Hi Monica I. ,
Re: Anaconda Man's notion that the Asians are right
to place the man at the head of the household , <NO I EXPLICITLY SAID

While you think that the American notions of
" Women's Equality " is what made us greater then them ,
You say , " EQUALITY STAYS " .
<YOUR WIFE SHOULD HAVE OPENED A DAYCARE AND TAKEN CARE OF MANY CHILDREN TO

There you go . . .
You <WHO?> wanted to rule the household . . .
Now you got your wish . . . He's gone .

My ex divorced me for Exactly the same reason .

First she gets a job ,
then we hangs with a bunch of women who are divorcing
their men . . . Then she gets her own bank account . . .
keeping everything a secret from me .
<DID YOU TREAT HER AS A SUBSERVIENT, JEFF RELF>
Then she gets her own lover , then she divorces me <AND YOU HAD YOUR OWN

so she can immediately marry him .

Like you ,
all she could ever recall about me were bad events .
Like I was this evil perverted man . ( I'm not )

Like Anaconda Man , ,
All I could recall were the good times .
I was beyond devastated .

That's when I totally retired ...
To quote Robert W. Service , I was no longer ,
" Clean Mad for the Muck called gold " .

As an aside ,
The brother of my Asian Indian friend recently died , <I HOPE HE WAS

so my friend wired the widow money ...
Why ? Because all the money was in the husband's name .
She couldn't touch any of it . . .
. . . She had not so much as joint account . . .
. . . Wow ! <I SEE>

First she gets a job ,
then we hangs with a bunch of women who are divorcing
their men . . . Then she gets her own bank account . . .
keeping everything a secret from me .