I met a guy on line. We've been chatting for sometime, spoke on the phone a
lot, IM every night and hundreds of emails. He is wonderful, kind, sweet,
intelligent and he lives far away. I really really like him. He says he
really really likes me. We've exchanged pictures, well I've sent him like
12 he's sent me 1, and working on sending me more. NO I'M NOT GETTING
MARRIED TOMORROW!
I know my history, I know I've been in a lot bad relationships, I know I'm a
freaking failure, but...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to fast.
Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to start out
slow. But it feels good...
Jane
--
"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you are
not." Andre Gide
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10 Nov 2005 06:54:55 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:6VRcf.19319$td.1653@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
I met a guy on line. We've been chatting for sometime, spoke on the phone
a
lot, IM every night and hundreds of emails. He is wonderful, kind, sweet,
intelligent and he lives far away. I really really like him. He says he
really really likes me. We've exchanged pictures, well I've sent him like
12 he's sent me 1, and working on sending me more. NO I'M NOT GETTING
MARRIED TOMORROW!
I know my history, I know I've been in a lot bad relationships, I know I'm
a
freaking failure, but...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to
fast.
Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to start out
slow. But it feels good...
Jane
--
"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you
are
not." Andre Gide
oh my poor aching head
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10 Nov 2005 07:02:47 PM |
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Sorry Dave I hesitated posting it here, thank god you post a lot, cuz I was
holding my breath. Now I'm actually laughing out loud, and I mean really
out loud. Thanks for not busting my balls, oh wait I don't have any...
Well thanks for not busting my umm well you know.
Jane
"%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:W7qdnd1bgI68ce7enZ2dnUVZ_tidnZ2d@giganews.com...
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:6VRcf.19319$td.1653@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
I met a guy on line. We've been chatting for sometime, spoke on the
phone
a
lot, IM every night and hundreds of emails. He is wonderful, kind,
sweet,
intelligent and he lives far away. I really really like him. He says he
really really likes me. We've exchanged pictures, well I've sent him
like
12 he's sent me 1, and working on sending me more. NO I'M NOT GETTING
MARRIED TOMORROW!
I know my history, I know I've been in a lot bad relationships, I know
I'm
a
freaking failure, but...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to
fast.
Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to start
out
slow. But it feels good...
Jane
--
"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you
are
not." Andre Gide
oh my poor aching head
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10 Nov 2005 07:04:57 PM |
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i'll save that for later , you wouldn't hear it now anyway
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:N2Scf.19562$td.2668@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
Sorry Dave I hesitated posting it here, thank god you post a lot, cuz I
was
holding my breath. Now I'm actually laughing out loud, and I mean really
out loud. Thanks for not busting my balls, oh wait I don't have any...
Well thanks for not busting my umm well you know.
Jane
"%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:W7qdnd1bgI68ce7enZ2dnUVZ_tidnZ2d@giganews.com...
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:6VRcf.19319$td.1653@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
I met a guy on line. We've been chatting for sometime, spoke on the
phone
a
lot, IM every night and hundreds of emails. He is wonderful, kind,
sweet,
intelligent and he lives far away. I really really like him. He says
he
really really likes me. We've exchanged pictures, well I've sent him
like
12 he's sent me 1, and working on sending me more. NO I'M NOT GETTING
MARRIED TOMORROW!
I know my history, I know I've been in a lot bad relationships, I know
I'm
a
freaking failure, but...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to
fast.
Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to start
out
slow. But it feels good...
Jane
--
"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you
are
not." Andre Gide
oh my poor aching head
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10 Nov 2005 07:10:16 PM |
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You're right, I wouldn't, I won't hear anything negative right now. I'm not
even manic right now, I'm feeling a little numb, not depressed not manic,
***** maybe I'm just tired. I don't know, I just feel good, mellow, relaxed,
nope no mary jane in my house, I'm just wore out I think.
Jane
"%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:BJednWwMx4Thc-7eRVn-sw@giganews.com...
i'll save that for later , you wouldn't hear it now anyway
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| User: "Luna" |
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11 Nov 2005 04:12:48 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:6VRcf.19319$td.1653@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
I met a guy on line. We've been chatting for sometime, spoke on the phone
a
lot, IM every night and hundreds of emails. He is wonderful, kind, sweet,
intelligent and he lives far away. I really really like him. He says he
really really likes me. We've exchanged pictures, well I've sent him like
12 he's sent me 1, and working on sending me more. NO I'M NOT GETTING
MARRIED TOMORROW!
I know my history, I know I've been in a lot bad relationships, I know I'm
a
freaking failure, but...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to
fast.
Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to start out
slow. But it feels good...
For every Bruce/Wanda, Fred/Bunny, there's a whole bunch more Lori/Steppy's.
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
Jean
Jane
--
"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you
are
not." Andre Gide
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11 Nov 2005 05:03:23 PM |
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"Luna"
For every Bruce/Wanda, Fred/Bunny, there's a whole bunch more
Lori/Steppy's.
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
Jean
Why? He offered, I told him, I got this round, he can pay for his ticket
here. It's 2005 if anything we'd split it but I wouldn't ask him or let him
pay for the whole thing.
Jane
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| User: "Luna" |
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11 Nov 2005 07:31:19 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:Ro9df.8935$%k.2448@bignews6.bellsouth.net...
"Luna"
For every Bruce/Wanda, Fred/Bunny, there's a whole bunch more
Lori/Steppy's.
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
Jean
Why? He offered, I told him, I got this round, he can pay for his ticket
here. It's 2005 if anything we'd split it but I wouldn't ask him or let
him
pay for the whole thing.
Jane. If you know you've got the sort of problems in the relationship
department that you have (ie, I am a sucking void of need, please provide!)
why do you do this on a depression newsgroup? Strikes me as not too cool.
Take a year off, girl. Get to know yourself a little. Leave the boys
alone.
Jean
Jane
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12 Nov 2005 08:18:55 AM |
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x-no-archive: yes
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote to Jane:
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
Thomas
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| User: "Luna" |
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12 Nov 2005 08:38:00 AM |
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"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tmbsfFtaj61U1@individual.net...
x-no-archive: yes
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote to Jane:
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
You have a point there, Thomas.
I don't think that characterizing Jane as an independent woman is all that
accurate though, nor is casting her in the light of being victimized by evil
men who can't stand the independent woman very accurate, either.
I think my mama genes get quite inflamed whenever I perceive anything that
could be construed as using another to fill whatever voids exist. That's
just me and seriously, what the hell do I know?
Jean
Thomas
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| User: "Jane" |
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12 Nov 2005 12:10:29 PM |
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"Luna" <
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
Ummm the problem with that is, I've never really given them the opportunity
to completely control me.
You have a point there, Thomas.
Yes he does.
I don't think that characterizing Jane as an independent woman is all that
accurate though, nor is casting her in the light of being victimized by
evil
men who can't stand the independent woman very accurate, either.
Oh I'm quite independent, had to be, but I am also dependent. My mother
kicked me out when I was 17, I worked full time since then. Been through a
lot of relationships, I would say at least 80% I had been the strong one,
they have leaned on me. It's not been all that bad having them lean on me,
but when it came time for me needing to lean, they weren't there.
Victimized, not for very long, but yes there was some vicitimization. Most
of the marriages ended, because they did try and control my thinking, my
behavior, my hobby's, how I spent money, and I only blame myself for
allowing it to continue when it happened. That's where the independence
would jump in.
I think my mama genes get quite inflamed whenever I perceive anything that
could be construed as using another to fill whatever voids exist. That's
just me and seriously, what the hell do I know?
I love you Jean, and I do value your opinion, I value a lot of peoples
opinions here, and I honestly do listen to what people say... Ultimately
I'll make my decisions on what I do or how I do things on those opinions.
More often then not, I've conformed and listen to what people say and find
myself miserable, so now for sake of independent, I need to start making
decisions by what "I" feel, or what "I" think weigh the pros and the cons,
and take charge of my mistakes and my successes.
The benefit of wanting to date someone far way, is we have to take it slow,
one day at a time, we're too far away from each other to do it any other
way. Who knows maybe this is what I need, someone to love from a distance
and some someone to love me back from a distance. It will give us both time
to be sure rather then jump in head first.
I hope I'm making sense???
Jane
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| User: "Luna" |
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12 Nov 2005 12:40:40 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:fcqdf.17260$%k.7905@bignews6.bellsouth.net...
"Luna" <
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
Ummm the problem with that is, I've never really given them the
opportunity
to completely control me.
You have a point there, Thomas.
Yes he does.
I don't think that characterizing Jane as an independent woman is all
that
accurate though, nor is casting her in the light of being victimized by
evil
men who can't stand the independent woman very accurate, either.
Oh I'm quite independent, had to be, but I am also dependent. My mother
kicked me out when I was 17, I worked full time since then. Been through
a
lot of relationships, I would say at least 80% I had been the strong one,
they have leaned on me. It's not been all that bad having them lean on
me,
but when it came time for me needing to lean, they weren't there.
Victimized, not for very long, but yes there was some vicitimization.
Most
of the marriages ended, because they did try and control my thinking, my
behavior, my hobby's, how I spent money, and I only blame myself for
allowing it to continue when it happened. That's where the independence
would jump in.
Yeah. Don't get me wrong Jane, I don't think you're weak in the least -
just that if that sort of dynamic plays out more than once in your life,
there might be an element of you re-enacting some old drama towards victory
in it. This again goes towards the "what the hell do I know" because of
course, relationships are infinitely complex and trying to glean some sort
of pattern from them through reading Usenet postings is pretty questionable.
I think my mama genes get quite inflamed whenever I perceive anything
that
could be construed as using another to fill whatever voids exist.
That's
just me and seriously, what the hell do I know?
I love you Jean, and I do value your opinion, I value a lot of peoples
opinions here, and I honestly do listen to what people say... Ultimately
I'll make my decisions on what I do or how I do things on those opinions.
More often then not, I've conformed and listen to what people say and find
myself miserable, so now for sake of independent, I need to start making
decisions by what "I" feel, or what "I" think weigh the pros and the cons,
and take charge of my mistakes and my successes.
The benefit of wanting to date someone far way, is we have to take it
slow,
one day at a time, we're too far away from each other to do it any other
way. Who knows maybe this is what I need, someone to love from a distance
and some someone to love me back from a distance. It will give us both
time
to be sure rather then jump in head first.
I hope I'm making sense???
Makes lots of sense to me. It would be great if it worked out just as you
hope for it to work out and I do wish you all the best.
Jean
Jane
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| User: "gravity" |
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12 Nov 2005 09:48:42 AM |
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"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:Q-GdnZJfhqirY-jenZ2dnUVZ_v2dnZ2d@rogers.com...
That's
just me and seriously, what the hell do I know?
Luna knows a lot.
Gravity
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| User: "Franz Bestuchev" |
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12 Nov 2005 10:10:19 AM |
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gravity wrote:
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:Q-GdnZJfhqirY-jenZ2dnUVZ_v2dnZ2d@rogers.com...
That's
just me and seriously, what the hell do I know?
Luna knows a lot.
Gravity
Franz knows®
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| User: "Thomas Dehn" |
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13 Nov 2005 05:39:16 AM |
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x-no-archive: yes
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote:
"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tmbsfFtaj61U1@individual.net...
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote to Jane:
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
You have a point there, Thomas.
I don't think that characterizing Jane as an independent woman is all that
accurate though, nor is casting her in the light of being victimized by evil
men who can't stand the independent woman very accurate, either.
I think my mama genes get quite inflamed whenever I perceive anything that
could be construed as using another to fill whatever voids exist.
Jane very much needs her independence. She goes down
very fast if she has no job. In the past, Jane did end up with
men who tried to control her.
I agree with you, though, that Jane ist still trying to fill
all those holes with yet another rushed attempt at
a relationship.
Jane, it is unlikely to work that way. You need to be
in a reasonably well emotional state before you can have
a working relationship.
Thomas
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| User: "gravity" |
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13 Nov 2005 05:55:39 AM |
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"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tomt9Ftsk17U4@individual.net...
x-no-archive: yes
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote:
"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tmbsfFtaj61U1@individual.net...
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote to Jane:
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
You have a point there, Thomas.
I don't think that characterizing Jane as an independent woman is all
that
accurate though, nor is casting her in the light of being victimized by
evil
men who can't stand the independent woman very accurate, either.
I think my mama genes get quite inflamed whenever I perceive anything
that
could be construed as using another to fill whatever voids exist.
Jane very much needs her independence. She goes down
very fast if she has no job. In the past, Jane did end up with
men who tried to control her.
I agree with you, though, that Jane ist still trying to fill
all those holes with yet another rushed attempt at
a relationship.
Jane, it is unlikely to work that way. You need to be
in a reasonably well emotional state before you can have
a working relationship.
Jane is very successful. she needs a man who is good for her, and lets her
be independent. she has a lot to offer.
Gravity
Thomas
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| User: "gravity" |
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13 Nov 2005 05:54:44 AM |
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"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tomt9Ftsk17U4@individual.net...
x-no-archive: yes
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote:
"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tmbsfFtaj61U1@individual.net...
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote to Jane:
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
You have a point there, Thomas.
I don't think that characterizing Jane as an independent woman is all
that
accurate though, nor is casting her in the light of being victimized by
evil
men who can't stand the independent woman very accurate, either.
I think my mama genes get quite inflamed whenever I perceive anything
that
could be construed as using another to fill whatever voids exist.
Jane very much needs her independence. She goes down
very fast if she has no job. In the past, Jane did end up with
men who tried to control her.
I agree with you, though, that Jane ist still trying to fill
all those holes with yet another rushed attempt at
a relationship.
Jane, it is unlikely to work that way. You need to be
in a reasonably well emotional state before you can have
a working relationship.
i kind of swore i would never have a relationship after my last fiancee in
03. but i found a nice girl, and i'm happy so far.
Gravity
Thomas
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| User: "gravity" |
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13 Nov 2005 05:53:58 AM |
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"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tomt9Ftsk17U4@individual.net...
x-no-archive: yes
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote:
"Thomas Dehn" <thomas-usenet@arcor.de> wrote in message
news:3tmbsfFtaj61U1@individual.net...
"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote to Jane:
I just hope he's paying for your ticket.
I don't think that Jane needs yet another one
of those control freak who cannot stand an
independant woman.
You have a point there, Thomas.
I don't think that characterizing Jane as an independent woman is all
that
accurate though, nor is casting her in the light of being victimized by
evil
men who can't stand the independent woman very accurate, either.
I think my mama genes get quite inflamed whenever I perceive anything
that
could be construed as using another to fill whatever voids exist.
Jane very much needs her independence. She goes down
very fast if she has no job. In the past, Jane did end up with
men who tried to control her.
I agree with you, though, that Jane ist still trying to fill
all those holes with yet another rushed attempt at
a relationship.
Jane, it is unlikely to work that way. You need to be
in a reasonably well emotional state before you can have
a working relationship.
i think Jane's boyfriend is very dedicated to her. i hope it works for her.
Gravity
Thomas
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10 Nov 2005 07:15:39 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:6VRcf.19319$td.1653@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to
fast. Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to
start out slow. But it feels good...
Very cool Jane. Wanda and I met here and it certainly worked out for us!
Bruce.
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| User: "Jane" |
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10 Nov 2005 09:05:31 PM |
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"Bruce." <bachastain@XNOSPAMXsbcglobal.net> wrote in message
news:%gScf.6324$Y61.3328@newssvr33.news.prodigy.com...
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:6VRcf.19319$td.1653@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to
fast. Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to
start out slow. But it feels good...
Very cool Jane. Wanda and I met here and it certainly worked out for us!
Bruce.
That's cool Bruce I didn't know that...
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| User: "%" |
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10 Nov 2005 09:10:31 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:SRTcf.20248$td.17797@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
"Bruce." <bachastain@XNOSPAMXsbcglobal.net> wrote in message
news:%gScf.6324$Y61.3328@newssvr33.news.prodigy.com...
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:6VRcf.19319$td.1653@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
I can't move to fast with him, he doesn't live close enough to move to
fast. Neither of us are rich, I do ok but I'm not rich. So we have to
start out slow. But it feels good...
Very cool Jane. Wanda and I met here and it certainly worked out for
us!
Bruce.
That's cool Bruce I didn't know that...
i met the woman i live with in a newsgroup ,
but it wasn't this news group , 8 years ago
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| User: "Jane" |
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10 Nov 2005 09:30:44 PM |
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"%"
i met the woman i live with in a newsgroup ,
but it wasn't this news group , 8 years ago
I didn't know that Dave, did you guys know each other very long before you
met for the first time?
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| User: "%" |
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10 Nov 2005 09:33:19 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:vdUcf.20295$td.10932@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
"%"
i met the woman i live with in a newsgroup ,
but it wasn't this news group , 8 years ago
I didn't know that Dave, did you guys know each other very long before you
met for the first time?
yea , about two years ,
we were both with someone else when we first spoke
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| User: "Jane" |
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10 Nov 2005 09:41:06 PM |
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"%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:M8udna0m6ZXZjOnenZ2dnUVZ_sWdnZ2d@giganews.com...
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:vdUcf.20295$td.10932@bignews3.bellsouth.net...
"%"
i met the woman i live with in a newsgroup ,
but it wasn't this news group , 8 years ago
I didn't know that Dave, did you guys know each other very long before
you
met for the first time?
yea , about two years ,
we were both with someone else when we first spoke
That's really cool. I know a few people who have met in news groups,
JazzyCat and Blue, Wombn and Janithor, Karl and Sandy and now Wanda and
Bruce. A few more but they're names escape me, I could look them up, but
you know them too.
Jane
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| User: "%" |
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10 Nov 2005 10:24:04 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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"%" <persent@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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i met the woman i live with in a newsgroup ,
but it wasn't this news group , 8 years ago
I didn't know that Dave, did you guys know each other very long before
you
met for the first time?
yea , about two years ,
we were both with someone else when we first spoke
That's really cool. I know a few people who have met in news groups,
JazzyCat and Blue, Wombn and Janithor, Karl and Sandy and now Wanda and
Bruce. A few more but they're names escape me, I could look them up, but
you know them too.
Jane
yea , i've met and made lots of dates on line
especially when i first started
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10 Nov 2005 10:31:14 PM |
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yea , i've met and made lots of dates on line
especially when i first started
I've never dated anyone I met on line. I've dated a couple of guys locally
to where I lived who happen to be in the group, but I knew them from before.
That's cool you were comfortable enough to do that. I'm usually way to
chicken to even call someone on the phone when they give me their numbers.
Jane
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| User: "%" |
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10 Nov 2005 10:33:31 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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"%"
yea , i've met and made lots of dates on line
especially when i first started
I've never dated anyone I met on line. I've dated a couple of guys
locally
to where I lived who happen to be in the group, but I knew them from
before.
That's cool you were comfortable enough to do that. I'm usually way to
chicken to even call someone on the phone when they give me their numbers.
Jane
well i was more nervous than you might think ,
and made sure i met them in safe public places ,
i even made sure i got a look at them ,
before they saw me , phones call don't bother me though ,
what can happen on a phone
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| User: "Jane" |
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10 Nov 2005 10:51:07 PM |
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"%"
well i was more nervous than you might think ,
and made sure i met them in safe public places ,
i even made sure i got a look at them ,
before they saw me , phones call don't bother me though ,
what can happen on a phone
Oh I know, but I have a deep voice, I'm hyper active seriously, I talk way
too much and I never know what to say. So I end up rambling and giggling a
lot... Total turn off
Jane
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| User: "%" |
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10 Nov 2005 11:09:11 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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"%"
well i was more nervous than you might think ,
and made sure i met them in safe public places ,
i even made sure i got a look at them ,
before they saw me , phones call don't bother me though ,
what can happen on a phone
Oh I know, but I have a deep voice, I'm hyper active seriously, I talk way
too much and I never know what to say. So I end up rambling and giggling
a
lot... Total turn off
Jane
i'm not like that with someone from a newsgroup ,
i usually find the ice breaker is talking about everyone else at first ,
besides being a drinker , liquid courage goes a long way too
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| User: "Jane" |
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11 Nov 2005 04:58:22 PM |
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"%"
i'm not like that with someone from a newsgroup ,
i usually find the ice breaker is talking about everyone else at first ,
besides being a drinker , liquid courage goes a long way too
Yeah I do that sometimes, but my problem, alcohol and me, I start loving
everyone....
Jane
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| User: "electro" |
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10 Nov 2005 11:07:07 PM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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"%"
well i was more nervous than you might think ,
and made sure i met them in safe public places ,
i even made sure i got a look at them ,
before they saw me , phones call don't bother me though ,
what can happen on a phone
Oh I know, but I have a deep voice, I'm hyper active seriously, I talk way
too much and I never know what to say. So I end up rambling and giggling
a
lot... Total turn off
Jane
I met someone online once.. ..we *almost* hooked up.. ..but we lived so far
away, and we kinda chickened out from the weight of it.
I remember talking on the phone, feeling like such a knob. She was orig.
from SanFran, and totally dug my Canadian accent (whatever that is), it's
funny how a voice or picture requires you to adjust your preconceptions
sometimes..
...she was really hot. I should email her.
Ty
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