Sociology > Depression > Question for a women out their concerning wife. (Just want an opinion)
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"Danny" |
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18 Jun 2004 02:43:53 PM |
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Question for a women out their concerning wife. (Just want an opinion) |
I wife sometimes I think does not care about my feelings. (Or maybe I
am just over sensitive).
She makes plans with her mom all the time and takes my daughter with
her. On a Thursday I call home at lunch to check messages. I hear a
message from my mother-in-law to my daughter saying she ant wait to
take her to the movies to see Garfield with my wife. (For the next
day).
When I get home I ask her if she was ever going to tell me of her
plans to go to the movies. She said they had planned on taking her to
the 2:25 show. I told her I would like to go and that their was a 4:50
show. (I get off at 4:30). She said fine or something like that.
Had a busy day at work, she called twice and could not get ahold of
me. Left me a message the last time that "she would see me after
work". indicating that they were going to go to the early movie.
I called her at home and asked why. She said they did not want to wait
around until I got off work. She said she would wait if it was that
important. (Indicating she was a little aggitated and did not want to
wait.) I talked to her some more about some different subject then she
says, "i'll just call you after work". (Indicating they were going to
the early movie after all.) Sg=he said we would go out to eat after
whh=en I get off. (We were going to do that before anyway)
I know this seems like nit picking but this happens all the time. I
just dont feel like anyone cares.
My wife even tells me that I let people run over me too much. Maybe
that is my problem. Any suggestions? (Even telling me if I am an
idiot?)
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| User: "peace" |
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| Title: Re: Question for a women out their concerning wife. (Just want an opinion) |
18 Jun 2004 03:08:14 PM |
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(Danny) wrote in
news:b5a3c339.0406181143.7d2b3301@posting.google.com:
I wife sometimes I think does not care about my feelings.
(Or maybe I am just over sensitive).
She makes plans with her mom all the time and takes my
daughter with her. On a Thursday I call home at lunch to
check messages. I hear a message from my mother-in-law to my
daughter saying she ant wait to take her to the movies to
see Garfield with my wife. (For the next day).
When I get home I ask her if she was ever going to tell me
of her plans to go to the movies. She said they had planned
on taking her to the 2:25 show. I told her I would like to
go and that their was a 4:50 show. (I get off at 4:30). She
said fine or something like that.
Had a busy day at work, she called twice and could not get
ahold of me. Left me a message the last time that "she would
see me after work". indicating that they were going to go to
the early movie.
I called her at home and asked why. She said they did not
want to wait around until I got off work. She said she would
wait if it was that important. (Indicating she was a little
aggitated and did not want to wait.) I talked to her some
more about some different subject then she says, "i'll just
call you after work". (Indicating they were going to the
early movie after all.) Sg=he said we would go out to eat
after whh=en I get off. (We were going to do that before
anyway)
I know this seems like nit picking but this happens all the
time. I just dont feel like anyone cares.
My wife even tells me that I let people run over me too
much. Maybe that is my problem. Any suggestions? (Even
telling me if I am an idiot?)
i feel the same too, like nobody cares
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Peace
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| User: "wombn" |
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| Title: Re: Question for a women out their concerning wife. (Just want an opinion) |
18 Jun 2004 04:30:33 PM |
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On 18 Jun 2004 12:43:53 -0700, (Danny)
wrote:
I wife sometimes I think does not care about my feelings. (Or maybe I
am just over sensitive).
She makes plans with her mom all the time and takes my daughter with
her. On a Thursday I call home at lunch to check messages. I hear a
message from my mother-in-law to my daughter saying she ant wait to
take her to the movies to see Garfield with my wife. (For the next
day).
When I get home I ask her if she was ever going to tell me of her
plans to go to the movies. She said they had planned on taking her to
the 2:25 show. I told her I would like to go and that their was a 4:50
show. (I get off at 4:30). She said fine or something like that.
Had a busy day at work, she called twice and could not get ahold of
me. Left me a message the last time that "she would see me after
work". indicating that they were going to go to the early movie.
I called her at home and asked why. She said they did not want to wait
around until I got off work. She said she would wait if it was that
important. (Indicating she was a little aggitated and did not want to
wait.) I talked to her some more about some different subject then she
says, "i'll just call you after work". (Indicating they were going to
the early movie after all.) Sg=he said we would go out to eat after
whh=en I get off. (We were going to do that before anyway)
I know this seems like nit picking but this happens all the time. I
just dont feel like anyone cares.
My wife even tells me that I let people run over me too much. Maybe
that is my problem. Any suggestions? (Even telling me if I am an
idiot?)
All I have are a bunch of questions for consideration.
Do you do things with together on the weekend?
Do you do things alone with your daughter?
Do you do things alone with your wife?
Did she say exactly why they didn't want to wait for the later show?
Do you arrive late for things like this? Rarely? Sometimes? Often?
Do you talk about this subject when there are no plans currently being
made? Maybe after daughter has gone to bed?
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