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Sociology > Depression |
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"Common sense" |
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23 Aug 2004 12:09:24 AM |
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why harassers mess their own lives up more than anyone else |
How harassment works
If a person harasses someone, the person doing the harassing always
harms himself much more than the person he is trying to harass.
This is because he is the one who is doing it. The harassment is coming
from him. He is the one creating and pushing the harassment. It is his.
The harassment is of him.
Though the person being harassed may suffer some harm, the person
creating and pushing the harassment always harms his own situation much
more than the person he is trying to harass.
It's like this with everything in life. If a person doesn't harass or
try to harm anyone, he will do fine. He has nothing to fear.
If a person tries to harass or harm someone else, that person doing the
harassing always creates more problems for himself in his own life, more
than anyone else. Because he is the one doing it.
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The same is true with a person who makes derogatory comments about
people. It shows that the person making the comments is having problems
in his own life more than anything else, not the person it's being said
about.
Think about it, if a person just won a $50,000.00 lottery, would he feel
like making derogatory comments about other people? Probably not. If
someone has a good job making money and has few worries in life, would
he go around talking bad about other people? Certainly not. He wouldn't
waste his time doing that.
Many of us know a person who seems to be constantly making derogatory
comments about other people. Ever notice that this kind of person has
few friends? It is the person who constantly makes derogatory comments
about other people who harms himself much more than the person he is
talking about.
This is different from someone who, for example, says "Joey broke his
leg last week. I hope he is okay". That type of statement shows
compassion in describing a problem, it shows caring for the person, and
it offers good will and hope the person gets better.
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Why lying harms the person who lies more than anyone else
This is because when he creates lies he is basically saying "lies and
deception are good and okay". Therefore, he is subject to this himself
more than anyone else.
What comes from him is of him, and is accepted by him. So when deception
comes to him at some point, because he already accepts lies, he is
subject to lies himself.
A person who is honest and trustworthy has fewer problems in life. His
mind is clear. Honesty allows a person to do things more easily. Honest
people find it much easier to start up businesses and earn good money.
People who regularly lie become distrusted by honest, normal
people. When a person lies, he tends to confuse himself more than anyone
else.
A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology.
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| User: "% surfs@uniserve" |
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| Title: Re: why harassers mess their own lives up more than anyone else |
23 Aug 2004 12:26:52 AM |
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"Common sense" <sensible@spam.free> wrote in message
news:8_eWc.2742$Ff2.2664@trndny06...
How harassment works
If a person harasses someone, the person doing the harassing always
harms himself much more than the person he is trying to harass.
This is because he is the one who is doing it. The harassment is coming
from him. He is the one creating and pushing the harassment. It is his.
The harassment is of him.
Though the person being harassed may suffer some harm, the person
creating and pushing the harassment always harms his own situation much
more than the person he is trying to harass.
It's like this with everything in life. If a person doesn't harass or
try to harm anyone, he will do fine. He has nothing to fear.
If a person tries to harass or harm someone else, that person doing the
harassing always creates more problems for himself in his own life, more
than anyone else. Because he is the one doing it.
----------------------------------------------------------------
The same is true with a person who makes derogatory comments about
people. It shows that the person making the comments is having problems
in his own life more than anything else, not the person it's being said
about.
Think about it, if a person just won a $50,000.00 lottery, would he feel
like making derogatory comments about other people? Probably not. If
someone has a good job making money and has few worries in life, would
he go around talking bad about other people? Certainly not. He wouldn't
waste his time doing that.
Many of us know a person who seems to be constantly making derogatory
comments about other people. Ever notice that this kind of person has
few friends? It is the person who constantly makes derogatory comments
about other people who harms himself much more than the person he is
talking about.
This is different from someone who, for example, says "Joey broke his
leg last week. I hope he is okay". That type of statement shows
compassion in describing a problem, it shows caring for the person, and
it offers good will and hope the person gets better.
----------------------------------------------------------------
Why lying harms the person who lies more than anyone else
This is because when he creates lies he is basically saying "lies and
deception are good and okay". Therefore, he is subject to this himself
more than anyone else.
What comes from him is of him, and is accepted by him. So when deception
comes to him at some point, because he already accepts lies, he is
subject to lies himself.
A person who is honest and trustworthy has fewer problems in life. His
mind is clear. Honesty allows a person to do things more easily. Honest
people find it much easier to start up businesses and earn good money.
People who regularly lie become distrusted by honest, normal
people. When a person lies, he tends to confuse himself more than anyone
else.
A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology.
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i do all this harrassing stuff and it doesn't bother me at all ,
and i have all the stuff you say a harrasing person doesn't have ,
so , all of the above is not necessarily accurate
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| User: "Jernau Gurgeh" |
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| Title: Re: why harassers mess their own lives up more than anyone else |
24 Aug 2004 04:57:30 PM |
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Common sense wrote in alt.support.depression:
A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology.
So you are saying that the spam problem will solve itself?
Jernau
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| User: "Alan Harding" |
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| Title: Re: why harassers mess their own lives up more than anyone else |
25 Aug 2004 03:01:41 PM |
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In message <Xns954FF37DC1301SynchronizeUrDogmas@127.0.0.1>, Jernau
Gurgeh <jernaugurgeh@*****.this.*****> writes
Common sense wrote in alt.support.depression:
A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology.
So you are saying that the spam problem will solve itself?
Did you know that you can carve Spam into sculptures? Of course, if you
fancy trying emulating Michaelangelo's David, you'll need a family-sized
can. Or, at least, one member of a family sized.
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The opinions given above may be mine. They might also
just be what I feel like saying right now, okay?
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| User: "Kirby Cook" |
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| Title: Re: why harassers mess their own lives up more than anyone else |
28 Aug 2004 02:22:43 AM |
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Common sense wrote:
<snip>
A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology.
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You had me nodding and saying "Oh, so *true*" right up until this
point. Ya got me. <sigh> Congratulations.
Kirby
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| User: "harakiri" |
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| Title: Re: why harassers mess their own lives up more than anyone else |
23 Aug 2004 01:04:15 AM |
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and the prince and the princess lived happily ever after
"Common sense" <sensible@spam.free> wrote in message
news:8_eWc.2742$Ff2.2664@trndny06...
How harassment works
If a person harasses someone, the person doing the harassing always
harms himself much more than the person he is trying to harass.
This is because he is the one who is doing it. The harassment is coming
from him. He is the one creating and pushing the harassment. It is his.
The harassment is of him.
Though the person being harassed may suffer some harm, the person
creating and pushing the harassment always harms his own situation much
more than the person he is trying to harass.
It's like this with everything in life. If a person doesn't harass or
try to harm anyone, he will do fine. He has nothing to fear.
If a person tries to harass or harm someone else, that person doing the
harassing always creates more problems for himself in his own life, more
than anyone else. Because he is the one doing it.
----------------------------------------------------------------
The same is true with a person who makes derogatory comments about
people. It shows that the person making the comments is having problems
in his own life more than anything else, not the person it's being said
about.
Think about it, if a person just won a $50,000.00 lottery, would he feel
like making derogatory comments about other people? Probably not. If
someone has a good job making money and has few worries in life, would
he go around talking bad about other people? Certainly not. He wouldn't
waste his time doing that.
Many of us know a person who seems to be constantly making derogatory
comments about other people. Ever notice that this kind of person has
few friends? It is the person who constantly makes derogatory comments
about other people who harms himself much more than the person he is
talking about.
This is different from someone who, for example, says "Joey broke his
leg last week. I hope he is okay". That type of statement shows
compassion in describing a problem, it shows caring for the person, and
it offers good will and hope the person gets better.
----------------------------------------------------------------
Why lying harms the person who lies more than anyone else
This is because when he creates lies he is basically saying "lies and
deception are good and okay". Therefore, he is subject to this himself
more than anyone else.
What comes from him is of him, and is accepted by him. So when deception
comes to him at some point, because he already accepts lies, he is
subject to lies himself.
A person who is honest and trustworthy has fewer problems in life. His
mind is clear. Honesty allows a person to do things more easily. Honest
people find it much easier to start up businesses and earn good money.
People who regularly lie become distrusted by honest, normal
people. When a person lies, he tends to confuse himself more than anyone
else.
A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology.
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