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Sociology > Depression |
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"aaron from suburbia" |
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14 Dec 2005 03:55:52 PM |
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losing a neighbor as a friend (minor suicidal ideation) |
last night I found out that one of my new nextdoor neighbors is trying
to sue us over $1000 which they feel is owed to them because of
property taxes. I dont understand the entire thing, or finances /
taxes AT ALL. but it's something to do with....they payed taxes on
both pieces of property before we moved in. I think our lawyer
screwed up somewhere when closing the sale for us, or whatever. our
neighbors were nice about it when they asked, and i thought everything
was being worked out. now i find out they're going to fucking sue.
this is complete *****. this thing is supposed to be worked out
between the lawyers and/or the tax people and/or the state or local
government. the thing is, our dogs play together, and we had a nice
cookout / block party with them at the end of last summer. and now
this *****. (i know how stupid my whole post sounds, whatever)
well, you never really know what people are like when it comes to
money. this is just another reason why I would just LOVE to exit this
world. it's not because of them that i feel this way, it's of course
many many other things. but this is just ONE MORE THING. i dont want
to fight. i dont even care. more likely, i'm just going to leave this
area, rather than die, which is something i would PROBABLY never do.
yes, I want to bury my head in the sand and NOT deal with anything.
because I can't.
blah.
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| User: "Contrarian" |
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| Title: Re: losing a neighbor as a friend (minor suicidal ideation) |
15 Dec 2005 04:21:51 AM |
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aaron from suburbia <suburbanlife@mail.com> wrote:
the thing is, our dogs play together, and we had a nice
cookout / block party with them at the end of last summer. and now
this sh*t.
It's a loss, and losses hurt. Esp. when one will
have chronic reminders of the loss. And dogs are
typically important to the dogs' owners.
IMO they aren't handling this in a nice way.
to fight. i dont even care. more likely, i'm just going to leave this
area, rather than die, which is something i would PROBABLY never do.
yes, I want to bury my head in the sand and NOT deal with anything.
because I can't.
I know how stuff can knock *me* out and the stuff
that knocks me out rarely has a $ price tag on it.
FWIW, although I am still affected I don't want to
entirely vanish anymore when stuff happens. Here's
hoping you improve also.
--
but the edge is still Out there. Or maybe it's In... HST (1967)
when i got to the edge , i built a deck % (2005)
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| User: "aaron from suburbia" |
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| Title: Re: losing a neighbor as a friend (minor suicidal ideation) |
16 Dec 2005 03:13:17 PM |
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Contrarian wrote:
aaron from suburbia <suburbanlife@mail.com> wrote:
the thing is, our dogs play together, and we had a nice
cookout / block party with them at the end of last summer. and now
this sh*t.
It's a loss, and losses hurt. Esp. when one will
have chronic reminders of the loss. And dogs are
typically important to the dogs' owners.
IMO they aren't handling this in a nice way.
to fight. i dont even care. more likely, i'm just going to leave this
area, rather than die, which is something i would PROBABLY never do.
yes, I want to bury my head in the sand and NOT deal with anything.
because I can't.
I know how stuff can knock *me* out and the stuff
that knocks me out rarely has a $ price tag on it.
FWIW, although I am still affected I don't want to
entirely vanish anymore when stuff happens. Here's
hoping you improve also.
--
but the edge is still Out there. Or maybe it's In... HST (1967)
when i got to the edge , i built a deck % (2005)
It NOW turns out that these people have *already* been refunded the
money they were owed, but were still prepared to ask us for the money,
and sue us! WTF! This is very shady, and avery disturbing turn of
events, and now I am very suspisious of these neighbors of mine who I
*had* thought were really nice. shows what I know. they have two
young children and two dogs, and my dog is often playing with theirs,
and on several occasions I stopped one of their dogs from wondering
away after he got out of their yard....and this is how we're repaid,
with this nonsense. never know who to trust.
this sucks.
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| User: "aaron from suburbia" |
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| Title: Re: losing a neighbor as a friend (minor suicidal ideation) |
14 Dec 2005 04:01:44 PM |
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hey, an alternative title to my post could have been....Suburban
Billshit!
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