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take a fuckin look at what they say about me ,
and if you do it right you'll see they went first ,
Rhi and i were good friends for many years ,
until she started dating Cumbya My Lord ,
and then naturally because i don't like him ,
she decided it would be in her best interest to support him

Other. Way. Around. And it's all archived.

--
Rhi

it can't be the other way around ,
because i didn't like him before he started using you

and i didn't go on you before you went on me either. that's all

too. rhi has tried to stay your friend while you've been compulsively
harassing us with your delusional "reasons" for why she should dump

you got mad at her for not taking you seriously, and then you really

going off on her when i decided to start ignoring you about a month

like the "thought process" (if it can be called that) was, "ok, if i

get to him this way, then let's try it this way." but the only thing

achieve with this is to become an object of growing amusement and

for us both.

neither rhi nor i was born yesterday, tweety. we've been around the

and we're pretty good at not being "used", in addition to manipulated,
harassed, or otherwise fucked with. i suggest you back off and start

your own business. i hope this finds you at a reasonably sane and

moment of your day.

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take a fuckin look at what they say about me ,
and if you do it right you'll see they went first ,
Rhi and i were good friends for many years ,
until she started dating Cumbya My Lord ,
and then naturally because i don't like him ,
she decided it would be in her best interest to support him

Other. Way. Around. And it's all archived.

--
Rhi

it can't be the other way around ,

And it's all archived.

On Feb 2, 6:46 pm, "%" <pers...@gmail.com> wrote:

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On Feb 2, 6:04 pm, "%" <pers...@gmail.com> wrote:

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On Feb 2, 5:21 pm, "%" <pers...@gmail.com> wrote:

is that it clearly shows beyond any doubt , i win

You can never win a war if you don't win the hearts and

of

the

people. Somebody said this before me... just can't

who.

oh , hi , are we going to have ,
one of our go no where conversations again ,
its not so important to win all the hearts ,
just win the ones that can influence others

Conversations are a two sided affair so its not only up to me.

Besides

Luna has already said nobody will ever change their minds

so

what's the point?

I still think you were a total ***** to Rhi with your comment

other

than that I am neutral and prepared to move on.

If you don't want to have a conversation then don't talk to

You

emailed me remember?

well , yea , i'll deal with the e-mailing you now ,
i missed you wondered if you were ok ,
you were a friend last time you left so i was concerned ,

I was a friend last time I left... well okay I do appreciate the
concern. I'm just not sure what being a friend means with you and

way of dealing with ASD. I don't tend to trust friends which is

don't have any. Loyalty is probably what I understand better and I
have always tried to be loyal to you. Yet, when you say that you

care what I think when I am addressing an issue I guess I figure

loyalty comes with strings attached from your end.

as for how i talk to or about others ,
take a fuckin look at what they say about me ,
and if you do it right you'll see they went first ,
Rhi and i were good friends for many years ,
until she started dating Cumbya My Lord ,
and then naturally because i don't like him ,
she decided it would be in her best interest to support him ,
but isn't that how it goes with on line lovers ,
you kick one in the nuts , the other hollers , OWWWW- Hide

text -

Of course she would want to protect somebody she is having a
relationship with. I would have thought that was obvious. So

she ***** on him to preserve your friendship? I don't ***** on

even you. That's my way of working and I guess it will be a

disagreement between us.

I can't say I won't get shitty when you crap on someone and you

say that you won't crap on people. This is about where it stays as

as I am concerned. However I'm prepared to work at not getting in

way of doing things if I can avoid it. How's that sound?

i'm powerless over your friends issue ,
i'm powerless over what she thinks is right or fair ,
i'm powerless over you getting shitty ,
but i can say , if you look at the track record ,
i am never shitty first and the people you're defending ,
are nothing but shitty to everyone except each other ,
and those they think will serve the purpose ,
until its time to burn them too

Then it is about our perceptions of the issues concerned and the
people those issues concern. I don't comprehend that history because
I've never seen it. It doesn't mean it doesn't exist of course. I just
don't live here as much as you do so a lot goes over my head.

I am powerless over your reactions and perceptions just as you are
over mine. As long as there is mutual respect then that is usually
good enough. However this is not only your personal playground and
sometimes people react to things they see but maybe don't fully
understand. They are not less than you because they don't invest the
time and get to know the 'real' issues as you see them.

If you say you have good reason then I will certainly respect that
point of view. I just won't subscribe to it if I haven't seen it
myself. I think people come here for comfort rather than strife and it
is a red herring that strife gets the most posts. It always has been a
red herring. Without the need for dialogue of a comforting and healthy
basis this group wouldn't exist at all. I am not interested in flame
wars because I fight another war of my own that is far more important
than schoolyard bullying and a "he started it" mentality. I am here
for other reasons.

When it comes to you I like you mostly because you can offer a lot of
comfort and healthy perspective that shatters preconceptions like
crystal falling on concrete. The ***** stirring is what I put up with
rather than what I seek. But... its not all about me is it?

x-no-archive: yes

% wrote:

i'm powerless over your friends issue ,
i'm powerless over what she thinks is right or fair ,
i'm powerless over you getting shitty ,
but i can say , if you look at the track record ,
i am never shitty first and the people you're defending ,
are nothing but shitty to everyone except each other ,
and those they think will serve the purpose ,
until its time to burn them too

I don't think your perceptions are 100% accurate. I think you set
things up in a manner similar to what Marty does, and then you're
surprised when a ***** storm ensues. And also you seem to actually

that ***** storm, you seem to actually want to have people attacking

You seem to go out of your way to set it up. I don't get it, I'm
only giving my honest observation, i.e. $0.02. I can only guess it's
related somehow to family of origin stuff, compounded by effects of
substance abuse. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong, I have no stake in the
matter. As I've told you a 1000x, I don't hate you.