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"GlennT" |
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15 Jan 2005 03:36:20 PM |
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Never trust people |
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
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| User: "Roland Koch" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
16 Jan 2005 02:02:52 PM |
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"GlennT" <ask.me@noname.com> wrote
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
a) What if the person really believes
he/she is not in the wrong?
b) What if the person is not given
the opportunity to explain?
c) Both?
But I agree with you anyway,
you can't trust human beings.
Now, who CAN we trust?
GBY
Roland
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| User: "GlennT" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
16 Jan 2005 11:55:20 PM |
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Roland Koch wrote:
"GlennT" <ask.me@noname.com> wrote
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
a) What if the person really believes
he/she is not in the wrong?
Well obviously they don't.
b) What if the person is not given
the opportunity to explain?
Then there lack of explanation would be explainable wouldn't it?
c) Both?
At least you got the c) right. I didn't quite manage that.
But I agree with you anyway,
you can't trust human beings.
Ahhhhh! The real issue finally surfaces. Is this what makes you
so... obsessive? I trust a few people. Not many, but a few.
Now, who CAN we trust?
You got some real issues here buddy... real issues. Are you
getting treatment? If you are, then I hope you get better soon.
GlennT
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| User: "jake" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
16 Jan 2005 01:52:39 PM |
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GlennT wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b: seem to
be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
I couldn't agree more. Unreliability sucks. I learned that in busineess
but I'm sure it holds true just as much in personal relationships. And
they may not be as popular as they seem. C doesn't HAVE to apply for the
whole thing to be true, too.
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| User: "GlennT" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
16 Jan 2005 11:58:28 PM |
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jake wrote:
GlennT wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b: seem to
be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
I couldn't agree more. Unreliability sucks. I learned that in busineess
but I'm sure it holds true just as much in personal relationships. And
they may not be as popular as they seem. C doesn't HAVE to apply for the
whole thing to be true, too.
It is a fortress. One that you should avoid because if you try
and climb the walls they just get higher and higher. Nobody is
worth that much pointless effort.
They can never be trusted because they obviously don't even trust
themselves. They obviously never will. They should be avoided at
all costs.
GlennT
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| User: "jake" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
17 Jan 2005 03:02:58 AM |
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GlennT wrote:
jake wrote:
GlennT wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b: seem
to be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
I couldn't agree more. Unreliability sucks. I learned that in
busineess but I'm sure it holds true just as much in personal
relationships. And they may not be as popular as they seem. C doesn't
HAVE to apply for the whole thing to be true, too.
It is a fortress. One that you should avoid because if you try and climb
the walls they just get higher and higher. Nobody is worth that much
pointless effort.
They can never be trusted because they obviously don't even trust
themselves. They obviously never will. They should be avoided at all costs.
GlennT
I'm not sure that they don't trust themselves. I just think other people
don't mean as much to them as they do to me.
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| User: "GlennT" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
15 Jan 2005 03:37:55 PM |
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GlennT wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b: seem to
be popular despite a: and b:.
oops typo... I know there is a c: in there somewhere.
GlennT
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| User: "Charles" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
17 Jan 2005 12:08:03 AM |
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On Sun, 16 Jan 2005 10:36:20 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
When I was doing talk therapy I asked to do the MMPI to see what that
would dig up.
the therapist told me that is said that I didn't trust anyone. We
talked about that for a while, and I thought about it for months. I
decided she was right. then I thought about it for years, and decided
I was right.
--
Charles
Does not play well with others.
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| User: "GlennT" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
17 Jan 2005 12:12:35 AM |
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Charles wrote:
On Sun, 16 Jan 2005 10:36:20 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
When I was doing talk therapy I asked to do the MMPI to see what that
would dig up.
the therapist told me that is said that I didn't trust anyone. We
talked about that for a while, and I thought about it for months. I
decided she was right. then I thought about it for years, and decided
I was right.
Hehe. I do trust a few people. I mean really trust. Yet, I still
need feedback to maintain it. I know better who not to trust
which was the motivation for this post.
How are you Charles?
GlennT
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| User: "Charles" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
17 Jan 2005 12:20:38 AM |
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On Mon, 17 Jan 2005 19:12:35 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
On Sun, 16 Jan 2005 10:36:20 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
When I was doing talk therapy I asked to do the MMPI to see what that
would dig up.
the therapist told me that is said that I didn't trust anyone. We
talked about that for a while, and I thought about it for months. I
decided she was right. then I thought about it for years, and decided
I was right.
Hehe. I do trust a few people. I mean really trust. Yet, I still
need feedback to maintain it. I know better who not to trust
which was the motivation for this post.
How are you Charles?
GlennT
I'm pretty good, Sleep is screwed up but that doesn't upset my life
too much. somewhat sore, I've been doing a bit more work that I am
used to the last few days, my body is complaining. Mentally there are
bad days and good moments. all in all, doing well.
--
Charles
Does not play well with others.
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| User: "GlennT" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
17 Jan 2005 12:32:31 AM |
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Charles wrote:
On Mon, 17 Jan 2005 19:12:35 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
Charles wrote:
On Sun, 16 Jan 2005 10:36:20 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
GlennT
When I was doing talk therapy I asked to do the MMPI to see what that
would dig up.
the therapist told me that is said that I didn't trust anyone. We
talked about that for a while, and I thought about it for months. I
decided she was right. then I thought about it for years, and decided
I was right.
Hehe. I do trust a few people. I mean really trust. Yet, I still
need feedback to maintain it. I know better who not to trust
which was the motivation for this post.
How are you Charles?
GlennT
I'm pretty good, Sleep is screwed up but that doesn't upset my life
too much. somewhat sore, I've been doing a bit more work that I am
used to the last few days, my body is complaining. Mentally there are
bad days and good moments. all in all, doing well.
As they say, as well as can be expected. Glad it's in some kind
of balance for you.
I seem to be 'coming home to Mama' in relation to ASD. It really
helps to feel I am not alone on this planet when it comes to my
bad days. Great to talk to you again.
GlennT
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
17 Jan 2005 08:10:59 AM |
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In message <eflmu01jdeaqeumbvfl068dkohf1fiq1ti@4ax.com>, Charles
<ckraft@SPAMTRAPwest.net> writes
On Sun, 16 Jan 2005 10:36:20 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
When I was doing talk therapy I asked to do the MMPI to see what that
would dig up.
the therapist told me that is said that I didn't trust anyone. We
talked about that for a while, and I thought about it for months. I
decided she was right. then I thought about it for years, and decided
I was right.
Having done it, I don't trust the MMPI!
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Charles" |
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| Title: Re: Never trust people |
18 Jan 2005 12:25:46 AM |
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On Mon, 17 Jan 2005 14:10:59 +0000, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
In message <eflmu01jdeaqeumbvfl068dkohf1fiq1ti@4ax.com>, Charles
<ckraft@SPAMTRAPwest.net> writes
On Sun, 16 Jan 2005 10:36:20 +1300, GlennT <ask.me@noname.com> wrote:
that a: don't apologize, b: don't at least try and explain, b:
seem to be popular despite a: and b:.
When I was doing talk therapy I asked to do the MMPI to see what that
would dig up.
the therapist told me that is said that I didn't trust anyone. We
talked about that for a while, and I thought about it for months. I
decided she was right. then I thought about it for years, and decided
I was right.
Having done it, I don't trust the MMPI!
The results may depend on who does the interpretation. I couldn't
disagree with what the therapist told be it told them, but I was a bit
surprised. she asked me if I was taking my meds at the time, I told
her no, that I felt that I was doing okay without them. she said I
really, really should be taking them, I wondered how the test would
have come out if I took it while I was felling as bad as I had.
It worked as an ice breaker for me at the time, I'd become stuck and
it opened up some areas for discussion.
--
Charles
Does not play well with others.
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