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28 Feb 2006 09:01:38 PM |
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Time for a Sex thread |
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
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"All I know is that it's far easier to like myself through the eyes of
others than it is through my own."
LJ/ASD
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01 Mar 2006 12:38:12 AM |
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
ummm, it's all over-rated. drunk, passed out at a party at age 17 and woke
up with a guy on top of me and I was undressed. I hurt the next day and was
spotting, put 2 and 2 together and voila. How romantic. He wouldn't even
talk to me or acknowledge my presence later as if it was humilating for him
to have touched someone like me. He definitely thought he was above me and
was embarrassed for in his own stoned out drunken state stooping to touching
me. I remember people teasing him for *doing her* (me). We happened to work
at the same place. Christmas/New years party, woo hoo. OTOH, what a way
to say good bye to your virginity.
love these sex threads sometimes....
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
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"All I know is that it's far easier to like myself through the eyes of
others than it is through my own."
LJ/ASD
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02 Mar 2006 02:11:51 AM |
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"packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
ummm, it's all over-rated. drunk, passed out at a party at age 17 and
woke
up with a guy on top of me and I was undressed. I hurt the next day and
was
spotting, put 2 and 2 together and voila. How romantic. He wouldn't even
talk to me or acknowledge my presence later as if it was humilating for
him
to have touched someone like me. He definitely thought he was above me
and
was embarrassed for in his own stoned out drunken state stooping to
touching
me. I remember people teasing him for *doing her* (me). We happened to
work
at the same place. Christmas/New years party, woo hoo. OTOH, what a way
to say good bye to your virginity.
love these sex threads sometimes....
Well sweetie...it was the same for me...date rape. You live and learn eh?
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Rhiannon
rhianon@sympatico.ca
The Labyrinth
http://thelabyrinthofr.blogspot.com
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| User: "Luna" |
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01 Mar 2006 08:32:10 AM |
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"packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:o58Nf.33758$Ly6.18165@bignews5.bellsouth.net...
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
ummm, it's all over-rated. drunk, passed out at a party at age 17 and woke
up with a guy on top of me and I was undressed. I hurt the next day and was
spotting, put 2 and 2 together and voila. How romantic. He wouldn't even
talk to me or acknowledge my presence later as if it was humilating for him
to have touched someone like me. He definitely thought he was above me and
was embarrassed for in his own stoned out drunken state stooping to touching
me. I remember people teasing him for *doing her* (me). We happened to work
at the same place. Christmas/New years party, woo hoo. OTOH, what a way
to say good bye to your virginity.
love these sex threads sometimes....
That's rape, and you didn't say goodbye, it was taken from you.
Jean
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
--
"All I know is that it's far easier to like myself through the eyes of
others than it is through my own."
LJ/ASD
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| User: "%" |
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01 Mar 2006 09:32:57 AM |
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"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
ummm, it's all over-rated. drunk, passed out at a party at age 17 and
woke
up with a guy on top of me and I was undressed. I hurt the next day and
was
spotting, put 2 and 2 together and voila. How romantic. He wouldn't
even
talk to me or acknowledge my presence later as if it was humilating for
him
to have touched someone like me. He definitely thought he was above me
and
was embarrassed for in his own stoned out drunken state stooping to
touching
me. I remember people teasing him for *doing her* (me). We happened to
work
at the same place. Christmas/New years party, woo hoo. OTOH, what a
way
to say good bye to your virginity.
love these sex threads sometimes....
That's rape, and you didn't say goodbye, it was taken from you.
Jean
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at
my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that
were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we
were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
--
"All I know is that it's far easier to like myself through the eyes of
others than it is through my own."
LJ/ASD
when i lost mine i was 13 she was 17
i pretended i knew what i was doing ,
she knew exactly what she was doing
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| User: "Luna" |
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01 Mar 2006 01:49:28 PM |
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"%" <persent@Gmail.com> wrote in message
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when i lost mine i was 13 she was 17
i pretended i knew what i was doing ,
she knew exactly what she was doing
I think that's fucked up, personally. not you but her, it's just...13 is so
young.
Jean
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| User: "%" |
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01 Mar 2006 02:12:02 PM |
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"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"%" <persent@Gmail.com> wrote in message
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when i lost mine i was 13 she was 17
i pretended i knew what i was doing ,
she knew exactly what she was doing
I think that's fucked up, personally. not you but her, it's just...13 is
so
young.
Jean
my first thoughts on this topic were to say ,
i'm waiting for you to take it , or that you already had it ,
but i went with the truth and sometimes i think it was wrong too ,
but i wasn't all that innocent either , i was a big kid at 13 ,
and had already been in plenty of adult situations before ,
i knew and pretty muched hoped what was happening was happening
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| User: "Luna" |
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01 Mar 2006 05:15:41 PM |
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"%" <persent@Gmail.com> wrote in message
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"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"%" <persent@Gmail.com> wrote in message
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<snip>
when i lost mine i was 13 she was 17
i pretended i knew what i was doing ,
she knew exactly what she was doing
I think that's fucked up, personally. not you but her, it's just...13 is
so
young.
Jean
my first thoughts on this topic were to say ,
i'm waiting for you to take it , or that you already had it ,
but i went with the truth and sometimes i think it was wrong too ,
but i wasn't all that innocent either , i was a big kid at 13 ,
and had already been in plenty of adult situations before ,
i knew and pretty muched hoped what was happening was happening
Yeah, and it's exactly the same with a lot of girls - they may not be big in
height or size but big in..you know, boobs, early developers, and that creates
all kinds of attention that is really hard, at 13, to know what to do with that.
Anyway, it was probably too soon for you at 13 and that is kind of a drag - god,
at 13 I was still into dolls and just starting to get into horses (and suicide
attempts). I wasn't ready for sex though, that's for sure.
Jean
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| User: "%" |
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01 Mar 2006 07:08:08 PM |
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"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"%" <persent@Gmail.com> wrote in message
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"Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote in message
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"%" <persent@Gmail.com> wrote in message
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<snip>
when i lost mine i was 13 she was 17
i pretended i knew what i was doing ,
she knew exactly what she was doing
I think that's fucked up, personally. not you but her, it's just...13
is
so
young.
Jean
my first thoughts on this topic were to say ,
i'm waiting for you to take it , or that you already had it ,
but i went with the truth and sometimes i think it was wrong too ,
but i wasn't all that innocent either , i was a big kid at 13 ,
and had already been in plenty of adult situations before ,
i knew and pretty muched hoped what was happening was happening
Yeah, and it's exactly the same with a lot of girls - they may not be big
in
height or size but big in..you know, boobs, early developers, and that
creates
all kinds of attention that is really hard, at 13, to know what to do with
that.
Anyway, it was probably too soon for you at 13 and that is kind of a
drag - god,
at 13 I was still into dolls and just starting to get into horses (and
suicide
attempts). I wasn't ready for sex though, that's for sure.
Jean
well i was already wacking meth and getting served at the beer store
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02 Mar 2006 02:35:18 AM |
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On Wed, 1 Mar 2006 18:15:41 -0500, "Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote:
Yeah, and it's exactly the same with a lot of girls - they may not be big in
height or size but big in..you know, boobs, early developers, and that creates
all kinds of attention that is really hard, at 13, to know what to do with that.
Anyway, it was probably too soon for you at 13 and that is kind of a drag - god,
at 13 I was still into dolls and just starting to get into horses (and suicide
attempts). I wasn't ready for sex though, that's for sure.
From what I've read, it is suspected that the problem with kids maturing
sexually at an earlier age is related to the fat content of their diets.
Apparently the body's fat content is one of the primary fuses that
initiates puberty.
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We cannot but be astonished at the ease with which men resign themselves
to ignorance about what is most important for them to know; and we may be
certain that they are determined to remain invincibly ignorant if they once
come to consider it as axiomatic that there are no absolute principles.
- Fredric Bastiat
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01 Mar 2006 04:00:42 PM |
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On Wed, 1 Mar 2006 14:49:28 -0500, "Luna" <lunajean@gmail.com> wrote:
"%" <persent@Gmail.com> wrote in message
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<snip>
when i lost mine i was 13 she was 17
i pretended i knew what i was doing ,
she knew exactly what she was doing
I think that's fucked up, personally. not you but her, it's just...13 is so
young.
Would that also apply if the genders were switched?
It's interesting that a four year difference seem to be the commonly
accepted maximum difference in the U.S. when it comes to minors. But
12-16, 13-17, 14-18 still freaks out a lot of people.
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Sooner or later everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences.
- Robert Louis Stevenson
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| User: "Jane" |
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01 Mar 2006 04:37:54 AM |
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"packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
ummm, it's all over-rated. drunk, passed out at a party at age 17 and
woke up with a guy on top of me and I was undressed. I hurt the next day
and was spotting, put 2 and 2 together and voila. How romantic. He
wouldn't even talk to me or acknowledge my presence later as if it was
humilating for him to have touched someone like me. He definitely thought
he was above me and was embarrassed for in his own stoned out drunken
state stooping to touching me. I remember people teasing him for *doing
her* (me). We happened to work at the same place. Christmas/New years
party, woo hoo. OTOH, what a way to say good bye to your virginity.
love these sex threads sometimes....
Good OT diversion sometimes.
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01 Mar 2006 03:05:22 AM |
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On Wed, 01 Mar 2006 06:38:12 GMT, "packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote:
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
ummm, it's all over-rated. drunk, passed out at a party at age 17 and woke
up with a guy on top of me and I was undressed. I hurt the next day and was
spotting, put 2 and 2 together and voila. How romantic. He wouldn't even
talk to me or acknowledge my presence later as if it was humilating for him
to have touched someone like me. He definitely thought he was above me and
was embarrassed for in his own stoned out drunken state stooping to touching
me. I remember people teasing him for *doing her* (me). We happened to work
at the same place. Christmas/New years party, woo hoo. OTOH, what a way
to say good bye to your virginity.
Isn't that rape?
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There's a basic human weakness inherent in all people which tempts them
to want what they can't have and not want what is readily available to
them.
- Robert J. Ringer
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| User: "packrat" |
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01 Mar 2006 04:02:08 AM |
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Isn't that rape?
last time I checked. Although at the time I blamed myself for years....if I
hadn't gotten drunk...
I discovered a long time ago, if's don't change a thing only cause regret
and other negative emotions. It's something I don't think of often...on
purpose. However it was years ago so it doesn't have a huge detrimental
effect on me. Date and party rape I found to be fairly common
unfortunately, yes personal experience. No, not pass out drunk either.
That was then, this is now. fucking memories...no pun intended.
nice going to sleep memories....I think I will read something a bit more
happy.
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There's a basic human weakness inherent in all people which tempts them
to want what they can't have and not want what is readily available to
them.
- Robert J. Ringer
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| User: "CyberDroog" |
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01 Mar 2006 12:15:43 PM |
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On Wed, 01 Mar 2006 10:02:08 GMT, "packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote:
Isn't that rape?
last time I checked. Although at the time I blamed myself for years....if I
hadn't gotten drunk...
I discovered a long time ago, if's don't change a thing only cause regret
and other negative emotions. It's something I don't think of often...on
purpose. However it was years ago so it doesn't have a huge detrimental
effect on me. Date and party rape I found to be fairly common
unfortunately, yes personal experience. No, not pass out drunk either.
That was then, this is now. fucking memories...no pun intended.
It's nice that you have accepted it fairly well over the years. Better
than burning with rage.
I'm feeling like I want to throw the guy down a flight of stairs.
--
CONTEMPT, n. The feeling of a prudent man for an enemy who is too
formidable safely to be opposed.
- Ambrose Bierce
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| User: "packrat" |
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01 Mar 2006 01:18:44 PM |
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"> It's nice that you have accepted it fairly well over the years. Better
than burning with rage.
Damn, what I open up with in public..and all google-able, oh joy.
But, that's now a mute point. It really is the past and of list of
stressors in my life it is -1.
FWIW I have used my own experiences with my kids and friends of my kids that
have come to me knowing I'm pretty open (obviously *eye roll*) about things
to talk about how sex, losing ones virginity and how alcohol/drugs can screw
you over in more ways than one. I've told my kids as they got old enough
and damn! it gets younger and younger when they come home with sex questions
what has happened with me (very toned down of course and age appropriate).
Encouraging them not to get themselves in similar situations and to
hopefully wait for someone special but not allow themselves in the situation
of getting taken advantage of....or raped.
Skewing off the whole topic now, but my daughter who's now 11 and in her
last year of grade school is coming home with questions that surprise me,
asking what the terms, *****, hard on, p**sy, asking if it's true gay
people have sex like.....and then describes what she's heard. I've kicked my
on ***** in the past for being so open with the kids but now....and maybe I'm
wrong.....I'm glad because I never had the courage to ask my parents what
any crude term meant. I had no clue how sex actually happened until it
actually did happen, the next time sober with me willing. I ask my
daughter what she's been told before I explain things to her and more often
than not the information is very messed up. I set her straight and go a bit
further with talks of diseases, how soon boys may likely try to take
advantage of her and to not let them talk her into it. Also give her the
*clinton sex strategy* is denial and still passes things along (diseases),
and counts. All just concerns that I don't want her or anyone else getting
taken advantage of. Keep in mind, they are already talking about these
subjects, I'm not setting her down asking to talk about oral sex or anything
else.
She told me last night after one of these question and answer sessions and I
questioned my own openess knowing my mom would be horrified in using such
terms openly that my daughter asked about. My daughter thanked me that she
had a mom who would talk about stuff like this and that because I'm not the
prim and proper mom she can come home with questions about things like this.
She told me she doesn't feel embarrassed asking me about sex things since I
am open with her. I asked her where these kids are getting their information
from and it's from other kids and all messed up. I'm not telling her sex is
wrong or dirty or telling her I fully expect her to wait till marriage. I
got all those messages yet had a lot of feelings and desires then felt lots
of guilt. I have told her I hope and pray she waits till after high school
and wiats for someone special....of course protection.
The silver lining in it all it has left me protective yet open to talking
about less than ideal subject with my kids and they've been able and willing
to approach me with the subjects. Maybe I'm talking out my *****, *shrug*.
I'm feeling like I want to throw the guy down a flight of stairs.
Although I know it was rape, I still struggle with the feelings I brought it
on myself and he caught a lot of ***** for stooping to doing someone like
me....very humilating which for me dimished the reality of the rape factor.
BTW, he's been in and out of jail on numerous drug charges. His brain is
fried by now and spent moreof his adult life in jail than out ASFIK. I
rarely think of him. I think I turned out much better than him and the
other guys who pulled similar stunts. IMHO.
Is this alt.support.spill-your-soul-sex-talk? I must have gotten confused.
Sorry.
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CONTEMPT, n. The feeling of a prudent man for an enemy who is too
formidable safely to be opposed.
- Ambrose Bierce
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| User: "" |
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01 Mar 2006 06:33:25 PM |
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I was lucky. My mom was big on accurate sexual information. She gave
me a book when I was seven, all the medical facts, age-appropriate. I
could talk to her about sexual matters She took me to a gynecologist
when I was sixteen and told him "give her The Pill if she asks for
it". Which I did, but didn't need it for years.
Later, I learned she didn't want me to repeat her mistakes. My older
sisters did not get the same treatment. I received a lot of
privileges of my mother's maturity that they did not. There's many
reasons we've been estranged for over a decade.
Your kids will thank you someday for all that truth. Carry on.
--
Consider all my posts spoilered for language.
I have no taste and I learned how to swear from my mother.
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| User: "CyberDroog" |
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01 Mar 2006 04:25:13 PM |
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On Wed, 01 Mar 2006 19:18:44 GMT, "packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote:
The silver lining in it all it has left me protective yet open to talking
about less than ideal subject with my kids and they've been able and willing
to approach me with the subjects. Maybe I'm talking out my *****, *shrug*.
I'm planning to be that way with my kid. I was like you in that I was way
too embarrassed to ask my parents any sex questions. It was just
understood that sex is DIRTY, DIRTY, DIRTY. Yet in the end that made it
all the more intriguing.
I even felt dirty for masturbating when I was an adolescent. That is
pitiful. That just shouldn't happen. Sure, you don't want the kid doing
it in public or anything, but to make them feel it is unspeakably dirty is
horrible.
Although I know it was rape, I still struggle with the feelings I brought it
on myself and he caught a lot of ***** for stooping to doing someone like
me....very humilating which for me dimished the reality of the rape factor.
That's a shame. I do have some automatic and, as far as I'm concerned,
realistic feelings about some dumb actions. True, some things are dumb
mistakes and for a woman's own well-being she should avoid them. But that
doesn't excuse a man taking advantage of the mistake.
I'm not sure where the middle-ground is. How can you successfully explain
to a girl beforehand why she should avoid certain actions?
I have been in a perfect position for this on a few occasions. All
conditions were perfect; the girl was passed out, no one else was around,
plenty of time, etc. One girl was even panty-less, wearing a short skirt.
I considered it. But I just couldn't. And I'm someone who has done a lot
of dumb and/or terrible things on impulse. But I just couldn't do that.
What always went through my mind was the idea of having to look her in the
eye later on. How can a man not care that he has violated someone like
that?
BTW, he's been in and out of jail on numerous drug charges. His brain is
fried by now and spent moreof his adult life in jail than out ASFIK. I
rarely think of him. I think I turned out much better than him and the
other guys who pulled similar stunts. IMHO.
Well if he has been in jail that much, chances are he's been forcibly
boned. That makes me feel better.
Is this alt.support.spill-your-soul-sex-talk? I must have gotten confused.
Sorry.
No need to apologize. I'm sorry if I was out of line for discussing it.
It's just that this kind of stuff makes me really angry.
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Sooner or later everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences.
- Robert Louis Stevenson
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| User: "Charles" |
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01 Mar 2006 01:29:32 PM |
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You sound like a very good mom. I wish you could accept that idea.
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01 Mar 2006 06:28:49 PM |
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On Wed, 01 Mar 2006 19:29:32 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net>
wrote:
->You sound like a very good mom. I wish you could accept that idea.
Seconded. I wish I'd had a mom like Packrat.
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Consider all my posts spoilered for language.
I have no taste and I learned how to swear from my mother.
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01 Mar 2006 02:17:05 PM |
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On Wed, 01 Mar 2006 19:29:32 GMT, Charles <ckraft@SPAMTRAP.west.net> wrote:
<(((*>You sound like a very good mom. I wish you could accept that idea.
Charles took the words right out of my mouth.
Tara J. Ballance
Montreal, Canada
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| User: "Janithor" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 03:08:31 AM |
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CyberDroog wrote:
On Wed, 01 Mar 2006 06:38:12 GMT, "packrat" <maddienospam@yahoo.com> wrote:
"Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:o58Nf.33758$Ly6.18165@bignews5.bellsouth.net...
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
ummm, it's all over-rated. drunk, passed out at a party at age 17 and woke
up with a guy on top of me and I was undressed. I hurt the next day and was
spotting, put 2 and 2 together and voila. How romantic. He wouldn't even
talk to me or acknowledge my presence later as if it was humilating for him
to have touched someone like me. He definitely thought he was above me and
was embarrassed for in his own stoned out drunken state stooping to touching
me. I remember people teasing him for *doing her* (me). We happened to work
at the same place. Christmas/New years party, woo hoo. OTOH, what a way
to say good bye to your virginity.
Isn't that rape?
That's what I was thinking.
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| User: "kerfoker" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 09:02:17 PM |
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Jane wrote:
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
LOL, "Do you remember...?"
I lost mine in college in the park behind the town hall/police
station one night.
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| User: "%" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 09:06:54 PM |
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"kerfoker" <kerfoker@ix.netcom.com> wrote in message
news:44066039.1AF1@ix.netcom.com...
Jane wrote:
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
LOL, "Do you remember...?"
I lost mine in college in the park behind the town hall/police
station one night.
i bet you did it with nobunny around
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| User: "purpleveggie" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 02:14:14 AM |
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Jane wrote:
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
--
"All I know is that it's far easier to like myself through the eyes of
others than it is through my own."
LJ/ASD
i was 18 when my "cherry was picked"
shirley was here name,a landscape gardener,very sweaty i recall.
when it was all over(30-45 seconds) i though "was that what i had so
desperatly tried to lose for so long?".......i was deply dissapointed
:O(
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| User: "GlennT" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 02:50:02 AM |
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Jane wrote:
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
I was embarrassed... in the end I got the hang of it. In the
beginning I was far too cerebral to really understand what sex
was about although I will say I was a quick study...
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| User: "Franz Bestuchev" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 02:33:39 AM |
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Jane wrote:
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
She was from a really wealthy family and was holding a party at her
house. They had a hot tub so of course I hadn't thought to bring a
swimsuit and so it was skivvies. Once the jets were turned on I felt a
game of groin footsie begin. She continued to taunt me while everybody
around the tub was just talking and joking. My buddy told me I looked
like I had a look like I was jerking off from one of the jets...heh.
So after spending some time swimming the rest of the people jumped out
and she asked if I wanted to see the upstairs. So that was fun, we were
both virgins and fortunately she had the piece of mind to jump on top
and make sure I found the right spot and to also go down at her pace.
I'm glad that both of us weren't really drunk or anything, a bit stoned.
It was a rather brief affair. Her parents didn't care one bit that their
17 year old daughter was having her new 16 year old boyfriend over every
night. We went at it like well...the stamina of a 16 year old boy. She
decided to end the relationship after a little more than a week.
Probably so she could walk again.
We remained friends up through college, and she told me about her
experiences with some subsequent boyfriends that made me feel like quite
the stud.
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
28 Feb 2006 09:22:45 PM |
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On Tue, 28 Feb 2006 22:01:38 -0500, "Jane"
<jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote:
->Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
Yes, even though I was drunk out of my mind.
I was nineteen, it was with a co-worker in the back seat of his car
behind someone's house. Spontaneous thing. I just wanted it over
with. I'd started the Pill a few months before and picked him out as
the Lucky Guy. I never told him.
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Consider all my posts spoilered for language.
I have no taste and I learned how to swear from my mother.
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| User: "Jane" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
28 Feb 2006 09:28:19 PM |
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"notchimera" <dont@bother.com> wrote in message
news:hg4a029636a1k4tk4f33d7siqtkrejcrhb@4ax.com...
On Tue, 28 Feb 2006 22:01:38 -0500, "Jane"
<jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote:
->Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
Yes, even though I was drunk out of my mind.
I was nineteen, it was with a co-worker in the back seat of his car
behind someone's house. Spontaneous thing. I just wanted it over
with. I'd started the Pill a few months before and picked him out as
the Lucky Guy. I never told him.
Probably good you were drunk out of your mind then, cuz if he didn't know he
probably wasn't very gentle. Damn I remember it hurting and being crampy
for a few days after.
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| User: "" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
28 Feb 2006 10:06:08 PM |
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On Tue, 28 Feb 2006 22:28:19 -0500, "Jane"
<jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote:
->Probably good you were drunk out of your mind then, cuz if he didn't know he
->probably wasn't very gentle.
No, he was very nice and a good lover. I went out with him for a
couple of months afterward, until he got transferred to another
location (we were assistant managers in a restaurant chain).
->Damn I remember it hurting and being crampy
->for a few days after.
I was a girl jock and pretty stretched down there. I hardly felt it.
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Consider all my posts spoilered for language.
I have no taste and I learned how to swear from my mother.
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| User: "CyberDroog" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 02:49:26 AM |
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On Tue, 28 Feb 2006 22:28:19 -0500, "Jane" <jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com>
wrote:
"notchimera" <dont@bother.com> wrote in message
news:hg4a029636a1k4tk4f33d7siqtkrejcrhb@4ax.com...
I was nineteen, it was with a co-worker in the back seat of his car
behind someone's house. Spontaneous thing. I just wanted it over
with. I'd started the Pill a few months before and picked him out as
the Lucky Guy. I never told him.
Probably good you were drunk out of your mind then, cuz if he didn't know he
probably wasn't very gentle. Damn I remember it hurting and being crampy
for a few days after.
I have always made a point of keeping that in mind. I've deflowered six
women over the years and always took great care to be gentle. Of course my
parents had a copy of The Joy of Sex in their nightstand, and I had studied
it as a teen.
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"He will place a tax on the air you breathe and on the bread you eat; he
will give you a legislation which is as legitimate as it is unjust and
instead of reasons, he'll give you laws. These will grow in the course of
time, until you no longer exist for yourselves but for others."
- Franz Grillparzer (1791-1872), Austrian author, from his play "Libussa"
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| User: "Charles" |
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| Title: Re: Time for a Sex thread |
01 Mar 2006 01:33:24 PM |
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On Tue, 28 Feb 2006 22:01:38 -0500, "Jane"
<jarsenal66nospam@hotmail.com> wrote:
Do you remember when you lost your virginity?
I won't mention my age, but the boy and I were the same age, it was at my
house, my mother was at work, and we missed the tornado warnings that were
out cuz we were too busy, fumbling, and not knowing what the hell we were
doing.
When I think back, it was pretty pathetic.
Jane
I was 21, in the navy, with a bar girl in the Philippines. Had been
drinking. my first in a series of "delayed" orgasms.
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