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Sociology > Depression |
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"jordy" |
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04 Dec 2006 03:27:48 PM |
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perception and reality |
It is an important idea, isn't it? there's what "goes on" in the
outside world, the interactions, the events, our circumstances... the
wonderful and terrible things that happen every day... but there is
also the things we notice, the things we focus on and react to, how we
respond... and there is our thought patterns... what types of thought
patterns do we have? positve? negative? somewhere in the middle? what's
important to us? are we mostly in the past? the present? the future? do
we notice the details of every day life? do we notice nature? does
nature give us pleasure? or are we lost in old memories, fantasies,
insecurities, fears, obsessions? are we worrying about what people
think about us all the time? are we remembering things people said that
hurt our feelings? what are we thinking about, remembering, noticing?
what details in every day life strike us as "important" and what
details do we fail to notice at all? why do we have the images, dreams,
day dreams, memories and fantasies that we have, and why do we have
them so often? how do we find more balance, the past, the present, and
the future? the internal and the external? thoughts, feelings, and
actions? It's strange how you can have a conversation with someone, and
they can bring a certain energy to you... they can stir up memories and
feelings within you... maybe we are all just a mixture of many
different aspects and ingrediants... Is there a way that we can notice
the positive things in life on a local, national and internal level, as
well as the negative? Is there a possibility that we can see things in
a new, different, original, creative way? that we can get outside of
our comfort zone, and rigid, habitual ways of thinking and seeing and
acting, and try to do and see things in a completly "new" way?
-"Jordy"
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: perception and reality |
04 Dec 2006 03:33:42 PM |
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"jordy" <Icnh@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1165267668.839091.277780@j44g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
It is an important idea, isn't it? there's what "goes on" in the
outside world, the interactions, the events, our circumstances... the
wonderful and terrible things that happen every day... but there is
also the things we notice, the things we focus on and react to, how we
respond... and there is our thought patterns... what types of thought
patterns do we have? positve? negative? somewhere in the middle? what's
important to us? are we mostly in the past? the present? the future? do
we notice the details of every day life? do we notice nature? does
nature give us pleasure? or are we lost in old memories, fantasies,
insecurities, fears, obsessions? are we worrying about what people
think about us all the time? are we remembering things people said that
hurt our feelings? what are we thinking about, remembering, noticing?
what details in every day life strike us as "important" and what
details do we fail to notice at all? why do we have the images, dreams,
day dreams, memories and fantasies that we have, and why do we have
them so often? how do we find more balance, the past, the present, and
the future? the internal and the external? thoughts, feelings, and
actions? It's strange how you can have a conversation with someone, and
they can bring a certain energy to you... they can stir up memories and
feelings within you... maybe we are all just a mixture of many
different aspects and ingrediants... Is there a way that we can notice
the positive things in life on a local, national and internal level, as
well as the negative? Is there a possibility that we can see things in
a new, different, original, creative way? that we can get outside of
our comfort zone, and rigid, habitual ways of thinking and seeing and
acting, and try to do and see things in a completly "new" way?
-"Jordy"
i never see the same thing the same way even when i'm looking at it ,
and i never wonder what others think about me because i don't think ,
i'm that important that they should care , i can't imagine being that vein ,
as to think others are thinking about me
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| User: "jordy" |
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| Title: Re: perception and reality |
04 Dec 2006 03:40:53 PM |
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% wrote:
"jordy" <Icnh@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1165267668.839091.277780@j44g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
It is an important idea, isn't it? there's what "goes on" in the
outside world, the interactions, the events, our circumstances... the
wonderful and terrible things that happen every day... but there is
also the things we notice, the things we focus on and react to, how we
respond... and there is our thought patterns... what types of thought
patterns do we have? positve? negative? somewhere in the middle? what's
important to us? are we mostly in the past? the present? the future? do
we notice the details of every day life? do we notice nature? does
nature give us pleasure? or are we lost in old memories, fantasies,
insecurities, fears, obsessions? are we worrying about what people
think about us all the time? are we remembering things people said that
hurt our feelings? what are we thinking about, remembering, noticing?
what details in every day life strike us as "important" and what
details do we fail to notice at all? why do we have the images, dreams,
day dreams, memories and fantasies that we have, and why do we have
them so often? how do we find more balance, the past, the present, and
the future? the internal and the external? thoughts, feelings, and
actions? It's strange how you can have a conversation with someone, and
they can bring a certain energy to you... they can stir up memories and
feelings within you... maybe we are all just a mixture of many
different aspects and ingrediants... Is there a way that we can notice
the positive things in life on a local, national and internal level, as
well as the negative? Is there a possibility that we can see things in
a new, different, original, creative way? that we can get outside of
our comfort zone, and rigid, habitual ways of thinking and seeing and
acting, and try to do and see things in a completly "new" way?
-"Jordy"
i never see the same thing the same way even when i'm looking at it ,
and i never wonder what others think about me because i don't think ,
i'm that important that they should care , i can't imagine being that vein ,
as to think others are thinking about me
I guess it's like that saying, "people are too busy worrying about
themselves to be thinking of you".... I guess there is a lot of truth
to that, but I'm not sure if I believe that saying... I guess many
people like the idea that everyone's thinking of them...
-"Jordy"
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: perception and reality |
04 Dec 2006 03:43:33 PM |
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"jordy" <Icnh@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1165268453.826471.324710@j44g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
% wrote:
"jordy" <Icnh@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1165267668.839091.277780@j44g2000cwa.googlegroups.com...
It is an important idea, isn't it? there's what "goes on" in the
outside world, the interactions, the events, our circumstances... the
wonderful and terrible things that happen every day... but there is
also the things we notice, the things we focus on and react to, how we
respond... and there is our thought patterns... what types of thought
patterns do we have? positve? negative? somewhere in the middle?
what's
important to us? are we mostly in the past? the present? the future?
do
we notice the details of every day life? do we notice nature? does
nature give us pleasure? or are we lost in old memories, fantasies,
insecurities, fears, obsessions? are we worrying about what people
think about us all the time? are we remembering things people said
that
hurt our feelings? what are we thinking about, remembering, noticing?
what details in every day life strike us as "important" and what
details do we fail to notice at all? why do we have the images,
dreams,
day dreams, memories and fantasies that we have, and why do we have
them so often? how do we find more balance, the past, the present, and
the future? the internal and the external? thoughts, feelings, and
actions? It's strange how you can have a conversation with someone,
and
they can bring a certain energy to you... they can stir up memories
and
feelings within you... maybe we are all just a mixture of many
different aspects and ingrediants... Is there a way that we can notice
the positive things in life on a local, national and internal level,
as
well as the negative? Is there a possibility that we can see things in
a new, different, original, creative way? that we can get outside of
our comfort zone, and rigid, habitual ways of thinking and seeing and
acting, and try to do and see things in a completly "new" way?
-"Jordy"
i never see the same thing the same way even when i'm looking at it ,
and i never wonder what others think about me because i don't think ,
i'm that important that they should care , i can't imagine being that
vein ,
as to think others are thinking about me
I guess it's like that saying, "people are too busy worrying about
themselves to be thinking of you".... I guess there is a lot of truth
to that, but I'm not sure if I believe that saying... I guess many
people like the idea that everyone's thinking of them...
-"Jordy"
i'm not even sure it matters , i try to think as little as possible
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