I am a married woman without children (not by choice) and my husband is
my only friend and we have problems communicating. I feel like
everyone talks to me about thier problems but I have no one to talk to
about mine. All of my friends use my shoulder to lean on but whenever
I feel like talking, I am always interupted. There is no one for me to
talk to about my problems in my marraige, the fact that I have had
trouble trying to conceive, or the way I feel. This is causing me to
sink further and further into depression. Last night I contemplated
suicide because I feel like I don't matter. Everyone around me loves
me for what I give them not for who I am.
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| User: "Used2be" |
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| Title: Re: LONELY |
02 Dec 2005 08:07:36 PM |
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"msmoh" <Tamohler1@comcast.net> wrote in message
news:1133570062.696118.183880@g47g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
I am a married woman without children (not by choice) and my husband is
my only friend and we have problems communicating. I feel like
everyone talks to me about thier problems but I have no one to talk to
about mine. All of my friends use my shoulder to lean on but whenever
I feel like talking, I am always interupted. There is no one for me to
talk to about my problems in my marraige, the fact that I have had
trouble trying to conceive, or the way I feel. This is causing me to
sink further and further into depression. Last night I contemplated
suicide because I feel like I don't matter. Everyone around me loves
me for what I give them not for who I am.
it sounds like you could use some good counseling. there is no shame in
getting help for your depression. none at all.
please do something nice for yourself and get some help!
~u2b
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| User: "kali" |
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| Title: Re: LONELY |
02 Dec 2005 10:35:48 PM |
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Does your husband prevent you from going out of the house by yourself,
does he listen to your phone conversations, does he insist that you
report your day's activities to him that occurred while he was away?
The reason I ask these questions is that you said he's your only
friend; this is highly unusual, as you may realize. Have you tried
making friends where you are? Unless you are on an island by
yourselves, it should be possible to do--unless, as I suggested, you
are being actively prevented.
It may well be that you don't need professional help, but access to
other people.
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| User: "David" |
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| Title: Re: LONELY |
02 Dec 2005 06:55:03 PM |
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It sounds like you're seeing things through your depression, some of which
may or may not be real. If you feel like you need immediate help, I would
call 911 and get to a hospital. Am sorry you're dealing with these things,
there is help.
"msmoh" <Tamohler1@comcast.net> wrote in message
news:1133570062.696118.183880@g47g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
I am a married woman without children (not by choice) and my husband is
my only friend and we have problems communicating. I feel like
everyone talks to me about thier problems but I have no one to talk to
about mine. All of my friends use my shoulder to lean on but whenever
I feel like talking, I am always interupted. There is no one for me to
talk to about my problems in my marraige, the fact that I have had
trouble trying to conceive, or the way I feel. This is causing me to
sink further and further into depression. Last night I contemplated
suicide because I feel like I don't matter. Everyone around me loves
me for what I give them not for who I am.
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| User: "msmoh" |
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| Title: Re: LONELY |
02 Dec 2005 07:43:04 PM |
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I don't know what's truely real. All I know is that I hurt, and I hide
it from everyone around me. I put my smile on everyday to mask my pain.
I would shame me too much for them to know how I really feel.
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| User: "Jane" |
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| Title: Re: LONELY |
02 Dec 2005 08:55:59 PM |
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"msmoh" <Tamohler1@comcast.net> wrote in message
news:1133574184.372984.43770@g47g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
I don't know what's truely real. All I know is that I hurt, and I hide
it from everyone around me. I put my smile on everyday to mask my pain.
I would shame me too much for them to know how I really feel.
That's what I do, I keep all bottled up and hidden. I only show it here. I
rarely break down when I'm out of my room. My kids don't see it, my family
hasn't seen it, what few friends I have don't see it, my ex's couldn't
handle it, I don't blame them, I would have been at a loss, if I didn't
understand depression. So I have my "everything is good" mask. I keep it
by the bedroom door.
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| User: "David" |
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| Title: Re: LONELY |
02 Dec 2005 08:02:29 PM |
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Have you thought about getting a therapist?
"msmoh" <Tamohler1@comcast.net> wrote in message
news:1133574184.372984.43770@g47g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
I don't know what's truely real. All I know is that I hurt, and I hide
it from everyone around me. I put my smile on everyday to mask my pain.
I would shame me too much for them to know how I really feel.
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