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User: "J. David Anderson"
Date: 25 Sep 2004 08:49:05 AM
Object: Re: Fashion standards and obesity
Bodhisattvacat wrote:

For a long time, the media espoused as a fashion standard the woman who
was emaciated.

Firstly, an emaciated woman is not attractive, but a woman who is pretty
and who has no surplus fat is considered by most men and women to be
attractive. Not having surplus fat is not emaciation.
Secondly the *media* didn't espouse anything, they use what is perceived
to be attractive by the general population. You are giving the media too
much credit. If the media started a pervasive campaign to promote
overweight or unattractive women what would happen is that particular
media outlet would lose following, not that public opinion would change
to accept a new standard of *beautiful*.


This made most women believe themselves ugly, give up on looking good
and let themselves go.

Anyone who just gives up has more problems than a lack of beauty.


The women I know who did follow that fashion trend, told me that they
felt horrible for the entire time they did so.

A woman knowing that she looks attractive does not normally feel
*horrible*. Perhaps you have been talking to women who tried but failed
to attain a standard they set for themselves.


This was a crime against American women; creating an impossible
standard of beauty which nobody could achieve and sabotaging women's
self-esteem until they felt they could never be beautiful.

Many women achieve it, and labeling a publicly held standard of beauty
as crime is ridiculous.

I do not believe that emaciated women look good.

Nor does anyone else.
Aside from a brief fling by various modeling agencies with *heroin chic*
the media has not carried much on anyone who could be considered
emaciated. The heroin chic fad passed rapidly into obscurity *because*
people didn't find the women involved attractive.
I believe that the

women with healthy weight look good.

On the low side of the healthy weight scale, they can look very
attractive. On the high side of healthy weight they just look ordinary
unless they have very pretty faces or some other attractive feature.
Being at a healthy weight level has absolutely nothing to do with
attractiveness other than the fact that the person is not overweight.
You are tilting at windmills if you think that a deliberate change in a
perceived "standard" can influence a biological response.
No amount of wishful thinking is going to make a woman who does not look
youthful (slim and healthy) a male ideal. Women compete with each other
to attract men, men's perceptions are what set the standards. Those
perceptions are not a conscious, controllable thing, they are the result
of subconscious, lifelong conditioning. Media doesn't create an ideal,
media, for obvious commercial reasons, reflects an existing ideal.
Being healthy weight also feels

good, better than either emaciation or obesity, and is therefore a much
more humane standard to espouse - better than either media propaganda
or the fat acceptance movement.

Attractive women are not emaciated. Perhaps you could find a new label
for envious women to use, a more honest one perhaps.


If the media starts putting forth the healthy weight instead of the
emaciated weight as the standard of beauty, more women will be able to
achieve it.

No, if the media does anything so ludicrous, they will be laughed at,
all the way to the bankruptcy court. The media does not set standards,
they try to attract a following by displaying examples of standards set
by the general population.
Obesity, paradoxically, will decrease, as more women become

able to consider themselves beautiful and fewer decide they could never
be beautiful and let themselves go.

A person, woman or man feels attractive when they attract others, not
when they meet an arbitrary, artificial standard set purely in order to
appease them. Your reasoning and understanding of basic psychology is
flawed.

This could go a long way toward solving both the women's self-esteem
problem and the blight of obesity and would result in a much more
healthy, much more happy society.

It would go nowhere. Youthfulness, or an appearance of youthfulness is
what most people recognise as attractive. If a woman, or man, allows
themselves to gain weight and look less fit and youthful, then they
cannot expect to be considered as attractive as someone who keeps that
youthful shape.
You might as well try to alleviate any feelings of inadequacy in shorter
people by redefining the number of inches in a foot, (centimetres in a
metre). It makes as much sense, and would be about as effective as
attempting to use the media to redefine beauty.
The media is not at fault, they highlight what people want to see, they
don't dictate what people like. This is one the many futile bleats made
for years by people who haven't sufficient willpower to meet a standard
that they recognise for themselves. They want the standard lowered to
make it easier for them. Fat is not attractive, and being slightly under
the medically accepted standard for maximum weight for height is rarely
attractive either. It is simply healthier than being overweight.
Reality - like it or not, it is where we all live.
Regards
David
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User: "Milan"

Title: Re: Fashion standards and obesity 26 Sep 2004 10:48:06 AM
"J. David Anderson" <jdavidanderson_@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:nHe5d.405$7q.14095@nnrp1.ozemail.com.au...

Bodhisattvacat wrote:

For a long time, the media espoused as a fashion standard the woman who
was emaciated.


Firstly, an emaciated woman is not attractive, but a woman who is pretty
and who has no surplus fat is considered by most men and women to be
attractive. Not having surplus fat is not emaciation.

Sure. But probably the problem lies in what "surplus fat" is. I have been
surprised a couple of times in recent times by skinny female friends of mine
saying that Marilyn Monroe was "fat". They clearly thought that MM had
surplus fat, whereas I think that MM was gorgeous, and whatever surplus fat
she may have had was very nicely distributed. MM, I have read somewhere,
was a size 12, whereas Hollywood sex symbols these days tend to be size 8.

Secondly the *media* didn't espouse anything, they use what is perceived
to be attractive by the general population. You are giving the media too
much credit. If the media started a pervasive campaign to promote
overweight or unattractive women what would happen is that particular
media outlet would lose following, not that public opinion would change
to accept a new standard of *beautiful*.

This is a chicken and egg problem. There is clearly a two-way relationship
between popular taste and the fashion produced by the media and the
designers. I think it would be extremely naive to underestimate the power
of multimillion ad campaigns to influence popular views on looks and fashion
(or many other things like cereals, cars, watches, fast food, sodas, etc)

This made most women believe themselves ugly, give up on looking good
and let themselves go.


Anyone who just gives up has more problems than a lack of beauty.

But clearly dissatisfactiion with their looks may be for many people cause
for depression.


The women I know who did follow that fashion trend, told me that they
felt horrible for the entire time they did so.


A woman knowing that she looks attractive does not normally feel
*horrible*. Perhaps you have been talking to women who tried but failed
to attain a standard they set for themselves.


This was a crime against American women; creating an impossible
standard of beauty which nobody could achieve and sabotaging women's
self-esteem until they felt they could never be beautiful.


Many women achieve it, and labeling a publicly held standard of beauty
as crime is ridiculous.


I do not believe that emaciated women look good.


Nor does anyone else.

Aside from a brief fling by various modeling agencies with *heroin chic*
the media has not carried much on anyone who could be considered
emaciated. The heroin chic fad passed rapidly into obscurity *because*
people didn't find the women involved attractive.


I believe that the

women with healthy weight look good.


On the low side of the healthy weight scale, they can look very
attractive. On the high side of healthy weight they just look ordinary
unless they have very pretty faces or some other attractive feature.
Being at a healthy weight level has absolutely nothing to do with
attractiveness other than the fact that the person is not overweight.

You are tilting at windmills if you think that a deliberate change in a
perceived "standard" can influence a biological response.

No amount of wishful thinking is going to make a woman who does not look
youthful (slim and healthy) a male ideal. Women compete with each other
to attract men, men's perceptions are what set the standards. Those
perceptions are not a conscious, controllable thing, they are the result
of subconscious, lifelong conditioning. Media doesn't create an ideal,
media, for obvious commercial reasons, reflects an existing ideal.

Media does both: it leads and it reflects. If a number of fashion designers
launch their collections using skinny models, then people assume that skinny
must be the new black this year. The same goes for the design of clothes and
cars, for example. The ad campaigns are usually produced to project the
image that some things are cool, fashionable and are a must-have.
For instance, when low-rise jeans and short tops were launched a few years
ago, and the fashion for women became to show their midriff and the top of
their knickers, did you know in advance that the female public was avid for
such look? Some women look great, but you see everyday lots of women with
protruding bellies and adipose rolls sporting this look, which is manifestly
unflattering to them. It seems to me that they are following a trend that
was created and instrumented by the fashion houses.
In the same way, if girls see repeatedly that the women on the covers of
glossy magazines have a certain look , many will try to imitate that look.
Young kids have imitated the looks and hairdos of their favourite rock stars
or actors for decades. It happens all the time. The power of the media is
enormous and it should not be underestimated.
regards
Milan
.
User: "bencon"

Title: Re: Fashion standards and obesity 27 Sep 2004 11:14:26 AM

For instance, when low-rise jeans and short tops were launched a few years
ago, and the fashion for women became to show their midriff and the top of
their knickers, did you know in advance that the female public was avid for
such look? Some women look great, but you see everyday lots of women with
protruding bellies and adipose rolls sporting this look, which is manifestly
unflattering to them. It seems to me that they are following a trend that
was created and instrumented by the fashion houses.

True, but I also see those individuals who are too skinny as well, and
look as if the are starving. I think that fashion is in the business
of making their clothing look good, and we should be in the business
of watching our own bodies. Everyone is always trying to blame
someone else for their weight woes, and if we would all take a little
responsibility, we would be fine.
.

User: "J. David Anderson"

Title: Re: Fashion standards and obesity 27 Sep 2004 06:39:45 AM
Milan wrote:

"J. David Anderson" <jdavidanderson_@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:nHe5d.405$7q.14095@nnrp1.ozemail.com.au...

Bodhisattvacat wrote:


For a long time, the media espoused as a fashion standard the woman who
was emaciated.


Firstly, an emaciated woman is not attractive, but a woman who is pretty
and who has no surplus fat is considered by most men and women to be
attractive. Not having surplus fat is not emaciation.



Sure. But probably the problem lies in what "surplus fat" is. I have been
surprised a couple of times in recent times by skinny female friends of mine
saying that Marilyn Monroe was "fat". They clearly thought that MM had
surplus fat, whereas I think that MM was gorgeous, and whatever surplus fat
she may have had was very nicely distributed. MM, I have read somewhere,
was a size 12, whereas Hollywood sex symbols these days tend to be size 8.

Marilyn Monroe reflected the ideal of the times. She did carry more fat
than would be considered healthy by current standards, but in those days
women were not expected to be athletic, just curvy. Back then there was
a very distinct difference in body shape between a teenage girl and an
adult woman. Nowadays women, wanting to remain youthful and attractive,
try to emulate a teenage body shape and fat level.
Despite the adulation poured on her, Marilyn was constantly depressed
about her weight and attractiveness; it makes you wonder what it takes
for genuine self esteem.

Secondly the *media* didn't espouse anything, they use what is perceived
to be attractive by the general population. You are giving the media too
much credit. If the media started a pervasive campaign to promote
overweight or unattractive women what would happen is that particular
media outlet would lose following, not that public opinion would change
to accept a new standard of *beautiful*.



This is a chicken and egg problem. There is clearly a two-way relationship
between popular taste and the fashion produced by the media and the
designers.

The designers yes, I often feel that many of them are misogynists. The
recent low cut, high waist look is a prime example. It is referred to
locally as the "muffin" look because women bulge over their pants in a
similar manner to a muffin bulging over the top of the pan.
I think it would be extremely naive to underestimate the power

of multimillion ad campaigns to influence popular views on looks and fashion
(or many other things like cereals, cars, watches, fast food, sodas, etc)

Once again, fashion is not media. Media reports fashion, it does not
guide or influence it.


This made most women believe themselves ugly, give up on looking good
and let themselves go.


Anyone who just gives up has more problems than a lack of beauty.



But clearly dissatisfactiion with their looks may be for many people cause
for depression.

Dissatisfaction with anything can be depressing. We don't live in a
world created by Disney, we all have depression on occasion. Most of us
get over it and get on with life. We don't *give up*.


The women I know who did follow that fashion trend, told me that they
felt horrible for the entire time they did so.


A woman knowing that she looks attractive does not normally feel
*horrible*. Perhaps you have been talking to women who tried but failed
to attain a standard they set for themselves.


This was a crime against American women; creating an impossible
standard of beauty which nobody could achieve and sabotaging women's
self-esteem until they felt they could never be beautiful.


Many women achieve it, and labeling a publicly held standard of beauty
as crime is ridiculous.



I do not believe that emaciated women look good.


Nor does anyone else.

Aside from a brief fling by various modeling agencies with *heroin chic*
the media has not carried much on anyone who could be considered
emaciated. The heroin chic fad passed rapidly into obscurity *because*
people didn't find the women involved attractive.


I believe that the

women with healthy weight look good.


On the low side of the healthy weight scale, they can look very
attractive. On the high side of healthy weight they just look ordinary
unless they have very pretty faces or some other attractive feature.
Being at a healthy weight level has absolutely nothing to do with
attractiveness other than the fact that the person is not overweight.

You are tilting at windmills if you think that a deliberate change in a
perceived "standard" can influence a biological response.

No amount of wishful thinking is going to make a woman who does not look
youthful (slim and healthy) a male ideal. Women compete with each other
to attract men, men's perceptions are what set the standards. Those
perceptions are not a conscious, controllable thing, they are the result
of subconscious, lifelong conditioning. Media doesn't create an ideal,
media, for obvious commercial reasons, reflects an existing ideal.



Media does both: it leads and it reflects.

Nope, it reflects only. Media coverage of a trend of any sort, fashion,
interior design, architecture, music, medicine, etc., will tend to speed
awareness of a subject, but it does *not* guide or create it.
If a number of fashion designers

launch their collections using skinny models, then people assume that skinny
must be the new black this year.

Fashion designers always want slender models because they can look good
in almost anything, no matter how poorly designed. Making a fuller
bodied woman look as good takes a lot more skill and effort.
The same goes for the design of clothes and

cars, for example. The ad campaigns are usually produced to project the
image that some things are cool, fashionable and are a must-have.

An ad campaign is an adjunct of the product designer, not of general
media. An ad campaign, if it is a good one, can sell almost anything.
This is not media, it is a use of a medium, print, television, radio, to
promulgate something.

For instance, when low-rise jeans and short tops were launched a few years
ago, and the fashion for women became to show their midriff and the top of
their knickers, did you know in advance that the female public was avid for
such look? Some women look great, but you see everyday lots of women with
protruding bellies and adipose rolls sporting this look, which is manifestly
unflattering to them.

The previously mentioned muffin look.
Yes, I always want to video them and show them the video. I am sure that
most of the women who wear them do not own or have access to a full
length mirror.
It seems to me that they are following a trend that

was created and instrumented by the fashion houses.

They see attractive, very young girls wearing the fashion, and copy it,
regardless of how poorly it suits them. I regard it as an instant IQ
test. If I meet a woman dressed like that, I lose all interest. She is
obviously not an original thinker, and just as obviously has no class or
style. Maybe that is why they developed the design, to sort women into
categories from a distance. <g>


In the same way, if girls see repeatedly that the women on the covers of
glossy magazines have a certain look , many will try to imitate that look.

They would be better served by imitating the cover-girl, before
imitating her clothing.

Young kids have imitated the looks and hairdos of their favourite rock stars
or actors for decades. It happens all the time. The power of the media is
enormous and it should not be underestimated.

How about differentiating between the media and the fashion industry?
Between media coverage and paid advertising?
As an example, using the muffin look, I have yet to meet one intelligent
adult who likes the fashion. If media could influence public opinion on
beauty, it would have killed that look the day it arrived. Every fashion
critique that I have read was very disparaging about the look, but it
still managed to survive. The public sets its own standards, often by
emulating, as you mentioned, stars. The media lets them see those stars,
it doesn't determine who will be a star, nor does it dress them.
I work in, and have constant contact with others in print media. I have
been a journalist, both full time and freelance for most of my working
life. I started out in Television in the late seventies and switched to
print in the late eighties. During that time, with the exception of
food, literature, and fashion critics, I have seen no changes in public
standards of any sort that could be attributed to bias by media.
Politics, yes, media bias has an enormous degree of influence, but
public beauty ideals - no way. Look at deliberate media campaigns to
influence vital areas in our lives. Anti-smoking campaigns, safe driving
campaigns, anti-cancer campaigns, all with intense, broad media
coverage, but little success; certainly nowhere near a total influence
on the population. If it was possible for the media to create an ideal
of beauty in a majority of people, then stopping smoking, reducing
vehicle accidents would a simple matter. These are things that have a
readily identifiable benefit to those being targeted, yet they still
have very limited success.
People determine standards of beauty subconsciously, they aren't
persuaded by the media, or by other's opinions. They look at others and
either find them attractive, or unattractive; it is not a conscious
decision. Those who complain about the standards of beauty are in
reality complaining about standards they set for themselves.
Regards
David
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User: "Carol Frilegh"

Title: Re: Fashion standards and obesity 27 Sep 2004 08:34:55 AM
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<8_S5d.151$ou3.6034@nnrp1.ozemail.com.au><jdavidanderson_@hotmail.com>
wrote:

People determine standards of beauty subconsciously, they aren't
persuaded by the media, or by other's opinions. They look at others and
either find them attractive, or unattractive; it is not a conscious
decision. Those who complain about the standards of beauty are in
reality complaining about standards they set for themselves.


Regards

David

As a costume design graduate from the Parsons School I subscribe to
the fact that slim women have many more fashion options but women who
are more fleshed out can look very stylish and beautiful using clothes
that suit their figures, attractive hairstyles and cometics and perky
accessories like the new craze for vintage costume brooches.
Confidence and a warm personality are part of being attractive and self
esteem projects itself.
I see beauty in many sizes and shapes of women but I admit that I enjoy
slick runway fashion shows but also magazines like "In Style' (which
now uses sketches of garments as well as photos) That publication shows
celebrities and the pictures are untouched and imperfections are very
visible. Some of the clothes the celebrities choose are awful.
Having myself been very fat and very thin--I think thin, but not too
thin, is perferable mainly for comfotatble physical navigation.
Every society has its ideals of beauty and I suppose it's hard to
resist conforming and easy to allow oneself to feel inadaquate if we
don't fit the cookie cutter image. But hey, I love people who think
outside the box and the Botox!
Diva
***
Who now has seven vintage brooches but no new clothes and still
counting!
.




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