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"Tracy Barber" |
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20 Nov 2003 03:17:35 PM |
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What's Sad... |
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Tracy Barber
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| User: "Used2Be" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 03:18:57 PM |
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"Tracy Barber" <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> wrote in message
news:dkbqrvcobb1ehuv8rvh9e09jvf04udvd7h@4ax.com...
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Tracy Barber
who ya bein' nice to, Trace?
:-)
u2b
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| User: "Tracy Barber" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 03:22:41 PM |
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On Thu, 20 Nov 2003 21:18:57 GMT, "Used2Be" <used2be@nowhere.com>
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"Tracy Barber" <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> wrote in message
news:dkbqrvcobb1ehuv8rvh9e09jvf04udvd7h@4ax.com...
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Tracy Barber
who ya bein' nice to, Trace?
:-)
You bein' mean to me again? :^)
Seriously, ya gotta love the common courtesy issue at hand. Nothing
in particular, just people's general selfishness at times.
You share a big part of your life and it gets passed over like cold
leftovers...
Hey! I'll start my day over again, ya think? :^)
Tracy Barber
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| User: "Used2Be" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 11:32:46 PM |
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"Tracy Barber" <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> wrote in message
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On Thu, 20 Nov 2003 21:18:57 GMT, "Used2Be" <used2be@nowhere.com>
wrote:
"Tracy Barber" <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> wrote in message
news:dkbqrvcobb1ehuv8rvh9e09jvf04udvd7h@4ax.com...
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Tracy Barber
who ya bein' nice to, Trace?
:-)
You bein' mean to me again? :^)
no way!!
:-D
Hey! I'll start my day over again, ya think? :^)
sometimes we have to do just that!!
u2b
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| User: "Indigo Moon Man" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 06:38:55 PM |
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Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Yes it is sad but human nature being what it is, people are gonna get on
each other's nerves at times.
--
Our Daily Bread Devotional:
http://www.gospelcom.net/rbc/odb/odb.shtml
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| User: "Tracy Barber" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 10:25:14 PM |
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On Thu, 20 Nov 2003 17:38:55 -0700, "Indigo Moon Man"
<indigomoon@bonbon.net> wrote:
Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Yes it is sad but human nature being what it is, people are gonna get on
each other's nerves at times.
Yeah, that may be true, but what does getting on someone's nerves have
to do with being nice to them? hmmm...
Tracy Barber
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| User: "Indigo Moon Man" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 10:36:03 PM |
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Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Yes it is sad but human nature being what it is, people are gonna get on
each other's nerves at times.
Yeah, that may be true, but what does getting on someone's nerves have
to do with being nice to them? hmmm...
Huh? I was saying that sometimes certain people are gonna get on each
other's nerves and that's why they killfile each other.
--
Our Daily Bread Devotional:
http://www.gospelcom.net/rbc/odb/odb.shtml
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| User: "Tracy Barber" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 11:23:04 PM |
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On Thu, 20 Nov 2003 21:36:03 -0700, "Indigo Moon Man"
<indigomoon@bonbon.net> wrote:
Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Yes it is sad but human nature being what it is, people are gonna get on
each other's nerves at times.
Yeah, that may be true, but what does getting on someone's nerves have
to do with being nice to them? hmmm...
Huh? I was saying that sometimes certain people are gonna get on each
other's nerves and that's why they killfile each other.
Yes, this happens. I just started doing it, as mentioned. I'm tired
of being accused of ***** that others do just as much, if not more,
than I do - whether I do it or not.
What I was mentioning, though, was that some people killfile
prematurely or just simply hide from others for no known reason. I
can see if I was calling someone names or doing something directly to
them.
Then, not knowing they had you killfiled, you answer nicely to a post
of theirs where they are looking for support. Quite obvious who the
loser of this was.
But, it seems a shame we have to waste our time doing it, is all. I
guess that I've posted far too much content for some people I've tried
to help out lately.
Common courtesy would assume a response of some kind, but I guess that
not everyone has the same concept -or- maybe all cylinders weren't
firing that day.
'Nuff Said. I guss I've vented enough about this and will move on.
Sometimes, it's good just to vent and not expect an answer...
Tracy Barber
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| User: "Indigo Moon Man" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
21 Nov 2003 12:08:25 AM |
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Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Huh? I was saying that sometimes certain people are gonna get on each
other's nerves and that's why they killfile each other.
Yes, this happens. I just started doing it, as mentioned. I'm tired
of being accused of ***** that others do just as much, if not more,
than I do - whether I do it or not.
I'm not accusing you of anything. If I gave you that impression then I
sincerely apologize.
--
Our Daily Bread Devotional:
http://www.gospelcom.net/rbc/odb/odb.shtml
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| User: "Tracy Barber" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
21 Nov 2003 09:48:41 AM |
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On Thu, 20 Nov 2003 23:08:25 -0700, "Indigo Moon Man"
<indigomoon@bonbon.net> wrote:
Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
Huh? I was saying that sometimes certain people are gonna get on each
other's nerves and that's why they killfile each other.
Yes, this happens. I just started doing it, as mentioned. I'm tired
of being accused of ***** that others do just as much, if not more,
than I do - whether I do it or not.
I'm not accusing you of anything. If I gave you that impression then I
sincerely apologize.
I know. We all miscommunicate at times... :^) Keep the faith and
have a great day!
Tracy Barber
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| User: "Indigo Moon Man" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
21 Nov 2003 10:55:05 AM |
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Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
I'm not accusing you of anything. If I gave you that impression then I
sincerely apologize.
I know. We all miscommunicate at times... :^) Keep the faith and
have a great day!
Yes we do, but apparently I'm not allowed to. :-)
--
Our Daily Bread Devotional:
http://www.gospelcom.net/rbc/odb/odb.shtml
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| User: "Tracy Barber" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
21 Nov 2003 02:00:30 PM |
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On Fri, 21 Nov 2003 09:55:05 -0700, "Indigo Moon Man"
<indigomoon@bonbon.net> wrote:
Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
I'm not accusing you of anything. If I gave you that impression then I
sincerely apologize.
I know. We all miscommunicate at times... :^) Keep the faith and
have a great day!
Yes we do, but apparently I'm not allowed to. :-)
Sez who?
Tracy Barber
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| User: "Indigo Moon Man" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
21 Nov 2003 05:09:37 PM |
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Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
On Fri, 21 Nov 2003 09:55:05 -0700, "Indigo Moon Man"
<indigomoon@bonbon.net> wrote:
Tracy Barber <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> spake thusly:
I'm not accusing you of anything. If I gave you that impression then I
sincerely apologize.
I know. We all miscommunicate at times... :^) Keep the faith and
have a great day!
Yes we do, but apparently I'm not allowed to. :-)
Sez who?
:-)
--
Our Daily Bread Devotional:
http://www.gospelcom.net/rbc/odb/odb.shtml
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| User: "SortaLily" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 03:24:51 PM |
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You do what you can Tracy. You can only help/give so much .. the other
person has to be willing to accept it.
"Tracy Barber" <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> wrote in message
news:dkbqrvcobb1ehuv8rvh9e09jvf04udvd7h@4ax.com...
Is that now that many of us have each other killfiled here is this:
When someone wants to give some decent feedback to someone asking for
help, the person sending the help doesn't know they've been killfiled
by the person they're trying to be nice to.
What a waste of time...
Tracy Barber
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| User: "Tracy Barber" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 03:38:21 PM |
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On Thu, 20 Nov 2003 16:24:51 -0500, "SortaLily" <up.down@near.far>
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You do what you can Tracy. You can only help/give so much .. the other
person has to be willing to accept it.
Yuppers. I guess it just seems like a give-give-give thing sometimes.
Well, I ask in other ways and other times, so maybe it's just it is
supposed to be, right? :^)
Sometimes it would seem beeter to stay on meds and not have to deal
with it, but other times, the relief of being off meds is wonderful.
Just maybe some more of the speed bumps on my way to evening out, as I
mentioned to my Dr. yesterday. He agreed...
Tracy Barber
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: What's Sad... |
20 Nov 2003 03:41:52 PM |
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"Tracy Barber" <Mohawky@adirondack-pc.com> wrote in message
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On Thu, 20 Nov 2003 16:24:51 -0500, "SortaLily" <up.down@near.far>
wrote:
You do what you can Tracy. You can only help/give so much .. the other
person has to be willing to accept it.
Yuppers. I guess it just seems like a give-give-give thing sometimes.
Well, I ask in other ways and other times, so maybe it's just it is
supposed to be, right? :^)
Sometimes it would seem beeter to stay on meds and not have to deal
with it, but other times, the relief of being off meds is wonderful.
Just maybe some more of the speed bumps on my way to evening out, as I
mentioned to my Dr. yesterday. He agreed...
Tracy Barber
i'd agree with you too ,
if it meant you'd pay me and go away
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