How Harassment works

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A harasser harms his own situation more than anyone else's

If a person harasses or tries to harm someone, the person doing the
harassing always harms himself much more than the person he is trying to
harass. This is because he is the one who is doing it. The harassment is
coming from him. He is the one creating and pushing the harassment. The
harasser's harassment is his.

No one needs to get back at a harasser

Though the person being harassed may suffer some harm, it is the person
trying to harm someone else who damages his own situation much more than
anyone else's. This is because he is the one doing the harassing. It is
his.
It is of him.

If a person doesn't harass or try to harm anyone, he will do fine in life.
He has nothing to worry about. It's like this with everything in life.

Derogatory comments

The same is true if a person makes derogatory comments about another
person.
It shows that the person saying the comments is having problems in his own
life more than anything else, not the person it's being said about. Think
about it, if a person is doing well in life, would he go around talking
bad
about other people? Certainly not. He wouldn't waste his time.

Many of us know a person who seems to always make derogatory comments
about
other people. Ever notice that kind of person has few friends? It is the
person who constantly makes derogatory comments about other people who
harms
himself much more than the person he is talking
about.

This is different from someone who, for example, says "Joey broke his leg
last week. I hope he is okay". This type of statement shows compassion in
describing a problem, it shows caring for the person. It offers good will
and hopes the person gets better.

Lying harms the person who lies more than anyone else

This is because if a person creates lies he is basically saying "lies and
deception are good and okay". Therefore, he is subject to this himself
more
than anyone else. What comes from a person is of that person. So, if a
person who lies comes across deception in the future, because he already
engages in lies, he finds it harder to know what is true. If a person lies
he tends to confuse himself more than anyone else. So, if he comes across
some deception in the future, because he already engages in lies, he finds
it harder to know what is true. If a person lies he tends to confuse
himself
more than anyone else. When a person is honest in what he says and does,
he
can more easily see what is honest and true in general. A person who is
honest and trustworthy has fewer problems in life. His mind is calm, clear
and carefree. Honesty allows people to do better, to play music, run
businesses and have more fun in life.

A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology.

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