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Sociology > Depression |
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"Kenster" |
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19 Apr 2005 10:41:45 PM |
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Wednesday Question of the Day |
Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a long silence
then realize that maybe the silence was a good thing?
Kenster
My answer is...I'm not sure yet, but it's starting to seem that way.
If things continue the way they are going you all will probably hear
more about it than you care to so I'll just keep it at that for now.
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| User: "% . surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
19 Apr 2005 10:48:12 PM |
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"Kenster" <kensterbpd@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:onjb61h9bejb6vvmpk6m33cvj4m000kj64@4ax.com...
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: Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a long silence
: then realize that maybe the silence was a good thing?
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: Kenster
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: My answer is...I'm not sure yet, but it's starting to seem that way.
: If things continue the way they are going you all will probably hear
: more about it than you care to so I'll just keep it at that for now.
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no , i've never reconciled with anyone
they either show me their hooters or they're history
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| User: "Kenster" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 10:32:49 AM |
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On Tue, 19 Apr 2005 20:48:12 -0700, "% ." <surfs@uniserve> wrote:
"Kenster" <kensterbpd@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:onjb61h9bejb6vvmpk6m33cvj4m000kj64@4ax.com...
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: Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a long silence
: then realize that maybe the silence was a good thing?
:
: Kenster
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: My answer is...I'm not sure yet, but it's starting to seem that way.
: If things continue the way they are going you all will probably hear
: more about it than you care to so I'll just keep it at that for now.
:
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no , i've never reconciled with anyone
they either show me their hooters or they're history
Ya know, there are situations where this could work for you and
against you. What it there was someone you weren't particularly
interested in seeing and she felt the need for you to see them in
order to maintain good standing? That could ruin it for some good
hooters for a while....ya know? I don't think I could take the
chance.
Kenster
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| User: "% . surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 10:37:51 AM |
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"Kenster" <kensterbpd@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:rdtc61t2df2s3ifq7cgtcnfgqrmvmsj82m@4ax.com...
: On Tue, 19 Apr 2005 20:48:12 -0700, "% ." <surfs@uniserve> wrote:
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: >
: >"Kenster" <kensterbpd@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:onjb61h9bejb6vvmpk6m33cvj4m000kj64@4ax.com...
: >:
: >: Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a long silence
: >: then realize that maybe the silence was a good thing?
: >:
: >: Kenster
: >:
: >:
: >: My answer is...I'm not sure yet, but it's starting to seem that way.
: >: If things continue the way they are going you all will probably hear
: >: more about it than you care to so I'll just keep it at that for now.
: >:
: >:
: >
: >
: >no , i've never reconciled with anyone
: >they either show me their hooters or they're history
: >
: Ya know, there are situations where this could work for you and
: against you. What it there was someone you weren't particularly
: interested in seeing and she felt the need for you to see them in
: order to maintain good standing? That could ruin it for some good
: hooters for a while....ya know? I don't think I could take the
: chance.
:
: Kenster
:
such is life , sometimes i also miss the first bus ,
but low and behold , here comes another one
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 12:28:45 AM |
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In message <onjb61h9bejb6vvmpk6m33cvj4m000kj64@4ax.com>, Kenster
<kensterbpd@hotmail.com> writes
Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a long silence
then realize that maybe the silence was a good thing?
I've never had anyone to reconcile with.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Kenster" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 10:35:34 AM |
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On Wed, 20 Apr 2005 06:28:45 +0100, Alan Harding
<Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote:
In message <onjb61h9bejb6vvmpk6m33cvj4m000kj64@4ax.com>, Kenster
<kensterbpd@hotmail.com> writes
Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a long silence
then realize that maybe the silence was a good thing?
I've never had anyone to reconcile with.
I'm begining to think you may be lucky in that regard. It seems the
baggage is just too much to deal with sometimes.
Kenster
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| User: "lisa in mass." |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
19 Apr 2005 10:52:52 PM |
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Kenster wrote...
Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a
long silence then realize that maybe the silence was a good
thing?
Kenster
i just reconciled with someone and am glad of it, only because
we resolved the core problem. had we not worked things out
first, the relationship would have failed again.
-lisa
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| User: "% . surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
19 Apr 2005 10:57:56 PM |
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"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message news:Xns963DF2AE1CD15mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
: Kenster wrote...
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: >
: > Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a
: > long silence then realize that maybe the silence was a good
: > thing?
: >
: > Kenster
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: i just reconciled with someone and am glad of it, only because
: we resolved the core problem. had we not worked things out
: first, the relationship would have failed again.
:
: -lisa
everything fails and then i sit and wait to die
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 12:30:01 AM |
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In message <116bkom3ivdruf6@corp.supernews.com>, % .
<surfs@uniserve.?.invalid> writes
"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
news:Xns963DF2AE1CD15mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
: Kenster wrote...
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: > Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a
: > long silence then realize that maybe the silence was a good
: > thing?
:
: i just reconciled with someone and am glad of it, only because
: we resolved the core problem. had we not worked things out
: first, the relationship would have failed again.
everything fails and then i sit and wait to die
When everything fails, it's time for a nice cup of tea.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "% . surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 01:01:00 AM |
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"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message news:Z2ncnGgZjeZCFw7M@harding.demon.co.uk...
: In message <116bkom3ivdruf6@corp.supernews.com>, % .
: <surfs@uniserve.?.invalid> writes
: >"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
: >news:Xns963DF2AE1CD15mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
: >: Kenster wrote...
: >:
: >: > Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a
: >: > long silence then realize that maybe the silence was a good
: >: > thing?
: >:
: >: i just reconciled with someone and am glad of it, only because
: >: we resolved the core problem. had we not worked things out
: >: first, the relationship would have failed again.
: >
: >everything fails and then i sit and wait to die
:
: When everything fails, it's time for a nice cup of tea.
:
: --
: The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
: just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
all cups of tea are mean to me , there are no nice ones
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 01:59:30 AM |
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In message <116brva1faj3gac@corp.supernews.com>, % .
<surfs@uniserve.?.invalid> writes
"Alan Harding" <Alan@harding.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:Z2ncnGgZjeZCFw7M@harding.demon.co.uk...
: In message <116bkom3ivdruf6@corp.supernews.com>, % .
: <surfs@uniserve.?.invalid> writes
: >"lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote in message
: >news:Xns963DF2AE1CD15mccatsjavanetcom@130.133.1.4...
: >: Kenster wrote...
: >:
: >: > Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a
: >: > long silence then realize that maybe the silence was a good
: >: > thing?
: >:
: >: i just reconciled with someone and am glad of it, only because
: >: we resolved the core problem. had we not worked things out
: >: first, the relationship would have failed again.
: >
: >everything fails and then i sit and wait to die
:
: When everything fails, it's time for a nice cup of tea.
:
all cups of tea are mean to me , there are no nice ones
My sister makes a mean cup of tea.
--
The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Kenster" |
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| Title: Re: Wednesday Question of the Day |
20 Apr 2005 10:34:52 AM |
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On 20 Apr 2005 03:52:52 GMT, "lisa in mass." <mccats@rcn.com> wrote:
Kenster wrote...
Have you ever started to reconcile with someone after a
long silence then realize that maybe the silence was a good
thing?
Kenster
i just reconciled with someone and am glad of it, only because
we resolved the core problem. had we not worked things out
first, the relationship would have failed again.
-lisa
I've started a reconciliation with someone who was very close to me in
the past. It all kinda fell apart for me when I heard something that
just kinda broke the whole foundation on which I was building my trust
in this new begining. I wouldn't have put all that much into what I
heard, but it came from my wife and she has absolutely no reason to
hurt me or want to damage this for me. I'm just kinda stuck and hurt
right now and I'm not sure which direction to go with it.
Kenster
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