environment allows more peaceful
learning to take place. Find some stats on literacy and standardized
testing. TX will blow CA away in those 2 areas.
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User: "Whiskers"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 07 Jul 2004 04:16:56 PM
On Wed, 07 Jul 2004 13:31:05 -0500, Justin <justin1138@REMOVEnet> wrote:
snip

Find
some stats on literacy and standardized testing. TX will blow CA away in
those 2 areas.

Why don't /you/ find them?
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User: "BGumm"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 05 Jul 2004 10:10:01 PM
You're trying to say that "paddling kids teaches violence"? In CA where
paddling is outlawed in most districts, you have tons of violent,
bullying kids. In TX, where paddling is allowed, the kids are a lot
better behaved and there's less bullying. It's not like EVERY kid was
getting paddled in TX, just the shitheads were paddled (maybe 1% of the
student body). And it's not like it hurts the kid much; it's mostly
psychological as in "you're acting terrible and your actions have
consequences." Trust me, in an environment where punishment is swift
and immediate, the kids have it way better as a whole.
----------------------------
What does a paddling teach a child?
I knew of some principals or teachers that didn't just spank a child but that
left bruises and welts. IS this right to do to children?
I don't like punks anymore than anyone else does. They are little horrors. I
have done alot of reading about what some of these nasty kids can turn out to
be but come on.....hitting helps?
It does nothing. They have a pain in their ***** for what----however long it
lasts and then it has taught them to get craftier and better at not getting
caught.
It has taught them that it is ok when you are an adult to hit a kid when they
are bad.
It enrages kids that are already enraged.
What about kids that are beaten regularly at home?
Do you honestly think a principal smacking them at school does much more than
make them hate their environment and the people around them more?
You get some of these kids that are ticking time bombs as it is. So you beat
them at school and they go off after school and attack someone else.
Maybe we can have a NEW COLUMBINE?
There are other ways to handle bullies and children that need help. Whacking
them one with a big ole paddle as hard as you can and humiliating them is not
how it should be done.
Becky
"I have seen the sea when it is stormy and wild;
when it is quiet and serene; when it is dark and
moody. And in all its moods, I see myself."
-Martin Buxbaum
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User: "Hap Arnold"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 06 Jul 2004 12:29:56 AM
"BGumm" <bgumm@aol.com> wrote in message
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Maybe we can have a NEW COLUMBINE?

Was there corporal punishment at Columbine?
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User: "BGumm"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 07 Jul 2004 12:49:24 AM
"BGumm" <bgumm@aol.com> wrote in message
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Maybe we can have a NEW COLUMBINE?

Was there corporal punishment at Columbine?
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No but there were bullies....
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User: "Hap Arnold"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 07 Jul 2004 01:29:53 AM
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"BGumm" <bgumm@aol.com> wrote in message
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Maybe we can have a NEW COLUMBINE?


Was there corporal punishment at Columbine?

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No but there were bullies....


So Columbine doesn't support your theory about how to handle bullies.
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User: "% surfs@uniserve"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 07 Jul 2004 01:42:04 AM
"Hap Arnold" <hap.arnold@cox.net> wrote in message
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"BGumm" <bgumm@aol.com> wrote in message
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"BGumm" <bgumm@aol.com> wrote in message
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Maybe we can have a NEW COLUMBINE?


Was there corporal punishment at Columbine?

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No but there were bullies....



So Columbine doesn't support your theory about how to handle bullies.

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User: "Justin justin1138@REMOVEnet"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 06 Jul 2004 03:56:37 PM
(BGumm) wrote in
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You're trying to say that "paddling kids teaches violence"? In CA
where paddling is outlawed in most districts, you have tons of
violent, bullying kids. In TX, where paddling is allowed, the kids
are a lot better behaved and there's less bullying. It's not like
EVERY kid was getting paddled in TX, just the shitheads were paddled
(maybe 1% of the student body). And it's not like it hurts the kid
much; it's mostly psychological as in "you're acting terrible and your
actions have consequences." Trust me, in an environment where
punishment is swift and immediate, the kids have it way better as a
whole.

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What does a paddling teach a child?

I knew of some principals or teachers that didn't just spank a child
but that left bruises and welts. IS this right to do to children?

I don't like punks anymore than anyone else does. They are little
horrors. I have done alot of reading about what some of these nasty
kids can turn out to be but come on.....hitting helps?

It does nothing. They have a pain in their ***** for what----however
long it lasts and then it has taught them to get craftier and better
at not getting caught.

It has taught them that it is ok when you are an adult to hit a kid
when they are bad.

It enrages kids that are already enraged.

What about kids that are beaten regularly at home?

Do you honestly think a principal smacking them at school does much
more than make them hate their environment and the people around them
more?

You get some of these kids that are ticking time bombs as it is. So
you beat them at school and they go off after school and attack
someone else.

Maybe we can have a NEW COLUMBINE?

There are other ways to handle bullies and children that need help.
Whacking them one with a big ole paddle as hard as you can and
humiliating them is not how it should be done.



Becky

Becky, I can understand your sympathy for kids who are paddled, but it
DOES work. As a child who bounced around from one parent to the other
and who's gone to many different schools, I can say without exception
that the schools with corporal punishment had more serene environments
with less bullying. Also, I have teacher certification myself. I am
not a full-time teacher but have substituted in the past, mainly at the
secondary level. Corporal punishment IS a huge deterrant. And you
mentioned "paddling makes them hate their environment even more."
That's not correct. We're just looking for ways to keep the nasty 1%
from RUINING the environments of the other 99%! A school that lets
bullies slip on by terrorizing other kids results in a BAD environment.
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User: "Whateverafter"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 10 Jun 2004 05:48:03 PM

Subject: Kids are terrible
From:

(alvintchase)
Date: 6/9/2004 2:43 PM Central America Standard Time
Message-id: <a78957eb.0406091243.639d5634@posting.google.com>

I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids...It makes me so angry,kids can be so cruel.It's bad enough
to verbally abuse kids,but to physically attack them as well?It just
disgusts me...I'm thankful I left public school after 4th grade.From
5th grade through 8th grade I was at a very religious Jewish school
and from 8th grade through 12th grade I was at a very small quaker
boarding school.In both schools I had no problems at all with
bullying.(or extremly minimal problems at most)If I had stayed in
public school it would have been a different story...





Teachers can be just as bad or worse.
All in all, my school expereince was pretty awful and frightening.
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User: "Tim Kettring"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 09 Jun 2004 03:54:54 PM
I was in public school k-12 , and there was no bullying going on at all . I
guess I went to good public schools :-)
"alvintchase" <relayer211@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids...It makes me so angry,kids can be so cruel.It's bad enough
to verbally abuse kids,but to physically attack them as well?It just
disgusts me...I'm thankful I left public school after 4th grade.From
5th grade through 8th grade I was at a very religious Jewish school
and from 8th grade through 12th grade I was at a very small quaker
boarding school.In both schools I had no problems at all with
bullying.(or extremly minimal problems at most)If I had stayed in
public school it would have been a different story...

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User: "Franz Bestuchev"

Title: Re: Kids are terrible 09 Jun 2004 09:21:49 PM
http://www.paulgraham.com/paulgraham/nerds.html
"alvintchase" <relayer211@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:a78957eb.0406091243.639d5634@posting.google.com...

I was just watching Oprah(the show is still on now)about kids bullying
other kids...It makes me so angry,kids can be so cruel.It's bad enough
to verbally abuse kids,but to physically attack them as well?It just
disgusts me...I'm thankful I left public school after 4th grade.From
5th grade through 8th grade I was at a very religious Jewish school
and from 8th grade through 12th grade I was at a very small quaker
boarding school.In both schools I had no problems at all with
bullying.(or extremly minimal problems at most)If I had stayed in
public school it would have been a different story...

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