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Sociology > Depression |
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"alvintchase" |
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24 Jul 2004 01:42:06 PM |
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other people's houses |
It's a strange feeling to go to someone's house sometimes,someone that
you don't know...at least for me it is...We dropped off my sister and
my nephew yesterday in New Jersey after a very long drive...When I get
out of my "comfort zone",I realize how hard it is trying to balance
being in my own world and the outside world,and balancing being
spontaneous with being thoughtful,and balancing being relativly sharp
with being calm and relaxed.It's very hard to find the balance..
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| User: "Whateverafter" |
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| Title: Re: other people's houses |
24 Jul 2004 02:22:26 PM |
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Subject: other people's houses
From: (alvintchase)
Date: 7/24/2004 12:42 PM Central America Standard Time
Message-id: <a78957eb.0407241042.3ae0a991@posting.google.com>
It's a strange feeling to go to someone's house sometimes,someone that
you don't know...at least for me it is...We dropped off my sister and
my nephew yesterday in New Jersey after a very long drive...When I get
out of my "comfort zone",I realize how hard it is trying to balance
being in my own world and the outside world,and balancing being
spontaneous with being thoughtful,and balancing being relativly sharp
with being calm and relaxed.It's very hard to find the balance..
Just don't think about it so much, Alvin. Just be open to the other
person/people. let go of yourself and see the other human being 'as' a human
being just like you, with concerns, feelings, a point of view, etc. put
yourself 'into' their world, find empathy, see from their world, they are just
like you.
That's what I do. I might even be too open, and they might find me strange
and too familiar, so what. As long as I don't get into their business, or but
in where I don't have knowledge, or but in at all, what can it hurt to be
friendly and caring toward others?
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: other people's houses |
24 Jul 2004 02:47:44 PM |
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i just be the same where ever i go or i shouldn't have been invited
"alvintchase" <relayer211@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:a78957eb.0407241042.3ae0a991@posting.google.com...
It's a strange feeling to go to someone's house sometimes,someone that
you don't know...at least for me it is...We dropped off my sister and
my nephew yesterday in New Jersey after a very long drive...When I get
out of my "comfort zone",I realize how hard it is trying to balance
being in my own world and the outside world,and balancing being
spontaneous with being thoughtful,and balancing being relativly sharp
with being calm and relaxed.It's very hard to find the balance..
.
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